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Constant Shit Tests (self.asktrp)

submitted by goomerall3

I don't understand what happened. Everything in my life has changed ever since I adopted RP.

I used to be so harmless that no one tried to challenge me or create issues for me. Just a very beta blue pill guy getting by. Now I fixed my diet and been hitting the gym for at least a year. My testosterone shot up and I generally carry myself with more confidence.

Everywhere I go I get shit tested, especially at work. It's like every time there is an opportunity to test me or criticise me it is used to the extreme. I always hold frame and never show any emotion. I got used to it.

But it just feels that people see me as more of a threat or something. For me this is the biggest proof that RP is life changing


[–]Senior Endorsedmax_peenor182 points183 points  (21 children) | Copy Link

Most people don't like to watch people improve, because they are too lazy to do it themselves.

[–]goomerall372 points73 points  (19 children) | Copy Link

That's true. I really despise that attitude. Winners don't feel envy. They see someone doing something great and they think "shit man how do I get to the same level?"

[–][deleted] 42 points43 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, but most people are losers.

[–]Opioidus35 points36 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Don't believe a lot of advice you hear here, I mean the "tough love" type of stuff, a man could easily end up depressed by going against the world. A lot of you guys will need a hard reset. It means changing cities, friends, jobs, even ignoring and cutting contact with family members. People will not change their view of you easily, it's much easier to move away from toxic people, trust me it doesn't matter how strong your frame is, shit still gets to you.

[–]goomerall38 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

To a certain extent, I agree with this.

[–]thrwy754794 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It definitely gets lonely as you move up. It's not healthy. I suppose that's simply another way you pay the price though.

[–]Project_Zero_Betas2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

A lot of you guys will need a hard reset. It means changing cities, friends, jobs, even ignoring and cutting contact with family members.

Duly noted.

People will not change their view of you easily, it's much easier to move away from toxic people, trust me it doesn't matter how strong your frame is, shit still gets to you.

Can confirm.

[–]yeahshure9997 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

NAH BRO YOU GOTTA MAN UP YOU LITTLE BITCH YOU'RE A LITTLE BITCH AND I'M AN ALPHA AND WHEN I INCREASED MY WEALTH, JOB, STATUS, LOOKS, EVERYONE JUST STARTED BOWING TO ME DAILY, YOU LITTLE BITCH

Anyway heres my blog:

[–]lookoutitscaleb20 points21 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

“The higher we soar the smaller we appear to those who cannot fly.”
― Friedrich Nietzsche, Thus Spoke Zarathustra

[–]Cods_gift_to_reddit3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Well that doesn't work at a certain age because you pursue different interests.

So someone who works as a journalist isn't going to look at a banker and say 'Shit how do I get to the same level'. They are gonna say 'that guys majorly successful in his field, and I'm successful in my field. How can we benefit from each others expertise?'

[–]SolarTortality-3 points-2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

That guys very successful in his field and I write gay blog pieces for a living, how can we benefit from each other’s expertise?

[–]Project_Zero_Betas0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

So true. I've been envious of other people, which has caused me to think "How can I improve myself so I'm more like them?" but never been jealous. It's the ultimate beta sentiment.

[–]Project_Zero_Betas0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

The correct answer. OP is experiencing typical crabs in a bucket, nothing more.

[–]1InformalCriticism46 points47 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

In the old "victim blaming" language: you're asking for it.

In any male-competitive species, standing out in the sexual market place makes you a target. You are right to evaluate others' behavior the way you did, because you are becoming a threat. It may be amplified if those who are targeting you have a memory of your BP days, because their memory of your weaknesses are still fresh - there's a natural impulse to keep the pecking order.

[–]goomerall329 points30 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Yeah people would say "wow he used to be so nice! What happened?". Of course by saying nice they mean I was a docile pussy. I couldn't get laid for the life of me and I'm a really good looking guy. Now I have women rubbing my arms and flat out calling me sexy (something that would have never happened before). I can easily take a girl out and fuck her on the first date. Before, I didn't have the balls to close and the woman would disrespect me because I was a follower.

I never understood why women found me physically attractive but I just had no luck in bed. With RP and taking charge things changed and results happened. BP guys would meet me and be surprised. Like how did you get laid twice in a month when you don't have a job even and others with a job haven't seen pussy on a year lol

[–]ZeppKfw9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Seems like you're on the path to success. I'm just glad that it's easier to be successful and get shit on and not the other way around.

