I often write about the positives of my life.
I write about how well my son and daughter are doing, how great my wife and I are doing, and that my life, as a whole, is awesome.
Today, I want to talk about the deep valleys I’ve walked to reach these peaks. I want to do this not so I can feel that fresh stab of past pains in my heart, but rather, because I want men to see, there is a light at the end of the tunnel and you just need to keep walking through hell to get there.
I’ve been there. I get it.
I’ve been in the car, unable to hear the sound of music or wind because I’m so lost in my head. Heart pounding, pulse in my teeth, with the loudest voice in my head saying, “What would happen if you just pulled the steering wheel into that tree, pole, or median…?”
I’ve been in the shower, the only place I could truly be alone and just sat on the floor, staring at the drain, letting the hot water scald me while I regressed into the abyss of my mind wondering, “Where did it go so wrong…?”
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I’ve punched through the walls.
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I’ve had the drunken nights.
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I’ve screamed into the pillows.
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I’ve cried my eyes out until there wasn’t a drop left to shed.
I’ve told myself, “It wasn’t supposed to be like this, I did everything right, there’s no point to this fucking life…”
I’ve reached the point where I didn’t care if I was alive or dead.
The point where my only relief was sleeping because that was my only escape from reality. All I wanted to do was retreat to the realm of unconscious and even there I was at risk of attack from the self-hate and loathing which I felt in my day to day existence.
Retreat only prolongs the pain; it kicks the solution to the suffering down the road.
I decided to stand up and choose risking death on my feet than to continue ‘living’ another day on my knees.
I did this alone.
I should have had my brethren there to help me.
Society has recognized this and in an attempt to deconstruct and eradicate the masculine man, they’ve made it so men cannot find one another.
This is why I’m writing.
This is a rope being thrown to you, hoping you find it and climb out of the hole before you choose to end it all, or worse, quit and remain ‘living’ in your grave.
Living in a constant state of anxiety, fear, and self-repression isn’t living at all, it’s barely existing and it is this state which I’m hoping this piece helps pull men from.
You don’t have to be Perfect, you have to be you.
The anxiety, suicidal thoughts, depression, and self-hate stem from the thoughts of how things ‘should be‘:
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You look at who you are and you compare it to how the perfect self would be.
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You think of your life as it is and how you feel your life should be.
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You’ve said the nice things and walked the righteous path, yet the ‘asshole’ is winning and here you are, chopped liver.
Listen to me now brothers, your life is exactly how it should be and you are who you’ve decided to be.
At any point you could make the decision to flip the switch and start living a genuine life. It isn’t easy and it isn’t quick, but it beats living another minute hating the fact that you’re still awake.
We can destroy that voice inside telling you how terrible you are, how inadequate you are, how stupid you are…
We can silence it through action.
Read the entire Piece on the blog: https://thefamilyalpha.com/2017/08/08/why-perfection-will-kill-you/
I’m much more active & available on Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheFamilyAlpha
Final Note
I’ve joined the ranks of men who will be speaking at this year’s 21 Convention. It’s the 10th Anniversary, if you haven’t already seen the post on TRP here it is: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/6trt2z/attention_cisgendered_maggots_the_worlds_ultimate/
If you want to get tickets, you can do so through this link: https://the21convention.org/tfa
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