Just about every girl I talk to (forced or unforced) has an air of aloofness (exception for foreigners, fake politeness, or high insecurity). Don't tell me to aim lower, even the 1's have it. Comes with being in the Midwest I suppose.

I feel negging isn't nearly as effective as straight up insulting is in some cases. But even then these girls are stuck with it. They all believe that they can (and will) get a 10, and if you aren't one you're a creep. They take it so far to have the attitude that even looking at them should be punished.

Any tips or reading material to overcome these fine specimens?