I just discovered TRP last year and have been actively working to incorporate some of the lessons other men have experienced, and now I’m on here today to share a recent experience of mine.
I’m 44 and have been dating a single mom who’s 38. We agreed (and talked about this at length) that we would not see other people and that we were sexually exclusive. She agreed to this, and since we both work two jobs, there’s not a lot of time in our schedules for dating other people.
Well, it turns out that I discovered that she is dating other people, but this time, as opposed to becoming emotionally compromised, I confronted her and asked her what is going on.
She told me “We’re sexually exclusive, but she still let’s men take her out to lunch and buy her stuff.”
The main reason for posting is to let other men know that time and time again, this is the norm of how women view men. There’s no animosity in this behavior, it’s just a matter of realizing that I’m just one of many resources she has at her disposal.
Now, I only put this in here for anecdotal purposes, but I had convinced myself that all the mind-blowing sex we had every time we’ve been together would of tamed any of her branch-swinging habits. And again, it wasn’t her telling me it was the best she’s ever had, it was her multiple leg-shaking orgasms over the hours of marathon sex. I mean, if she’s being thoroughly sexually satisfied, that should be enough, right? Wrong.
Women are opportunist at any age and just because you can sexually fulfil a woman, has no bearing on how she views you. I have been pleased with myself on how I’ve handed dealing with this discovery--and I think it would have been in a completely different mindset if it wasn’t for TRP.
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