Girlfriend wants me to “rape” her. How do I go about this in a smart way? (self.askTRP)
submitted 5 months ago by -saltymangos-
After sex she was telling me how she wants me to “rape” her. Like if I’m feeling horny, just take her and throw her on the bed and fuck her hard. I was a little hesitant about this because it can easily be used as a false accusation. I remember reading a post on this sub like 1-2 weeks ago and there was a guy with my exact situation but I can’t find the post.
She loves the idea of me being totally dominant against her. I will ask her about her fantasy when we have another after-sex cuddle session though, just to get more details. The last thing I want is a false accusation against me. I plan on recording her telling me about the fantasy (secretly of course) and possibly texting her about the situation so I have concrete evidence.
[–]xNinja36 172 points173 points174 points 5 months ago (9 children)
Record her and fuck the shit out of her but make sure you have a safe word just in case.
[–]alphabachelor 65 points66 points67 points 5 months ago (7 children)
Make sure you have it plan out via text. You can do the home invasion roleplay. Done it a few times.
Make sure there’s a safe word to slow things down and also to stop. They should be unusual words and follow them to a T.
[–]Monkitail 20 points21 points22 points 4 months ago (5 children)
home invasion role-play, those always end up well.
[–]King-Manlet 22 points23 points24 points 4 months ago (4 children)
I had this one girl on Tinder who asked me to show up at her address and “rape” her. We set a safe word on Tinder. I showed up and the door was unlocked and went up stairs and she immediately started screaming telling me to get out of her house and calling for help. At first I was hesitant as I was worried about the neighbours hearing and thinking I was actually raping her. She never once said the safe word so I thought fuck it, I quickly gagged her and got to work. After I finished and left I got I could hear police sirens pulling up at her house. This bitch wanted the whole 9 yards.
[–]Jampak_5000 11 points12 points13 points 4 months ago (1 child)
R That happened
[–]Russian_Bot_737 1 point2 points3 points 4 months ago (0 children)
Women are really this crazy man
[–]Pluglord 4 points5 points6 points 4 months ago (0 children)
Jesus Christ some of you dudes have Down syndrome
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 months ago (0 children)
Also safe handsignals. If you're covering her mouth with your hand she won't be able to let out the word
[–]HurricaneHugues 6 points7 points8 points 4 months ago (0 children)
What if he knocks her out with chloroform first?
[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev 59 points60 points61 points 5 months ago (3 children)
Uncle Vasya’s Guide to Submissive Women
-How to lead when she wants to follow.
Of Human Bondage – Uncle Vasya’s Guide for Men Who Like To Tie Up Young Ladies.
-The Field Guide to playing knotty games with naughty girls.
[–]NightTripInsights 9 points10 points11 points 5 months ago (0 children)
OP, listen to this
[–]AlfredKinsey 4 points5 points6 points 4 months ago (0 children)
This. If I girl is revealing this to you, and she is legitimately your girlfriend, you're risk of a false rape accusation is reduced. Your risk of bomb-ass sex is increased, as well. Tie her up.
[–]goblinboglin 1 point2 points3 points 4 months ago (0 children)
[–]youareshandy 64 points65 points66 points 5 months ago* (2 children)
If she likes rougher sex, you can fuck her a little harder than normal. If it's missionary, hold her wrists down with a little pressure to restrain her; it doesn't have to be violent, and if she wants to get up or move then let her. You can even use one hand to hold both her wrists above her head, and use your free hand however you want.
Her words are confusing, but she probably doesn't actually want to be raped. She just wants more passion in the lovin', and I wouldn't recommend asking her about it, because making her talk about what she wants ruins her fantasy, (it becomes obligation rather than organic).
IF that doesn't work, then definitely do what you were gonna do with the direct conversation and the secret recording.
[–]ArabSigma 8 points9 points10 points 4 months ago (1 child)
You can even use one hand to hold both her wrists above her head, and use your free hand however you want.
You can even use one hand to hold both her wrists above her head, and use your free hand however you want.
I use the free hand to do my taxes on the bedside table
[–]UshankaDalek 12 points13 points14 points 4 months ago (0 children)
It's like a threesome, you're getting fucked by the government too!
[–][deleted] 17 points18 points19 points 5 months ago (0 children)
Google "consensual non-consent."
