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This is a habit that you all need to practice. Whenever a woman gives you a compliment, you must ALWAYS and immediately follow that compliment with another compliment. This is something you must do whether you are approaching a woman, with your SO, with a plate or on a date. It needs to be reflexive, natural and organic in it's delivery. It should be sincere and you must fully believe the compliment. If you deliver a compliment in a way that lacks confidence then she will smell your contrived and beta nature and she will rightfully reject you as a weak and unworthy man. I have been practising this for many years and I never fail. I never fail because my belief is strong, I have absolutely no doubt that what I am saying is the truth.

So, let's give some examples here. You are out on a date with a HB9. She says:

  • "I really like that shirt" You say:
  • "Any shirt looks great on me"

You are with a plate, you have just made a clever observation about the netflix show you are watching. She says:

  • "Wow you are so smart" You say:
  • "I know, you are really lucky to be hanging out with me"

You are with your LTR, she is eating and she says:

  • "That steak was perfectly cooked" You say:
  • "Yes I am an amazing cook"

You are at home enjoying a glass of wine with your wife (idiot, you never should have married but here you are). Your wife says:

  • "I am so lucky to be married to you" You say:
  • "Yes you are, you have exceptional taste in men" Or (for a bit of dread)
  • "Any woman on the planet would be lucky to be married to me"

So to summarise, ALWAYS follow any compliment you receive with another compliment - to yourself! You have to deliver it immediately, with confidence and sincerity. Some may call this boasting, I say that it is not cocky if you can back it up. If you do not believe it then there is no way that she is going to believe it. If you delay or stutter she is going to smell you out as the spineless beta that you truly are. This is not a move that beginners should even contemplate. It is an advanced move for competent, alpha leaning men.

The best way to deliver this is when a woman spontaneously compliments you, but there is another really fun way to apply this. If you are into daygame, this is a great opener. Walk up to a woman, do the standard day game stop, then say "Do you think it is too early in the day for a compliment?". She will either shut you down or say "Sure", if she is open to you then you say "well come one then, give me one". It pretty much always gets a laugh and ideally she really does give you a compliment. If she does, double down on the laughs (and her perception of you) by giving yourself another compliment before you advance the conversation.

Implement and enjoy. Beware of the caveat though, if you are leaning beta, then this is going to blow up in your face and you are going to get burned.


[–]drty_prMRP APPROVED42 points43 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

You almost had me with the title for a second.

[–][deleted] 25 points26 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Haha, that was the idea. I can guarantee I am getting downvotes from people who just read the title, but I demand more from my audience, so the downvotes are worth it.

[–]BobbyPeruMRP Approved4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Man, I was hoping to get angry from this post.

What a letdown.

[–]The_LitzMRP APPROVED0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I didn't even read it until today, because of that title. But the concept is solid, and proven.

[–]anythingincMRP APPROVED - Blue Pill Diplomat9 points10 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Great post. You took a difficult concept for the emerging confident cocky/funny man to internalize it made super easy to grasp and follow.

Just want to add one more because we can't say it enough

I love you

  • I know
  • Can't blame you
  • I love me too
  • I'm easy to love
  • You just love this dick

[–]lidlredridinghoodFeemale3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

My captain often responds "of course you do..." it comes across as warm and caring but affirmative thst hes a fest catch.

[–]TrenGod370 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

So what do you say when she says do you miss me too?

[–]weakandsensitive0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

"Why don't you go away for a while and we'll find out."

[–]JDRoedellMRP APPROVED4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I always do the Han Solo, "I know". She loves/hates it.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Loves/ hates, push/ pull, cocky/ funny, scared/ excited. The essence of sexual tension

[–]RPJMRP13 points14 points  (38 children) | Copy Link

This seems weird, why am I doing this?

[–]matrixtospartanatLVMRP APPROVED1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It's an advancement of game.

Kind of the reverse of,

"I've upped my performance, why don't you up yours?"

Which I use infrequently.

Just fun.

Advanced MRP should be fun.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

dated Madden impression

"And here's a guy who has no idea how to be cocky funny"

[–]RPJMRP0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

I'm trying to learn man.

Think you can point me in the right direction?

Which books should I read to learn better?

Any stand-up comedians you think I should study? I've been working on punchlines whenever I get the chance, but I can't seem to nail down the timing.

How'd you know to do the Madden Italics thing? Did that just come to you or did you see it somewhere?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Put asterisks around whatever you want italicized.

Being naturally cocky funny is hard to learn but David Deangelo teaches it.

For me and my friends growing up it just came naturally. We were just cocky dicks and we fucked with the chicks in the same manner. When I read the op I just chuckled and said "yep." You read it and thought "why?" You see the difference? At the end of the day you have to believe you are the prize and treat your girl like a kid sister. Once you envision her like a bratty teenager, being cocky funny with her comes easier.

