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4 Reasons You Suck at Inviting Girls Out on Dates (self.TRPOffTopic)

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[–]Haptic_Affinity2 points3 points  (17 children) | Copy Link

The concepts behind 3 and 4 are incredibly accurate.

The suggested tactics are classic PUA stuff that's overdone, but still works better than completely ignoring said concepts.

The advice on #3: AMUSE YOURSELF! is some of the best advice you can get, regarding dates, sex, women, hell, even life.

[–]Nieben 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I made it a little motto: Have fun to be fun.

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social proof, makes all PUA stuff powerless. Given a choice between entertaining a high value man and being entertained, no woman will choose the latter.

If you are in control of your life and you are not having fun why the fuck would you even waste time on a average cunt, not to mention entertaining her and jumping trough hoops.

[–]Haptic_Affinity1 point2 points  (14 children) | Copy Link

you're interpreting it completely different than I.

If your default is "being boring" as he calls it, I'm sorry but you're gonna have to fucking change. It's not for her, it's for your own damn self.

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[–]Haptic_Affinity0 points1 point  (12 children) | Copy Link

and that's relevant how?

this article isn't tailored to the ordinary asshole.

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[–]RojoEscarlata 0 points1 point  (10 children) | Copy Link

The concept is called amused mastery, and you might be miss interpreting it, is not about being amusing for others (or even your self), but being able to amuse yourself or find amusement without external input/validation/etc.

Is a key part of what constitutes what we know as frame.

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[–]RojoEscarlata 0 points1 point  (8 children) | Copy Link

You seem to still not being able to understand the simple concept of not needing external validation, and it's essentially inner game, status is another very different thing and much closely related to SV than inner game.

But reading your previous comments on this chain and with your overall condescending tone I know you'll dismiss this response as it not fits exactly like YOU think.

I'm just responding for the sake of the reader, but please spare me the annoyance of reading your comment and repeating my self.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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