One of the first things new guys and old alike will here as advice is: STFU.

But since we have a group of Rambo Red guys on here, I think we need to discuss what this means.

Warning : rant

WHY do we say STFU?

She has ceased to earn your time, and attention – why should she have your words of validation- you know, your impotent anger. You are not feared, or appreciated. You are not special. You can be replaced. You are not attractive yet. So shut the fuck up, because your rage, anger, rules, and boundaries are meaningless and ineffectual.

Also, you are much more likely to give her hamster food that, really, comes on; you know she already barely tolerates you.

TRP says “remember, you are the prize”

Around here, most do not come in as “the prize”. Chances are, you are an entitled, weak minded faggot who only wants mom to open her legs for him because he needs the validation. Or, you know, since you can’t get a woman who knows you interested in fucking you, you go out and get some girl who doesn’t know you well enough to be disgusted by you, and you rape her,trick her, fool her into fucking you.

Go lift, go unfuck your life, own your shit, get you head right, stop fapping, stop asking for validation, be more than your paycheck, and then , when you have some value, you can try out the AA/AM and see how you do. Chances are, right now, you will do it badly, come off like an aspie retard , or get pulled into a fight you can’t win because you are a faggot.

What does it mean to shut the fuck up?

Ideally, you DO NOT literally not say anything at all.

You need to shut up about your feelings, demands, reasons, excuses, rights, entitlements and so on.

You NEED to maintain a range of usual civic CIVIL ( because I totes forgot English for a second) banter. You should ideally not let her get tipped off that you are “doing something” or “going through a process”, worse yet that you are “upset”.

The use of usual daily conversation keeps you from filling her head with more reasons to feel that you are a worthless POS male. Don’t worry; she has enough reasons to think this without your overt assistance.

There will be times when she does something so gut wrenchingly fucked up, especially as you are reading all about the reality in which you live, and other men’s stories, that you will not be able to help yourself. It’s ok. This is when you say nothing. Nothing at all. Breathe deep and walk away. Go for a drive, a walk, or go fishing. Whatever. She will likely test your shit when you come back. She will either do this overtly or will play games with the “silent treatment”. This is all BS, based on your failure to lead in the past. Understand this, smile, and give her whatever answer you want. You went for a walk. You went to the moon. You went to an alternate reality and saved the world, but got back in time for dinner, and speaking of which, where’s your steak?

You don’t really owe her an explanation—that is, unless you fucked up and did not do something important when you walked away. Even then, you do not owe her an explanation.

Feel free to engage with her, feel free to live your life, unencumbered by her voice in your ear telling you that you should really FIX how SHE feels. Feel free to treat her like the girl you met those years ago, or the girl you met down the block when you went for a walk. You know, the one who doesn’t know you are a faggot.

Thanks for reading.

Now go lift something.