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[–][deleted] 44 points45 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

/me giggles that the organization that sponsored this is pronounces "P-NASS"

[–]TheDevilsAdvokaat45 points46 points  (33 children) | Copy Link

There's a sub I used to hang on (Large penis problems or something)

I mentioned that women do generally enjoy large penises and was downvoted for it. Some guy spent hours and multiple posts "proving" that was just my "personal experience and anecdotes" and when I mentioned my brothers had experienced the same thing he "proved" that was erroneous too (in his own mind). After a while I complained to the mod i was starting to find it abusive and the mod said he didn't think it was so I unsubscribed from the sub.

Anyway I may get downvoted for this too but here goes: If you've got one, you already know women love large penises. But a LOT of people (especially other men) get really upset about this and refuse to acknowledge or get angry about it or deny it or try to "prove" it isn't true by finding some porn star (Who specializes in satisfying men's fantasies) who says she prefers "small to medium"...

Ah well.

[–]rigbed31 points32 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Women love big anything.

[–]TheDevilsAdvokaat24 points25 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

True. Big wallets, big houses....

[–]oprahsbuttplug25 points26 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

You're 100% right. I stopped going to that sub because it's very clear to me that there is zero big dick energy there.

In my experience, every woman I've dated had the same reaction at first which is "that's not gonna fit but I like a challenge." I'm 6'3" as well and I've had women flat out tell me right to my face that if I had a smaller dick than I do that they wouldn't date me or they'd be disappointed.

The study is just confirming the psychology of the last 10,000 years of civilization which is

Perceived masculinity = dick size.

If you are a big dude, people expect you to have a big dick. That's why everybody thinks that everything a man does that is extraordinary is "compensating" for something.

Like the classics of having a big truck, or a fast car, ride a motorcycle, lots of money etc etc, all of that gets distilled into "does he have a big dick or not?"

It's sad but there is still a large contingency of women in society that think any dangerous activity a dude does is compensating for his dick but then again, we didn't let women build civilization for a long time because we thought they were dumber than men for some reason......

[–]TheDevilsAdvokaat3 points4 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Thanks mate!

I was actually there for about a year because there were people with genuine questions like what kind of underwear is best, how do I avoid hurting a girl when I accidentally go too deep, what is the best sex position, how do I avoid it swinging around too much when I walk, etc etc.

But even though I was constantly trying to support others I got tired of some people going to the sub then attempting to "prove" that "women don't really like big dicks"....and harassing those who said they do.

And yes it's always great to see a girl's reaction when they see what you're packing ... :-)

And also yeah, not everything we do is about dick size. Men also do dangerous or difficult things for the challenge, or because they need to be done, or just for the hell of it...reducing everything to "must have a small dick" is a shaming tactic that originated from women....and it's about as sensible as us saying "must have a loose pussy" every time a woman does something silly....

[–]oprahsbuttplug2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Agreed.

I respect you for trying to help people out but truth of the issue is that nobody should take advice from anyone on Reddit.

Anyone who says having a big dick is a bad thing or that men/women don't like it, whatever, are lying straight to your face or they don't have the experience know they're wrong.

Personally I know that everything about me is just a lucky roll of the genetic dice but it is still nice to walk away from an argument knowing full well that not everyone else is this lucky.

[–]TheDevilsAdvokaat2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Yep.

I'm not rich or handsome so it's nice to be gifted in other ways.

[–]oprahsbuttplug4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

If you can't be handsome then at least be handy.

That's what my pops told me lol.

[–]TheDevilsAdvokaat0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Pops was right!!

[–]that_nagger_guy2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

How did this turn into a literal dick bragging contest?

[–]drsherbert0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Women are fucking pigs bro

[–]rigbed8 points9 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

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[–]TheDevilsAdvokaat2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Ah yes that''s the one!

I no longer go there.

[–]rigbed1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

longer

[–]KrakaLakak 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy Link

The people in "bigdickproblems" likely don't have a big dick to even experience this, anyone who has already knows women love it.

[–]TheDevilsAdvokaat2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah ... absolutely right. That's my experience too. Nice to see blackpillscience confirming it. The people saying it's not true are probably the same people who say "looks don't matter"...

[–]kaoticgirl1 point2 points  (10 children) | Copy Link

I feel like you may not believe me, but my bf has a large penis and it is a real problem. I would much, much rather it were smaller.

[–]TheDevilsAdvokaat7 points8 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

No, I have no problem believing this. I am sure there are some girls who don't prefer bigger ones.

People have a wide range of preferences.

But in general girls prefer bigger, and blackpillscience confirmed this.

[–]kaoticgirl1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Fair enough, you did say generally.

[–]TheDevilsAdvokaat6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I love it when people are actually civil to each other during a discussion. Have a nice day.

[–]kaoticgirl1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You as well, thanks.

[–]oprahsbuttplug2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I have a question for you if you don't mind.

It's one thing to prefer a smaller penis for sex, that I understand.

