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Gentlemen, This is a re-post of one my favorite topics and the top post from my old account (trainingthebrain - now deleted) which became the top MRP post to date. (humblebrag)

I rewrote the post for our new users, added images, and edited the verbiage to improve the piece for further review and discussion.

You can find the entire article at The Family Alpha: http://thefamilyalpha.com/2015/11/17/10-ways-to-keep-your-wife-on-her-toes/

If you are reading The Family Alpha then you are with a Woman who is either your wife or Long Term Relationship (which I view to be over 1 year) girlfriend. When it comes to daily interactions with the same person the possibility of complacency is amplified. This is simply human nature, the more you’re exposed to a stress the more you adapt to it, and ultimately becoming desensitized (i.e numb to it).

I was on Reddit and I came across a comment that put the mental gears in motion. One of the users on the Red Pill subreddit said, “However loyal, faithful, and dependable you may have been — I have no doubt you were a great father and provider – but after 19 years of daily companionship, your attention is valueless to her.” – RP

This sent my mind down the rabbit hole. I’ve been with my wife since we were 16, I’m 28 now. We’ve been together for 12 years and have been married for 7 of them. How is it that I am having porn star sex daily, getting unsolicited blowjobs, and am still having fun with my wife?

I went through the actions I’ve taken to keep her on her toes and am going to share them here with the hope that some of these actions may be applicable to your situation.

I will provide 10 steps I’ve taken and I encourage any and every Man who comes across this blog to share what you do to keep your wife’s Fire of Tingles from going out.

Before I share my 10 actions and let you see inside the world of Hunter Drew’s marriage, I want to reiterate something to you: Women do NOT Love you the way you love them. You may be content with your lady just the way she is all the way until death comes knocking on your door — She won’t. You must understand that it is squarely on your shoulders, as the man, to keep the relationship going…

As men we are the more romantic of the sexes and it only makes sense that the burden of keeping the Fire of Tingles (it sounds gay, but you know what I’m talking about – getting the juices flowing, her heart pounding, her hands unconsciously touching herself) alive lands on our shoulders. Do not be discouraged by this, women are simply acting in accordance with their nature. As Masculine Men we embrace the challenge and find comfort in the discomfort of knowing society is against us and our success.

Fortunately, we don’t give a single fuck and we will act in the manner that Men act, whether that’s viewed as acceptable or not, again -we do not care. Our successful Marriage will speak for itself, fuck the approval from the majority.

This list is something you can take and apply today in your marriage. I hope others contribute so we have a thread of ideas that will keep marriages from getting stagnant for years to come.

Keep what you think will work, disregard the rest.

Read the entire article at The Family Alpha: http://thefamilyalpha.com/2015/11/17/10-ways-to-keep-your-wife-on-her-toes/


[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

I think [Deleted] put it better.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

I didn't provide the list (I know-I know), I wanted guys to view the post the way I wanted it to be viewed, not via reddit formatting.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

lol, I was just poking fun at your former form... All the rest was inside your head

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

As I posted I had a bit of a complex as I hate when guys who write don't give their reader incentive to do what they are asking (view their site). But I wanted the photos to go with the words and present it in that manner - so yes - you knew I had this complex and brought it forward with a very succinct comment - well played.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

I have issues with the same thing.

So many things I want to post about, but having to keep the one rule in mind. No one wants to hear me talk, they want to know what's in it for them...

Otherwise it's just twitter, right?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

I tried twitter and every now and again I'll still drop a line - but I don't get it/am too old/or don't give enough fucks

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

I didn't until I read /u/abdadas blog post on 'we are all drug dealers'

Now it makes perfect sense. Like restaurants, having sexy girls outside chatting you up to come in for food, or a drug dealer offering you first sample for free.

With just enough Arab spring, so you can brag at parties how you're part of the world changing group, and posting on gamergate means you're right up there with the guy in tunisia who lit himself on fire. real feelgoods.

Illimitable man, Cerovich and Rollo are often in there, offering free samples that brings more traffic to their blogs, and eventually their exclusive Patreon forums, kickstarters, and book sales. Gaylubeoil is in there getting media exposure, because he's an 'influential' trump supporter, in order to troll Samantha Bee. Roosh is driving him so much hate, because all attention is good attention.

Hell, imagine if your posts, with viewership no larger than this subreddit, would get national exposure... That's what twitter offers IMO...

The ability to sound more important than you are, and bring people over to the store if they like what they see

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

absolutely, I read their shit more than write my own. Also, that post by abdada is a great read

[–]MRPCowboy 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy Link

This is very well done. I hunted the few pet peeves I that stuck with me from when I last read the article and I'm quite pleased with the direction of your improvements. Your blog is great.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

I try to improve with each post, with this I went back and fixed my earlier writing. Glad you like it, would be more glad if you offered me some advice I may not be thinking of.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

These are so well done as always. If only you weren't married already, then I could drop ship my oldest daughter to you. Lol.

The Lewis Carroll imagery is effective and captures the transformative power of what you're doing.

"It's no use going back to yesterday, I was a different person then."

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Dude, you hit a point deeper than you can imagine.

That quote is incredibly powerful and if a man were to give it the attention it deserves a lot of understanding of 'self' could be obtained.

[–]Chump_No_MoreHard Core Nuclear Navy Red0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes. Similarly, that anger we feel from unplugging is often directed towards ourselves... it's very hard to forgive that BP chump.

I got to other side by telling myself, "That person, that blissfully ignorant chump no longer exists... He's dead & buried"

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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