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Disclaimer: Talked with a old friend that is a girl and this story comes from her... but even then so many red pill truth bombs were dropped.

So my friend Sarah has 2 girls in her department that are so unhappy in their marriages. one is filing for a divorce, and the other one is thinking she might.

Sarah asks what these husbands have done, as Sarah divorced after leaving a husband that beat her. Their answers really pissed her off, but when I explained the logic of it to her through my red pill lens, she was in full agreement.

Both these girls complained that their husbands are not there for them emotionally. They are not romantic. They are not bringing the love and making them feel special.

Hmm - maybe this is a MRP warning siren. Do you think this is because these men have taken the red pill, and have gone monk mode, have adopted the STFU and grin attitude and are out getting busy making friends and doing hobbies?

Nope. The opposite. Both of these ladies then said how hard their men were trying to win them back, with flowers, back rubs and so much attention they are being smothered.

Sarah called the girls out, sharing how bad her husband was, and how they are both so lucky that they have found such nice guys. Their girls admitted that she was right, and that they felt bad that they just couldnt love their nice guy husbands.

But they couldnt just love their nice guy husbands. Could they?

So both admitted they were flirting with other men. The one who wasnt yet getting a divorce wanted to find Mr. Right first - just to be sure.

And these nice guy husbands? Well of course they are to blame for all the anxiety and stress these wives are going through. THey want excitement - love - passion... and these men are not giving it to them.

Maybe a few more apologies and some chocolates will do the trick..


[–]A_Rex 23 points24 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

Don't those idiots know they just need to put on an apron and start feather dusting the place while communicating their feelings about how they can't live without their wives?

[–]jigglydee 10 points11 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Funny you mention that. I notice that every time I try 'help' my wife on some chores she just becomes an arrogant little harpy bitch. If on the other hand, I act like am arsehole, she's the complete opposite.

[–]Persaeus 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol, back in the blue days I can remember feeling bad when wife is on her hands and knees scrubbing the kitchen floor while I watch television. Inevitably she would come in bitching about how she does "everything".

Now I give zero fucks, make comments about how she needs to turn so I can see her ass better all while watching television. No bitching now , just giggles. This shit is amazing.

[–]alphabeta49 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

Agreed, and it helps if I'm handling my own shit. She starts going screechtard about whatever tasks she thinks she can assign me? Bitch, I'm on a whole 'nother level.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

right. marriage is way easier when I get the lawn mowed before she mentions it.

[–]alphabeta49 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I was just talking to my wife about this yesterday. When someone has to mention something, you're already too late. Even if you were on your way to do it. No option but to handle your fucking shit like a man.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

right. My problem is I still have this knee-jerk reaction of trying to save it, so I start to DEER.

I'm just gonna tattoo this on the back of my eyelids

No option but to handle your fucking shit like a man.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Don't forget to do the dishes while you're at it. Nothing activates her animal brain more and makes her wet.

[–]sh0ckley 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Automatic dishwashers were invented by betas.

[–]Sepean 18 points19 points  (33 children) | Copy Link

It's fucking bad out there.

Lots of men openly say their wife is in charge at home.

A woman I know is the type of person that shares everything about herself, and it makes people tell her stuff back. She told me that a lot of her friends couldn't be bothered to fuck their husbands anymore.

At a dinner party I was at last year, a woman proclaimed that husbands just had to accept that while the kids were young there wouldn't be any sex, right in front of her husband and his friends. Emasculated.

[–]redearththeory 18 points19 points  (19 children) | Copy Link

At a dinner party I was at last year, a woman proclaimed that husbands just had to accept that while the kids were young there wouldn't be any sex, right in front of her husband and his friends. Emasculated.

A moment of silence for our fallen brother.

[–]UEMcGill 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Why because he fell on a grenade? I have disdain for him but not sympathy.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

depends. If this was out of the blue for him..... its not even falling on a grenade... he saved no one....

SMH

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (16 children) | Copy Link

My imagination pictures me quietly putting my fork down, walking out the door, and leaving for a few days.

The only winning move is not to play.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (11 children) | Copy Link

and leaving for a few days.

thats all?

I might go longer, or not come back

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (10 children) | Copy Link

Warning shots before the kill brother.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

I don't know if I could do that kind of warning shot without terminal injury... my own weakness

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (8 children) | Copy Link

Maybe, I know from experience, I tend to go numb from these things, not lash outward.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy Link

to clarify - am the same way.. but Im the kind that would only come back to settle affairs and logistics.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Normally, I'd agree. Perfect timing, RPS threw up the 'women are children' post, and it gives a good point to remember.

You have a 13 year old daughter that screams she hates you and runs off. Do you disown her? How is this any different? She needs a spanking, not a kick in the ass IMO.

