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The Family Alpha was created by me for married men who are looking to reclaim or maintain their masculinity and status as an ‘Alpha’ male while being married in our weaksauce society and under the conditions of Marriage 2.0. I never have the intention of providing advice that will lead men to imploding their marriage, but this post covers a topic, that if not properly understood and taken on by masculine men, could do exactly that.

Once you ‘unleash the beast’ that is your wife’s inner whore, I don’t know if there is any way to turn it off. As you open her mind to getting that kind of attention from you, having her freely expressing her sexual desires and fantasies, and getting her to being DTF whenever, wherever, and however you have eliminated the possibility of things ever going back to how they used to be. You will never again be allowed to return to your ‘bluepill’ ways as she simply won’t allow it. If you pull the feminine energy and vitality that is your wife from the deepest parts of what makes her ‘tick’ it is now your responsibility to be the man who is leading her and setting the standard from which all other men will be measured, forever.

As long as you remain on point, things will be fine and you will have the exact sex life you want. But if you slip back to your old ways she is going to turn to a man who will satisfy this new craving that you have created. Once she has that taste and feels that it’s ok to let loose, she will desire raw masculine power and want to get tossed around and physically satisfied.

I had a discussion with one of the moderators about whether a woman gets turned on by men or whether she is always ‘horny’ the way men are. We pondered whether they feel that way yet only show it when around true masculine energy. It’s an interesting concept and one that I am finding more and more likely as I talk with guys and examine my wife. It seems that they like sex just as much as we do and whereas I used to think they used it only as a tool for securing a high value man or provider (or in some cases gifts/money) it seems to be more probable that when they are around a ‘real’ masculine man(alpha), they want to fuck him just as much as he wants to fuck her.

In marriage it’s not so much so that she can gain something or secure him, as she already has him, but rather because her feminine energy is pulled to that masculine energy and she knows that around this manly man, she can be her pure feminine self, to include being horny & sexually open.

It is up to you, the masculine man in the relationship to create an environment that allows your woman to be her dirty, slutty, nasty self. You know exactly what I mean, no man wants to marry or date a whore, but every man wants his wife to perform like one. He wants her to be his little slut and do all the things he has seen in porn, thought up in his mind, and desired in secret for too long. Married men not only want her perform these acts, but more importantly they want her to actually WANT to do these things to her man.

The amount of effort required to achieve this standard in your marriage varies on the type of relationship you currently have. This is The Family Alpha, so I’m going to cater my message to the married man. Keeping that in mind, there are some aspects of this post that can be used on LTRs and girlfriends. It’s actually much easier to do this with LTRs(0-2 years) and Girlfriends because you don’t have that long term bond/knowledge of one another.

Where a married man may try and get anal for the first time from his wife after 5 years of marriage, a dude with a girlfriend can try it on week 2, or in a LTR after 4 months of ‘dating’. The major difference is that the girlfriend may think he has always been like this and just waited to tell her. The wife on the other hand, she has to face the fact that this is either her husband wanting something new that he saw or heard about somewhere, or he is changing, which is something women do not like.

Another quick warning, prior to getting into the actual How To: Your Mileage May Vary

Your wife is different than mine and she is different than your buddies. AWALT still applies, yet differently. You must cater your approach to what will work best for your wife.

Another point I want to get out of the way before we get too deep is that your wife is capable of being your slut. Remove the idea that my wife just isn’t into any of that. She certainly has it in her. Whether she was your slut before you got complacent as a man or maybe you’re trying to get it out of her for the first time, it makes no difference in what elements are needed to get the slut out of her.

The steps you have to take are the same.

Full Article: http://thefamilyalpha.com/2015/12/30/creating-your-slut/


[–]MRPguy 3 points4 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Brilliant article. Thanks. By the way, you'd better write a book because I find your stuff just as excellent as Rollo's.

