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Anybody else demote plates who hate cum? (self.asktrp)

submitted by Specialcz3

Some girls I plate just flat out hate swallowing, or hate cum anywhere but in a condom. This is a pretty big turn off so they take the back burner to my other plates that swallow/dont mind cum, even if they have hotter bodies/more fun to be with. Anybody else experience this?


[–]Senior ContributorMentORPHEUS31 points32 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

All other things being equal, I wouldn't use this alone as a litmus test, unless facials and swallowing are among your non-negotiables.

I've dated many women who were appropriately earnest about getting me to come, while having an aversion to the cum itself. There could be legit reasons ranging from her personal taste to history of molestation to diet making your cum taste off. (Ever go down on a woman after she mowed through a big helping of asparagus?)

If she's soldiering through for your sake despite her misgivings that's something I can work with. When it has a grudging duty vibe, that's when I'd interpret it as global lack of attraction to me.

[–]Specialcz3[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is actually a good point and something I'm struggling with. I don't want to write off women because of little things like this, but I find myself being way more attracted to plates who swallow and are sexually open in general.

It seems like I'm subconsciously putting sexual performance at the top of my checklist, and I'm not sure if that's a good or bad thing.

[–]Aesthetik_1109 points110 points  (38 children) | Copy Link

Yup.. it’s more fun for both of You like each other’s fluids..

In fact it’s the only sex worth having imo. The type where both can immerse themselves in the experience fully and that means not being disgusted by anything haha

[–]Specialcz3[S] 11 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah I've realized my favourite plates are like this - down for pretty much anything. Coincidentally they also have the most fun personalities.

[–]le_king_falcon11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

No shit.

People sho can get over their own abitrary discomfort and hangups to actually enjoy something are always going to be more fun people.

[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen9 points10 points  (35 children) | Copy Link

Nah. I am not an avid pussy eater. I once was, but after I found out that sucking my dick is a bigger turn on for them, than getting eaten out, I stopped. I will do once in a while as positive reinforcement measures, but other than that, I only enjoy their fluid on my dick or if i make them squirt.

[–]gordoburrito4156 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This guy is actually right. Plates that know how to deep theoat correctly can actually get super aroused/cum just from them gagging on my dick. Like this one plate I have literally starts shaking and creaming when she’s blowing me. So I just lick it up after she’s done

[–]dj10417 points8 points  (30 children) | Copy Link

It's not, who told you that?

[–]TheMetalLED 1 points [recovered]  (21 children) | Copy Link

The bitch sucking his dick.

[–]dj104133 points34 points  (20 children) | Copy Link

Clearly he must not be good at going down on her because bitches love when guys eat them out to say that they love sucking dick more is a understatement. When there is a sex organ that can't be stimulated by your dick alone that outside of her pussy.

[–]Lego_My_Alter_Eggo18 points19 points  (12 children) | Copy Link

You're completely ignoring the phycological aspect of sex for women

[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen5 points6 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

Nah. He has beaten his meat at least ten thousand times to the idea of making a woman come from eating her out, and sighing an "I love you. Please be my boyfriend." afterwards, whicj basically makes him an expert on that matter.

[–]dj1041-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

How so?

[–]Zanford6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Girls who are really into you will enjoy sucking your dick more than being eaten out. As a hetero men that is extremely counterintuitive to us cuz 99% of hereto guys prefer getting BJs to going down ourselves.

The reasons are that 1. a girl who is extremely attracted to you will naturally gravitate to a more sexually submissive role 2. girls enjoy the D and being fucked WAY more than being eaten out. They almost see being eaten out as a consolation prize vs a good dicking, kinda like how we see a handjob as a consolation prize vs a BJ.

