There was a post recently asking if woman still doll up for their man. From the OP it became clear that some men expect their wife or LTR to step up regarding their looks, but are not willing to do so themselves. This got me thinking what is the difference between the above statement. Seeing that it is the number 1 rule of MRP, lets break it down.

Be attractive To be attractive is a physical thing, it has to do with your looks.

• Be fit and muscular. You should aim for 10% bodyfat, but not more than 15%
• Wear clothes that fit your frame and is as stylish and nice as you can afford that fits the situation. What I mean is don't wear your washed out track suit at home. Wifebeaters is for the gym only, if even that. There is a lot of tips on style if you look around.
• Be well groomed. Remove those hairs in your ears and trim your eyebrows. You can't reasonably expect your wife to tweeze her bikini line if your unibrow is a mustache for your eyes.
• Smell nice. At the very least remember your deodorant. Sweat and tobacco smoke is so 1955.
• Polish your shoes. And for fucks sake, use some foot powder.
• Treat every day as if it is a first date, and dress to impress.

Don't be unattractive This has to do with your personality and demeanor. This is actually the crux of being a better man. Of being a red pill man.

• Don't be clingy. Women can't stand a man who is clingy and needy.
• Don't be that man that she needs to whine at to get shit done. Women want shit to magically be perfect. Your job as the man of the house is to make sure your house is ship shape.
• Don't be boring. Have a hobby. Have friends that add value to your life. Have something to do if you get a hard no.
• Don't be weak. Woman want to know you are a rock. You can't complain to her if you feel ill. You don't tell her about shit at work, or if you are feeling depressed. You only tell her that whatever happens you got your shit together and then you show her that.
• Don't entertain her emotions. She needs to know that you are her captain. You will lead her.

There is a shitload of posts that handle each and everyone of these statements in more detail. Look it up, read the blogposts of the MODS. Read the sidebar and lift.

But know the difference between what is attractive, and what is unattractive. You need to get them both right.