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I did my own chadfishing and found screenshots to be misleading. The chadfish gets tons of matches and most girls reply instantly. A decent amount of girls will even agree to date or ask for the address when invite them to my place. Thats the part the gets screenshoted and then the convo ends.

The next step is following through the date or invite to my place. I give them a random address or a time and place for a date and they don't follow through. If its my place i give them the address to random apartment complex and they stop replying now that it becomes serious. With a date i give them a restruant and time they agree to. Then i say OWM and they ghost.


[–]arissiro42 points43 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

They’re only useful for illustrating what Tinder is actually like on the other side - as most men lie about how much they struggle on the app. Chadfishing shows that, contrary to the garbage you read on soy-havens like reddit etc - it’s not about your bio, and hobbies, and pictures with your dog etc. There are objective traits that make men physically attractive and these are the most important factors for sexual success on Tinder and in real life.

I would imagine your Chadfishing is a bit “rushed” (as tends to be the case for illustrative purposes): I imagine if you went for a more normal route, and took their numbers, and spoke to them on the phone, they would be more trusting and actually want to meet. Having a random guy on Tinder just give them an address probably sets a red flag or two - and not even just in terms of safety, but even effort, considering that they could go this place only to find you’re bullshitting.

That said I definitely agree that a lot of women use Tinder for entertainment, validation, and male attention than actual hookups. They’re saturated in male attention on all social media: Snapchat, Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, WhatsApp, so there’s no urgency when it comes to Tinder (especially for the women higher up on the looks scale).

[–]DifficultReference2 1 points [recovered]  (6 children) | Copy Link

I imagine if you went for a more normal route, and took their numbers, and spoke to them on the phone, they would be more trusting and actually want to meet.

This is actually so true. OP literally built zero comfort. Imagine if he actually had a well established IG and messages them there, or sent her snaps or even facetime'd her to prove who he is? That would build so much more comfort it's insane. It's not at all werid that OP is getting the results he's getting if he's building zero comfort, as well as some of the girls probably thinks he's too good looking to be true, on top of that, there are definitely girls who are on the app but will still never meet anyone irl. Even if you're slightly below average and get a match, there's no way they'd meet up with you if you did what OP did, there's a reason the "normal route" you explained exists, because it's the only thing that works.

[–]blackpillmaxxing 1 points [recovered]  (5 children) | Copy Link

if you look at r/tinder this is how most of the screenshots are. the convo is kept short.

[–]DifficultReference2 1 points [recovered]  (4 children) | Copy Link

Every post on r/tinder is misleading af, probably faked as well. Also, your main goal on tinder is just to get them off tinder with as little effort as possible. Go for number / IG / snapchat or whatever, then you continue the conversation. You don't build comfort on tinder.

[–]SpinPlates1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This 1000%

I will literally just give girls my Instagram after a few messages and be like "nice chatting, see you around" and usually in about 5 minutes they will DM me.

However I don't think they are faked. They are just silly court jester puns about their names. Hardly any of those losers close.

[–]blackpillmaxxing 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy Link

probably faked as well

i dont think they are faked. Theres no need to fake them. The convo just ends there. they girls say they are down to fuck and then ghost.

[–]Pidjesus6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

People do a lot for karma

[–]PMmepicsofyourtits2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Try chadfishing, and set up a meeting at s public place, like a coffee shop or something simple like that.

[–]TheWrongStuff12314 points15 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I don’t think it’s as a joke, it’s a self esteem thing. I think you’re probably right that a lot of girls never intend to meet guys from these apps. I think women in general are still ambivalent about meeting up with total strangers, and some probably suspect the account is fake if the guy is too good looking.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Tinder has high flake rate for anyone. Chad will still slay. This is not revolutionary information.

[–]WhoopiCushionberg3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

lifefuel

[–]SpinPlates2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

I'm pretty chadlite and I've slept with over a dozen women the day I've matched with them on tinder/bumble.

Some have come straight to my house, others I met in public places.

I've been ghosted hundreds of times as well. It's a numbers game and just catching a thot in the right mindset to hook up.

[–]mindmonkey000 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

I'd call myself a chadlite as well. I can score dates pretty easily. Haven't really scored hookups though. Got any tips?

[–]SpinPlates2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I kind of cheat with a motorcycle. Usually how i proposition first dates. Motorcycle ride then take them back to my house.

Get them to drive to my house. Have them put their purse or whatever in my room because cars get broken into on my street. This makes them have to come back inside.

Take them for a ride and judge their comfortable level. Some girls hold on really tight, others not as tight. Some grab dick through my jeans without me even escalating.

I'll try to stop at a bar or something and take a break so we can chat. Before getting back on the bike i escalate with a kiss, then take them back to my house and say like "You wanna come inside and hang or do you have to go"... They come in 90% of the time.

At that point it's a pretty good chance I'm going to fuck them. One think I heard some PUA say but i forgot who it was...A night out to a women is like a movie. They want a story and a plot to build and they want a climax. They want the emotional spike and the story to tell their girlfriends at brunch the next day.

[–]mindmonkey000 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

What do you do if you don't have a motorcycle?

[–]SpinPlates0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Take them out for a drink and then escalate back to my house. Done that plenty of times. Not every girl wants to ride a motorcycle.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I slay on tinder after roiding

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