Thanks 4 the reply

it's less attractive then normal hair and that's 100%,

Do you happen to have any data, info as a backup for this?

grey hair adds 15-20 yrs on you.

Is that bad, to be seen as older as a man, i dunno.

Does just the factor of higher age, on a man, make a man less attractive?
Is a 40-50 year old man, less attractive then a 25-35 year old man (when all the rest being the same: status, looks, etc.)?

I so far haven't really found very conclusive data on this. (other then that it's probably somewhere between mid twenties untill early fifties)

I recall the following regarding age:

* OKcupid, around 28 years old as peak age: "Male desirability to women peaks in the late 20s and does not fall below the average for all men until 36"

https://theblog.okcupid.com/the-case-for-an-older-woman-99d8cabacdf5

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* 50 as peak age: "men’s desirability peaks at age 50": https://www.theatlantic.com/science/archive/2018/08/online-dating-out-of-your-league/567083/

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* peak pretty stable from late 20's untill early 40's years old. https://iconicmen.wordpress.com/2013/10/24/smv-is-it-real/

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This made me believe, that roughly maybe men have pretty stable "peak-ish time" (if he remains about equal looking (and doesn't become fat, bald, very wrinkled, ungroomed/lazy) from late 20's until early 50's. Hence it wouldn't then bother/mind much, if a mans hair color (grey-ing) make him look 10-15 yearls older as long as it makes him look anywhere between the age of: late 20's to 50.

Personally, I'm now mid 30's; and my life experience is that I get more compliments on my apperance then ever before (especially if they know my actual age). I did have a bit of a baby-face thing going on, which didn't help. I had a really hard time when younger (below 26), probably also a little bit because I looked like an teenager. Then things slowly got better, and at late twenties I could start to get somewhere (dates, ONS and LTR) with decent looking women. My looks stayed pretty stable since my mid-late twenties, not worse at least (better grooming now, then back then keeps me at around same or higher looks level). So that's why I have never seen and experienced aging, and looking older, as a bad/negative thing so far in my lifetime.

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