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I went monk mode for about a year, focusing on building back my life after my last relationship destroyed it.

After a year I tried to get out of monk mode and began interacting with people again. However, everywhere I go I meet only blue pill people. I just can't stand anymore being in a conversation and listening everybody praise feminism and hate on men. Of course I say nothing.

I'm tired of holding back on what I think. I'm tired of hiding what I believe, of policing my tone, of putting a mask on all the time. All it does is make the hate burn inside of me while I listen to what they say. They can't stop pushing their political agenda down my throat and I have to fake that I agree with it. It's killing me slowly.

The people I meet are also manginas, weak despicable "men". The women are useless nagging bitches. So not only do I not enjoy the social interactions per say, but I also feel deep hate for the people I see around me.

I need to find people that are like me so I can be myself and relaxed. How do you go about finding people like that ? If you don't find any what do you do ?


[–]Jesusfeminist180 points181 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

Working on your social skills should’ve been part of your “monk mode”. Once you start unplugging you end up needing new friends. The gym and other “masculine” hobbies/places are a good place to start

[–]seemsonormal197933 points34 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

Gyms are among the least masculine places you can go to.

[–]Thelvl1bandit31 points32 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Go to a boxing, wrestling or martial arts gym then.

[–]KeyboardTuba44 points45 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Depends on the gym. Powerlifting capable gyms, tend to have less of the primping and preening crowd. Lots of camaraderie, even towards beginners, and the focus is on working out. I find more gym etiquette at these places vs LA Fitness or City Sports Clubs. I made my best gains & friends at a dingy, repurposed power lifting gym in North Carolina (used to be a Salvation Army, and you could tell) versus a commercial gym in a yuppy part of Boston. Other than the high volume of eye candy, I dont miss it.

[–]dan_legend9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

LA Fitness or City Sports Clubs

Literally the same company lol

[–]KeyboardTuba0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I meant the (City) Sports Clubs, as in NYC BOS PHI WAS, as to provide regional examples.

[–]Jesusfeminist8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

To be honest, I agree

[–]bettywhiteishot1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Maybe if you workout at planet fitness.

Go to a gym with metal weights and heavy metal playing with juiced up powerlifters walking around and chalk all over the barbells.

[–]HitTheWall880 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Do exactly this. Camaraderie and excellent male friends are found at real gyms. Find out where the bodybuilders and powerlifters work out. Think "dive bar" but a gym.

[–]PickUpScientist0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

how so?

[–]HurricaneHugues131 points132 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

"I'm tired of holding back on what I think. I'm tired of hiding what I believe, of policing my tone, of putting a mask on all the time. All it does is make the hate burn inside of me while I listen to what they say. They can't stop pushing their political agenda down my throat and I have to fake that I agree with it. It's killing me slowly."

Calm down Elliot. Calm down.

[–]Standgrounding26 points27 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Holy f*ck...

[–]Atheist_Utopia29 points30 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

pulls out his BMW

[–]violetmonstermunch[S] 4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Hahaha I don't have one unfortunately.

[–]celincelin0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

You should opt for the G Class anyway; it’s more capable, if you know what I mean.

[–]violetmonstermunch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

No I don't understand, I'm not a native speaker ..

[–]PandaLitter13 points14 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

YOU CAN'T DODGE THE RODGE

[–]Project_Zero_Betas0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Literally every other thread

[–]iamdexter1233 points34 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Relatable...I recovered by joining Karate ( A self defense, group training, etc ), practicing Soccer and started hiking( Mountains). I also removed irrelevant liberal News, YouTube shows for mental peace. Do this until you become unfazed(stoic) by what's happening in society.

[–]hate_sarcasm8 points9 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

This is something I don't understan about stoicism, positive change in the world happens because people didn't like the world they live in, became fazed by it and changed it, stoicism says to just accept it. Am i misunderstanding it?

[–]jzekyll412 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Don’t try to change the world as an emotional response. Do it for no reason at all.

[–]Maikflow5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes

[–]Endorsed ContributorFereallyRed71 points72 points  (18 children) | Copy Link

Despite all my rage I am still just a rat in a cage.

Then someone will say what is lost can never be saved.

You work within the constraints of society and reality. Use the environment by using your knowledge to advance your goals, raging against the machine is futility.

You're upset at the world.

Take a second to reflect on just how narcissistic and unrealistic that viewpoint is, snowflake.

Go build a cabin in Alaska and live alone in it for the next 30 years if being around people upsets you so much.

You have no frame.

[–]dtyler8614 points15 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

No frame? Snowflake? I’m right there with OP and I’m 33, a successful business owner. Where we live can be the difference. Everywhere I go, many of my friends too, everyone is at the mercy of being PC, accepted, and their GFs/wives will. It sucks, it’s frustrating, but what does this have to do with frame? I’m overtly outspoken and don’t keep quiet but it is isolating and literally no one hears red pill attitude and doesn’t say “misogynist” or get off put. To navigate modern social circles, you have to be passive or get out

[–]Endorsed ContributorFereallyRed8 points9 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

[–]dtyler860 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Will check it

[–]NoKoala40 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

Any more posts like these on frame?

[–]Endorsed ContributorFereallyRed0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

One or two on my self-titled sub of articles I deem important.

[–]NoKoala40 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Where can I see them?

