TIL just deleted a post about male victims of domestic abuse

oldschoolmailman · 2014-10-27T00:25:54+00:00

As a male who's been sexually assaulted, I've learned to just shut up about it and move on. I've spoken about the subject before and been told to stop being insensitive, stop appropriating the experience of survivors, stop mansplaining how sexual assault works. After I reveal that I'm speaking from experience, people will begin tripping over themselves and telling me that other examples are different and women are in constant fear of being assaulted, etc.

The bottom line, most of these social justice warriors and feminists don't give a damn about real victims or verifiable science that disputes their claims. If you're a male victim, then fuck off. No justice for you.

TRPsubmitter · 2014-10-26T21:26:04+00:00

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OsoFeo · 2014-10-26T22:09:06+00:00

Really, people like that are the gift that keeps on giving.

One of the major factors in convincing me that the MRM and RP are largely correct was the extent to which its critics and enemies will go to censor its advocates and proponents.

Truth survives in light. Lies whither away.

johnbailey1 · 2014-10-26T23:01:11+00:00

Check out the threads in /r/undelete about the removals. Look at the comments by the TIL mods. They're hell-bent on getting rid of any posts about men's rights in TIL though they swear they're not biased. I included a link to another post that they removed that was about women being the biggest perpetrators of child abuse.

http://redditlog.com/snapshots/1198133

http://redditlog.com/snapshots/1198141

mutebychoice · 2014-10-27T00:50:52+00:00

There is such a bias here, the blatant sexism and inequality ruins lives and they don't even care. Im currently divorcing, separated since February. My soon to be ex wife shows up at my current place I'm living, starts shouting at the top of her lungs, after I asked her not to come because of her repeated angry calls and that she could have the check mailed since she wants to act like that.so she gets out of the vehicle ,starts pushing me physically, takes the check and puts it in her car rather than leaving, continues to push me so I said fine and attempted to grab the check from the car, THEN she cares about getting in the car, hits me in the face with the car door and then slots in the car,still not trying to leave, so I tried to grab the check again and she Bites my arm, which wasn't on her ,she had to lean forward to do so. Finally after that I called the cops ,turns out a neighbor already had. So female cop shows up and asks me what happened, even admits that her getting out of the vehicle to push me is assault, but because I tried to grab the check out of the car I was charged with DV unlawful detention. She was not charged. She's since used the do not contact order to take property thats mine, make.threats to my mother, and file for a divorce asking for everything, even while I still pay my portion of the bills. To make sure she's not inconvenienced and her kids don't suffer. I've used every dine to my name to pay the criminal defense lawyer, and now I need to pay a divorce lawyer on top of it. Meanwhile my parents are losing their house and I can't help them with back taxes The prosecutor at the ongoing case even admits she should've been charged but isn't willing to dismiss so far, the "discretion" on who to charge is a lie, the male will be arrested. I will lose my career with this charge, my parents house, the car I'm supposed to use to get to work and pay her 3/4 of my check to her somehow(not even married 3/years) sorry to text wall,its obviously maddening and its literally ruined my life up to this point, I could go on and on, it'd way more fucked up than even this summary,and yes this is the summary, if needed or wanted I can give more. The point is you never call the cops and never be alone with an aggressive woman, keep your hands in your pocket.

ColbyChee5e · 2014-10-26T22:43:24+00:00

Every time I see a post like this I just always want to stay single.

WoahScienceCool · 2014-10-26T21:57:37+00:00

If you cant post this there, just keep posting it on other subreddits and forums.

Add this story of yours as a BONUS cliff at the bottom to spread word about what cocksuckers TIL mods are as well, just to really sink in the point of the War on Men.

Do not allow yourself to be silenced. If you do, then theyve won. For every forum or subreddit this topic gets deleted at, spread it to three more different ones, and so on and so forth.

acedeucetrey · 2014-10-26T23:04:32+00:00

The reason for this is simple in regard to the title of the deleted post, women are the default victims feminism has made sure of this. This post was deleted, as the OP pointed out, because this doesn't fit into that narrative.

trpSenator · 2014-10-27T00:29:39+00:00

Okay, see, I know what you're thinking. I know that you want to jump in and leave some kind of anti-feminist comment, but think for a second. Is this phenomenon really due to women wanting equality, or is it due to society perceiving women as lesser? I'll give you an answer, it's because society still views women as weak and frail. We're still taught that men are supposed to be big and strong, and the women are supposed to be dainty little flowers who couldn't hurt a fly if they tried. That's why this awful shit happens. If you think that feminists are the problem, you're only making this worse.

LOL! Right...

Let's disregard the fact that feminists are the reason men are the ones getting arrested like this in places like CA. Why? Because they initially made a law that said for any domestic abuse instance, the police MUST arrest the aggressor. The feminists just figured it would always be men... However, they had a brick of reality drop on them once police were now arresting women just as frequently as the men for being at fault.

So then the feminists went back and patched up the law making it so the police MUST arrest the person who has the potential to do the most damage, regardless of fault (Hint: Men are almost always the more physically capable to cause damage.)

SQQQ · 2014-10-27T13:51:27+00:00

feminists can't tolerate facts.

morbid69 · 2014-10-27T14:23:27+00:00

Sadly most subreddits are PC liberal circle jerks that have SJW mods on a power trip that silence any dissenting opinion. It's been seen time and time again. Doesn't matter if legitimate facts are presented, because apparently feelings > reality. This is one of the only good subreddits on this site, one of the few where political correctness doesn't run wild which I am very greatful for.

funnyfaceking · 2014-10-27T06:53:11+00:00

http://i.imgur.com/wf6zaJJ.png

bpcPunk · 2014-10-27T03:04:52+00:00

The messed up thing is that this is only going to push these types of posts to the fringe subs and reinforces the entire system.