[–]Project_Zero_Betas5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah people would say "wow he used to be so nice! What happened?".

"I started living for myself and enforcing boundaries."

[–]MakoShark931 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm happy for you, man. I'm right where you were. I'm starting to believe it's possible for me to level up.

[–]send_it_for_the_boys18 points19 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I get it all the time. My own bosses even. I’ve seen some people do some idiotic things either getting nervous around me or jealous. It comes from making people feel uncomfortable and insecure and jealous of you, they see us and think I’m gonna try to take him down a notch to make myself feel better, or they can’t have a decent conversation with you they’re just rude the whole time, and then shit tests all the time like confident men don’t need to talk shit to other guys they’re comfortable in their own skin and don’t care what others think and they don’t have to be a complete douche.

[–]goldenshoelace88 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

“They’re comfortable in their own skin and don’t care what others think and they don’t have to be a complete douche”

This is gold, confident real men are comfortable in their own skin and genuinely don’t care about what others think and they don’t need to be a douche cause they genuinely don’t care

[–]send_it_for_the_boys2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly. Imo it seems like dudes put in this idgaf act and try so hard to not giving a fuck that it really means they care and are trying to use that to impress.

[–]bleudogs60 points61 points  (10 children) | Copy Link

Agree and Amplify Ignore Laugh and Shrug... Those are my favorite ones.

Motto - Let them hate, I’m a king and they are peasants. My life is awesome and fun, it sucks to be them. It’s great to be me.

[–]TheRealIsBack112 points13 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

People are noticing that your SMV is increasing. This is normal so expect more and more shit tests until they truly identify you as a higher male. Not to say that the shit tests won’t continue, there will be less of them. However, this will hold true if you really do continue to hold frame, AA, but more importantly pressure flip (PF). PF is one of my go to’s. You become a lot more witty and clever with practice. Watch Andrew Shultz.

[–]mybro_3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Hey dude I'm pretty good at A&A but can't seem to master pressure flips. Any tips?

[–]TheRealIsBack12 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Takes practice all they are just comebacks. A great way to practice is writing shit down on a notebook after a past opportunity do this constantly and come up with good responses. For example, A coworker of mine used I crack jokes about my height. It went something like this, “I’m surprised you can reach that with your short self” I replied, “I’m surprised you can see anything with that big ass nose”

Keep practicing but also get some inspiration from others. I like to watch Kevin hart and Andrew Shultz they are hilarious.

[–]mybro_0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Good stuff! PFs really seem more powerful than A&A to me, I hope your advice will help me with it.

What exactly do I look for with Andrew Schultz? He has so much stuff online

[–]TheRealIsBack10 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Start with his clips. Looks up Andrew Shultz roasting a def guy.

[–]1XXXMersenne9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

you'll get used to it and start being more proactive in social interactions; at the cause vs. effect of things.

[–]zeekt120 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

So true. At the beginning when this was happened to me i didnt respond well and would get heated. Now in used to it and make people look stupid that try to shit test me. Its actually fun now

[–]peoplefoundmyold18 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I just read through some of your post history and I promise you no one is testing you. You are literally just crazy you think that people are stocking you and you talk about your T constantly. You are crazy no one is testing you got get some help.

[–]Andrew5432112 points13 points  (23 children) | Copy Link

Sometimes the jackals and hyenas gotta be reminded who the king of the jungle is. Crush an apple with one hand.

[–]goomerall3-5 points-4 points  (22 children) | Copy Link

I have a fantasy of fucking some guys girl and sending him a video for funzies. It's bit out there but I think I would do it if I could.

[–]Andrew5432138 points39 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

But why. That’s how you get shot

[–]AlleyFrog967 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

You’d have to be really stupid to shoot someone over a cheating bitch.

[–]Andrew5432111 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

To shoot someone, yes. To be shot, it happens.

[–]ZeppKfw9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Bro have you even seen a beta filled with jealousy and anger? These guys can't even control themselves when they're ghosted by a girl.

[–]goomerall3-5 points-4 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Yeah true. Idk man I wanna do something evil for fun

[–]MakoShark934 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Nah, that's some bullshit. Funny, but some bullshit. Motherfuckers can do anything when you disrespect them. Just 'cause someone is bluepill doesn't mean they ain't with the business. At the end of the day; men are men. Blue Pill or Red Pill.

