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[–]BlindingTwilight 1 points [recovered]  (10 children) | Copy Link

One night me and my girl were chilling and I hear this sound like someone jumping over a fence in my backyard. I go into “I have to fight” mode and grab a hammer and tell her to go to the bedroom. I go outside and turn on the lights but no one is there. I check the fences, look around the neighbors places but still nothing. I come back inside and tell her everything is fine so come back into the loungeroom. A few months later she says “remember that time you went outside with the hammer? I have never been so turned on in my life. That’s when I knew for sure you were the one (haha, bitches still believe in “the one”).

[–]red-sfpplustells 1000 lb club pussies to fuck off13 points14 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

A hammer?

Why you not have a gun bro?

[–]RStonePTOfficial Counterfeit Goods12 points13 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

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[–]red-sfpplustells 1000 lb club pussies to fuck off8 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Bet the criminals have guns.

M’erica baby. Texas.

[–]RStonePTOfficial Counterfeit Goods4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

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[–]TheBunk_TB4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Dont know why people like "Beta" Orourke.

[–]alphasixfourUnplugging3 points4 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

If you can't go from boxer shorts to full-on Blackhawk Down at short notice you're doing it wrong.

[–]red-sfpplustells 1000 lb club pussies to fuck off2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Hahahaha!

You are assuming I even wear underwear to bed. 😈

[–]alphasixfourUnplugging5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Nothing more intimidating to a would-be burglar than a jacked, naked redpill war-god wearing nothing but an AR-15 and a smile.

[–]red-sfpplustells 1000 lb club pussies to fuck off0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

I would have at least a semi-hardon from the excitement to wear into battle as well.

[–]alphasixfourUnplugging3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Murder boner

[–]BobbyPeruMRP APPROVED29 points30 points  (11 children) | Copy Link

When I was still in the first year of unplugging, I heard about getting stuff done and not looking for mommy’s approval. So, one day, I was very motivated, and I got a whole weeks worth of errands done in like 4 hours. I did it mostly because I wanted to, but I made it a point to not say anything to her before I did it all. She started asking me about some of the stuff and reminding me about them (I was still a bit of a drunk captain). As she went through the mental list, I just said “done” or “did it earlier.” I was shocked at how turned on she was by it since I didn’t look for mommy’s approval and just got shit done for the first time. I think I fucked her for the next 7 days straight. It was a real eye opener for me.

The bigger part is to get stuff done because that’s the kind of man I want and to be (for myself). Many times, I will clean a bunch around the house, and she won’t even notice or doesn’t take the time to tell me. That’s ok because I no longer need mommy’s approval, and getting shit done has become a reward in itself.

[–]Auvergnat-1 points0 points  (10 children) | Copy Link

Give her my congratulations for successfully conditioning you to do things around the house without having to be told. I bet you got your eyes really open about doing more house cleaning! Pavlov would be proud.

[–]doohicker7 points8 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

I see your point, but just because he cleans doesn't make him a bitch.

[–]Auvergnat-1 points0 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

OP’s post was pretty clear: women get the hots for a man who is assertive over other men. How on earth someone could read this and think that his situation where he cleaned the house “without being told to” is a similar illustration of a same principle?

Anyone who is honest with himself here: what is the most likely redpill explanation for /u/BobbyPeru’s wife’s sudden sexual desire in that scenario? Is doing things around the house without being told to a display of alpha fucks traits or beta bucks traits?

Apply the same reflection to OP’s scenario. Compare. Reflect.

[–]weakandsensitive3 points4 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

This is the quality of TRP ECs huh. Sad.

[–]Auvergnat0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

And you have nothing as a retort but that? Come on tell me where I am wrong with redpill theory!

I’m subbed to MRP. It’s usually brilliant quality. I haven’t come in a while and when I do come back, I see an awesome post, with a glaring red pill theory mistake in comments that is largely upvoted, so I point it out as I do on TRP (admittedly rudely), and get downvoted instead of generating a discussion of where I am wrong.