From your article:

Myself, along with two or three other guys on the Married Red Pill subreddit believe that all blame and responsibility lays with the husband

I don't believe this. I think many (most?) of us believe this to be true. I think it's a sign of truly swallowing the pill, and if we were to take a poll and plot results we would see that time since swallowing the pill has a direct relation towards below icon that the Man holds all responsibility for past & future successes & failures.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

You may be correct, it's been my experience that when I say it is the dude's fault, I'll receive several comments countering that point saying that the wife needed to improve.

You're right though, it's on the man and that is something that really needs to be understood.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

damned right.

Sure, she needs to improve, what are you doing to facilitate that? It all comes back to doing your part to achieve your goals.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

what are you doing to facilitate that?

Precisely, women talk, men do. Don't complain about shit, just fix it.

[–]IASGame 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is closer to my stance: it is NOT all the husband fault, but it doesn't matter, as the husband can only change his own behavior.

You can't be responsible for someone else's happiness. Some marriages won't be salvageable and despite AWALT, not all women are equal.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I find your stuff just as excellent as Rollo's.

Agreed, I've enjoyed the "Family Alpha" blog so far. There's a lot of great (and frequent) content that's really on point.

[–]0io- 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Great article, Hunter!

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks, hopefully it helps to improve the vanilla sex that has become the norm in many marriages.

[–]Redneck001 1 point2 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

Remove the idea that my wife just isn’t into any of that.

Yep.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

Too many dudes are sitting on a sexual goddess letting her talents waste away.

[–]MRPguy 3 points4 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Because it's much easier to rationalize "my wife just isn't into that" instead of internalizing the truth which is "my wife isn't into ME."

Guys will kick and fight against that principle all day long. Half the posts on askmrp would never be posted if the posters would understand that their wives actually want to have hot sex multiple times each day...but not with them because they aren't being Kings and ruling over their kingdoms.

A woman's solipsism says she is the most important thing in the world and she doesn't request a King, she simply expects it. Her way of covertly communicating this is by NOT having sex with her husband and by FEIGNING disinterest in sex.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Because it's much easier to rationalize "my wife just isn't into that" instead of internalizing the truth which is "my wife isn't into ME."

Solid points, especially the part I quoted which is the perfect example of exactly why we all need to kill the ego.

[–]tracknautoxm3 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

I've tried to get my wife to do more adventurous things before but she would always resist or only do it for a few minutes. After MRP, I am being more dominant but it is still tough to get her to be less inhibited. My previous GF's and plate, I didn't have to try so hard. They just did it.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I didn't have to try so hard. They just did it.

Exactly my point, it is more Difficult, MRP = TRP On Hard Mode

It's why I wrote, "The amount of effort required to achieve this standard in your marriage varies on the type of relationship you currently have. This is The Family Alpha, so I’m going to cater my message to the married man. Keeping that in mind, there are some aspects of this post that can be used on LTRs and girlfriends. It’s actually much easier to do this with LTRs(0-2 years) and Girlfriends because you don’t have that long term bond/knowledge of one another. Where a married man may try and get anal for the first time from his wife after 5 years of marriage, a dude with a girlfriend can try it on week 2, or in a LTR after 4 months of ‘dating’. The major difference is that the girlfriend may think he has always been like this and just waited to tell her. The wife on the other hand, she has to face the fact that this is either her husband wanting something new that he saw or heard about somewhere, or he is changing, which is something women do not like."

[–]tracknautoxm3 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Funny thing is, when we first started dating she wasn't too adventurous as well. I just thought i could change her but after so many years (3 dating, 12 married) and kids I just accepted it until MRP.

[–]MRPguy 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yep, and if you do further introspection you'll find other things that you've just accepted because they've become habitual and comfortable. Dad bod? Fuck that, it isn't right. Shitty job? Screw it, you don't have to settle. Etc.

[–]tracknautoxm3 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Actually, I got lean and jacked 2 years ago thinking it will help out. since this was before mrp, i know now it was a covert contract. Career is great too. Only thing that is lacking is porn star sex.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Guys all say this from a position of ignorance. They've never really tried to get that out of their wife...and repeat "my wife isn't/doesn't like that" so many times they convince themselves it's true. I convinced myself mine wasnt like that...til I started biting her neck and saw her going wild, using toys and her asking for them, and making her squirt and then see her try to in the future. The difference is you being the type of man that deserves that from her. If I tried biting her neck as a beta she would ask "what are you doing?"