[–]a0001_i1100 14 points15 points16 points 5 months ago (0 children)
You’re overthinking this. She is simply telling you to be more dominant in your guy’s sex life. She’s your girlfriend? If she wanted to false accusation you, it would’ve been done already. Research DEVI from sex god method.
[–]1DubbleFUPAwitCheez 36 points37 points38 points 5 months ago (1 child)
You're telling me you have never gone up to your girl, no matter what was going on, take her pants off and give her a dicking? Sounds like that's what she's saying.
[–]WiredT 6 points7 points8 points 5 months ago (0 children)
This guys got a point 👀
[–]Musicgoon 8 points9 points10 points 4 months ago (4 children)
Make sure you set up a safety system. Most kink people use the standard green yellow red system.. look it up. It sounds like she wants someone to dominate her and she feels safe asking you for it. I will say that this your chance to have fun and practice your dominance. If you falter or act like a homo, you will lose her at this point.
Step up and don't be a coward who fears metoo.
[–]-saltymangos-[S] 0 points1 point2 points 4 months ago (3 children)
Eh, I would imagine it’s pretty hard to fuck up badly being dominate. Slap her, hold her down, pull her hair, whisper dirty shit in her ear
[–]_Ulan_ 1 points1 points1 points 4 months ago [recovered]
Just whisper in her ear "you like that you fucking retard ?"
[–]KillaJewels 3 points4 points5 points 4 months ago (0 children)
Lmao totally using this line
[–]Musicgoon 2 points3 points4 points 4 months ago (0 children)
The only way to fuck it up is by being a fag and not trying.
But you are right. It's not rocket science.
[–]BrodinsOats 17 points18 points19 points 5 months ago* (4 children)
Man I didn’t know I was into this but when my exgf had me “rape” her and she was fighting back etc. I nutted so hard my dead grandfather felt it.
I say go for it. She’s your GF so hopefully that means you can trust her. Establish a safe word next pillow talk (“salty mangos” sounds like a good one 😆).
Then sometime in the future grab her by the throat look her in the eyes and tell her you’re gonna rape her. She’ll probably get soaked.
Edit: recording the consent for this sounds really over-board to me btw. This wouldn’t leave any evidence that would be any different from normal sex. Unless you two REALLY get after it and go pretty wild you’re not gonna leave any substantial marks or bruises.
[–]Ironic_Gangster 9 points10 points11 points 5 months ago (0 children)
HOLY FUCK I'M DOING THIS VERY THING WITH A GIRL I'M INVOLVED WITH AND OUR SAFE WORD IS "MANGO"
[–]SilenceIsGolden321 11 points12 points13 points 5 months ago (0 children)
I would do this to my ex. I'd forcefully kinda take her clothes off so I had access to the goodies and then get on top of her while she was on her stomach.
I'd start pounding her while covering her mouth with one hand and grabbing one of her tits with the other. Then I would alternate pulling her hair. It was awesome. Who knew I would turn out to be a sick fuck lol
[–]-saltymangos-[S] 4 points5 points6 points 5 months ago (0 children)
Low key does sound hot. pm
[–]imtrynaclapnocap -5 points-4 points-3 points 5 months ago (0 children)
Grandfather reference a little much my guy
[–]cheesewindow 3 points4 points5 points 5 months ago (13 children)
Slap her arse with a full hand. If she likes it shes golden.
Edit: Yeah and record it. Kinky and also evidence.
[–]-saltymangos-[S] 7 points8 points9 points 5 months ago (12 children)
I slap her in the face and she likes it
[–]cheesewindow 0 points1 point2 points 5 months ago (0 children)
Do you trust her? Sounds not. Record her saying that. Get her being filthy saying it.
[–]WiredT 0 points1 point2 points 5 months ago (8 children)
Do you choke?
[–]-saltymangos-[S] 1 point2 points3 points 5 months ago (7 children)
she doesn’t like choking but she doesn’t mind a hand around her neck
[–]WiredT 2 points3 points4 points 5 months ago (6 children)
You dont choke over the throat or squeeze the adams apple. You get a good grip around both sides of the neck where l like the arteries or some shit are. Just dont hold for more than 3 secs or so.