You're thinking, "Nah, he's pussy -- he won't do shit." Fuck with the wrong one (or right one) and life will learn ya.

[–]sebastianconcept0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Which would make you evil by definition, right?

None does shit and get away with it really. Never.

[–]Atheist_Utopia1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

As much as I have the same fantasies, it's just completely not worth it as the chance of being killed afterwards are pretty fucking high.

[–]Cods_gift_to_reddit 1 points [recovered]  (13 children) | Copy Link

I know it's a real dick move but I've always enjoyed taking someone elses girl, convincing them to leave to get into a relationship with me and then dumping them

[–]HotelMohelHolidayInn4 points5 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

You can't "take" somebody else's girl when she wasn't his to begin with. Not to mention, you're getting his sloppy seconds, so who is fucking who?

[–]Cods_gift_to_reddit1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

You can't have both 'no ownership' and 'sloppy seconds'. They contradict each other.

[–]HotelMohelHolidayInn1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

If I bust a nut in a bitch and you eat her out, is that or is that not my sloppy seconds?

[–]Cods_gift_to_reddit 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy Link

That all depends on whether I swallow or not

[–]HotelMohelHolidayInn1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You're putting your mouth on her cunt. What do you mean "if you swallow or not"?

[–]goomerall3-1 points0 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

It's fun

[–]Whatdoin272 points3 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

It's going to be fun all right when you do that to the wrong guy and get killed for it.

[–]goomerall31 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Most guys nowadays are soyboy cucks

[–]Whatdoin271 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, you've got a point. However, there's always the exception. Lol

[–]goomerall3-1 points0 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Yeah like a mafia boss or something

[–]Whatdoin274 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Eh, not exactly. I saw a chick get shot twice at point blank range in her car from a shotgun for it. Right across the street while I was playing my acoustic on the porch bro. Shit was crazy. Lol

[–]goomerall31 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Fuck!

[–]DeChef211 points12 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Dude, try to have fun with them. If someone is testing you constantly, just make a joke out of it.

This is more well known as agree and amplify.

[–]Jabbermouth0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

I agree but where do you draw the line?

Constantly agreeing and amplifying gets boring and annoying after a while. It can be good practice for a newbie of course, but after a couple months of random work people or acquaintances shit testing you, wouldn’t that shit would begin to piss you off?

I say play along, agree & amplify for a while, but after you’ve held frame and passed their tests and they still haven’t let up then it’s time to start using Ignore & Exit.

[–]DeChef20 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, at some point I would only engage if they said something I liked. If not, they don’t exist.

[–]deathhandmachiavelli3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, eventually you get to the point that people become envious of you. You'll see it with your own friends and family. It will be at work as well, and even neighbors.

I never felt envy for anyone, but as you become more successful in all aspects of life, you'll see some little haters pop up everywhere.

[–]nateydanger4 points5 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

Heavy lies the crown my dude.

[–]goomerall311 points12 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Even Jesus was crucified by a bunch of jealous beta males

[–]Project_Zero_Betas4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

That's why God has the Zero Betas Plan :-)

[–]Atheist_Utopia1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

you again

[–]Project_Zero_Betas1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Project Zero Betas will cumulate with the eradication of all remaining crabs in this bucket. And then, the great utopia will rise from the ashes O:-)

[–]ZeppKfw1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Mind if I borrow this quote?

[–]goomerall30 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Go right ahead

[–]silent_dominant0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Do you mean: Heavy is the head that wears the crown?

I never heard it the way you say it

[–]frankgold3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

That's how it is. Not that you are climbing the "alpha" ladder, you are expected to take more responsibility. More criticism, and the ability to take that criticism, is part of the parcel. More shit tests too.

By now, you should also have developed the skills to deal with all those shit tests, too.

[–]Ohboohoolittlegirl4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Not everything is a shit test though. Lots of people see issues when co fisence is high, cause they generally would have gone situations out of the way that you won't avoid now. It's not always the people aroubd you whose behavior changed.

Someone questioning your statements is not a shittest, someone asking you to explain your opinion is not a shittest. Unfortunately a lot of guys start seeing any kind of struggle or powerbalance as a 'shittest.'