Of course, if I have better options, and this isn't the isolated shittiness, it may just be the last straw.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

You have a 13 year old daughter that screams she hates you and runs off. Do you disown her? How is this any different? She needs a spanking, not a kick in the ass IMO.

She may be a "child" but she is not MY CHILD... get it?

The difference here is that the 13 yo is having a fucking phase in her life that is new, with new hormones and well, if you raised her right, she SHOULDN't say that without significant consequences.

The analogy is if a 13 yo screamed that she didn't want to be my kid anymore, I would offer her the opportunity. I truly would.

your example is not really equivalent, however. Adult vs an actual CHILD,

Also, remember, they LIKE spanking... some things shouldn't be rewarded

And then again, this may be a weakness on my part in shit owning.

[–]mrpCamper 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

Did I just witness a War Games Quote? Wow!

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Wait until I hit the Zardoz quotes.

[–]mrpCamper 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Zardoz I just googled it and I am baffled that I had never heard of that movie.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Film student college roommate. I know an inordinate amount of movies that no man should know.

[–]Griever114 5 points6 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

It's fucking bad TERRIBLE out there.

FTFY.

The absolute garbage I hear spewing from married women..., hell women in general, is enough to make me want to just say fuck all, move to the forest and build a cabin away from the world.

I laugh my ass off when i share red pill truths to the Mrs. and she cant stop agreeing with me.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

When I told my wife that my brother fucks his wife maybe once every 2 months she said, "He needs to stop being so emotionally available to her."

It boggles my mind that women intuitively understand this stuff, but think it only applies to other women

[–]Griever114 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

100% correct.

They are not stupid. They know what they are doing, even on a subconscious level.

[–]A_Rex 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

This is the trick though. Women will freely and generously drop red pill truths - IF the conversation is about anyone else.

I red pill analyze plenty of other relationships and wife agrees with damn near everything. But don't even think of telling her about Fight Club, or try to drop any red pill shit on her, about her.

[–]hot-breakfast 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

"Women will freely and generously drop red pill truths - IF the conversation is about anyone else."

That is a solid gold protip right there. It actually applies to many biases in all types of people as well.

[–]A_Rex 4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

If you have FB, you'll see a wife from time to time post that meme of "I'm sorry, I have to devote everything I have to being a mother now, I just don't have the time/energy to be that wife you need right now." When I see that, all I can think is "Husband is a ball-less chump."

[–]Stories_of_Red 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

"I'm sorry, I have to devote everything I have to being a mother now, I just don't have the time/energy to be that wife you need right now."

A&A: "No problem, hun, my girlfriend doesn't like sharing."

[–]ZeeyardSA 4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Lots of men openly say their wife is in charge at home.

Its amazing that this is All over the fucking World....All races...All religions....I am South African....I interact with Caucasians, Africans, Indians, Coloureds and this seems to be universal.

When I laugh in these guys faces when they tell me that they have to run something pass the missus or get her permission to buy something I get looked at as if I am Crazy

[–]oldredpillhardmode 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

My friends know by now that when I say, "I have to ask the old lady", that is politely saying, "no".

[–]ZeeyardSA 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

HAHAHAHAHHAH

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

how did he respond???

[–]Stories_of_Red 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

a woman proclaimed that husbands just had to accept that while the kids were young there wouldn't be any sex, right in front of her husband and his friends.

The best response is to simply add to that a deadpan "Yeah, and my girlfriend wants it that way too." /Leave to mix drink

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Those guys should've bought bigger diamonds.

I guarantee that if the women were competing for the men - those women would feel super duper special.

A girl once said to me, "I know he's a player. But imagine if he chooses me. That means I'd be special."

If you're a nobody, you're not gonna be able to make anyone feel special. As a man, you should never NEED anything in life - love, affection, comfort, help, etc. But, when it's given to you - you should always be charming enough to accept those things with grace.

In other words, don't be a tool. (This obviously includes posters who post on mrp, get advice, and act like total entitled cunts.)

[–]Limekill 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Those guys should've bought bigger diamonds.

hahahaha. +1.

[–]redearththeory 10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Good post. Noobs take note.

They are not bringing the love and making them feel special.

Both of these ladies then said how hard their men were trying to win them back, with flowers, back rubs and so much attention they are being smothered.

Attention and emotional availability of a low value man has no value to women. Increase the effort and a low SMV man's value drops further, resulting in zero net progress. The only solution is to increase the value of the man.

Their girls admitted that she was right, and that they felt bad that they just couldnt love their nice guy husbands.

Second important point: women have no idea how any of this works. Don't ask your wife about it or try to explain it to her. Acta non verba.