I know you guys are better than that. I’ll just assume this was a one-off mistake but that you’re too proud to admit it.

[–]weakandsensitive0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

When I'm annoyed with the dishes in the sink - guess what I do? I do the dishes.

Your bitch is about a guy cleaning his own house because he wants it clean.

Think about that for a second.

Your complaint is fucking retarded and doesn't deserve a retort.

[–]Auvergnat0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

You’re not arguing in good faith. The comment was obviously not about how he cleans the house because he likes his house clean. We obviously all do. His comment was specifically saying how he got his eyes open by his wife becoming more sexual with him after he did house chores without being told to, and relate this experience to the original post that said how someone’s wife became more sexual after him being violently assertive over some other man.

It’s seriously the sort of comment I would expect to find on some blue pill relationship advice sub and be upvoted to the top as it demonstrates how the solution to a dead bedroom is to do more chores around the house. I could find you half a dozen rational male posts that talks about this blue pill fallacy of “choreplay”.

I’m astonished you don’t see it. I really do hope your selective blindness to the obvious is only a mark of respect towards your ECs.

Anyway I’ll leave it here. No need arguing this any further.

[–]weakandsensitive0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

You're arguing about a chicken or egg problem.

Take a step back. A majority of married men become useless slobs after marriage. Their wives are more their mothers than their wives at some point.

If a wife has to act like a mother to her husband, it becomes harder to maintain a level of attraction. That's obvious no? Imagine if your wife or girlfriend left her shaving stuff or her tampons all over the place for you to pick up. Frankly, that isn't sexy.

A man has to start somewhere - at some point. The point is that a man needs to be their mental point of origin. You're absolutely right that engaging in choreplay in hopes of scraps is a pathetic covert contract.

Basic adulting includes core elements. If a guy is a slob, doesn't shower, doesn't know how to dress himself, can't take care of shit, plays video games all the time, are we at all surprised that his wife won't fuck him? The guy fails at being an adult. How much exposure do you think a wife would need in order to have that mental image seared in?

So MRP's basic premise is 1) stop failing at being an adult. If your wife fucks you more great as a result, great - but stop failing at being an adult from your mental point of origin. You, as a man, take care of shit because it needs to be taken care of. E.g. I fixed our sink disposal yesterday. Wife told me it stopped working while I was on vacation. I had to take the entire thing apart. Fucking thing had a screw stuck. Wife still wouldn't fuck me because she was on her period. That fucking cunt! (Obviously that's sarcasm.)

The rules are simple.

  1. Be attractive.
  2. Don't be unattractive.

I was shocked at how turned on she was by it since I didn’t look for mommy’s approval and just got shit done for the first time.

Being a useless man child in a LTR or marriage drives being unattractive. And all of that is dependent on your own mental point of origin - and it's one of the easiest mental points of origin to develop. "I clean the house because I want the house clean." isn't the same as "I clean the house to score brownie points.", and I think you're reading it as the latter when we preach the former.

But you are completely right, most blue pill men will do things looking for mommy's approval. Those men are faggots. The beauty of this method is when internalized, men are just as easily able to say "Nah. I don't care about that. If it's important to you, you figure it out or you figure out how to get me to help."

[–]RStonePTOfficial Counterfeit Goods0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

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[–]SunTzuWarmaster0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

At the end of the day - he was satisfied with a job well done, the household was managed, and he was fucked by his wife... I'm curious - what outcomes are you looking for? Do you live in some sort of fantasy world where there are no oil changes, checking account balances, dishes, and tree trimming? Do you not want sexual rewards? Do you like a messy house? Do you expect the woman to do everything and then fuck you?

[–]Auvergnat0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

You guys really are dense not to understand that my criticism was not at him “cleaning the house” but at him “believing that his wife was genuinely filled with desire due to him cleaning the house”. Of course I clean my house, of course I share the house duties with my partner, but I don’t go believing in that uber blue pill delusion that “sharing the load” makes me sexy in her eyes.

