Red Pill for me?

bogeyd6 · 2017-05-02T00:17:26+00:00

Guys, dont buy the concern troll. Post is locked.

Persaeus · 2017-05-01T17:06:31+00:00

it is a box of tools. if you don't like the hammer than don't use it. however, if and when you ever need to drive a nail don't whine about the vise grips not working.

anythinginc · 2017-05-01T17:47:19+00:00

I'm lifting, working the sidebar, and agree with a good chunk of what you guys say....Am I wasting all of our time?

Uhm, you're going to have to answer that for yourself.

But I married my high school sweetheart

Doesn't matter who the fuck she is, she's worthless if she doesn't add value, make your life better, and fuck you. You're here, so something must be missing.

Also I made a monogamous commitment for life.

Great! Your martyr complex doesn't have to affect the outcome. The simple truth is that, very likely, once 80+% of women would fuck you, your wife will too, you don't actually have to do the fucking for it to work.

There is the possibility that once you realize you can do better, and the martyr complex gets old, you will leave your wife to have a better life if she never comes around.

Ironically, getting to that point is often what it takes for the wife to actually come around. So by saying "divorce is off the table" you potentially limit your effectiveness. You are just going to have to hope that you can get the marriage you want without getting to that point. Some men do, some don't. I hope for your sake you can, otherwise you are in for a long, sex-starved marriage unless she ends it for you.

I've got 100lbs to lose

Quit fucking worrying about it now, nothing matters until that happens. You're here writing your Academy Award speech and you don't even fucking have head shots to go to a casting call for a local mattress outlet commercial.

sivarias · 2017-05-01T17:17:30+00:00

It doesn't jive with my Christian values.

Then you have nothing to fear. Unless merely reading from a group of Internet strangers' comments that they are sometimes cheating and divorcing will inevitably cause you to cheat and divorce...then I think you would need to work on your

self- discipline aspect and consistent self improvement

Truth be told, however, a big subtextual takeaway you may find within the sidebar and comments is: Question your motives for EVERYTHING. Ask yourself "why am I doing this" and fill in "this" with "buying my wife flowers" or "rushing home from work" or "following these Christian values" OR "staying with this woman I actually do not like upon further introspection". Instead of asking if you're wasting your time on here, ask if you're wasting your time with these parts of your life. If your values are true, again, you have nothing to worry about. But if they arent...?

sexyshoulderdevil · 2017-05-01T17:10:14+00:00

Do you like boobs? I love boobs. You sound like a boob. Ergo...I love you? Something seems off. I'll meditate, cheat and divorce while I mull this conundrum over.

[deleted] · 2017-05-01T17:28:45+00:00

Yes, was that what you wanted to hear?

No man worth his salt on here is going to placate your wishes here. Stay or not, it's your call.

I will suggest bringing something more valuable to the table than your humblebrag of marrying the first girl who touched your dick

The_Litz · 2017-05-01T19:58:15+00:00

You obviously feel uncomfortable being here, I get that. Ask yourself why you are uncomfortable. Is it guilt by association or is it hearing something you don't want to hear or face. Have you read NMMNG?

bogeyd6 · 2017-05-01T16:44:39+00:00

Probably, yeah, would just move onto the blue pill and save yourself the hassle.

sivarias · 2017-05-01T19:25:44+00:00

Bro the good news is that you don't have to worry about being tempted by other women for at least a year or two while you lose the weight.

Also, unless you're willing to challenge everything in your life you'll never achieve real freedom. You'll always be a slave to the dogma of your ancestors. Don't you want your value system to be YOURS?