[–]RPJMRP0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Nah man, I was playing a role. I didn't mean to waste your time. I was just fucking with you on the response. My initial comment was written in a purposely obtuse manner.

I saw his post and saw a sales pitch. The salesman in me wanted him to sell his product more. I also know u/88will88 has a couple companies in some shape or form, so he's sold ideas before. If you use words like "always" and the like then I'm looking for a hook or to see it furthered in why I should make it a rule.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Ah. I bit too. Shit

[–]IamNotaBeeOK0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

If you are worried about coming across as a narcissistic, you should try exaggerating more. Are you responding to shit tests with A&A?

[–]weakandsensitive0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

rpjmrp is just fucking around and playin devil's advocate. he's being obtuse on purpose.

[–]InvincibleKraken0 points1 point  (29 children) | Copy Link

Are you serious? He wrote in the very first paragraph that it's a test of your self-confidence.

[–]RPJMRP2 points3 points  (28 children) | Copy Link

I don't think he did say it was a test of self confidence. He implied it. He said it had to be delivered with utter confidence. He said he never fails at it. But that's "how" you have to do it in order to be effective.

I'm asking "why?" What am I hoping to accomplish by making this a habit?

If that is the goal, so be it, but that isn't how I've interpreted it so far.

[–]resolutions316!!CAUTION!! Runaway bus potentially ahead3 points4 points  (25 children) | Copy Link

I think the idea was to further display confidence/cockiness as a way of establishing value.

This is a straightforward and specific implementation of the general "cocky and funny" attitude that is considered to be attractive to women.

That's my take, anyway.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

Your take is 100% correct

[–]resolutions316!!CAUTION!! Runaway bus potentially ahead4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Your take is 100% correct

Yeah, I'm super smart. flexes biceps

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

There's a subreddit for you!

r/iamverysmart

[–]PersaeusMRP APPROVED1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Ok now I understand why you made this post

[–]mountainbiker178-1 points0 points  (20 children) | Copy Link

This explanation should be in the post.

[–]discobolus_ 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy Link

When you put 2+2 together on your own, it tends to stick a little better than if you're spoonfed the info.

[–]zayelionFluent in Retard1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

but men are overt...

[–]weakandsensitive1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

hahahahha. that's an excuse "men" make for being retards.

see also: powertalk.

[–]zayelionFluent in Retard0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

Men talking to other men. Especially when teaching. No reason to mix words here.

[–]weakandsensitive1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Who here's getting paid to teach anything? Teach yourself.

When learning, you should be engaging your brain, parsing, interpreting, and applying - not the opposite.

But you do you.

[–]mountainbiker1780 points1 point  (11 children) | Copy Link

That logic can lead to lazy writing. Redpill posts should be written for veterans and newbs alike. It's best to cover a topic completely and succintly, than leave anything to interpretation.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

Writing for newbs? You're a fucking grown man, and if you cannot read at a high school level...

This lowest common denominator attitude

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Entitlement.

[–]lidlredridinghoodFeemale0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Bp

[–]RPJMRP0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

Meh- I like to lash out at some of you flair guys. It's not about writing to the lowest common denominator.

For OP, he should give his why to get buy in from the audience. We all have our own takes on application. I thought the method was fine. I understood this particular application, I just wanted it fleshed out more because it is a good post.

Sure, we can all take the "fuck em if they don't understand" outlook, but that doesn't lead to the most adaptations of the idea.

[–]weakandsensitive1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

This post was super simple.

If they can't understand simple shit - why are you going to waste time fucking with retards when you can keep higher standards in your choice of company?

but that doesn't lead to the most adaptations of the idea.

Why do you give a shit if some dumbass halfway across the world adapts the idea? Don't you have something better to do with your time?

To your point - do I do this all the time every single time? Absolutely not. But I've been known to do it and am perfectly capable of busting some stupid rapport break whenever it's needed. Develop the tools needed to have dynamic social interactions when need them instead of being the same boring as shit brickhead of a man that has no variety, is predictable, and becomes a background piece.

[–]2ndal1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Go write something of value then.

[–]bogeyd6MRP MODERATOR1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You are definitely in the wrong subreddit.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Simple. Women date across, and up. For a lot of your adult life, you have been trying to appear meek, humble, lower.

This is a small way to unfuck that mindset. Women don't want an equal, or a lessor...

[–]2ndal1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It re/establishes frame. It reinforces that you are the prize. It's a an easy way of being cocky/funny. It's flirtatious without being overwrought or kissing her ass. Etc.