[–]Onein1024th11 points12 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

I fired someone who had it coming a few months back. Got laid like crazy that week

Be the man

[–]TaipanshimshonMRP APPROVED-5 points-4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I’m the professor type they wanna fuck.

Putting someone in their place or just having some patient or family sit there listening to me As I tell them what needs to happen or whatever ...

Let’s just say the visible looks are good for the ego

[–]The_LitzMRP APPROVED5 points6 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

Story time, had a buddy years ago. Had a confrontation with a distant relation at his house.

The bare bones of it, he made snide remarks to the guy because he was smoking around his house at a bbq (on the veranda). So the guy (ex military) gets tired of it, gets up, walks upto my friend and asks him what he is going to about it if he lights up inside his house?

This Bluepill poster child gets pissy and when he sees things are going to go wrong for him he hides behind his wife and bursts into tears.

She sorted it out.

When he told us about this traumatic event my wife told me afterwards if the same ever happens to us she would divorce me on the spot.

And my buddy? Well his wife did divorce him. Not directly related to that incident, but she had been a closet lesbian.

Me and her are still good friends and by her own admission, she says she probably would still be in the closet if he wasn't such a sissy. Her words. He was/is a needy little bitch to this day.

Don't be an asshole and get into fights, but own your shit when things go sideways.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

How should that be handled. Genuinely curious.

[–]InChargeManMRP APPROVED11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, I was thinking the same thing. It is a tricky situation. You are in your house, family and kids all around. On one hand, you shouldn't be a pussy and get walked all over, on the other hand you don't want to have it turn into a giant brawl. Also, no matter how skilled in fighting you think you are, if the guy is experienced at fighting there is likely going to be collateral damage, injuries all around, and possible legal ramifications.

I think I would go broken record on "leave the premises immediately", try to avoid anything physical, and instruct the wife to cal the police if it gets out of hand.

People love to play these scenarios in their head where they are out with their girl, some douche gets in their face, he executes his BJJ moves perfectly, then cut to everyone at the bar having a celebration in your honor for slaying the neighborhood bully. In reality you probably end up stabbed and spending the night in jail or the hospital.

[–]The_LitzMRP APPROVED5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

In all honesty, him being a little fag probably trigger it, so don't be a fag with bitchy remarks would prevent it.

There was booze involved so no use talking 'nicely'.

If you don't want to go the route of a physical confrontation just leave the room. It totally sucks if it is your own house. Ignore the dude and never invite that part of the family to your house again.

The big issue is fragile ego's. It sucks at that moment, but if you whine about it for days afterwards you have no frame.

Everyone loses at one time or another. It is how you deal with a loss that makes the difference.

As an extension to the woeful tale, I got to meet Rambo some months later.

I got roped in to help move some stuff of the family's father that was stored at Rambo's house. He threatened to throw the old man's stuff in the street etc. Just being a general ass. So we rock up there, the dude is agitated and drunk. I walk upto the guy and just say 'Where is the old man's shit?'

After a while he is even helping to carry the stuff. On the next trip there he even pours me a drink while we wait for the pickup. He was just a lonely drunk fuck up.

Don't get drawn into the drama and things go much smoother.

[–]GoodWillFunky1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Frame?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Theory is great. Specific example requires specific actions.

[–]GoodWillFunky0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Snide remarks (pouting like a lil faggot). Example of having no frame and acting feminine and immature. Military dude answers with frame and lil faggot runs to mommy.

I bet that If he had called the guy to an individual face to face chat and explain on a civil rational way that the cigarette smoke bothers the outcome would have been different.

Military men have no patience for whinny dudes like that. Source: Bunch if bitter military uncles.

[–]bangalanga0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Don't make snide remarks.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The comments on the post even prove it more. Men getting shit done turns women on.

