Men asking for advice on RedPillWomen

2014-07-17T04:51:30+00:00

We should be as harsh and unforgiving to them for being beta pussies as we are to women for being horrible shrews

2014-07-17T04:06:46+00:00

I'm a RPM. I lurk, I almost never ever post or comment.

Guys that are coming here for advice instead of going to /r/theredpill always make me wanna shake my head a bit.

It's a terrible sign. It's resistance to swallowing the pill. These guys really don't understand that you don't want to ask the fish how to catch fish.

This subreddit is devoted to women becoming really, really good catches, i.e. becoming a quality woman. It is NOT devoted to landing a quality woman.

They are really only hurting themselves, and to be honest I don't see why you don't just delete the threads.

TLDR:

Agree, chuck em back out to us in TRP / ASKTRP. They have been led to water, either they drink or not.

TheToastTot · 2014-07-17T05:32:24+00:00

DICKS OR GTFO.

2014-07-17T07:53:13+00:00

I agree and whenever I see posts from men in askwomen saying "Where do I find RPW" or "How can I get my SO to act sexy", it is completely clear to me the guy has missed the point 100%. Especially when he tries to act like he's embraced TRP and is fairly alpha - how alpha does asking a bunch of online women how to deal with your woman sound, you haven't embraced shit.

I'm a dude so I'm not invested in RPW, but I think if you want this sub to be better, you (the mods/RPW not 'you') might want to consider banning male questions that are about general male sexual strategy. Or at least having a FAQ of stupid male questions.

The entire point of TRP is that women aren't these elusive magical creatures who have these "secrets" that only they themselves can reveal. Forget sending these guys back to TRP - if they didn't read the sidebar the first time they came, they aren't going to the second time. Send em to r/relationships or something, we don't want them.

MrsStrom · 2014-07-17T05:16:54+00:00

I think context is important. A question about mommy blogs (like the most recent one) is a perfectly valid question to bring to our sub. Questions about changing their woman's behavior, however, aren't the best for this sub.

HeyPrettyGirl · 2014-07-17T05:12:01+00:00

We just had an announcement by a mod about this and it's on the sidebar...

*Also, I disagree that men aren't capable of molding a girl with ok to good values into a great RPW.

HeyPrettyGirl · 2014-07-17T04:59:14+00:00

Ugh, I just read that stupid post about tattoos. Why do people answer the those posts? Goodness. The only response he deserves is one telling him to grow some balls.

I think most guys just think "OMG, a sub full of women. I must get their attention." All the where do I find a RPW posts might as well say "A/S/L ladies?"

Bakerofpie · 2014-07-17T06:02:24+00:00

I've seen maybe three or four pretty valid posts by men here. Asking if we know of any mommy blogs or can recommend any RPW books for men to get their wives completely makes sense to ask here. But the ridiculous amount of "where can I find one of you" and "how can I make my wife/gf act like you" posts certainly get old.

Most of the stuff guys come here for would NEVER be an issue in my marriage because my husband has more "frame" than that, and he isn't even that serious about TRP. He's not super dominant by RP standards, but he certainly has the self respect to not tiptoe around shit or tell me "no." Makes me wonder if my husband is just WAY more "alpha" than I give him credit for. Haha.

FleetingWish · 2014-07-17T05:28:41+00:00

Part of it comes from the fact that TRP is perpetuated as a "mean" sub. Some men think that while "meanness" might be good for getting ONS and plates, it's poor for long relationship partners. For some reason they don't think "good" women will fall for TRP's tricks. But, the thing is we're still women. We're women who accept our responsibility to be attractive to men, and we want men who take responsibility for being attractive to us. A lot of the TRP works, and men need to utilize it to get women. I did not say poor women, or good women, I said "women".

VarsitySlutTeamCpt · 2014-07-17T06:07:42+00:00

Yeh, Men shouldn't be coming here for advice. I like coming here though because you girls delight me.

mordanus · 2014-07-17T05:49:36+00:00

That's pretty much how we feel when women come to post on trp

2014-07-17T06:24:38+00:00

I think it depends on the question but sadly most threads I've been reading have no place here. The whole "I'm a rp man and this girl is ignoring me how do i make her talk to me", or "my wife wears something I don't like how do I tell her?". If you were "redpill" you would be able to figure this out. It's a bunch of men wanting us to validate their feelings.

MrsStrom · 2014-07-17T13:32:13+00:00

I'm conflicted. On one hand, TRP has a habit of screaming "Next!" when a guy is asking how to save his marriage. That's why I unsubbed. But, women tend to be much "nicer" than men. The mommy blog guy has been mentioned. He didnt' need a blog for his wife to read. He needs to cut off her money and put his foot down. He needs to maintain frame. But most of the answers he got were about the blog and not responding to the actual issues.

mscleverclocks · 2014-07-17T05:30:01+00:00

I can understand this, but maybe they come here because usually trp is NOT that friendly towards guys asking about their wives/gf? In almost every thread you can find some variation of someone bashing marriage/LTR and saying those guys are stupid for not spinning plates. And I have no issue with that because there are guys who want plates and sluts stupid enough to go along with that, but I've long thought there should be a plate-spinning trp and a LTR/marriage trp to help guys work towards what they want out of life

Ob1Kn00b · 2014-07-17T06:15:15+00:00

There are plenty of times when coming here for advice can seem more appealing then going to TRP for advice. While there is some decent LTR advice in the main sub, it's mostly full of people that hate the idea of a long term relationship, and a few rabid second-stagers that still haven't gotten over hating the world yet. There are some questions that women, especially ones that are very much looking for long term relationships, are simply far better at answering then anyone in TRP.

That being said, "where can I find you" is not one of those questions, and really needs to have its own sticky post and be a bannable offense at this point. I'm beyond tired of seeing those posts.

TheSerpent · 2014-07-17T05:02:56+00:00

these are beta men.

sheaness · 2014-07-17T05:04:29+00:00

I think they come here because RedPillWomen is more popular than the other red pill subs. And maybe the don't know about r/askwomen. And it doesn't seem fair to judge the men that come here seeking a woman's perspective.

2014-07-17T12:02:44+00:00

Men have been brainwashed to always seek the female opinion. You are not red pill if you haven't fixed that. Moving on.

2014-07-17T06:08:04+00:00

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thebizzle · 2014-07-17T13:06:35+00:00

I just want to say what an amazing group of women this is. I don't follow most RP subs but I still follow this one. Not because of some desire to see women complacent or whatever tumblr probably thinks but to see women so engaged in their relationships. If you are a stay at home spouse, your 'job' is to be the best partner your wage earned could have and you all take that very seriously. Even if you do work, you all still bust your buns to make wonderful homes for your partners. You all give me hope that there are women for me to settle down with, thank you.

frakistan · 2014-07-17T13:27:06+00:00

the last point made me LOL, tis was funny