I would like to ask you if your perception of him would change if he had a much smaller dick? Especially if he is tall 5'10" and up, would you think a out him differently if he wasn't as well endowed?

[–]kaoticgirl1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Not at all. With one exception, penis size has never been a consideration for me before this current bf. I don't really even think about it at all.

The reason I had an exception was because a while ago I was in a long-term relationship with a man who was quite fat and his penis was sort of...buried. So we just had to work around that position-wise. It was more about logistics than anything. I never thought about it at all outside of practical application.

As for height, I admit that is something that does cross my mind, but I never think about my bf in terms of his height. I am a tall woman, 5' 11" and yes sometimes i think it would be nice to hug a man taller than me and to do that nestle my head under his chin thing but it's a fleeting thought that is probably induced by media input. Current bf is the same height as me but maybe a bare 1/4 in shorter, I play it up sometimes just to ruffle his feathers. We both know that it's just in fun though. We've been together nearly 5 years for reference, bought a house together so we are committed.

Really the things that concern me is solid communication and having a true partnership. I suppose that sounds trite but I'll be honest with you internet strangers: lonliness is one of my biggest fears. So being able to feel really connected with my SO is my biggest priority. I don't know if you'll think this is relevant but I met my bf on Okcupid. His picture was cute enough but he had a beard. I have always hated facial hair, it just grosses me out. Well we chatted anyway and I really enjoyed talking to him so we met for a date. It went well and we started seeing more of each other but I had to keep looking past that beard! Then eventually it was time to kiss and ugh i had to kiss that beard! But as we got to know each other better and like each other and eventually love each other I worried less and less about the hair on his face and more and more about the emotional connection we were forming. A couple years ago he shaved and he really looks funny without it. I just nag him to keep it tidy and it is fine, it is just him. I know comparing his facial hair to penis size or height isn't the same but my point is that Getting down to the business of loving someone and letting yourself be loved is a hell of a lot more important than getting out the measuring tapes for physical features. That was a really long answer to your simple question, sorry about that.

[–]that_nagger_guy1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Then why did you choose him as your boyfriend? You think it makes him seem more masculine, admit it.

[–]kaoticgirl1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

First, I got to know and like him before we had sex. I chose him as my boyfriend because we get along well together. We make each other happy and work well as partners. The trouble with his size is something we work around. I have no need for him to seem or be masculine. He is who he is and I love him. If were to consider his level of masculinity at all it would probably be with a bit of relief that he's not like the ultra masculine types I work with all day. Bottom line is I love my bf for who he is and how he makes me feel. I think about his dick size as much as I think about the shape of his toes- which is to say, not at all.

[–]that_nagger_guy2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Hahaha sure

[–]kaoticgirl3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

What reason would I have to be untruthful about my life and perspectives to strangers on Reddit?

[–]Burnvictim-Chad0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm reasonably endowed and I'd take more length and girth without a second thought. Bigger IS better.

[–]spherical_idiot0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

You complained to a mod because a guy wouldn't give up when arguing with you?

You're a little marxist socialist fascist leftist. Is that about right?

Obviously women prefer bigger dicks. But seriously? You cry to mods when people won't give in to your arguments? Holy crap.

[–]TheDevilsAdvokaat0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

You sad little troll.

[–]spherical_idiot1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I'd rather be a troll (which I'm not) than someone who cries to authority when they don't get what they want. That is as pathetic and numale as it gets.

[–]TheDevilsAdvokaat0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Blocking you now....I bet you get that a lot. Reply if you want but i won't see it...

[–]spherical_idiot0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Ok. I'll reply. And you'll see it. Because that's not how blocking works lol.

[–]phifson24 points25 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

No shit sherlock

[–]SophisticatedBean6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Am I reading this correctly that, on average, a 13 cm flaccid penis size increases attractiveness by 1.5 out of 7 points (with a pretty narrow 95% confidence interval) over a 5 cm penis? The graph seems implausible because wouldn't one expect it to be negative for very small penis sizes?

[–]BitsAndBobs30413 points14 points  (28 children) | Copy Link

Why the narrow hips? Only because fertile women get wide ones?

[–]SomeTurdInTheWind[S] 27 points28 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

On theory it's because people with narrower hips are better runners. Running requires torsion at the hips, turning your hips to the left and the right step after step (try running only moving your legs, with your hips facing forward all the time, you will barely even run and you will look like a retarded robot).

Narrower hips reduce the distance that the hip has to travel with every step. This makes steps easier and less taxing on energy.

[–]TheDevilsAdvokaat10 points11 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I wonder if it's also because it makes your shoulders look wider in comparison...

[–]MissNietzsche8 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

As a female with narrow hips and wide shoulders, (yes I hate my body type), I can confirm this.

[–]sebool1123 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm surprised you aren't downvoted on this sub when you say you're a woman.

[–]MissNietzsche4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Porqué?

[–]ugluk111 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol, so you can run faster away from the hoe.

