I like non inflammatory titles which are not clickbait. So here we go, to all you guys who post in here or askMRP about your whore wife hanging out with other dudes or having an emotional affair - First and foremost your wife is a whore. The only way this statement is not true is if you live in a gay marriage legal jurisdiction and you are married to some guy named Pete. Why am I calling your wife a whore? Because I think sometimes it is helpful to look into the abyss and see things for what they are. In The Manipulated Man Esther Vilar broke it down for us accurately, decades later Rollo spelled it out again, the ladder of love flows down, not up. Men love women, women love kids and kids love puppies. This is a brutal assessment but the reality is like Rollo said, she can never love you the way that you want to be loved. She does not love you, she loves the image of you she has painted in her own head. With a woman, her love and relationship is transactional and conditional, see Briffault's law. She is not yours, it is just your turn.

So when we see guys in here and on askMRP whining that their little snowflake is having lunch/ kayaking/ karaokiing (is that a word) or doing something else with other dudes, then we rightfully call them a faggot and explain that she only acts this way because he is a beta schlub. This is the right thing to do because we cannot change the wife, only the man. Giving him a kick in the ass and telling him to man up is the right thing to do because we can only fix the man. That way in either scenario (a - he improves his miserable marriage, or b - he leaves the whore and moves on to a better life) we have helped the man. I agree with this approach and I agree that this is the best thing for them. Encourage them to lift, lead and focus on their mission, be their own point of origin, stop focussing on the wife.

However it is sometimes useful to look at the other side of the coin. That is the reality that the guy who comes on here whingeing that his wife is hanging out alone with some random dude, is that his wife is a filthy, dirty whore. The other guys who do my fucking head in are the guys who come here telling us about their whore wife's emotional affair and asking how they can save the marriage. TBH in either case, no matter what the cause of her behaviour, the best possible advice is for him is to leave that slut and build a better life. To try and "fix" the marriage is purple pill logic. It is going through the trash. I realise that many guys here may reasonably counter with "well I was one of those guys, now I own my shit, lift, give her 10 second kisses and we are have sex three times a week instead of three times a year!". To that I say, well you made the bad choice, you would have been better off divorcing her and getting on with your awesome new life. If you think going from dead bedroom, to fucking the same woman who used to reject you is some sort of success, then your bar for success is very low indeed.

So to you guys who come here whining that your whore wife is spending time with some other dude, you are the one who is still pining for her. The only thing which turns my stomach more than your whore wife, is you, you pathetic, blue pill, pedestalising little bitch. Leave her ass, get on with your awesome new life. You will be happier, you will either bang many better women or the new you will find a better woman. Life is there to be lived, do not be a coward and tether your happiness to a whore.