[–]squirrelcuisine 8 points8 points [recovered] | Copy Link

funny Story, I will call my friend Scott.

Scott was married to a woman that was about a 7/10. She was bipolar type 1 (hospitallized quite a few times. Tough day at work.. boom checks herself into a mental health facility where listening to it being described it sounds like a place where you sit around and they take care of you. Probably a Spa for people who dont want to be out in the world)

Scott is total 100% blue pill. "yes dear ok dear". She spends tons of money they dont have on big name items. Posts on facebook. These two are broke and in ever increasing amounts of debt. Beta Scott complains to friends never gets her to stop. Anyhow. These two get the brilliant idea to start swinging. The idea comes from her (of course). Turns out she has already been looking for "couples" and has a few in mind. (He is telling me all this as it is happening over a period of weeks) So they meet their first couple where he just sits on the side and the guy rails his wife in another room. He sits with the less attractive wife of the guy and she gives him a half hearted blowjob.

He comes back reports how great that was. He would have liked a better partner but whatever. He tells me up and down that he isnt jealous and doesnt care. I believed him too. He was very convincing and I think he had himself convinced too. Well this behavior kept on. multiple couples etc. Kind of the same story over and over again. 3 months later he has had enough. He puts his foot down and said. "We cannot do this anymore"

She fires back "Well if we cant do this anymore I dont want to be married"

they both were serious..

and well a few months later they were divorced.

She said to him. "She can find something better than him." (A guy who was a "nice guy" and worshipped the ground she walked on.)

Fast forward 6 months later.

He is dating a doctor and they are talking about moving into a beach house together (She is paying).

his ex posting pictures with her stupid little dogs, Tons of cleavage and red lipstick.

so the office girls that are getting a divorce because they are bored from their nice husbands are a real thing. I personally wont worry about them. I think they have a VERY rude awakening coming AND if they are like Scott..

They are gonna be JUST fine.. Blue pill or Red. Guys ARE winning this in the older age brackets.

It surprised Red Pill me.. big time.. but even HE kicked life in the ass. He got what she wanted... she got lonely night at home and pathetic facebook cries for help.

This is about the 3rd marriage I watched fall apart like this in my 46 years. All with the same ending. Guys traded up. Red Pill or Blue.. didnt matter.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (13 children) | Copy Link

The guys may have traded up, but did they have kids and get divorce-raped?

And if the doctor lady is paying, she will have no respect for the loser.

Also, trading up without correcting the issues that caused the problem in the first place is like getting new, better tires on your car without fixing the alignment problem that caused the first set of tires to wear out.

[–]squirrelcuisine 2 points2 points [recovered] | Copy Link

in Scott's case he got a better woman so nicer car using your analogy. Ive met her. She is a pretty good match for him and she is someone I actually like.

There were no kids involved with scott.

In the other incidents. The husband got the kids in one case (The mother gave them up, she was another bipolar mess who was a crazy party girl)

The other two cases there were no divorce rape. They settled amicably. Both sides got remarried. my guy friends are on marriage #2 and a lot happier..

(inexplicably I would add how well they did on marriage #2) Ive read that marriage #2 ends in divorce even more frequently but in my circle of friends that is NOT the case. Every last one of them have stayed married now more than 10 years.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

I wasn't suggesting that she was the car.

I was suggesting that he is the car with bad alignment, and putting on new tires, i.e. new woman, would be an immediate fix, but because he hadn't fixed himself (alignment), that the same wear would occur (issues with the woman disrespecting him).

Clear as mud.

Maybe analogies aren't my thing.

[–]alphabeta49 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

I got it, and it makes sense. He'll just carry his problems with him. New girl, same issues.

Unless the divorce woke him up. Which is likely considering he left a nagging screechtard and roped a doctor. He knew he could do better, and finally did it.

I almost recommend blue pill guys go through an awful marriage and get divorced, just so the more hard headed ones learn the lesson.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Hell of a way to learn a lesson; kind of like losing an arm to learn not to reach in to clear the PTO!

[–]alphabeta49 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Some guys are a special brand of faggot.

What's pto?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Power Take Off, the part that puts power to farm tractor attachments, similar to a drive shaft, but exposed. Many a one armed farmer.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EBSwOS90wgQ

For your viewing pleasure.

[–]VickVaseline 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

reach in to clear the PTO

Power Take-Off?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Why is your first thought to instantly disregard any success, and assume he's fucked?

Do you really think he was better off before?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

I wasn't suggesting he was better off before, I was suggesting that if he hasn't fixed whatever (BP) issues he had before, jumping into an new relationship, in all likelihood, will eventually end the same way.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I know the argument, I've had it myself with archinger and the likes.