[–]dukes19981 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Enjoying getting fucked is different than getting eaten out as most women can’t cum from strictly penetration

[–]Zanford0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Not to turn this into a dick measuring contest....but yeah most can. The secret is not to worry about technique or anything, just build up a lot of attraction beforehand, and then just enjoy fucking her (she'll be aroused by your arousal. If you act like you're trying to 'please' her she'll find it mostly offputting.) Ease of orgasm does very wildly from girl to girl (in part b/c some will be more into you than othrs).

I know every guy on the internet claims to be a sex god, so don't take my word for it...just practice practice practice.

[–]zboo1h5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Wrong. Field tested, it makes them wetter to serve than to be served.

[–]Twenty_league_boots1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes it is, so many women have told me the same thing. Half the women I've been with have said they don't give a fuck sbout being eaten out and just let the guy do it to humor him.

[–]Siccunt990 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Ima smash for the first time next week,i had in plan to eat her out first,do you think it's better to stick it in her throat first?

[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It's better anyways to make her do something for you and reciprocrate than the other way around.

Nothing wrong with eating pussy or ass though. If you want to do it, go for it.

[–]party_dragon3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes. Blowjob, cum, eat her out while you get hard again for another round, fuck.

[–]rizzyfromthe931 points32 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

one girl who was obsessed with me (to the point where it turned me off) would swallow my cum but if i came on her tits or whatever would gag bc she couldn’t take seeing bodily fluids

so basically a girl will still do whatever with the right guy

[–]timesinklol17 points18 points  (12 children) | Copy Link

I’m in the same boat but with girlfriend.

She’s good for everything else but hates cum and precum.

[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen16 points17 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

how exactly does she suck your dick, if she hates precum?

[–]TFWnoLTR26 points27 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

She likely just hates giving head and uses that as an excuse.

[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen26 points27 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Probably. That's why I asked.

She just hates sucking his dick though.

[–]Heizenbrg7 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Same thing with me now I’m thinking if I should dump her or not. She just won’t guzzle my juice! But then all of a sudden she doesn’t bat an eye when I raw dog her ass for the first time I don’t get it.

[–]TFWnoLTR4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Probably because Tyrone already stretched her out so much she barely felt you.

[–]Heizenbrg1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol it was actually really tight

[–]TFWnoLTR1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

No, she probably hates sucking dick in general, but is willing to tough it out for the guys she wants but isnt sure she can have. That's just not him.

[–]timesinklol1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

She does but I can’t even orgasm from it lol but lately she’l hasn’t so I’m getting a little worried.

[–]BadDadBot3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Hi getting a little worried., I'm dad.

[–]RedSkeller9 points10 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

AskTRP should be sponsored by precum. Never heard of the shit so often.

[–]geismaikati2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Watch some hodgetwins then hahah

[–]RedSkeller3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I've never seen Harry Potter

[–][deleted] 27 points28 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

tell them facial or gtfo

[–]Bing_Bang_Bam11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Go big or go home. I like your style

[–]___Lana___7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Girls create rules for the men they’re not attracted to, but break them for the one they’re attracted to.

[–]bowhunter668 points69 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Any chick who doesn’t crave your cum is just not that into you. Find one who is.

[–]rockyp3220 points21 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Some just don’t like the taste but will let you fuck them so I’m not sure if I ahreee with that

[–]TFWnoLTR16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Me neither. Not all women are the same.

That said, if you're like me and a woman who won't give oral to completion is a turn off, that's fine.

[–]Specialcz3[S] 17 points18 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Not sure why they would want to keep initiating contact and seeing me in that case.

[–]bowhunter621 points22 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You might be their best option at the time. They might be plating you as well. I just wouldn’t invest too much, but keep banging as you see fit.

[–]Foolishoe6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thia isnt true but I support the idea.

[–]TRP VanguardWhisper5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Why be so specific?

If a girl isn't fun to be with, for whatever reason, don't devote more time to her.

[–]eco97914 points15 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I hear you, OP. For me is a huge red flag. Every girl who did that was not worth my time. It is one of the organic, more difficult to fake, indicators. I put it in the same category with the body's natural smell.