Also if she’s sensitive to shit...be careful dude. They sometimes over estimate their tolerance
[–]-saltymangos-[S] 1 point2 points3 points 5 months ago (5 children)
I know how to choke, but she doesn’t like it. I just kinda put my hand around her neck for the dominance factor
[–]WiredT 1 point2 points3 points 5 months ago (4 children)
Doesnt get any more rapey than that lol. Just be a bit more rough and shell like it. She probably was just talking dirty. Ive had a girl tell me to fuck her mouth like a hoe and she meant literally hard. And she was the “sensitive “ type generally. But if she cant handle choking she might just wants you to rough up, pull hair, call her slut type shit. I think you got this.
You could tell her to “first” go wild on you and see how far SHE goes and gauge what she wants tgat way. I dont think shell say you raped tbh but as long as you take her to the next level you dont really have to get rapey
[–]-saltymangos-[S] 0 points1 point2 points 5 months ago (3 children)
Yeah I’ll up my game.
[–]SilenceIsGolden321 1 point2 points3 points 5 months ago (2 children)
Get on top of her and cover her mouth. Tell her "Scream all you want bitch, no one's going to hear you anyway!" As you pound away from the back. Grab her tits as you do it. Good luck lmao
[–]Aestheticcunt1996 0 points1 point2 points 4 months ago (1 child)
Hahahahaha that escalated quickly
[–]HurricaneHugues 0 points1 point2 points 4 months ago (1 child)
Try an elbow next. Get a good nose bleed going
[–]-saltymangos-[S] 0 points1 point2 points 4 months ago (0 children)
i’m on it
[–]Flaskborst 2 points3 points4 points 5 months ago (0 children)
Just record her saying all that shit?
[–]goblinboglin 2 points3 points4 points 4 months ago (6 children)
Just don't do it.
Another kind of stupid shit.
Dudes keep telling you here not to do it all the time, you keep defending it, 'not like literally 'rape', just throw her on the bed and fuck her'.
Stop. You came here for advice and you got it.
If you want plausible deniability this isn't the place.
[–]-saltymangos-[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 4 months ago (5 children)
I’ll play devil’s advocate. Why shouldn’t I do it?
[–]goblinboglin 2 points3 points4 points 4 months ago (4 children)
Yeah, you're a fucking retard.
Go rape her lol.
[–]-saltymangos-[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 4 months ago (3 children)
Give me a few valid reasons. C’mon
[–]ledbymorpheus 0 points1 point2 points 4 months ago (2 children)
Because she can say you raped her are you fuckin stupid
[–]Count_Giggles 0 points1 point2 points 4 months ago (1 child)
she brought it up. with proof of consent he is good to go.
[–]Intentional69 0 points1 point2 points 4 months ago (0 children)
Proof of consent doesn't mean shit today, you're gonna need a full blown contract like on Dave Chappelle's skit and even then the whole system is sided against you. Shit, a mother fighting her ex for her kids can shoot up drugs in front of a judge and they will STILL take her side over the father.
[–]128bitworm 1 point2 points3 points 5 months ago (0 children)
Danger, Will Robinson!!!!
[–]randomfire9 1 point2 points3 points 5 months ago (0 children)
tell her the only way you're willing to do this is if she signs a contract of consent while being video recorded.
[–]AscensionExperiments 1 point2 points3 points 5 months ago (2 children)
1) Have a record of the consensual non-consent- have texts and maybe a form with a signature on it lol (and for your idea of recording it- are you in a one-party consent state? Or nah? make sure because it might be a waste of time)
2) Safewords- establish them
3)You might be fucked anyway
[–]-saltymangos-[S] 0 points1 point2 points 5 months ago (1 child)
what do u mean “one party consent state”? my plan was to record her without her knowledge of her saying the fantasies and shit
[–]AscensionExperiments 0 points1 point2 points 5 months ago (0 children)
Look it up dude. Some states/provinces etc require you to have the consent to record of both people/all parties involved in the conversation for it to be admissable as legal evidence
[–]BluBlac59 1 point2 points3 points 4 months ago (0 children)
Cuddle sex is not what she wants. She wants a more agreesive form of sex. She wants to know that she's hot and you have to have her right now. Pull her clothes off and talk dirty. Don't tell how beautiful she is, grab her and tell her how sexy she is and it turns you on and you have to have her right now. Invite her over and when she walks in don't say a word just look at her give it enough time that she's unsure of what you're going to do. Go over to her and just start. Unbutton her shirt or pull it up and say, " Give me some of this " she'll giggle and you'll know you're on the right path.
