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Last week I made a not so great post attempting to connect a couple of principles in quantum mechanics (how observation changes the results of the game) with controlling frame with your LTR.

In this post, I will try and be more direct and to the point by drawing a connection between some red pill truths and other natural laws in the science of economics.

How and why your LTR’s desire comes and goes (or goes and doesn’t return), and how to maintain it. – the law of supply and demand

The law of supply and demand in economics - The law of supply and demand is a theory that explains the interaction between the supply of a resource (i.e. your time, attention, and presence) and the demand for that resource. The theory defines the effect that the availability of that resource and the desire (or demand) for that product has on its price. Generally, low supply and high demand increases price. In contrast, the greater the supply and the lower the demand, the price tends to fall.

Red pill principles governing attraction and desire (seen in levels 1-5 of dread) such as preselection (social proof and SHOWING you are wanted by other women), differentiation (a fun life apart from your wife), frame, and other passive DHVs run parallel to this fundamental law in economics.

For example – The ONLY resource of value we as men really have and can control is our time, attention, and presence… that’s it. Remember though, you must demonstrate (create or maintain) that value. Your wife or LTR will NOT value your time, attention, and presence if you over supply it. Just like in the law of supply and demand, a flood of supply erodes the value. This usually does not happen overnight. When many guys get married or move in with their girl, the lost their differentiation (their old life, their friends, etc.). You in a sense, become to entangled with your girl, and a result, become too infused with her. Relationships need a form of individuality and separateness to thrive. David Schnarch talks about this in his book “Secrets of a Passionate Marriage.” The relationship is created and maintained within this space. Women crave a sense of mystery in their man. You must game her to create it. That is the core of dread level 3. Build a life apart from your wife. This by default decreases the supply of your time, presence, and attention COVERTLY. This is what increases the value of YOU, which in turn, will raise her (or other women’s) interests in you.

Just like the law of supply and demand, it searches for a market equilibrium. Unfortunately, if you oversupply yourself by always being around and being lazy and boring, the equilibrium that your “market” will find is a dead bedroom. That is why the markets are always in state of flux and constantly growing, pulling back, or changing. Your LTR will do the same. You have to keep on your mission and keep growing to find ways to create and maintain value.

Second example – preselection – this is basically, “I don’t really have in interest in it until someone else plays with it.” We all have seen this behavior in small children. A kid can have toy collecting dust for months in the bottom of a toy box, but as soon as a friend comes over and gets it out and shows interest in it, the kid suddenly wants the toy back with fervor and guards it with his life. Your girl works the same way when she perceives someone else wants you.

Again, like in the law of supply and demand, the increased demand for a limited supply you, makes your value increase. Your woman (or other women) will “buy” your “product” (i.e. your awesomeness) with sex. Introduce, competition anxiety, which makes pussy wet.

Final example – maintaining frame and passing shit tests (dread level 1)

When your woman is shit testing you, she is covertly telling you “I am demanding alpha… I want to “buy” and value alpha… show me alpha you pussy!” By losing frame, being a pussy, and failing shit tests you’re supplying beta whenever she is demanding alpha. Buyers disappear from markets and search for other markets in economics whenever the products they are demanding aren’t supplied. She is telling you supply alpha. She isn’t buying beta, so when you do things to placate or please her, she sees you as a bitch. So, why would you supply beta when the buyer is demanding alpha? The law of supply dictates that sellers (i.e. you or other men) will bring their supplies to demanding markets (your girl wanting alpha). Guess what…. Eventually, a supplier WILL show up if you don’t. Do the opposite of what your blue bill upbringing tells you.

In conclusion, I write these examples because I believe that many of us men think analytically and can metaphorically connect these types of rational and concrete examples. It’s easy to think of the science of economics rationally and understand its principles. However, many new unplugged guys struggle at first because they still have their emotional baggage from being blue pill. Internalize this and apply it, BUT DON’T TALK ABOUT IT WITH YOUR GIRL and DON’T FUCKING TELL HER about your grand plan to make yourself a better man. She doesn’t give a fuck about your lip service. Do it! Show her. In most cases, she won’t want to be left behind by a valuable and self-improving man that is going places. In fact, you’ll see subtle signs of her onboarding (many times subtly and slowly). Examples of this: She’ll start working out when she sees you working out. She’ll shit test you less, become more respectful, and even bid for your time and attention. Look at her behavior, it will be a tell all.


[–]MrChad_ThundercockBig Red Machine8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

All about frame bro. You’re the seller in a market flooded with dick. Dick is abundant, but quality dick is rare....

Must become the producer, not consumer. Your SMV is your product.

[–]hystericalbonding5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Dick is abundant, but quality dick is rare.... Must become the producer, not consumer

Don't be the consumer of dick.

I don't know if the message is intentional, but it's the funniest thing I've read on MRP in a while.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Good post. My summarized takeaways.

Your SMV is the product. // Agreeing with MCT as I believe there is more to our value than simply our time, attention, and presence. If we had low SMV then women are not going to be interested in our product regardless of how limited it is.