[–]RemyBucksington1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I knew someone was going to post this, lmao

[–]AechzenMRP APPROVED0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Guys, we regularly talk here about AMOG, or Alpha Male of the Group. It generates tingles AND preselection if you're doing it right. So do it.

[–]Not_My_Real_Acct_0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I've had multiple girlfriends all my life, but it's only in the last ten years that I've been honest about it.

One evening, a few years back, one of my girls was blowing up my phone while I was out with another girl. I got sick of it, picked up the phone, and told the other girl to stop texting and calling me, and to fuck off.

I think that was probably the best thing I ever did for my relationship; it made it 100% clear that I had nothing but contempt for the other girl, and the only reason that I spent any time with her whatsoever was because she was great in bed. (Like a lot of insane women are.)

It was such an odd moment, because my OTHER girlfriend (the one in the car, who overheard me yelling at the girl on the phone) suddenly became closer to me, because I'd NEVER treated her like that. (Because she wasn't fucking insane!)

It was odd; she knew that I was fucking this other girl, but as long as I didn't have any affection for the other girl, she was "OK" with it.

[–]Leg679-4 points-3 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

I wouldn't be impressed by this if I were the dude. I mean the guy could've decided to fuck the husband up for being disrespectful but most likely didn't because of charges bring brought up. Yell at a stranger like that outside of work. That's boss shit. This is false manhood.

[–]tspitsatgp6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Your idea of manhood appears to be fucking people up for being disrespectful or hurting your feelings. Seems like you have some anger issues.

[–]weakandsensitive[M] 8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This poster has been banned.

[–]RPeedEverything is GAY / Dreadful '190 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

I agree with the sentiment: you should never really ream someone unless you are prepared for it to get physical. That is just the reality of an intense confrontation in or out of the work place.

There is a time to let that play out. There is also a time to use measured words in the presence of a HR rep and with security outside the door holding a cardboard box.

Either way you need to acknowledge the risk. Maybe this dude DNGAF. Or maybe he had hung up and was gaming his wife.

Or maybe this some broad's sexual fantasy - I seem to be in the minority but I've never been blown after publicly humiliating someone.

[–]InSearchOfLogos1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

There is a flip side to the “getting physical “ coin. I’ve never had to, but the funny thing is my wife is terrified of me doing it. I don’t consider myself a badass but I have competed in combat sports for a long time and I think my wife is terrified that I would go to prison.

Point is, I very well could. I’ve been with women that wanted you to fight for them, literally. Probably not the kind of women you want aside from a PND. I don’t play around with physical altercations. It would be a lose lose for me and most of you every time. I look at it like this, the guy that could hurt me probably doesn’t want to. The guy that wants to, most likely can’t unless I provoke him. Be smart and if necessary, straight up tell someone what you expect.

And as far as it being something that gets you laid more, don’t put all your stock in it. Being known as a tough sob may initiate tingles in the beginning but that’s not something that lasts. It’s always seemed to me that the minute you’ve OYS for a particular area like this, your new tingle inspiring chariot turns back into a pumpkin after midnight.

[–]RPeedEverything is GAY / Dreadful '190 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Agree on both the physical points and the overall law of diminishing returns.

My wife hates the thought of violence. The end. Sure maybe there is some visceral reaction in her lizard brain but everything else outweighs it by far. Verbal assertion she hears plenty of and was either never interested or it got old real quick.

[–]tspitsatgp0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I dunno you all seem to have this scenario where the guy is red faced and yelling at the underling. It’s likely not the case. Remember it is a female recounting the story. He was probably just assertive and wasn’t taking any shit. Dominance in the work place is more often calmly asserting yourself and having the other person submit because your frame/position/personality is stronger.

Back in the day (before I went through my fat faggot phase) my STBX would get off on hearing me talk to people when I was asserting myself. Not because I was yelling but because my voice became slower, deeper, and I was in control of the situation — not taking any bullshit.

A female work colleague says the same thing after meetings with difficult clients which I handle.

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