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FIELD REPORTHe said I was "wife material" (self.RedPillWomen)

submitted by dangernoodle88

Thank you RPW!

So me and my guy started off as a "casual" thing. This was before I learned about RPW. Even though I knew the chances of resuscitating that was low, I fell in love with him and aggressively applied RPW techniques.

Well, today he mentioned that at the beginning he thought I was cute but wasn't expecting me to also be "wife material," and now he sees a real future for us despite the way things started.

I would say my experience is probably the exception and not the rule, and still heavily suggest against trying to turn a FWB thing into anything more. But it's not impossible. And nowadays there are so few women doing basic shit for their men that RPW really gives us an edge!

I'm so happy. He's a great man and a wonderful partner. So excited to find out what's in store.


[–]LaneysWorld218 points19 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

I'm so happy for you! Can you name a few examples of things you did for him that makes him think of you as wife material now?

[–]dangernoodle88[S] 48 points49 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Hmm some little things I can think of. At the beginning I would observe his morning routine and just other little quirks of his. Now whenever I'm over, he wakes up to a glass of orange juice on his bedstand, clean kitchen, and coffee ready. No chit chat until he's awake and ready. I tidy around the house (without snooping) whenever I can. And play it off as just the normal thing to do instead of expecting some grand appreciation. Back scratches after sex. At night he gets foot rubs while we watch tv. Just little acts of service here and there based on what I've found he likes, and showing how seamlessly I fit into his life.

Attitude is huge I think. Made some big changes after learning about RPW. Being pleasant is sooo important to a man wanting to spend more time with you. Just smiling and acting girly and playful. Not being combative, whiny, or critical. Even if I've had a bad day or feeling down, like I'll let him know but I'll try my best to perk up and won't let it turn into ruining his night too. It almost sounds like I'm repressing my true feelings but in all honesty acting like this has helped me feel brighter from within as well.

This goes against what RP communities say, but for him, me having a career was huge. He's wealthy and gets a lot of attention from gold diggers. He's also very intelligent and wanted someone who could keep up. I'm going to be a doctor (soon!) so he said this is what set me apart from other women, and he said my career is what made him take me more seriously as someone with long term potential.

[–]LaneysWorld26 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Thank you so much! How do you get up before him without waking him if I may ask?

[–]dangernoodle88[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Well I get up at 5am for work so even on the weekends when I'm over I still naturally wake up quite early without an alarm haha, and just slip out of bed. Sorry, probably not helpful, but I'm sure you could do all those things without necessarily waking up early. It's more about noticing what he likes/appreciates. My guy likes having a comfy and streamlined morning as he's usually crankiest then.

[–]gmkost0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank you for posting these! I knew I was in the right direction but seeing it written out gives me some hope! Wish me luck RPW!!

[–]icandrive155 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy Link

Are these lasting changes in your behavior or will they expire after the vows?

[–]dangernoodle88[S] 10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

This is weirdly accusatory. But yes, performing the upkeep of a healthy relationship is one of my highest priorities in life.

[–]Kara__El4 Stars5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm glad this has worked well for you and that you saw the light in time!

[–]LateralThinker133 Stars4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

And nowadays there are so few women doing basic shit for their men that RPW really gives us an edge!

This. Society has shifted far enough into the twilight zone that acting with the social graces and skills of a 50's housewife elevates your desirability above 90% of all women.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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