Discovered TRP as many others have after reading about how horrible it was in the opinion of neckbeards in a major subreddit somewhere.

I was at a low point as my girlfriend of 1 year, my longest relationship at 32 dumped my ass after about 6 weeks of things being sour. I read the sidebar, lurked, opened myself up to that point of view but it took me about 6 months to start applying it.

I was in neckbeard shape, about 50+ lbs overweight between being lazy, eating shit and working swings and doubles and in the end was giving half assed dick. It was my fault, though I'm more than happy she's gone now.

With a primal diet starting in Feb 2014 and beginning with one day a week of light, at home exercise, I worked my way to being a 4 time per week 2-3 hour gym rat. 15 years of damage don't come off overnight but I've lost 35 lbs., have upgraded from neckbeard to a dad bod with nice arms and shoulders and the future looks very bright.

HB3-5s overtly smile and make fuck eyes with me at the gym and with the the stuff I've learned about frame, game and not letting people fuck with you, I've come a long, long way. My boss asked me if I was on steroids, not because of aggression, just the rapid gain in appearance in the last four months.

Anyways, the reason I'm writing this today. Confidence rocks. After a 15 hour day at the office, I stop next door for a beer. A couple of gangbangers on my left, nobody to the right. Sit, enjoy a tall Shandy and watch some baseball.

A blonde HB9 and her brunette HB8 friend come in and take over the bar. They grab the empty seats next to me, pay me no mind as every guy in the bar comes up to "pay tribute". I ignore them and watch the Yankees-Angels game.

The blonde after two minutes grabs my ashtray and passes it to the brunette while my smokes are prominently displayed. A few months ago, I would have done nothing. I confidently pull it back. I then light a smoke. The two girls do so ten seconds later.

I slide it over a bit and say " It's OK, my parents taught me to share.". Have a little kino with the blonde while tipping our cigarettes and she jokes about how I can just get her hand out of the way by burning her arm. Bartender fills my second and last round, grabs my check. 6 orbiters have been by in the past three minutes, fawning over them, buying them shots, etc.

The bartender is a total bro and one orbiter says to get the brunette whatever beer the blonde wants. He says "be specific, one of these beers is $42.". I ask if it comes with a blowjob, the blonde hits me on the arm and says " Yes, but from him(pointing to the guy who bought her a round)."

Leave on a high note. We playfully started for another 3 minutes while I bary had my eyes on her, finished my drink, closed the tab. She asked my name on the way out, I got hers and I said "Maybe I'll see you around sometime.".

About 12 men approached her, and a slightly smarter 6 or 7, her friend in that 20 minutes. I had her attention by wanting to just watch a ballgame, enjoy my drink, but not be so much of a stiff not to be a good host to my seatmate.

It's a small city and I've never been to that bar. Plant a small seed, maybe you can come back later and fuck that seed. Regardless of the result, the pasty, still overweight guy set himself apart and I'll never be blown out by a HB4 again.