Gentlemen, This is a re-post of one my favorite topics and the top post from my old account (trainingthebrain - now deleted) which became the top MRP post to date. (humblebrag)
I rewrote the post for our new users, added images, and edited the verbiage to improve the piece for further review and discussion.
You can find the entire article at The Family Alpha: http://thefamilyalpha.com/2015/11/17/10-ways-to-keep-your-wife-on-her-toes/
If you are reading The Family Alpha then you are with a Woman who is either your wife or Long Term Relationship (which I view to be over 1 year) girlfriend. When it comes to daily interactions with the same person the possibility of complacency is amplified. This is simply human nature, the more you’re exposed to a stress the more you adapt to it, and ultimately becoming desensitized (i.e numb to it).
I was on Reddit and I came across a comment that put the mental gears in motion. One of the users on the Red Pill subreddit said, “However loyal, faithful, and dependable you may have been — I have no doubt you were a great father and provider – but after 19 years of daily companionship, your attention is valueless to her.” – RP
This sent my mind down the rabbit hole. I’ve been with my wife since we were 16, I’m 28 now. We’ve been together for 12 years and have been married for 7 of them. How is it that I am having porn star sex daily, getting unsolicited blowjobs, and am still having fun with my wife?
I went through the actions I’ve taken to keep her on her toes and am going to share them here with the hope that some of these actions may be applicable to your situation.
I will provide 10 steps I’ve taken and I encourage any and every Man who comes across this blog to share what you do to keep your wife’s Fire of Tingles from going out.
Before I share my 10 actions and let you see inside the world of Hunter Drew’s marriage, I want to reiterate something to you: Women do NOT Love you the way you love them. You may be content with your lady just the way she is all the way until death comes knocking on your door — She won’t. You must understand that it is squarely on your shoulders, as the man, to keep the relationship going…
As men we are the more romantic of the sexes and it only makes sense that the burden of keeping the Fire of Tingles (it sounds gay, but you know what I’m talking about – getting the juices flowing, her heart pounding, her hands unconsciously touching herself) alive lands on our shoulders. Do not be discouraged by this, women are simply acting in accordance with their nature. As Masculine Men we embrace the challenge and find comfort in the discomfort of knowing society is against us and our success.
Fortunately, we don’t give a single fuck and we will act in the manner that Men act, whether that’s viewed as acceptable or not, again -we do not care. Our successful Marriage will speak for itself, fuck the approval from the majority.
This list is something you can take and apply today in your marriage. I hope others contribute so we have a thread of ideas that will keep marriages from getting stagnant for years to come.
Keep what you think will work, disregard the rest.
Read the entire article at The Family Alpha: http://thefamilyalpha.com/2015/11/17/10-ways-to-keep-your-wife-on-her-toes/
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