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One month in…Dead Bedroom is turning around (self.ThankTRP)

submitted by easyonthebacon

I'm one month in since swallowing the red pill. I've been in a dead bedroom longer than I care to admit. I started out very alpha in my relationship with my wife. I slipped into Beta slowly over time. I finally snapped internally about a month ago regarding the lack of sex. I found TRP through the Dead Bedroom sub. I'm glad I did. I now recognize the man (or lack thereof) that I have become. I will no longer allow my wife to lead. I will lead our family going forward. I will be the man that God intended me to be.

Already, the changes I've made have increased our frequency of sex. She's even going to the gym with me and shedding the many pounds that she has added over the years.

I have a long way to go, but TRP has allowed me to be the leader of my household again.

Thanks TRP!


[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Good for you.

Don't forget to report back to /r/DeadBedrooms on how TRP is improving your relationship

[–][deleted] 5 points5 points | Copy Link

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[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Nah the way I see it is this.

You are giving them the option. It's not forcing to convert, but at least letting them hear about it and make a decision for themselves.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

They know the option is here. They just hate the option. Publicising it only brings haters that want to torch this place because they are in an angry state of mind. Nobody likes a success story unless it confirms their beliefs.

I don't know man, the way I see it, we're like atheist. Nobody hated atheist until gen Y started to shove truth down peoples throat. And as a result there are more agnostic pussies that ever and atheists are seen as fanatics. You need just to be there, and when people renounce on their own accord their religion and start looking around they find you and are ready to look at your version with an open hearth.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

As an athiest who grew up in a devout christian home, I am VERY thankful those guys were talking their shit.

Hitchens and the likes were the very guys that got me thinking and won me over.

For every 100 people that may hate, we might enrich one person's life. Is that not worth it? Because I think it is, I can deal with the hate if here and there we are helping men to better their lives.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Where you ever a christian? (because that shit was really to stupid for me to ever believe, even santa clause was more plausible). I have a teory, you are not born religious, religion is just there to comfort your existential issues. In the age of the internet, there are many options just a click away and often you are free to choose whatever makes more sense.

You don't enrich his life, he just finds you and realises that this shit makes more sense, but for that to happen he already must see before hand glitches in the matrix.

My argument is that you can't convert. Reason is not enough, the only thing more visibility brings is more hate. Those who are disalusioned can find us, those who are not will only be reminded that they might be wrong.

It's not about cost vs benefits, there are no benefits.

[–]teeelo0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

at least letting them hear about it and make a decision for themselves.

This is all there is. Always.

[–]MasonJarTeaDrinker1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Good for you brother, I hope life keeps improving for you the way it is now.

[–]Roughknot0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Great to hear buddy. I hope you keep being happy.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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