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Is this normal? (self.becomeaman)

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[–]Screwball771 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

There's a ton of non accounted variables in this question. It's vague and incomplete, so this is excluding health, porn habits, vitamin, sleep, etc. Sexual market place values would say that if you're funding less attractive women as attractive or you're "over valuing" them it would dictate you don't have enough good women in your life. Rarity increases value, it means lower quality products are higher in value. A crappy car is a great find if nobody you know has a car.

Alternatively there's something to be said for this also being used as a buffer. Your mind is OK being rejected by lower value mates as opposed to risking rejection with what you might value as a higher value mate. There's more at stake and it reflects more upon you as a person. See The Rational Male and it's reference to psychological buffers

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

What other info would you need? For health I eat healthy and my main hobby is working out, I get at least 7 hours of sleep a day, porn habits are normally twice a day. For the part of not having enough quality women in my life, I have 0 women in my life(not including family). I think it because I'm so desperate that I will enjoy any women talking/interacting with me.

[–]bones_and_love0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

I think it because I'm so desperate that I will enjoy any women talking/interacting with me.

You don't need to ask people who don't know you if you already know. After all, you know yourself better than we possibly could from reading a small description of your situation written by yourself. If what you said is any indicator, it seems like you're just really desperate and longing for attention from the opposite sex.

Another thing is if you're working out hard enough and sleeping better recently, you may have more testosterone than you've had for a good while, and it could be making pay more attention to women.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Just wanted to know if it was normal or not. Now I know that it's me thanks for help

[–]Strangeclouds4200 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

It's called desperation

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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