[–]weakandsensitive4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is classic cocky funny. A good tool to have in any man's arsenal.

Adjust tone and inflection for maximum fuck withness.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Insanely well timed, because I was out with the wife the other day, and another woman in the group complimented me. "Thanks" seems so dull. Going on about it is try-hard because she really doesnt care...she's just expressing interest in you. My usual reply to "you're getting ripped" or "I like the hairstyle" is "I know right?" But it doesn't feel smooth enough. Complimenting yourself. I like it.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (15 children) | Copy Link

You're a pretty insightful Nazi.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (12 children) | Copy Link

Please do not give more oxygen to the Nazi thing, I get enough hate mail from the bloopers. They are titties 88888888888

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

It was a compliment. ;)

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy Link

are those tits going the wrong way?

[–]PersaeusMRP APPROVED1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

if she's laying on her side there right

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

i mean yea but usually if she is laying on her side, my hands are already on them.

[–]PersaeusMRP APPROVED0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

that's why there are hands on each side of his username. wait, four tits . . . i'm confused again. oh, now i got it. threesome; nope still doesn't work. does 4 make an orgy?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

I don't see the hands. vagina > tits.

but thats just me. I don't need more than one available at a time.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

It's legs all the way for me 卍卍卍卍卍卍卍卍卍卍卍卍卍卍

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

oh man. thats funny

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I think the right term would be reverse gang bang

[–]weakandsensitive0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Looks like Nazi symbolism to me.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

I did not even know about that reference until I started getting bloopers calling me nazi. Then I found out apparently in US prisons an "88" tattoo is some sort of nazi identifier. I'm not american so I had never heard of it.

[–]GBP4tendies0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

For you.

[–]PersaeusMRP APPROVED0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

The 88 are tits . He likes lots of tits; but not Schutzstaffel. The advice is good, although not doing this never occurred to me. Must be why it works so well for me.

[–]resolutions316!!CAUTION!! Runaway bus potentially ahead1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

This might dovetail well with affirmations/mindset work, for those of us who aren't quite there yet.

I do something similar, but it comes off as very jokey. However, if you're reaffirming these beliefs to yourself every day, then when the moment arises your brain will just kick into autopilot.

If you've spent 15 minutes every day telling yourself "I am extremely good-looking," then when someone says "wow, you're looking good today," you'll feel very normal agreeing with them.

[–]weakandsensitive1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Be more deadpan in your delivery and hold. Then laugh at your own ridiculousness.

[–]onepilltwopill1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

I can't see this not either sounding sarcastic or super douchey. Yes, I know a lot of guys who think they are cocky-funny. I turn away when I hear this stuff and most women do to. Is this something that works best alone with the wife? I guess I am missing something.

The leaders that I know exude this. Stating it overtly looks like you're trying to hard or are insecure. Even if you think you're the shit.

[–]straius1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It's because you're reading it and not hearing it. Believe it in your delivery but what makes it work is the subtext that you're also fucking with them and being playful. So they can believe you believe it while also not believing it's serious.

It's the line between confidence / narcissim.

The narcissist can't even let a hint of self deprecation or non seriousness about their incredible traits enter the conversation.

[–]PersaeusMRP APPROVED0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

The leaders that I know exude this.

l. o. fucking l.

[–]onepilltwopill0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Stoney answered my question. Women don't have the same ego triggers men do.

[–]PersaeusMRP APPROVED1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yep , not even close. Linear thinking works great with dudes, not so much with chicks

[–]youcantdenythat1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I do this quite a bit. If I'm too busy to think of a A&A, "You're damn right / straight!" works pretty well too.

"You look good today." "Damn right I do!"

Generally gets a smile or a fake punch on the arm or whatever.

[–]SpokenMemeArtist1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

This seems like a good way to loudly announce how insufferable you are to everyone nearby

[–]JDRoedellMRP APPROVED0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

It's all in the delivery. If you deliver it like an insufferable douche, then ya.

[–]SpokenMemeArtist0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

I'm not sure how you deliver that in a way that doesn't sound insufferable

[–]JDRoedellMRP APPROVED0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Maybe you need more interesting/ funny/ varied friends in your life.

[–]weakandsensitive0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Sounds like a you problem.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

compliment this weekend went something like this :

Her: compliment

me: yea I know, I'm the best ( I forget what we were talking about)

her : eyeroll and soo humble too

Me : Just stating facts. Best ( what ever we were talking about) right here.

[–]Rob_Dead0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Top post, simple and affective. I have just this evening used the same trick (this one weird trick).

Her: I like your eyes, they're so blue.

Me: Blue/grey, like a storm sea.

