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Just want to say thanks (self.RedPillWives)

submitted by organicsunshine

A few years and profiles ago I came here with my head up my bum. You all straightened me out harshly and it was what I needed. After years of self improvement, took theonk mode advice, changed my perspective and habits, and I am happy to report that on the 21st I married a man I never thought was possible to lock down.

So thank you all. Harshness and honesty and what is hard to hear comes from experience and love. Soak it up. It does help and there are wise women here from many walks of life.


[–]teaandtalk30, married 7 years15 points16 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Congratulations! A couple of questions:

  • What are you going to do differently now you are married?
  • Of the red-pill advice you took, what do you think has been most valuable on your journey?

[–]organicsunshine[S] 7 points8 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Do differently? Nothing. We got here for a reason and it is my job to maintain status quo - stay fit, follow his lead, keep on cooking and most importantly never take his attraction or decision to be with me for granted.

Learned that is important....There are no "innocent" interactions between men in women. You constantly have to have your guard up in your interactions with men and nip things quickly. Be the wall that protects your relationship. By doing this and especially while in his company talking through him not to them, helps create trust.

Also, feminism is a lie and is hurting women and men and families. You cannot have it all. What works for you may vary but at some level we all know we can't, nor do we want to, do it all.

[–]teaandtalk30, married 7 years3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Status quo, yes, but you don't think there should be different/additional responsibilities after marriage? It's worth a thought.

'Be the wall that protects your relationship' - I love it!

[–]organicsunshine 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy Link

Like what? I got into this knowing the responsibilities. I am past 40 and had a 13 yr marriage fail. Trust me. I learned from those mistakes.

[–]teaandtalk30, married 7 years1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm asking for the sharing of wisdom :)

[–]organicsunshine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It's all good. We all live, few of us learn.

[–]midnightspecial995 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I like your username.

[–]organicsunshine[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks. Seemed natural.

[–]countrylemon2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Congratulations beautiful lady! You deserve all the happiness after all that hard work! Keep up being amazing :)

[–]organicsunshine[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks sweetie!

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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