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[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

It's hard to comprehend, but you need to make yourself the other guy as well. I have never and will never share my wife. But I've seen many MFM pornos and because of that I tackled the issue.

She never brought it up, but because I saw it in a porno I figured it had crossed her mind. So, I took the route of being proactive vice reactive and I bought her a dildo/vibrator and had her use it in her pussy (all the way in with it on full 'vibrate') while I fucked her in the ass.

It gave the sensation of all holes being filled (she grabbed my hand and was sucking my fingers while this happened) so I was able to give her that pleasure without another man being involved.

She never asked for a MFM scenario, I just preemptively made the call, told her how I wanted her to use the toy and it was fucking amazing.

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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Im not ignoring you dude, this was a great question and I'm still pondering...

[–]Brambull 1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

MRP apprentice, so take this with a grain of salt.

I'm going to assume that the question has been asked, the wife comes to the husband and says "I want an MFM, I've fantasized about it, and I'd like to try it".

Assuming you aren't interested in being a cuckold, I think the way to play this is to start with A/A to call her bluff and see how serious she is. "Sounds great, anyone in mind?". If she coughs up a name anytime during the next couple of days, you have a separate problem (she wants to bone the dude she mentioned). If that's the case, see below.

Otherwise, if like most women, she backs off and looks off balance, then the approach TrainingTheBrain suggests is best. Be the other dude (with props) and fucking own it. Make your mastery of the sexual encounter so strong and dominating that the fantasy changes to "holy shit, I love it when my man owns me, no matter what is going on in my head".

If she suggested a name, or has someone in mind, then I'd go to hard dread. "I am willing to work with your fantasy in a way that I know would satisfy, but since you are clearly interested in actually bringing another man into this relationship you should know that I don't condone it, I won't accept it, and you'll be asking your next SO for a threesome before I ever agree".

Then, be prepared for hard truths.. either she walks, or you have to double down your efforts to be the captain and sex god, with a sharper eye on her behavior.

My thoughts, worth what you paid for them.

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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

the problem isn't that the wife is manipulative, but that she puts forward an impossible desire (by our volition, not her own initially), which strikes right at the core of a stable redpill marriage.

This is a solid breakdown.

To answer your question, if my wife said she wanted to have a threesome with another dude, I would clearly draw the boundary that it would never happen. If she wanted another dick then she was more than welcome to find one and I would introduce her to a few of my friends, but that she would be signing the papers before she saw them.

I wouldn't probe if she had names in mind as I wouldn't care, I'd just say nope. Similar to if she asked me to do butt stuff. I fuck her in the ass, mine isn't open for that type of shit if she has a problem, oh well.

I'd also consider opening the floor up a little to the prospect of her just wanting more. Maybe a MFM is her fantasy, or maybe just having double the masculinity would satisfy that internal desire. Give it to her harder and in a more 'intense' manner may help. Other than that, you just have to recognize that she thinks that a threesome would be fun and it's a fantasy she'll never live out. Much like me fucking Shakira....

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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm not sure what you meant by this?

What I meant was if a man has been able to get his wife to share that she wanted an MFM, then he seems to have gotten to the point where she will share whatever it is she is into.

After shutting the MFM down it is key to keep the dialogue open. If a wife is up to get spit roasted then she is probably up for other 'kinkier' shit as well. This is where, without telling her, the husband just 'becomes' (he's always had it in him) more dominant and instead of making love, he takes his woman.

Some wive's want to be tied up and treated like a whore. Some wives want a MFM. Others crave spanking and choking.

While I would never entertain the MFM scenario, I wouldn't make it a thing I would just say nope and move to the next subject. You don't want to shut her down and make her feel embarrassed that she opened up to you and you flipped the fuck out. She wants more from your sex life, so as the masculine husband, you need to find another one of her kinks and satisfy that need.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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