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How do you talk to guys? (self.altTRP)

submitted by RazerKink

I know this probably seems like a pretty simple question, yet it's still something I feel like I struggle with.

After you've met a guy, you're introduced and all... How do you go about having a conversation that makes a good impression? I feel like I'm always somewhere between awkward and boring. Are there any basic tips to be more charming with other gay guys? Especially if I'm trying to communicate that I'm interested without coming off as a creep that just wants to get in their pants as quick as possible...


[–]Radithor1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Well if you're struggling with conversation talk about them to them. Be vibrant, smile and confident. People mirror those they interact with so IF you're shy they'll be shy too and uncomfortable. Learn to be comfortable...

[–]should_0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Talk about things that are interesting to you. You'll want to work with Segway-ing into those topics gradually from the intro, but wouldn't it be fun if he also was as eager to talk about them as you? Then it can just flow and it's fun.

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