Starting day game tomorrow, plan on being absolutely honest - no fake clowning, no bullshit. Still have some nerves, however. Welcoming all advice.

0io- · 2019-06-16T05:43:10+00:00

You can chat up women standing in line, waiting to cross the street, at the grocery store, wherever you find them.

Just approach everywhere you run into an attractive woman and keep it non-sexual and normal.

"This light takes forever."

"I hope it doesn't rain today."

If you get a mmmmf and a dirty look, don't push it any further, just walk away and on to the next one.

If you get some conversation back like "It's not supposed to rain until midnight tonight, do you go to XYZ college across the street?" Then continue the conversation and look for IOI's. If you get IOI's invite her to go somewhere immediately or say you have to go somewhere but offer to exchange numbers with her.

If she's eye-fucking you and giggling and playing with her hair agrees to go somewhere with you, then you have a green light to escalate. Go get ice cream or something and get to know her better.

"Wow you're from France? How long are you studying here in the US?"

It shouldn't look like you're approaching women. She should think she ran into some interesting guy at the grocery store or waiting for the bus or whatever.

SirKolbath · 2019-06-16T04:49:10+00:00

Don’t go in with any expectations. I recommend that you actively try to be rejected two hundred times before you make a single approach for real. Treat it as a game.

BTW, I used to be director of security at a mall. Don’t be a creep, okay? Nobody wants to deal with that. I wouldn’t use a mall for rejection inoculation, personally. There’s nothing that happens at a mall that isn’t spread from one side of it to the other before you can get back to your car. If you approach more than two women the security director’s phone is going to explode. Use your instincts and make the right approaches. Otherwise you might as well be hanging out in the lingerie section of Target licking your lips.

ThisIs_RomanticPaul_ · 2019-06-16T10:04:55+00:00

If you want to be upfront about your intentions to women, I would recommend you check out Mode One by Alan Roger Currie. That is the best & well-articulated book written about upfront & straightforward honesty. Cheers

Velebit · 2019-06-16T10:09:58+00:00

Your success will be random. I had 3 girls in a row give me their number and after that for 2 weeks nothing for example. Also being absolutely honest is autistic. The best way to impress a woman is by making her laugh by joking. Saying your mother would love to meet her or point to a janitor and say he wants to know if she likes you or something like that puts emotion in that conversation and women love emotions especially innocent jokes.

Unless a woman eyes you before you approach or you make her laugh don't expect success.

MattyAnon · 2019-06-16T14:15:17+00:00

plan on being absolutely honest

Direct is a good start, but it's not the best long term plan.

For example, if the only reason I want to approach a girl is because of some physical attribute about her, even though Roosh says it's a bad idea I'm still gonna be honest about me liking her physical attribute as an opener.

This is good for your personal development, but women are still women and prefer subtext over direct and accountable.

I'm saying do it..... but know that after you can do this, you'll get better results with direct-indirect..... eg "I just had to talk to you" is good, but "because you have a great rack" won't get you the best results.

I have some nerves though and they're really frustrating me. They're not logical, or I'm not conscious of the logic, otherwise I'd explain here what I'm so damn nervous about.

Nerves is fine.... do it anyway.

I'm then welcoming any of you wise lot to give some advice, on both maintaining outcome independence (avoiding dependence on pleasure) and dealing with approach anxiety.

AA drops with practice and good results. Focus on the process, not how you feel about it all. Most of this is just doing it....

If you're very nervous and this is blocking you, try the aversion therapy method, which is basically this:

Work out the biggest thing you can do that pushes you a bit but not into the terror zone. Imagine a progression:

Glancing at a girl
Buying a drink from a girl in a kiosk and saying "hi" and "thanks"
Asking a stranger for the time
Telling a stranger she looks cute then walking off
Stopping a stranger and asking for directions
Continuing one of the above conversations for a few more sentences
Asking a girl for coffee

Whatever you can do in the above.... pushing slightly..... without abject terror..... do that.

When you're at level 5.... and it gets easy.... go to level 6.

Rinse, repeat.

