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Red Pill TheorySaving the Best - RationalMale on recent /r/sex post of guy finding old sex tape of wife. (therationalmale.com)

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[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan22 points23 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Holy fucking shit. Basically alpha fucks gets the best sex, beta bucks is just used as a sustainable resource to feed her hypergamic entitlement for provisioning. Ideally if you do settle with a chick and have a family, make sure she's doing the dirty with you as much as possible. If it's boring, sporadic, perfunctory sex, you're not the alpha fucks/alpha bucks unicorn combo she falls in love with, you're the beta bucks backup.

If you've yet to read the rationalmale blog on your quest of self-actualisation, read it, if you already have - I'd definitely recommend buying Rollo's (rational males) book:

[–]TheEyeUrnShaft6 points7 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

you're the alpha fucks/alpha bucks, you're the beta bucks.

wat

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan14 points15 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

You can be an alpha with money and commit to a woman. They settle for provider betas when there's no provider alphas around. Most alphas will not commit to the average woman, quite simply. You could say an alpha who sticks around is the female ideal of a "male unicorn." Ideally, the apex of her hypergamy is to have an alpha who she not only lusts for, but can provide for her too. This combination is rare, so often she fulfills her plurality through more than one male archetype, the testosterone fuelled adonis with strong character gives her the crazy sex and the boring beta making close to six figures raises her children, pays the mortgage, takes her on holiday etc.

[–]TheEyeUrnShaft7 points8 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I get that. You were missing the whole unicorn line when I read your comment

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Eh, typos happen.

[–]TheEyeUrnShaft6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I know. I'm not criticizing you or anything. The sentence just read funny

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

's all good my man. Infact it was your quoting that brought the typo to my attention, so I thank you for your attention to detail.

[–]GrantNexus19 points20 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

That analysis- she doesn't want to do those dirty things with him, but she will because it maintains her normalcy- is something I was thinking but couldn't actually explain.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It's incredibly profound.

[–]hmmnonono12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Jesus. I thought I was already adequately distrustful of women, but it seems that I have a ways to go yet.

[–]3trplurker13 points14 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

People are actually down voting this ... wow ... are we getting brigaded again?

You can see him struggling mentally with the RP truth. I can't blame the women, she's doing what is in her best biological interest. All the deceit and manipulation are just tools they use to get the best deal for themselves. She was able to convince a weak men to provide for her whilst doing the absolute minimum. Love, honor, truth, duty, fidelity, those are all being defined in masculine terms, they don't exist in the females mind. She will not sacrifice her biological imperative for a man.

Guys women will ALWAYS, without fail, do the absolute minimum to get what they want. It's up to us to set the bar, to dictate, and yes it's an authoritarian regime here, of what the minimum is. We set the price for our time, commitment and provision in LTR's. He set his too cheaply, any wonder why she paid so little then.

Lesson for guys is, define what is your minimum price. Write it down on paper if you need to. Don't vary it, don't negotiate it, just know what your require "X/Y/Z" from a women prior to you committing to an LTR. You don't have to tell her, but know inside your own head whats up and don't settle for less.

[–]karneadou6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Guys women will ALWAYS, without fail, do the absolute minimum to get what they want.

Remember this one thing.

[–]Doctor_Mayhem2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

"Love, honor, truth, duty, fidelity, those are all being defined in masculine terms, they don't exist in the females mind."

Throughout history, almost all literature has portrayed these as masculine traits for a reason.

I suffered a minor betrayal of my own, recently, with a woman (Fortunately, I was smart enough to not invest much in this girl), and I was talking to her sister, who had gotten us hooked up in the first place. Her sister, had mostly kept things hidden from me.

I couldn't even get mad at the sister. I told her, "I'm not mad, I don't blame you. You're a woman and you can't help it. To expect honor, integrity, ethics, or even something beyond the absolute, most basic morality from a woman, and to get mad at you for lacking such things makes as much sense as me getting enraged at the cat for scratching up furniture."

Edit: I can't grammar

[–]Iknwican14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The comments are the worst some guys say it's a turn on and he should be happy he has a used up wife my god...

[–]IAmDrDoom11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I couldn't handle a revelation like that. I'm a pacifist, but something like that would almost definitely drive me to violence.

[–]XCowboyLowkesx2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Dude 10/10 these write ups are fantastic

[–]TheRationalMale.comRollo-Tomassi1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The followup is here: http://therationalmale.com/2013/12/12/madonnas-and-whores/

and here: http://redditlog.com/snapshots/35036

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It really is disheartening to read the story from his perspective, and recognize how the pain he's going through was the exact same pain I experienced a while back as well. Wish you could learn about the red pill in a less abrupt n ego killing experience (at the same time, that's the best way to absorb the message)

But if he comes out of it on the other side with the right mentality, and doesn't burrow deeper into the blue pill mentality (doubling down on NAWALT and that nature), he'll be the stronger man that can get what he's looking for.

Such a bummer with kids involved as well. Hate the lying and decite I see.

[–]FortunateBum-3 points-2 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

I don't want to be that guy on TheRedPill, but it's entirely possible this woman didn't enjoy what she'd done in the past.

[–]RedSunBlue15 points16 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Then, pray tell, why did she keep the fucking video?

[–]30years2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Had the same thought - if she was ashamed, she would have trashed the vid. And it wasn't a choice she made just one time - I'm sure she came across the video many times either intentionally or while she was "putting something away" and chose, again, to not get rid of the video.

Throughout the marriage she has been continuing to hold on to that event as a peak experience of her life.

[–]spinlock0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Could be an unconscious desire to get caught. I half believe that she didn't get down and dirty with her husband because she assumed he didn't want a wife that took it in the ass. It's really sad if you look at it that way, she denied what she -- and he -- wanted in the bedroom because she believed her husband wouldn't love her if she was honest about what she liked.

Or, she could have been really fucked up when she made the movie and wanted to move past it. We'll never know.

[–]FortunateBum-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Good question. It could've just been in a pile of other videos and she forgot about it. If she was taking it out every now and then to watch it, that's different.

I think the conditions under which she stored the video would be pertinent, but they are not provided.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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