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Honestly. I’ve been in dates before. Have had few gfs and fwbs(nothing major)...

But before this sub I used to tiptoe so hard. Should I say this or that? Oh no, I chose wrong. Must try another approach

I use to beat myself up because I didn’t understand my lack of confidence. Worry about how I dress, worry about every little thing. Didn’t understand how to be “alpha”. Then I worried that women actually only like powerful people. Blah blah blah.

Then this sub showed up. Hard at first but then... oh so it doesn’t matter? Power doesn’t matter? What I say doesn’t matter? Literally I can be a domestic abuser and still do fine as look as I look good?

Dunno, just made me a lot more relieved. I’m at the point anyway where I’m more interested in taking care of myself than chasing puss. But, if that ever comes up, 99.8% of the time she simply wasn’t physically attracted to me. Case finished. Nothing I can do about that after doing the best I can.

Life’s really not at all that bad. Truth will set you free


[–]ChadThePsychopath25 points26 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It can be a cathartic release for guys to know that looks are literally everything and all your shortcomings in life were completely out of your control. It's a rigged game and it really is best to just look after yourself and try to live your best life.

[–]piscator11110 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Glad you found your zen here.

[–]hhhh__8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Looks>status>money

Congrats man, you're free now.

[–]Spirit1172 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Looks>status>money,

Unless she's a gold digger who wants a sugar daddy, in which case he needs money>status>looks

[–]autistcel6935 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Well said. Very liberating indeed.

[–]LightofFate0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I used to buy into the red pill stuff where if you say the right thing, do a certain thing.. it will somehow make the girl like you.

That's not at all how it works. These people are con men.

If the girl is attracted to you, it's easy from there (unless you really act like a social moron). If she's not attracted to you there's literally nothing you can do to change that or convince her.

[–]samsoldit0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

When you find out how depraved women are, it takes a lot of pressure away

Also makes you wonder why they were so desirable, when they are now repellent

[–]poopscoopforfun0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is the funniest greatest shit I’ve seen in a long time.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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