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[–]Njere[S] 25 points26 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Disclaimer: Article is not scientifically rigorous

[–]TheDevilsAdvokaat10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Definitely. It's basically just personal discussion.

All the same it raises some interesting points and I thought it was worth reading.

I do agree it doesn't belong on Black Pill "Science" - it really seems more like anecdotes.

[–]zimborweed2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

it's still good from a standpoint of general discourse. (I realize this sub is more for actual research. Anyone know a place that is less rigorous? If so I'd appreciate it so as to read/discuss rather than pollute this place. Thanks)

[–]Mefic_vest11 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Several men I've spoken to about this have admitted that, because of this disconnect between what women say they want and how many women respond when they get what they say they want (men to be forthcoming about their inner experiences), they've trained themselves not to approach or show any interest to a woman they they find attractive. Without exception, these men are smart, creative, ethical, funny, interesting men. And they choose to be single rather than talk to an attractive woman, because they don't want to be seen as creepy or to make the woman uncomfortable. And then the single women I know wonder where all the good men are. This seems like a paradox to me.

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TL;DR: the paradox lies entirely with the women. They are shooting themselves in the foot.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

You have to be really beta to not approach girls u wana fuck tho, so its not like women are missing out on these "good men", they are just fucking low inhib chads.

[–]Zeebuss7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Article doesn't actually try to answer the title question, and this is an idea men have known about for ages, but it's nice to see a female psychologist advising other women to not be dicks to men in dating. Men and women really make dating a nightmare for each other.

[–]mraaggaan9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

No

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Being good is being weak, in war those who are weak get destroyed. A weak man will never win but a strong one will.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

of course not

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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