Reminder : No One Cares

Frosteecat · 2018-12-01T04:54:58+00:00

Care for yourself supremely and someone MIGHT care to hang in your orbit. We barely know ourselves most of our lives, and others even less. Why? Because we truly don’t care. You got it.

Persaeus · 2018-12-01T18:13:13+00:00

All relationships are transactional.

Your dog doesn’t care either. He’s just simple and reliable.

Your mom doesn’t care either. She’s just really really ego invested.

thunderbeyond · 2018-12-01T11:47:08+00:00

This is pure Truth.

I guarantee I see other people in that same way. I certainly see fellow MRPers that way. Because I don't - NONE OF US - give a fuck about how hard your marriage is or your upbringing was.

OP you have delivered a mantra that newbies and old salts should be chanting every day as they wake up:

"what matters is what I do today"

SKRedPill · 2018-12-01T16:53:39+00:00

In fact nothing kills their attraction faster than for them to be a part of the dirty work that goes into the finished product. Lots of men (myself included) made the mistake of mixing up the work with the final product and thought our wives will recognize how hard we are working. Well, when has that ever worked?

I don't know how many of you see magic -- the emotional impact all comes from suppressing the logical part of your brain. If you saw how the trick worked and how much a magician has to practice till he gets it right, there is no surprise or awe left anymore at an emotional level. Practice belongs in the green room.

Your sacrifices are devotional in nature - to even appreciate that requires a great deal of abundance, strength and gratitude - all of which are qualities that are more masculine in nature. Your sacrifices are not attractive in themselves at all - their only real attractive value is the extent to which they can inspire dread and separation.

Only your attractive presence is attractive. Dread and separation can strengthen your attractive presence when done right, the same way hunger increases the craving for food.

Your dog will care because his brain can't think beyond "I love master".

chewtoy88 · 2018-12-01T14:22:48+00:00

Spot on. Including the part about the dog.

Slim-Pickins- · 2018-12-11T23:39:43+00:00

Part of my anger/depression phase was centred around this concept. I remember that morning waking up after another month of being unemployed, dryspell, no friends or connections, haven’t been to the gym in weeks. I remember realizing if I don’t get out of bed, the world will just continue going on as it would, regardless of whether you choose to go out there and make a better life for yourself or not. That realization actually scared me more than any thing in my entire life. Even more than the fear of failure. My anger/depression phase after becoming red-pilled nearly led me to killing myself (that’s how beta/blue pill I was), but I kept putting one foot in front of the other. Any bit of progress was still progress. Now that I am just coming out of the anger phase, I am beginning to reach out and meet women again (learning game has helped with this), am gainfully employee and moving towards a career, am going to the gym four days a week, and am visiting family I haven’t seen in years with this new-found knowledge. This concept of No One Caring is terrifying (can be difficult to digest depending on how BP you were) but it is part of you realizing your burden of performance in all areas of life, and that only you can fight to get the life you want. In the end, what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger, and I am stronger and more independent because of it.

screechhater · 2018-12-01T11:47:38+00:00

No one “ever” cared.

Mom couldn’t really, cause it is a different love.

This is just like your money. Manage it yourself, or kiss it goodbye

donquixoteesq · 2018-12-01T17:48:51+00:00

This reminds me of the parody title of the self help book in Anger Management: "Know Buddy Cares"

SKRedPill · 2019-01-08T11:39:11+00:00

Question then is : Do YOU care for yourself?

Asking this question can shock you into realizing how dependent you can be on a mental and emotional level at times. It's a tough pill to swallow, but it's liberating.

QuirkyDoctor · 2018-12-01T18:07:12+00:00

Dogs are amazing! So blessed to have them.

YelxO · 2018-12-01T05:56:16+00:00

This is stupid. I care. I care deeply about my partner’s past and how they came to be who they are today. I care about what built them up, what tore them down, what struggles were overcome and what struggles overcome them. Don’t speak for everyone because you don’t know everyone.