Wow, where to begin.

Context

I got married very young (just turned 21) to an overweight oneitis. First serious girlfriend, first sex for either of us. Had no idea what I was doing. The first when you are in love is like it always is. You'll do anything for each other. You say I love you and have it said hundreds of times. But after a decade and a half and two kids you find things out.

I won't paint her as the bad guy but one day I woke up in my mid 30's and saw that she had done nothing but gain weight. I did the RP stuff. I dressed better. Bought a nice ass car and motorcycle. Got a better haircut. Hit the gym until I was cut with abs. Started flirting. Kept a good job. Flaunted my achievements when I could.

Gentlemen to say that none of that mattered to her would be a huge understatement. She got fatter. She hit 300 and is still pretty much right there. She told me she only really needed sex from me once a week, maybe every two. She disrespected me at every turn.

I had told myself I was gonna cheat before. It seemed like my only option and that I would just cheat with a married woman and get my jollies and I could deal with this bullshit. I could deal with the once a week sex from her for 15 mins and the disrespect. But after I found a girl 6 years her junior and over 100 pounds lighter there was no going back.

Now before you ask she is not my new oneitis. I care for her and I've dabbled and that's all I'll say on that. But she is fantastic in bed and super submissive and basically everything I've wanted that my wife didn't care to be.

So one day my wife finds, let's say, some evidence. I cop to everything but sleeping with this girl. Cue the hysterical bonding. Suddenly my wife is sending me nudes, asking for a threesome with another girl, doing things in bed and asking for things in bed that she hated before. Suddenly she not only is ok with them, she WANTS them. You would think this would make me happy or at least not unhappy. But it pissed me off. 16 years and it took me on my way out the door to get her to do any of this. Suddenly she respects me, doesn't care if I change careers. Asks my opinion on everything. But like I said, I was pissed.

So finally I told her it was over that I'd get the lawyer set up and we'd dissolve this. Should have done this first I know.

Here's the funny thing. She's still been asking for sex. She's been on Match.com ever since I told her it was over over. She's talked to a few guys and she cops a week ago that a guy she sent a picture to asked her to have sex with him. Long story short she meets him "for drinks" on Friday and within the space of an hour after meeting him she's fucking him. I didn't really care except that it just confirmed the final redpill truths. She thinks he's a total tool and he doesn't things that are unattractive like drink too much. But she goes to the town he's in to "go shopping" knowing she's going to bang him but hamsters it away. Here's the funny part. He doesn't call or text her for 3 days after that. She's irate. Tells me well it was a one night stand and she needed it to get over me. Good I tell her. But she's pecking out page long nasty texts to him all day about why he used her and dumped her. I mean she's 40 with two kids and a good 150 pounds overweight. He was pretty desperate in my opinion but so was I. But she feels good about herself she tells me and she'll do it again. If she can.