"I like you because you make me feel good"

graceful_aggression · 2019-02-02T21:37:14+00:00

A good reminder that TRP allows a more conscious awareness of common AWALT behavior; over time, occurrences such as these becomes less of a surprise, and you gradually build amused mastery.

dirty_ja_galis · 2019-02-02T21:43:57+00:00

Yep. She likes you because you validate her.

You validate her simply by being a great catch and she being the lucky girl to suck your dick.

Continue being a great catch.

syf3r · 2019-02-03T01:53:42+00:00

From Rian Stone, add "right now" at the end of positive statements...

I like you because you make me feel good right now.

Andgelyo · 2019-02-02T22:04:49+00:00

Underrated post here. This is a great reminder that women only like how you make them feel. Feels before reals. We must continue to shoot “feel good” bullets at them to succeed with women.

WayTooCyber · 2019-02-03T00:32:46+00:00

It's her turn that's ending. You are the prize not her. And to be honest she's suppose to show her worth now. You did enough already for a plate remember the golden 2/3 rule.

nicktesoriero · 2019-02-02T21:53:54+00:00

Great post highlighting something many guys and myself used to not understand

rygy3 · 2019-02-02T22:46:34+00:00

I like you because I sleep really well when you're next to me. I like you because you make me feel safe. I like you because you fuck me really well.

Haha wow. Got these exact 3 from my LTR.

Flying_Wingback · 2019-02-02T23:13:59+00:00

Yup, I’ve heard the exact same things from a recent LTR but I think I finally arrived at that point of too much familiarity and a slight loss of frame this weekend. All that talk seems to be a thing of the past now and shit tests were off the charts just last night. Time to look for some new challenges.

TheTrenTrannyTrain · 2019-02-03T01:05:41+00:00

Women love opportunistically; they love you for WHAT you can do for her.

Lubomir1994 · 2019-02-02T22:21:54+00:00

Underrated post. Simple but of eternal wisdom.

JimiJons · 2019-02-03T03:38:13+00:00

Always remember: Familiarity breeds contempt.

Nov51605 · 2019-02-03T03:11:12+00:00

It doesn't get any more rational male than that. As real deal men, we have to be just as icy as we are seductive and passionate. This is prob the point where you wanna do a massive week long pull back / ghost just to stretch things out. seems like it would be good timing

2019-02-02T22:57:54+00:00

I really really really like this post

2019-02-03T02:24:52+00:00

I unironically just texted my LTR something kind of similar because her parents are separating - telling her that her cooking and cleaning for me is actually just icing on the cake. That the big thing is intimacy, and I think we'll be alright.

Im not saying itll work for any of you, but for some reason she ate that up.

oooKenshiooo · 2019-02-03T01:03:20+00:00

Yep. Right on the money.

Hence, when vetting for LTR material, ask her what she likes about you. If has not figured out the positive sides of your character well enough to turn that into a compliment, she is no more than a plate.

metallicdrama · 2019-02-03T03:04:07+00:00

In the end it's all about her. If you serve her needs you're still relevant. Women always resent you for having to be loyal when they're locked into marriage and family.

redvelvet_oreo · 2019-02-03T02:05:31+00:00

Lol anytime a plate or LTR tells me this shit I just acknowledge it with yeah I know I’m awesome. Haha the irriational self confidence makes that pussy wet.

redbearsociety · 2019-02-03T08:21:39+00:00

To be fair, you have complete control over how you make her feel. Girls get bored of guys because the guys stop engaging with them, they just think 'I have the woman part of my life ticked so I don't need to do anything now'. Trying to gain affection doesn't make her feel good so don't get stuck in that validation cycle. But you can 'own' a girl so to speak by keeping her excited.

piggiebiggie · 2019-02-03T07:59:06+00:00

Why shouldn't she like you because you make her feel good though? This is a serious question. The reasons she listed, did you ask why those things made her feel good? You say that she didn't mention your character traits, but look at the list of things you provided.

breakfast, sleep well, feel safe, good fucks

The things she listed speak to what she thinks of you at a deeper level. It may be good to ask.