RedPillAlphaBigCock · 2019-06-16T10:37:24+00:00

to combat nerves: get in the mindset that you are OFFERING her some cool chit-chats and the potential OFFER of a good time that could improve her life. A GIVING mindset is good and be chill and put her at ease , NO PRESSURE. Good luck. Have fun and LOTS OF LAUGHING, it's not serious.

BusterVadge · 2019-06-16T13:35:48+00:00

I do mostly day game these days and my best tip is to get her feel good, laugh, and smile. Get her to talk about herself without telling her hardly anything about you. After all, a woman's favorite subject is herself.

Once you get her to feel really good you leave her with your contact info to discuss something in your convo further. Later on she'll realize that she was mostly talking about herself and if you did it right will want to get to know something about you, too. It reduces the flake rate a little.

All that being said, even if you get contact info be prepared for a high flake rake.

CSThrowAway2014 · 2019-06-16T15:40:44+00:00

Whatever you do, please don't go from 0 to 60 all in one day. Take your time, do it slow, baby steps.

Atheist_Utopia · 2019-06-16T17:29:12+00:00

Cold approach is actually really stupid when you aren't top 10% of looks. As is actively seeking out rejection. It subconsciously destroys your self-esteem. It's one thing to embrace inevitable rejection, but looking for rejection is looking for failure.

I still have no idea why otherwise very wise red-pilled men advocate such insanity.

usernameishardtomake · 2019-06-16T19:19:25+00:00

Do not quit even if the results on day 1 isn't great. Always learn from your mistakes, and improve your game

navayan · 2019-06-16T14:25:52+00:00

Hey buddy. Lets be a day game buddy.share our day game experiences .I been doing daygame in malls for 8 months. done 500 appraoches. I need a online daygame wing to chat ,share and for just listning to my ordeals sometimes.PM me.

I am doing daygame in malls.I use direct approach as taught by tom torero.He has a book Beginners day game guide. I advice you read and implement that.

navayan · 2019-06-16T16:16:20+00:00

Two.

Theguygotgame777 · 2019-06-16T17:46:04+00:00

Maintain eye contact and confidence.

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Red_Pill_Brotherhood · 2019-06-16T19:37:04+00:00

Don't overthink about what to say however here are a few things that work for me:

-opener is either "Hey, whats up?" followed by handshake and introducing yourself then saying you thought she is cute or "Hey I thought you were cute."

-Always say you thought she was cute, hot, attractive, compliment her dress/skirt/hair, etc. This sets the frame as you being sexually attracted and not just some friendzone or BP shit. Also, don't be afraid to give a compliment or two, just by approaching a woman you validate them. Nothing wrong with a high value male giving a compliment. Just don't overdo it obviously.

-Talk about situational things(ie- make a joke about a drunk person walking by, ask about her tattoo, why she chose that hair color, so on and so forth)

-A few fallback questions (where are you headed to, whats your plan for the night, you from around here, tell me something cool about yourself, etc). Flirt when you get an opening.

-Good eye contact.

-get the number in less than 1 minute. Get in. Get out. You don't need to have a fancy conversation

-realize its a total numbers game.

-Know when to eject. If a chick's energy is dead or she thinks you're a creep(lol happens a lot) just keep it moving and walk off(mid sentence if need be).

-Have a couple drinks first if you get nervous. Despite what is often said, if you're visibly nervous you're dead.

-Have a few quick comebacks to the common filibusters (I have a boyfriend, I dont know you yet, Are you a player, etc).

-NEXT! I've had chicks think I'm a total creep and have them refuse to shake my hand only to hit it off with the next chick. Next! is one of the strongest words in the language for a man.

Also, I recommend you approach more than 7. Aim for at least 10, preferably 15-20. You'll get better and more confident with time. Good luck!

Wholesomeloaf · 2019-06-17T00:44:11+00:00

You didn't really say, but if you are going anywhere with only the intention to cold approach, it's gonna feel and look creepy. At least be going to get lunch, shopping, running errands. Plan your day out with actual stuff to do and if the opportunity comes up along the way (which it will), then take it. This helps with outcome independence also.