Few years down the line: "Oh you got diddled when you were 12? That's hillarious. Think it's funny that a chubby girl can't fit her jeans, you're an insensitive piece of shit."

Aerobus · 2014-10-26T22:58:29+00:00

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NolanHarlow · 2014-10-26T23:42:59+00:00

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What a bunch of shit

[deleted] · 2014-10-27T00:54:21+00:00

They like to perpetuate the myth that women are angels because they don't want to give up on their hope that a sexy angel with double-Ds will save them from themselves and love them for their comic book and toy figurines collection.

Razzamafoo · 2014-10-27T00:22:18+00:00

And into the trash /r/todayilearned goes

[deleted] · 2014-10-26T21:30:59+00:00

Looks to me like it fell apart because people in the comments just started bitching about feminism.

Can't say I'm surprised. Women go through all extremes to paint a perfect picture. Most male mods on defaults are egotistical cunts anyway.

topspeedj · 2014-10-26T22:21:16+00:00

Damn, some of those stories are just ridiculous.

But anyway, when mods and websites pull this kind of crap on posts that are actually completely inoffensive and reference rigorous science, people tend to take notice and stand up.

It's the Barbara Streisand Effect at work. If TIL hadn't deleted the post, this post here wouldn't have blown up with upvotes and comments.

jolly--roger · 2014-10-26T22:45:54+00:00

Welcome to reddit. Or more specifically, welcome to TRP, and you're not welcome to the rest of reddit as such.

Transmigratory · 2014-10-27T01:53:53+00:00

Ugh, and then feminists wonder why they don't garner respect.

noteventrying · 2014-10-27T06:47:32+00:00

facts dont real, only feels!

JesusFuckILoveAnal · 2014-10-27T12:53:05+00:00

I always wonder how people have the foresight to save this stuff before it gets deleted.

[deleted] · 2014-10-27T13:53:31+00:00

Manginas: Ruining rational thinking since forever.

[deleted] · 2014-10-27T15:55:33+00:00

/u/-richard- all your downvote are belong to us

Aerobus · 2014-10-26T23:13:16+00:00

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Idle_Redditing · 2014-10-27T02:21:45+00:00

What is the excuse from the r/todayilearned mods for this? I mean what they said themselves.

Also, why do cops almost always arrest the man in these cases? What are they 'thinking'? Even if the guy has marks all over his arms from defending himself.

[deleted] · 2014-10-27T00:14:21+00:00

This is Reddit. This is the Internet. WTF do you expect?

denart4 · 2014-10-27T02:51:18+00:00

IIRC some commenter in that post said there were more of those posts that don't fit the feminist agenda and he predicted this one would go down aswell. He was right.

It is sad what reddit is turning into.

Misteralcala · 2014-10-27T04:33:56+00:00

We need to upvote this fucker to the front page. Censorship in the name of Feminism? Fuck you.

LaidBackStrat · 2014-10-26T21:18:07+00:00

I thought about reposting this OP (with credit) on a sub like /r/theoryofreddit that seems to be pretty impartial with things like these, but it would probably be deleted there too.

nuesuh · 2015-03-22T17:23:51+00:00

Reading that reddit post, i'm glad I don't live in USA. The justice system seems really fucked up.

nothere_ · 2014-10-27T05:52:47+00:00

fuck i saw that thread and meant to comment in it (before the match had started)meanwhile the same old reposts get frontpage coverage and useless comments and shitty memetastic puns are upvoted & promoted.fuck being a trivia base,its just a big gold circlejerk.

synpse · 2014-10-27T06:57:42+00:00

just like the police saying "anything you say can an will be held against you" So is true "anything a man does makes them guilty, and they cannot be the victim versus a woman."

dateline is on NBC right now. about a woman who pushed a man out a window, and was convicted. she didn't take the plea. he fell 25 floors n died. window broke. wasn't "open".

Chezza96 · 2014-10-27T10:18:53+00:00

Can it be reposted on to TIL by anyone else? If so, lets all repost it again

DrDalenQuaice · 2014-10-27T15:30:02+00:00

Has somebody tried resubmitting it with the title copied and pasted so as to completely circumvent the "editorialized title" accusation?

southernfriedcode · 2014-10-27T16:00:33+00:00

I actually saw that link earlier today and was thinking of posting it here. I didn't actually expect a mainstream study to be removed like that....it's not some crackpot but a government agency.

nicethingyoucanthave · 2014-10-27T16:17:51+00:00

Looks like the user who posted it has been shadowbanned too: /u/Sashaa911

What discussion sites other than reddit to people here use? I like the idea of a threaded discussion forum, but they're few and far between.

FiveRows · 2014-10-27T00:22:30+00:00

Anyone else notice all the false analogies in that thread? Anyone else getting sick of redditors arguing almost purely by bad analogy and others unwittingly buying into their frame? Can anyone argue a point in a more direct manner anymore?

Maybe it's just because their points are so hypocritical and bullshitastic that it's the only thing they can do to derail the conversation away from real talk.

[deleted] · 2014-10-27T05:09:31+00:00

For me personally, it has been extremely obvious women are the more aggressive abusers. I find that they also often play "dumb" and the victim so that society will overlook their manipulations.

I prefer to interact with them only if needed.