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Recently, I’ve seen a lot of posts asking advice on how to be more feminine, on the outside and inside. I just found her today, but I think Mrs. Midwest has a bunch of eloquent videos on femininity that aligns with what RPW preaches. She’s super bubbly and having her videos play in the background as I got ready and did chores put me in a great mood. The only thing I’m not a huge fan of is that she leans very heavily Christian, which makes a tiny portion of her advice unapplicable/unrelatable to those who aren’t Christian or who aren’t as intensely Christian (I’m the latter). Still, she seems to have a great head on her shoulders, and she’s definitely worth checking out!


[–]MissNietzsche7 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

TheFeminineWoman has good videos for some RPW newbies who want to learn about vetting!

[–]tansandbeaches[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Awesome, I'll check her out too!

[–]DeepWaterRose5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I like her too! ^_^

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

She's amazing. But I don't think her religion shouldn't factor in much in developing your femininity. In fact, lots of things in the Bible are quite red-pilled if you read them carefully without the prejudice against Christianity.

[–]tansandbeaches[S] 4 points5 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

I agree to an extent, but I do think her views are a bit polarizing when it comes to not dating someone who isn't in the same religion as you. Of course, if your values differ a lot, I don't think it's a good idea either, but I think that there's a lot of good men out there from other religions. Still, this is my take as a person who's quite moderate with her Christianity, so I can understand how someone who is more devout like her feels that way. That's the only thing that I disagreed with though - most of her other values/points that are also based in Christianity are a lot more applicable to a wider audience.

[–]freyalifestyle 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy Link

It's extremely difficult to raise children when the parents don't have the same view points, though. Especially if one goes to temple/ church/ mosque while the other goes to vice versa. That is so confusing for children

[–]tansandbeaches[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Good point! I think that's a question that should come up after serious engagements, like a marriage proposal, are made. At this point, I think you can discuss whether or not one of you are willing to convert for the other, and if not, how willing they are to accommodate to the other's fate. This is what I meant by similar values despite religion - if both individuals are very devout to their respective religions, this may be a difficult pairing. However, if one or both are of that religion but are not as devout, a compromise may be possible. I think it's more important to vet to see if your partner is the same level of devotedness as you, compared to whether they are the same religion as you.

For example, my dad converted from Buddhism to marry my mom, who was a very devout Catholic. Because he was much less religious than she, he was okay with converting and raising me as a Catholic as well. The three of us been going to Catholic church my entire life.

[–]freyalifestyle 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy Link

I think you made very good points, as well! Maybe it is just that I didn't realize that ( especially in 2019) if you are religious you can be half in half out. I think you made good suggestions for those who are not devout, like you said. So, if one is devout, what would your dating strategy be? How soon do you bring it up? Congrats to you & your family for being strong in your chosen religion!!

[–]tansandbeaches[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't have much experience myself of what to do if one is devout, but I can go off on what my mother told me she did! She never had a sit-down, stiff talk with my dad where she said that she is Very Catholic and Won't Take Otherwise. Instead, she showed him how devout she was by first mentioning that she grew up going to an all-girls Catholic School and that she goes to church every Sunday. Then, when things got more serious between them, she would invite him to church and see if he was willing to come. Once marriage talks came, it wasn't a big jump to the conclusion that she was unwavering in her faith. To get married in the Catholic Church, he had to convert, get baptized, and the whole shebang. Hope that helps you! Thanks for the kind words :)

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yep, I definitely agree with your opinion!

[–]I_ysk4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Check out Georgia Free too.

[–]tansandbeaches[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank you! Will do.

[–]DeepWaterRose2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Candice Oneida is also great!

[–]tansandbeaches[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Ooh, I think I've watched a few of her videos as well! She's a cool gal :)

[–]Rubenchick1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

She’s awesome!!

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Tatiana Buree has videos about femininity too

[–]tansandbeaches[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Added to the list of cool femininity youtubers I gotta check out hehe

[–]LateralThinker133 Stars1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

GirlWritesWhat

Blonde in the Belly of the Beast

Allison Tierman

[–]tansandbeaches[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks for the recs! I'll be sure to check 'em out!

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