Example 1: Limit and control the supply of your product

Example 2: Market and create higher demand of your product

Example 3: Demonstrate your product's quality and reliability by holding frame and passing shit test

[–]SBIIIRed Fucking Commando4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Can we get a bar chart for this?

And some sandwiches. I'm hungry.

[–]amalgamator2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I have been really going deeper into David Schnarch’s work. It is all so good. I bought all the old mp3 “tapes” he has and his other books.

This dude had all this shit figured out in the early 2000s. He just uses different words. It’s profound.

[–]Reach180Red Beret7 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I read him before I found Red Pill stuff. Didn't compute.

I needed 700 FRs about how to pass shit tests, and permission from the internet to not have oneitis for my wife before something like differentiation would register.

[–]SorcererKingMod / Red Beret2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Permission denied. Here, eat this blue pill.

[–]Reach180Red Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Nope...Can't do that. I know I've got a receipt here somewhere...

[–]hack3geRed Beret3 points4 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Are you saying I can charge my wife for sex? I’ve been looking for another passive income stream so this is great news.

[–]SorcererKingMod / Red Beret5 points6 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I've been charging your wife for sex this whole time. You mean you haven't been?

[–]hack3geRed Beret2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

What’s the going rate I will undercut you - supply and demand you know...

[–]tspitsatgp-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Why would your wife pay for cheap and nasty sex with you when she can pay 3x as much to have the artisan crafted deluxe sex experience with me?

[–]hack3geRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Fuck you I still have 12 hours on my fast and now all I can do is think about artisan crafted sandwiches.

[–]Big_Stomper3 points4 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

FR to add examples from your post.... when my LTR moved in with me, the “sneak over in the middle of the night” fun was over; I was home after work and so was she. The crazy sex life and getting blow jobs upon first glance waned. I knew what was up, and began spending more time doing my own thing, and the mystery returned for her, as well as the hot and heavy sex. Pretty simple fix fellas; just do what you want to do outside the house and keep it a mystery.

To your 2nd point... I play in a band, and while my GF knows that I get hot eager eyes upon me, I typically just blow off any that approach me. A few months ago I was approached by a group of kinda hot divorcée’s, one of whom was very eager to dance with me, and pulled me on the dance floor before I even set down my guitar. I winked at my GF and danced for a few minutes before excusing myself, and my GF was all over me like white on rice for a solid month, including a BJ in the car on the way home.

Your third point needs some meat... if you come home and she mentions the dishes not being done from dinner last night and she was home all day, tease her about it... don’t do them because she asked you to. She really wants you to put her in her place, and is curious if you actually will. Pull your weight, but remind her that you’re not pulling hers.

These are all RP truths that prove true time and time again. Good post

[–][deleted][S] 2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Great response man! Love the story about the band.... classic. I own a pretty successful construction business. I have a concrete divison that does everything from driveways and house foundations, to small bridges and commercial work. One time, I went to this house to give an estimate for a concrete driveway and a garage foundation. This decent looking early 40s blonde milf comes out and shows the work they need done. She is rather chatty, flirty, and touchy. I took measurements and her contact info and gave her a business card. Later that night she sent me a text that made no sense to me. Apparently is was a "misdirected" text intended for someone else. Inwas sitting with my wife when I got the text and she saw the whole thing... didn't hide it. I told her the story about this woman (the woman I did the estimate for was drinking a little and I told with rock solid comfortable frame). Then about a month later, I was with my wife in Starbucks and we ran into this woman. She remembered me and said hello and smiled. My wife asked who she was and I told her that it was that crazy lady that butt texted me that one night when we were at home. My wife glared at her and said nothing to me. The next two or three nights were a hit sex fest with her! Lol!

[–]botrickbateman1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

We all lean over and inspect David’s card and Price quietly says, “That’s really nice.”

A brief spasm of jealousy courses through me when I notice the elegance of the color and the classy type. I clench my fist as Van Patten says, smugly, “Eggshell with Romalian type...” He turns to me. “What do you think?”

“Nice,” I croak, but manage to nod, as the busboy brings four fresh Bellinis.


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[–]MrChad_ThundercockBig Red Machine1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

“chatty, flirty, and touchy”

"misdirected text intended for someone else”

Wasn’t a mistake. She was looking for a follow up from you.

How did she butt text you if your number wasn’t already in her phone? - since all you gave her is your business card.

She was waiting for your concrete to harden.

“I took measurements”

So..what were her measurements?

Tell Uncle Chad.

[–][deleted][S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I can tell by looking at her and reading her body language she'd be a nice, wild fuck. Definitely an attractive woman. I've never cheated on my wife, but this woman is definitely filed away for potential future use. At least she's a good one to instill some dread when the opportunity arises.

[–]RPeed2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Cognitive biases are a good market effect to compare to a RP journey.

[–]WesternhagenWinner1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

many of us men think analytically

Your Humble Narrator u/resolutions316 told you last week that thinking was for the gloopy ones, and that the oomny ones used, like, inspiration and what Bog sends. Tolchok thyself in the yarbles until this message is received.

[–][deleted][S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Love the Clockwork Orange reference in the pic. Great movie.

[–]simbarlionRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Jack10s post on luxury goods is excellent.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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