2019-02-03T09:01:12+00:00

Appreciate it for as long as you can, then let it slide away. Some gals will be done in a week, some may last many months. Stay aware and observant....you're know when it's time to move on.

2019-02-04T22:56:14+00:00

Before I found trp, a girl I was seeing wrote me a list of 150ish reasons she loved me.

At the time, I was pleased as I viewed this as proof that I was appreciated - however reading this list now, I realize that, without exception, every point boiled down to:

you make me feel good, because you are a high value man whose validation is important to me

Seriously. That was pretty much it. She's now one of my most obnoxious widows, and bounces wildly back and forth between 'you're such a great guy I wish we'd worked out' and 'you're a literal psychopath and I'm well rid of you'.

(And before any of you tell me I shouldn't be responding to her: I don't, unless she's in my town and offering a 'catch up over coffee' which is her code for 'the best goddamn blow job you've ever received'. Sue me, but even with the enormous amount of women I've bedded, her head skills remain completely untouchable, and I'm more than happy to benefit from that every so often when she's in town without her husband's oversight)

fryhldrew · 2019-02-03T07:47:54+00:00

Man, I would give you gold if I had some

ExpresssMess · 2019-02-03T12:35:31+00:00

I love you because I need you < I need you because I love you

Razkolol · 2019-02-03T13:30:04+00:00

Turn on some negative emotions, you’ve left that whole part untouched. Drop in some dread, ignore some messages/calls, small negs, etc. She’ll like you because you make her feel good/bad/anxious/etc., give her the whole range, especially since she’s already talking with some other guy.

2019-02-03T14:11:56+00:00

You make, you fuck, you make... All things that you do, not something that you ARE.

A sad truth that I accepted only recently... Thank you for sharing.

foxhound525 · 2019-02-03T15:19:38+00:00

I learned this lesson the hard way many years ago. Men love women for who and what they are, women love men for what they can do for them. We're simply tools to them, and worthy of no more consideration than that.

Crixusgannicus · 2019-02-03T16:28:38+00:00

True Red Pill will have you realize there are only two reasons ANYONE likes ANYTHING or ANYONE ever.

You like the way it/someone makes you feel.
You like it/someone because it/someone prevents you from feeling some feeling you don't want to feel.

That's why you like your car, your food, your clothes, your significant other, your dog. Think it over and realize I'm right. Try in vain to think of one thing that you like that doesn't either fall under number 1 or 2.

Lieisnotreal · 2019-02-03T16:57:05+00:00

"Soon, I will become familiar and thus giving her less intense emotions. My turn will end. "That's not necessarily true you can maintain the intensity of her emotions by creating mystery or just generally making her idealize yourself.

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juanwonone1 · 2019-02-06T23:22:33+00:00

Just exactly like a bitch....me me me.

scorpionkg · 2019-07-10T15:30:28+00:00

Ok, after you telling that, what are you going to do? Use TRP in your favor, maintain the frame, go cold e make her start to feeling mix feelings!

Game her, dont match all her needs!

superyute · 2019-02-02T23:10:59+00:00

improper use of AWALT btw. The idea doesn't apply here

Cfwydirk · 2019-02-02T22:20:25+00:00

So, she is a “plate of yours” and she tells you good things you do to make her really really really like you. You don’t tell us what if anything she does to make you like her except fuck. So if she is one of 2-3 or more plates while you are dating others is she supposed to wait by the phone for when you might call. Are you jelous of her plate Raphael? Would she choose you over him? Do you want more from her? Is she thoughtful and do enough good things for you. Be real, if you want more from her go get her. Use you redpill knowlege to vet her as worthy or not.

h0ndaboy · 2019-02-02T22:35:58+00:00

You had sex with a girl and she tells you sex feels good. Grass is green and now you have oneitis

preazeu · 2019-02-02T23:27:26+00:00

How pathetic it sounds, "my turn will end". Proof that a beta will always be a beta no matter how many plates he fucks and how much theory he knows. Hamster hamster hamster hamster hamster hamster. Plus, you're putting your mouth where probably Raphael puts his dick. Grab yourself by the balls and wake up, sheeps.