[–]Don_Draper27 4 points5 points6 points 5 months ago (8 children)
This depends on trust. Do you trust her enough to not fuck you over for this and do you think she trusts you enough to satisfy this fantasy of hers without actually causing serious harm.
[–]thrwy75479 24 points25 points26 points 5 months ago (4 children)
Never trust women.
[–]-saltymangos-[S] 12 points13 points14 points 5 months ago (1 child)
Yeah.. it’s hard to. I notice they live in the moment. They say they love to get dominated then they break up and 10 years later when a #MeToo scandal gets brought up they want to contribute and feel part of the “pack” so they throw the guy under the bus without hesitation.
[–]WiredT 3 points4 points5 points 5 months ago (0 children)
Shell wait til youre on your way to being president or something big too man. Then WHAM say hello to the prison showers lol.
[–]Thunderfin -1 points0 points1 point 5 months ago (1 child)
Yeah, never trust your own mother. Or grandmother. Foh, seriously.
[–]thrwy75479 1 point2 points3 points 4 months ago (0 children)
Yes, your mother's love is the closest you'll get to unconditional love, but she's still a woman first, as is your grandmother.
And yes, they shit test to see if you're a man. And no, personally, I never trusted them with anything that was actually important. Everyone's free to do what they want, but I would advise anyone else to do the same.
Anecdotally, I've seen BP friends get pushed into marriage by their mothers, the very mothers they trusted to have their best interests at heart. They didn't consciously conspire against their sons and—like many women looking to chain up a man—I think only wanted them to be "socially acceptable", which is to their benefit.
[–]-saltymangos-[S] 1 point2 points3 points 5 months ago (2 children)
I can trust her, but I’ve heard too many stories about innocent stories being leaked and guys getting fucked over. I’m so conflicted on this one topic. I slap her a lot in bed because she likes it, and I honestly have no regret about it because I honestly do trust her. Like,IF she wanted to, she could say I abuse her because I slap her and tell her to shut up. But with rape, like... there’s such a horrible stigma behind it, especially nowadays. I’m just so iffy about it because I’ve heard stories of women who bring up stories from years ago on how they were “touched inappropriately” or “raped” and these things fuck the guy over. And yes, I think she trusts me with fulfilling her fantasies. I know she wants to get dominated by me.
[–]BrodinsOats 5 points6 points7 points 5 months ago (1 child)
I think false rape accusations are more of a problem with one night stands, girls cheating on their bf, etc. Not so much in LTRs.
[–]-saltymangos-[S] 1 point2 points3 points 5 months ago (0 children)
true, but it’s hard to fully trust them bc you could easily be the next accusation when you thought u were safe.
[–]Mescalean 3 points4 points5 points 5 months ago (4 children)
Advise? Record her and be upfront and tell her why. A lot of states have laws against recording without consent.
Personally her fantasy is a huge red flag for me dude. The “rape” or “home invasion”, fuck one girl explained to me a “van scenario” she wanted.... most of these women are twisted in more ways than just that 1 little kink. Be careful man.
Have fun but cover your ass and prepare for the unexpected/unlikely.
[–]-saltymangos-[S] 8 points9 points10 points 5 months ago (3 children)
Eh, a lot of girls have rape/being dominated fantasies. Women love to be taken advantage of by a hot guy and shit. Not too worried tbh.
[–]Aestheticcunt1996 2 points3 points4 points 4 months ago (0 children)
Indeed, it is pretty normal. I read an articel some time ago which stated that 70% of females have rape fantasies regularly. Of course, that does not mean they actually want to get raped. I think what they like about it is the feeling they get when they can be submissive and dominated by a strong male.
[–]SeasonedRP 1 point2 points3 points 4 months ago (1 child)
It's a very common fantasy, much more common than many people would think. And a lot of times, it is the "strong independent women" who are into it, such as educated women with professional careers. They act like men at work and it causes their desire to be dominated to increase.
Women project so much lol
[–]carbonhexoxide 0 points1 point2 points 5 months ago (0 children)
Take a video of her with her saying that she gives you consent for this fantasy like a couple days before you decide to do it
[–]MajIssuesCaptObvious 0 points1 point2 points 5 months ago (0 children)
Check the rape kink reddit.
[–]HurricaneHugues 0 points1 point2 points 4 months ago (0 children)
Have her send you a video of her consenting to get raped sometime this week, between monday and friday (Figure out a 3 day window). Have her establish a safe word in the video. Also have her say the current date as well as if she is currently saying all of this under duress.