Not saying you are wrong, but do not always assume people are only testing you cause you are now 'alpha'

[–]-Skizzy2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Keep your head up and keep doing you. If you don’t have haters, you’re not doing something right.

[–]justlibertarian3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I also noticed this a lot more after I started working on RP theory But I also began to enjoy shit tests more because they were an opportunity to be a playful dick and have fun with people

[–]nothestrawberrypatch3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Maybe you need to practice stoicism better. Don’t treat everything like a shit test. Pick and chose your battles. Amused mastery with the other shit.

[–]Niamke_Mode12 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

On top of people having disdain because you're changing and destroying their happy little world (everyone is solipsistic to some degree), they really hate to see someone improve. It's a crabs-in-a-barrel type mentality. People want what you have, and it ends up dragging everyone back down. This is gonna continue wherever you go, so you've just gotta live with it. TRP is all about self improvement and "staying on your purpose," so keep doing that. Check out The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck by Mark Manson for those that need help. Good shit bro. Keep at it

[–]codeleet11 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

What makes you say that your testosterone shot up?
Did you get it tested.

[–]goomerall31 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yep. It used to be like 650 ng/dl went up to 815

[–]uptimex1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah man, it works like that. I am even being shit-tested by animals..

[–]SerialATA_Killer3 points4 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

I always wonder about the people that actually write these types of posts. I want to believe that a flabby unshaven Majin Buu looking guy comes around and becomes MegaChad. However, I suspect that the real story here is that OP put in just-ok gains at the gym and has become socially uncalibrated trying to act like MegaChad. Others just think he's a massive dickwad and are tired of his dumb and abrasive behavior. But what do I know.

*claps skeptically*

[–]tallwheel2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah. Obviously we don't have anything to go on here other than OP's post, but my immediate suspicion when reading it was the same as yours.

[–]silent_dominant0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

4chans /fit/ board has a lot of progress threads where you see some incredible improvements on people

[–]dpgproductions-2 points-1 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Sounds like you’re discrediting someone else’s progress in order to rationalize and feel better about your own lack of improvement. Otherwise why would you question or even care if OP was lying or exaggerating? The conversation is the same regardless since none of us actually know each other.

[–]SerialATA_Killer2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Honestly I don't have these thoughts with many posts; but for this one it's the way OP wrote it. First of all there's no question he's asking - he's just come in to say "yah bros I get mad shit tests from hella hot bitches and all the fag BP office workers hate me."

Secondly, nobody just "adopts RP." Some people are quicker than others. But the main clue for me is that OP said he just "adopted it". If OP has to tell people he's RP, he's probably not RP. Just saying.

His post screams "please validate me."

[–]bert_cj0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

What kind of situations do you get shit tested in? Like what happens that tells you it’s a shit test?

Im asking because sometimes I can’t tell what a shit test is.

[–]therealbigoso 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy Link

I’m new to RP and just getting my weight down to improve BMI, so take this with a grain.

But you can literally choose not to be affected by the haters. Unless they can fire you, they don’t matter. They weren’t going to give you a reference for your next job anyways. Unless you persist and they give up wasting their time on hating you,

And if they can impact your employment, focus on cold logic, ignore their childish emotions. It’s their duty to keep their feelings in control. If they fail and can’t come back from it, they suck.

I suck at RP overall because I was blue pilled more hardcore than anyone I know from birth. But what I lack there I make up for in leveraging my psycho abilities to create an overpowering “don’t fuck with me” attitude. Maybe I can teach you guys a thing or two once I’ve come into my own alpha role.

[–]goomerall31 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Psycho abilities. Tell me more

[–]PirateWave0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

G

[–]trpadvice10 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

What mind of shit tests are you getting?

[–]Red_Vet_Garageman0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Embrace it.

Steel sharpens steel.

Enjoy the journey.

[–]mickey__0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

But, let’s see it like this. I’m not trying to put OP down, just getting a different angle on his post

What if OP became egoistic guy, who shows off but looks incongruent with himself, with his actions and his attitude so people put him down to see what’s the thing, right?

Just want to mention how all of us can get threads wrongfuly because we don’t know from which stand point it’s coming..

[–]goomerall31 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I have become a bit of an asshole lately. Maybe you are right.

[–]mickey__0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

would you care to share that with us?

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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