It's really off scope for this example, and I'm curious why it was the goto response? Not that it's not valid, but why bring it up here?

I get the impression often that it shows peoples attitudes, not by whether it's true or not, but by how they frame stories

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

you projecting?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Possibly, but I don't think so.

Merely saying if he hasn't fixed whatever (BP) issues he has, a new relationship isn't the answer.

[–]spexer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

agreed. if they are still blue pill betas, they will lose the next girl too.

[–]bogeyd6 3 points4 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

Thanks for the obvious blue pill example. This is a reminder to me that divorce is contagious, amongst women and men alike. My office last year went through 4 divorces, one right after the other. Seen roughnecks quit their jobs and follow their girls to save their marriage. Two of them came back when it didnt work out and I gave their jobs back to them.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

When you say roughnecks, I assume you mean in O&G? Man, divorce is rampant in that industry. What I see, however is most of the guys are on the road, running around on their wives. I know they make a lot of money so what is it that causes the women to want divorces? Assuming he isn't running around, is it because he's never home?

[–]bogeyd6 2 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

You work in the fields?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

I do. In pipeline. Basically I run into 3 types of guys:

  1. The "don't ever get married, women are evil and will take half your shit" once or twice divorced type of guys.

  2. Married and happy to the same woman for 35 years

  3. Young guys that make a shit ton of money, will probably never marry and pull any piece of pussy available in those po dunk towns while those women's husbands are out on a job somewhere else

[–]bogeyd6 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

I have seen more of #3 than I have ever in my life seen of #2. Usually those are guys living local to their jobs and spend more time at home.

My guess as to why most get divorced in my line of work has to do with being gone. First, these women are about the lowest quality women you can find, and thems rental miles on her. Usually doing drugs, alcoholics, or local women who finally latched onto that pay check. They never wanted the guy, they wanted a ticket out of their backwater. Then I would assume said guy spends 90 days around other men, goes home and forgets how to act at home. Blowing comfort tests and treating their women like dirt. Beta orbiter shows up sometime later, and divorce spreads like wildfire. The worst thing that I have ever witnessed was when Eagleville start expanding and new crews showed up. Many guys were rotated to duty and suddenly a bunch of young single men show up and lonely house wives who had nothing else to do. Put two and two together.

[–]Chiveronreddit2 points [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

Man I have literally seen women come out to the ROW half naked when they see a new group of welders show up. As for the #2 type of guy, yes they are very few and far between.

I do know what you mean though sometimes it takes me a little time to learn how to be home again and not act like a complete degenerate around my wife. Hoping I can end up like guy #2 although it doesnt seem likely. Really just hope I wont be on the road for the rest of my life : /

[–]bogeyd6 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The only secret I can say after 15 years is just remember that it's the time you have together not the time apart that matters. If you are pipe fitting you are going to be on the road forever until you move into another position.

[–]anythinginc 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Like you said, they make a lot of money, the wives suffer through the two weeks off so they can live flush and single the two weeks on. When the jobs inevitably dry up for awhile and the guy is home indefinitely not making any money the bitch is gone.

Incidentally, if you know anybody waiting on the jobs to come back this time, they aren't. Slant drilling means that instead of needing crews for eight wells you just need a crew for one. That means they only need an eighth of the jobs. The game has changed. Though if you have directional experience you're staying hired and getting rich.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Pipeline has been drying up for the past year or so a couple of years as well. I see a lot of work going towards facilities. Plenty of old ass plants that need integrity work

[–]Chump_No_More 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Not surprised.

Michelle Langley describes the lead up and the aftermath, in 'Woman's Infidelity II'.

Puts the blame squarely on women and fem-centric society. Although she's not red pilled, she has a good understanding of evo-pysch and how women are wired.

Money shot...

All women want is a man who will stand up to them.

Describes in detail why women get pissed when husband doubles down on the Beta.

Quick and worthy read, IMO.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

u/squirrelcuisine had indicated that his friend Scott was totally Blue Pill.

This is a MRP forum.

I was suggesting that if Scott doesn't fix the initial problem (BP), then whether the new girlfriend is a doctor or not, history will in all likelihood, repeat itself.

I've been off the sub for a couple months, so if I've put this in the wrong place, or spoken out of turn please let me know.

[–]spexer[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

I agree with your assessment - if they don't fix their bluepill beta behavior, then these traits will cost them the next relationship as well.

We teach people how to treat us, right?

However, you lose points by asking if you spoke out of turn- pussy.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

However, you lose points by asking if you spoke out of turn- pussy.

I deserved that.

I prefer the term pansie, but a pansie by any other name would smell as faggy ~ Shakepeare

[–]plein_old 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Nope. The opposite.

lol. wow.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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