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Older guys who married their childhood sweetheart (self.askMRP)

submitted by GrahamBaby

Met my wife when we were 18. 20 yrs & 3 kids later we’re still going strong. I love the fact that I was her first. But my dick resents the fact that it hasn’t had its fair share of strange.

Currently our sex life is great. I believe because of some of the MRP sidebar teachings I’ve been putting into practise.

My question is, in another 20 years time will we both be resenting each other for never being able to get with other people?

Or do you just lose that urge to fuck other women as you get older?

Have you ever stepped out of your marriage and what happened - did it blow up?

I’m keen not to repeat my father’s mistake of blowing up his marriage when I got to 18, because he’s miserable now.

Thanks


[–]Two_kids_in_a_coat27 points28 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

You’re always going to want strange. For the rest of your life, and no it’s not worth it. Makes are built to fuck as many women as possible. But oddly the thrill is more the chase and attention then the actual sex. Unless you’re in a dead bedroom once you start fucking you’ll realize there is nothing special or different going on here. Same mechanics, same feelings, same orgasm. Obviously some women are better in bed then others, but pussy is never really that special in the end.

You’re not missing sex with other women, you’re missing being desired by other women.

[–]Agent008t0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

But to verify desire you need to f-close, no?

[–]Two_kids_in_a_coat0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Normally yes but This is married Red Pill. Red pill on hard mode. Strange pussy isn’t the end goal anymore. Being a father/husband/amazing man is. If you have a quality girl who’s sucking your balls dry then I don’t think cheating will give you a good outcome. If you’re in a dead bedroom then you do what you got to do.

[–]The_LitzRed Beret11 points12 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

I hope you are not asking this question because your wife mentioned she would like to have some strange.....

If not the case, your question.

My wife was basically my first. I was in a deadbedroom and started cheating. Even though I have had some weird and wonderful experiences over the years, I still prefer sex with my wife.

The emotional connection you have in a good relationship combined with sex is still first prize.

If you are a normal man, you will always want some young, tight hottie. It is normal. But as long as your wife us draining your balls and adding value to your life forget banging other birds.

[–]freshstart_20170 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

This is the best advice to a mrp that I've ever read. Wish all the advice was this good on here ...thanks for making my day.

[–]thunderbeyond0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Tits or GTFO

[–]friendandadvisor0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

"...as long as..." being the operative phrase.

[–]RedPill-BlackLotusRed Beret-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The emotional connection you have in a good relationship combined with sex is still first prize.

You sound like a marriage councilor.

[–]Nodeal_reddit3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Don’t go down this road. When the thought comes to your head, push it out And think of something else.

[–]screechhaterRed Beret4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Anal.

69

Whipped cream.

Shower seat - you first.

See how many times you can make her squirt

How many orgasms in a row can you conjure up. ?

We are going on 26 LTR and married 24.
No toys. I just operate like a fuck machine

Its all the same. But the stockings, ass, longerie, are what take me to shangra la

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You may not have had strange, but as long you are enjoying sex with your woman what does it matter? You said your sex life is great, and yes doing the MRP sidebar (and Sx Gd Method) will make it better.

Don't look at social media/TV and envy their lifestyles make your own mission and path. Keeping up with others or seeking validation from other is not going to make you happy.

There are probably people that would envy your relationship.

[–]RuleZeroDADRed Beret2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Come on, no FOMO you homo.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Bro you're so lucky, that's a rarity nowadays. Half of marriages end in divorce, and the majority remaining survive because of unhappy factors- finances, kids, wife realizing she's post wall. I'd say 1 in 10 marriages are happy and still going strong nowadays.

TL:DR: Don't fuck it up.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

She wasn't my "sweetheart", I wasn't even looking for anything with long term implications. But she didn't do anything to throw up red flags.

 

But she threw herself at me and it worked out well for the long term. She's fine with another girl, she prefers to be involved but isn't too upset if she isn't.

 

Frame conquers all.

[–]UEMcGillI am become McGill, Destroyer of Blue Pill2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Cheat, don't cheat, redpill is amoral after all.

Here's my perspective. Strange pussy is fun. It's exhilarating and crazy. You find that chick that says crazy nasty shit your wife won't say. The whole time your fucking her all you can think is "fucking a, I should have been doing this for years! I'm gonna quit my wife and be Hugh Hefner"

Then 2 days later she blows up your phone. She tells you she knows she's the side piece but feels like she deserves more. Maybe she shows up at your work. Or posts a funny little meme with you tagged on fb.

So what do you do next? You start turning into a blupill faggot just to keep her from blowing up your shit. Low and behold your now a bitch in two relationships. At least with your side piece, she'll eventually leave you because there's no security.

In the end it takes a fuck ton of effort. In the end it turns into just another pussy. Ask yourself "is this the best value I can get for my time?"

I think there's guys on here that should cheat. It would make them see that there's better options out there. But the risk is less for them.

[–]Agent008t0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

This. Watch Fatal Attraction, it will save your marriage.

[–]thunderbeyond1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Why are you wondering about potential bad feeelz in 20 yrs time? Especially when you are doing so well now?

Enjoy what you have now, and realise that you have the power to direct your sex life to the place you want it to be.

[–]RedPill-BlackLotusRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

In 20 years you will be 58. Worry about your dick still working. One worry at a time.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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