Her: Yes, they are (stared into them and I used that moment to stroke her arm)

She's Chinese so the cheesyness of the line went over her head.

Remember to be self aware.

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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (16 children) | Copy Link

Lol. Dont be buttmad, chicks don't think like guys... They don't have the same ego triggers.

[–]TrenGod370 points1 point  (15 children) | Copy Link

I deleted the post. I realized this was married red pill. And not regular red pill. I believe this will work way better in a LTR/marriage than to a plate or someone you just met. I misinterpreted it

[–]straius0 points1 point  (14 children) | Copy Link

Nah, it works outside that context too. It's all wrapped up in delivery and you better have some kind of narrative running in the background of the convo too. The cocky humor is garnishment for reinforcing your presentation of confidence.

[–]TrenGod370 points1 point  (13 children) | Copy Link

I was walking to the grocery store through the parking lot and a car was backing out of a spot. After they backed out and rolled the window down the one girl goes "excuses me sir". I say what's up. She says "my friend thinks you're hot"

I bent down to look in the car. Said thank you and smirked like I wanted to fuck her right on the hood of the car. They giggles and drove off probably talking about how hot i was. I showed confidence.

Now say I had said. "I know. You're lucky to be in my presence." They would have drove away and said I was an arrogant and cocky.

OPs method is good but not in all situations.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

Lol. This reads like a MGTOW field report.

you didn't get fucked, your data point is beyond useless. Stop being proud of getting table scraps. You could have said about anything in your scenario and been exactly where you are now.

A woman who wants to fuck you because she thinks you're her best option at that moment. Anything you do to reinforce that decision is a good thing. She can talk herself out of fucking you, you don't need to help her out.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

A MGTOW field report, that would be some funny shit - "Walked past a HB10 who I disqualified due to her possession of a vagina. At first my subconscious told me that I wanted desperately to fuck her, but then I remembered that I had given myself a label so as to feel better while living in the reality that she would rather die than fuck me."

[–]weakandsensitive1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

then I remembered that I had given myself a label so as to feel better while living in the reality that she would rather die than fuck me."

holy shit. you've changed man. that was straight up acerbic.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

MRP has helped knock off some edges, and sharpen others

[–]TrenGod37-3 points-2 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

I'm willing to bet I've slept with more people than the majority of this sub so I'd say I'd know what I'm doing in these situations if we're tallying it up that way.

I almost had a 3 some one night but the one girl Backed out because I was "too cocky for her" there's certain situation where things work better than others. To know these. It takes years of trail error and experience.

The red pill is a tool box some shit you use. Some you don't.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

You should post a field report for us poor plebs.

Seriously, always willing to learn something that I haven't seen before

[–]TrenGod370 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Ok

[–]weakandsensitive0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Congratulations?

Do you want someone to peg you as a prize or something?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

  • "I'm willing to bet I've slept with more people than the majority of this sub"

Does that mean our combined total as a sub? How about if you subtract dudes?

[–]straius1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Nah, you could have laughed and said "I know. Aren't you lucky to bask in my glory?"

"Yes I am, you're welcome for me making your day brighter by being me."

Or

"Yes. And you haven't even seen my ass yet."

Any number of cocky replies could be delivered and they might roll their eyes but that's just part of the social play.

Also stone already laid out the extent to which that counts as a "success story."

You played the bottom hand for the situation and sure that's fine in that it wasn't a negative, but you're mistaken in thinking that was the ceiling or even that it would be a negative thing had they driven off just as you imagined. Who gives a fuck? If it were a longer conversation they would have tested your cockiness with their own shit tests and it's all opportunity to disabuse them of the notion that your confidence is fake or that you give a shit if they think you're cocky.

[–]TrenGod37-2 points-1 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

That was just an example off the time of my head I've slept with over 100 women. I know what I'm doing. I personally would never do this unless I dated or really knew the person.

I have done similar stuff and almost had a 3 some the one night but the one girl said "NA he's too cocky"

So there's that

[–]straius0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

I hear what your'e saying. Read to me like you were saying "this doesn't work" as opposed to "not my style"

[–]TrenGod370 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I wasn't really saying either I was saying this isn't ideal for all situations.

I will use this with my SO but not someone I just met

And it will work with people you already know. Not someone you don't. IME

[–]redpillrobby0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I cannot disagree with this.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

What do you think would happen if a woman did this to her husband? What would you think of a woman who does this?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

I would assume she was an alpha female who has possession of a beta. She wins

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Do you think it would have negative impact in the relationship?

[–]JDRoedellMRP APPROVED0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Depends what he wants out of that relationship

[–]Chinchilla_the_HunMarried0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Sounds like the other side of the Negative Assertion coin from WISNIFG. I like it.

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