[–]SophisticatedBean0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

This makes steps easier and less taxing on energy.

The idea that hip size is related to locomotion efficiency is an old one, and it's regarded as dubious by more recent science:

https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2015/03/150313094557.htm

[–]phuk-nugget31 points32 points  (15 children) | Copy Link

If the upper body is muscular, it shows a better v-taper. Which is an ideal shape for the male upper body

[–]BitsAndBobs3048 points9 points  (14 children) | Copy Link

yes, that i get. but are narrow hips in themselves any useful for power or hunting or fighting?

[–]RAZENKN18 points19 points  (13 children) | Copy Link

Yes, your hips are more mechanically efficient if they are narrow. All the best sprinters have narrow hips and broad shoulders, as expected.

[–]ICQME14 points15 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

My hips are extremely wide for a male. I've always had poor athletic performance and they make me look shorter/fatter no matter my weight. In form fitting clothing I look like a woman and in looser clothing I look fat and frumpy. It's not a good look.

[–]TakeitEasyFam20 points21 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

over for shakiracels

[–]ICQME2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Hips don't lie - They shout to the world I'm of low quality genetics.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I got wide hips, and I have a very powerful squat and deadlift. I plan to compete for it.

[–]InfiniteTrees 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy Link

dude that finger glove fishnet shirt thing you're wearing is not a good look hahaha

[–]ICQME2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

It was a gift from a FWB so I wore it when with them. Here's another picture of my hips https://imgur.com/PUzqg9L They're hopelessly wide for a male so I did the only thing I could do, gender transitioned. A curvy figure looks fine on a woman and really terrible on a guy.

[–]Simp4Lyf-2 points-1 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

rofl. you are just fat

[–]ICQME6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Just auschwitzmax bro, that will change your bone structure.

[–]BitsAndBobs3041 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

what about mma and lifters?

[–]GapeAndPillager0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Fighters tend to be more square/rectangle

[–]TheDevilsAdvokaat0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

I think this is missing something. Your hips are more mechanically efficient at speedy movements if they are narrow, you're saying.

But running is not the only strenuous activity men perform. Male-male combat is probably not assisted by narrow hips.

[–]RAZENKN0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Hip width is relative - larger men will have wider hips than short men but it is proportional. And narrow hips are more mechanically efficient for weightlifting as well. If your hips are narrower then more of your leg bones will be directly under your center of mass and there are less shearing forces on the ball and socket joint of the hip. I don’t know the nuances of mechanics behind combat but I would guess it would be similar.

[–]SophisticatedBean5 points6 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

It has likely no particular purpose. The link between waist–hip ratio, even hip size and fertility in women is also weak. Of course the extremes are bad, but the narrow preferences for the female hourglass shape and the male V-shape are likely amplified by Fisherian runwaway selection.

[–]Nigrum-Turcam1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Wide hips are critical for childbirth.

[–]SophisticatedBean1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

No, that's not true. See here (the last myth):

https://www.pregnancybirthbaby.org.au/common-myths-about-giving-birth

The hypothesized relation between hip size and locomotion inefficiency is very likely wrong anyhow:

https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2015/03/150313094557.htm

It is true that women are worse runners, but the hip structure is not a main limiting factor here. Muscle mass is.

[–]Nigrum-Turcam0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

There's some weirdness in how they describe it, they take wide hips to mean the ilium bone, even though the size and shape of the pelvis is connected to size of the hips. Like this.

[–]red_matrix0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Think “V-taper”

[–]anangrygoyqq5 points6 points  (13 children) | Copy Link

Where's the manlet cutoff point

[–]Simp4Lyf12 points13 points  (11 children) | Copy Link

6'1. anything below and you might as well go find yourself an Asian like every other poor sucker who isn't physically impressive enough to keep a western female interested

[–]Haz_CD8 points9 points  (10 children) | Copy Link

No way is it 6'1. You just have to be over 5'9 and good looking

[–]Simp4Lyf4 points5 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

over 5'9....

manlet. detected.

guaranteed she will never mention your height as a quality unless you are 6'1+

[–]sebool1121 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

I heard that women assume you're over 6' even when you're actually just a couple of inches below that.

[–]Simp4Lyf2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

they probably have to for their own self respect :)

[–]sebool1120 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

lol

[–]InfiniteTrees 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy Link

WRONG

[–]sebool1120 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Wrong?

[–]Haz_CD1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Doesn't mean you can't get laid! Honestly have you spoken to a girl? As long as you're bigger than them and good looking

[–]Simp4Lyf1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

nope you still get laid, women mostly settle

[–]Haz_CD0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh you meant as a girlfriend.

[–]ThumbsDexterous0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, to all of the above! Especially the larger penis. Yea, I said it!

[–]ambisinister_sloth0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Well I am short, shoulders decently broad, not super thicc hips and have an average-ish penis. Doesn't seem so bad all of the sudden, but it is.

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