If she shies away from those there's a high probability that she's not that into you, she's plating you or she's plain playing you for whatever other reason.

So, for me it's a big turn off even if the acrobatics and the soundtrack are good

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Kinda similarly, if you're not into her natural smell/taste, that could be your subconscious trying to tell you something.

[–]Cazken5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I’m pretty sure you can smell their immune system or some shit haha. So biologically, we want to produce diverse children immunity-wise, and if their immune system is opposite of ours then she smells good, if it’s the same she smells bad.

[–]Specialcz3[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

100%, I've had girls I'm not that into fall into my lap and I'm never into the way they smell and taste, unlike plates I'm really attracted to.

[–]le_king_falcon2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

A plate disgusted by cum and bodily fluids is a shit lay.

If she's a shit lay she's not worthy of being a plate, so ghost.

If this decision takea your longer than ten seconds to logic out then you're missing something. If it takes that long you are likely lacking abundance or caught feelings. Both need addressing, lack of abundance means you'll put up with shit lays and shitty behaviour. Having feelings for a chick that doesn't even suck your dick properly or enjoy actual sex means you need to recalibrate as if she can't even meet that most basic hurdle your idea of someone being worthy of your feelings is wrong and you lack self respect.

[–]submac9 1 points [recovered]  (4 children) | Copy Link

I've met girls who have refused to suck a dick that has been inside of them. If I can't make them into a dirty slut I like I will just move on

[–]___Lana___1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Our fluid is very acid, I don’t like my own either. Usually I swipe it off before sucking.

[–]kaolin2240 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

You should get that looked at.

Girls all taste and smell slightly different, but if it's to the point it's bad that usually means the Ph is off down there... or something funky is growing.

[–]___Lana___5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Normal vagina pH is between 3.8 and 4.5 (when 7 is neutral), it means that it’s always acid. I’m totally healthy if that is your concern. Most of my girl friends have the same thought, they don’t like their own fluid. The pH of the sperm is between 7.2 and 7.8, which is slightly alkaline. (My man is a doctor btw)

[–]19yoManChild0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

TIL

[–]Wrestler401 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

will you sit on my weiner?

[–]Zanford1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

If she doesn't like your cum, it just means she doesn't think your SMV is high enough. You should absolutely demote them, b/c it means that you two just aren't a good match (you didn't DHV enough) and demotion is your best way of ratcheting up their interest again, as a form of push pull.

I have never, ever, ever had a girl give me all the signs of very interest and be extremely interested in me, and yet then have any issue with swallowing/facials/etc. If she's into you, she'll swallow without even bringing it up as a thing (and possibly she'll complement it afterwards). I've only ever had a couple of girls make swallowing or jizz on her skin out to be an issue, and those were very marginal cases where the attraction was not high.

[–]backdoorinvestor4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Had a girl that wouldn’t do doggy style never mind anal or cum all over her. Delete, Block, if it occurs again with next plate.. Repeat.

[–]Foolishoe2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Was a serial dater, when I found out, this girlfriend was on the way out.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Anybody else experience this?

I generally find they almost all swallow.... but yeah... if they don't they're straight on the back burner.

[–]Specialcz3[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah I think 90% of all the girls I've fucked have swallowed, but the few who don't definitely leave a bad taste in my mouth (no pun intended).

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

but the few who don't definitely leave a bad taste in my mouth

:)

[–]tolstushki7011 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I was dating this really hot girl who would refuse to swallow. I stopped seeing her. The sex wasn’t any good.

[–]sebastianconcept0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Also, to what extent it isn’t a signal of phenotype incompatibility?

Same with simpler things like the natural smell of the skin of each other. Not to mention clean genital smells/flavor. Don’t animals do check each others for a reason?

[–]MurkyArtichoke0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

or hate cum anywhere but in a condom

Most girls i see never even ask about a condom lol. They don't seem to care at all.

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