[–]mushroom_overlord 0 points1 point2 points 4 months ago (0 children)
You have the idea already. Have video evidence that she consented, and make it clear she consented to the recording as well (basically, she just has to know about the recording beforehand and be ok with being recorded, so fairly obvious if you are shoving your phone in her face lol).
[–]jaw8625 0 points1 point2 points 4 months ago (0 children)
if she is your girlfriend why are you worried about it? This is how I fuck most girls tbh...nothing wrong with throwing a girl on the bed and railing her. That is in fact how women enjoy being fucked. Unless she's screaming no and your being violent anyway you are not raping her. Nothing to overthink here.
[–]binrobinro 0 points1 point2 points 4 months ago (0 children)
It will be used as a rape accusation.
Don't do it. Don't even consider it.
[–]waht_waht 0 points1 point2 points 4 months ago (0 children)
This is some fucked up shit, bro. Don't do it, she may accuse you of rape later.
[–]Count_Giggles 0 points1 point2 points 4 months ago (0 children)
get this app. bring up the topic. maybe suggest a safeword.
then no lube anal
[–]Filmguy000 0 points1 point2 points 4 months ago (0 children)
I dunno, man. Shit like this can be amazing one moment then ruin your life the next. Especially considering today's social climate.
[–]UniqueAway 0 points1 point2 points 4 months ago (1 child)
I'm so scared of a false accusation, woman can really become monsters suddenly, even if a one night stand or fwb can report you? Anyone have any thoughts? Like I m hanging with a girl now, she is a bit crazy and bold what if she do that to me when I leave her, and I for sure will be leaving at some point
don’t go on. drop her while u can
[–]addwater 0 points1 point2 points 4 months ago (0 children)
I'd literally put your phone on audio record and make it known that she had a safe word and that she's requesting you perform such acts.
One day you'll break up and if it's messy she could attempt to distort this.
[–]CC_ee 0 points1 point2 points 4 months ago (0 children)
Meh thats not even a rape fantasy
[–]0io- 0 points1 point2 points 5 months ago (1 child)
I would record the whole thing, video, keep it safe. "I want you to rape me now." You do? "Yes, right now!" "OK, I'm going to video the whole thing. If it gets too intense say Uncle and I'll stop. Do you consent?" "Yes, rape me now!"
It's really the only way to protect yourself fully these days.
FWIW I've never had any problems from girls who explicitly asked for rough stuff or fantasy rape.
[–]WiredT -1 points0 points1 point 5 months ago (0 children)
Shell say she was under the influence...lol let me stop. He should be fine lol
[–]huey764 0 points1 point2 points 5 months ago (0 children)
[–]Stargazer34 0 points1 point2 points 4 months ago (0 children)
You don't! under NO circumstances should you even entertain this fucking shit show of an idea.
[–]INNASKILLZ2K18 -3 points-2 points-1 points 5 months ago (0 children)
How funny is this thread...
'My chick wants me to rape her'
'Fucking do it, go for it'
'Record that shit'
No wonder Red Pill is quarantined 😂😂😂
[–]smggs -1 points0 points1 point 5 months ago (4 children)
If you do what you GF tells you to do, you're an idiot and you deserve what you get.
what do you mean
[–]smggs -1 points0 points1 point 4 months ago (2 children)
Lets think, your GF is telling you to RAPE her.
Lets say you do it, obviously, you're gonna leave marks. There and then she has something on you.
Let's say you both have a disagreement, something petty like you speaking to other girls, she can go to either her family or the police and say that you raped her.
Google this shit. Some rich guy in Canada got pulled up for this. The only reason he didn't go jail was because three women were plotting against him, its all in their emails. The damage has been done, his name dragged through the mud, lost his job and money.
Have you seen the movie Gone Girl?
[–]-saltymangos-[S] -1 points0 points1 point 4 months ago (1 child)
okay “rape” was an exaggeration. she wants me to throw her on the bed, hold her down, and fuck her hard. Not like pull her into a bathroom and put my hand on her mouth and fuck her. She just wants to be dominated really hard.
[–]smggs 0 points1 point2 points 4 months ago (0 children)
You damage the goods, you're still liable. Basically, there's no smart way around this.
Again, watch Gone Girl.