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Disrespect from girl friend (self.becomeaman)

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[–]Pinedrops4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Learnt the hard way, she's not your friend. Don't let a crazy bitch drive your car next time

[–]ModernMACHIAVELLIcom 11 points11 points [recovered] | Copy Link

The damage is done and you have lost any respect you had left. A man would drag her out of the car by the hair. This action was no joke or disrepect but batshit crazy.

Anyway, when people confront or ask you about this coincidence, shrug it off as "this girl is completly nuts".

Also if I was you I might consider never again giving her the car keys. Or a gun.

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[–]MentalCircusPodcast2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

She's a button pusher and does this bc she CRAVES discipline bc she lacked it growing up.

  1. GET AWAY FROM THIS PERSON

  2. If you say you "can't bc xyz" you're making excuses, you CAN

  3. You need to work on your assertiveness and lack of boundaries and use this as a learning experience

Best of Luck -MC

[–]FRedington 7 points7 points [recovered] | Copy Link

Next

[–]bones_and_love3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

From what he wrote, it sounds like she's just a friend in his social circle. I don't think NEXT applies in that situation since she's gonna be around in that circle of friends no matter what he does and since he hasn't said he's trying to date her.

[–]Ivabighairy11 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

The hell you doing giving her the keys to your car to start it? Trying to impress her? You learned your lesson.

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[–]Ivabighairy12 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

That doesn't answer the question, why would you give her the keys when you could've started it yourself?

[–]bmorehalfazn1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

What are you asking for here? If you feel disrespected, talk to her. If she continues to disrespect you, break up with her. The manliest thing you can do is talk to her and stand your ground.

[–]bones_and_love2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

From what he wrote, it sounds like she's just a friend in his social circle.

[–]bmorehalfazn1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Same thing applies, I guess... either way, best thing to do is distance yourself

[–]bones_and_love0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Sounds like she's just a friend and she misused something you own. The only answer people who know nothing about your situation can say is that you should definitely evaluate your friendship and see how you feel about it. Other than that, if you choose to stay around her or if she's in your social circle (so you have no choice), you should be civil but not trust her as much. You could also consider having a chit chat with her if you choose to stay around her, telling her that it wasn't right for her to drive your car like that.

[–]XedtheRed0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

If someone drove my car without my express permission, I'd beat the living shit out of them...my car is my pride and joy and i worked very hard to obtain it.

But since my car is a manual with a dogleg transmission i doubt if anyone could figure it out anyways.

[–]SpeakerToRedditors0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

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