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This was linked to the front page of Reddit today. It's stories of horrible experiences dating "Nice Guys" Several of the stories are text book out of NMMNG. It clearly shows the bad habits of bitter nice guys that have the world view that being nice should be enough to get everything they want. And as anyone who's been here longer than a half minute and read any material knows, that thinking is completely incorrect.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/9kz5ya/serious_girls_who_have_been_guilted_into_going/

These are all stories from women's perspective.


[–]rocknrollchuck9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Man, what a cringe-fest.

[–]arnieschwarz4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Being nice is enough, IF you are a woman.

[–]simbarlionRed Beret4 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I know it is semantics, but I would draw a line between the average 'nice guy' and this guy, who is omega IMHO. My justification is that a nice guy is a typical misguided normalguy who has the wrong understanding of what women want, and when corrected, will do ok.

Whereas this guys is desperate, needy, creepy, stalker like and has covert contracts out all over the place.

[–]RedPillCoach4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Have you even seen /r/askMRP ?

[–]simbarlionRed Beret5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes.

That link is very "asktrp".

"Askmrp" newbies have at some point, managed to convince a woman to ltr or marry.

That difference, my friend, distinguishes these valiant young men from the herd /s

[–]resolutions3164 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Very, very common trends:

- pushing on despite clear signals of lack of interest
- no other options, fixation on a single person
- sexual forwardness despite lack of enthusiasm
- use of guilt to persuade
- approaching indirectly, often through other people
- switch to anger and threats/accusations when rejected

^^^ Don't do any of this shit.

I mean, I would add

  1. Be attractive
  2. Have options

....But that's like, on the sidebar, and stuff

[–]mtwinemn1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Saw this and read through some stories. Eye opener. Must read.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is the most fascinating thing I've ever read. Almost all of them happened in high school/college. In some cases, that's folks learning the hard way. Hopefully most of them outgrew it.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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