Hey thanks for checking out my thread. I'll try keep it consise. Background info. I got a girl pregnant on a one night stand (silly me). She's 28 I'm 23. We were previously aquaintances, we have many mutual friends. Baby boy dew in the next few weeks.

My problem. She's a complete nutcase. She apparently suffers anxiety and talking to her face to face is horrible. She will literally sit there and say nothing. I'm lucky to get a nod or a head shake. I hate it. The only way she communicates with me is via text message, and she can only manage that in the form of arguing. It's a complete waste of time. When ever I hear from her it's so she can have a go at me over something. I try to stay firm and not react to her bullshit, but she'll just keep on escalating till she gets some sort of rise out of me. Her latest is her telling me I don't deserve to be a father and she doesn't want me or my friends near her baby. I know that's bullshit and she can't bar me from seeing my kid so I'm not worried. I'm worried that in this country she pretty much gets exclusive rights to be the primary carer and I'm only able to visit in her home when I can. I'm scared that she's going to imprint her shitty life values and her extremely immature way of thinking and eventually fucking up my son mentally.

Obviously I dont want this to happen. But how do I take control of this situation when she's a completely unreasonable hysterical woman who does not listen to reason?

I need advice from other dads. I'm scared shitless. I know I'm good father material but I'm getting wrestled out of the picture.

I'm happy to provide any clarifications if you guys need, also have a back catalogue of shit she's tried to pull on me so if you're interested I'll share those stories too.

Any help is appreciated. Love you guys. No homo.