[–]Endorsed ContributorFereallyRed0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

r "slash" FereallyRed

[–]Zakkaro0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

an hour in, this is a great read so far damn

[–]jeunpeun990 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Could it be that OP also sees himself in the people around him? And what he sees doesn't make him happy.

[–]Project_Zero_Betas0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Go build a cabin in Alaska

Are there less insects?

[–]Endorsed ContributorFereallyRed0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Fuck no.

The state bird of Alaska is the mosquito.

Relentless motherfuckers.

[–]Project_Zero_Betas0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

You just killed off my last viable dream. Thks

[–]violetmonstermunch[S] -5 points-4 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

You're upset at the world.

Take a second to reflect on just how narcissistic and unrealistic that viewpoint is, snowflake.

You have no frame.

Care to give some advices about those points or did you just want to throw some insults?

[–]Endorsed ContributorFereallyRed16 points17 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I needed to see that sir. I just moved away from a large city where I was king and now I am in a place where no one knows me. I left all my plates, all my friends, and all of my power.

After 2 whole weeks of not getting laid (I did kiss a married girl in a bar though) I was starting to doubt who I was. I was letting the sadness set in and was feeling pity for myself. Thank you for linking that. The only acceptable thing for me to do is to go out and change it. You reminded me of that.

[–]FaP_caesar0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

If you can be KING in large city. You can be Caesar in smaller pond..

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I went from one major city (a tourism hotspot) to another major city (better off economically). This new city seems to have a lot more religious people, or at least they are more conservative and a lot less into partying hard. I'm still working on calibrating my style. I'm a little bit too wild right now for these heathens.

[–]Porlock_Person24 points25 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

You should lead these people by your example. Create and display the real benefits of a RP mentality and they might just be curious.

Also, you can engage 90% of people in calm, open minded conversation on most issues. I live in a very “progressive” town in the UK and literally every woman I meet has “strong opinions” about Brexit and Boris Johnson (and Trump, of course). It is more common to see “No Tories” or “No Leave Voters” on Tinder profiles than “be over 6ft”. I completely avoid political conversation until I’ve fucked them at least once. Once they are invested, I’m happy to exchange views with them in a non-confrontational manner.

It’s a delight how often I hear “...I guess I didn’t think of it like that...”

[–]andyturbo2000 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy Link

I’d love to be able to talk about RP to other men in my social circle, but I find that I can’t. I hit a brick wall when they say “they all can’t be like that”. The white knights are very frequent too.

[–]Porlock_Person6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

If it’s just talk then it isn’t likely to be convincing. But if you can demonstrate it, they will pay attention.

I live with an old friend who used to be somewhat RP (wouldn’t commit to a relationship when asked to and was dead against marriage), but who is getting softer by the day. He has a LTR but he has given up on attracting a new woman and does almost nothing except work and play video games and DnD. I have taken to bringing home as many different girls as possible and introducing each one to him. If he doesn’t get the message, it’s his fault...

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Agree 100%. If you want to be a leader and someone people look up to, it's absolutely crucial you are able to get along with people with opposing world views. Only being able to socialize with people who are exactly like you is the definition of boring.

[–]Red_For_Me 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy Link

I totally relate to this. I live in a major European city where everyone seems to be a giant pussy and the women are all entitled nagging bitches, I find unbearable.

I’m very fortunate that through my flat-share I stumbled into some good people. They do exist, they are hard to find and believe me, it’s fucking invaluable when you find them. Don’t give up hope brother, there are other non-cucked males out there.

I then found a solid LTR with good values. I also cut out a lot of liberal noise by consuming less of their propaganda news. If you want real news with much less propaganda check out the Financial Times or equivalent.

Basically, what I’m saying is don’t give up, you’ll find good people with time. Seeking out conservative communities helps.

[–]purecoolnesss0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Do you have any recommendations on good european cities? (if not which city are you in?)

[–]beachbbqlover16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You are a bald monkey on a wet rock in space, and are taking things too seriously.

Learn to laugh at yourself.

Learn to laugh at others.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

How do you go about finding people like that ?

By being yourself and not apologising it.

How can real men recognise you if you're also pretending to be a pussy?

I'm not saying challenge everything you hear..... but aim to be the least politically correct person in any social situation. Not enough to destroy everyone's night..... but someone has to be the least PC there. Make sure it's you.

[–]ARealHoss5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Basically, I’ve decided to follow a worldview that is unpopular, and now I’m upset because people don’t agree with me.

Everything is made up. Society is a bunch of social conventions to help us get along. For one, the Red Pill is a lot of psuedo science and dogma that helps socially awkward men get laid.

No shit women don’t want men who don’t stand for anything, don’t physically take care of themselves, etc. Being a “good” person is the bare minimum. Personality is subjective, but all else equal, everyone wants the best possible partner they can get. It’s not rocket science.

If you were truly “alpha” do whatever you want and get over yourself. There is no “right” or “wrong”.

Any ideology or dogma you follow is your prerogative. If you have merits that are well articulated, people will listen.

There is no one fix answer for everything. The media is about outrage culture and dividing us. Makes money. Instead of being fixed on one set of tenants, maybe realize that you’re not always going to be correct. A lot of life is grey. How you perceive others is a reflection of yourself- especially people you hardly know. If you hate everyone, it’s likely a “you” problem.

There are billions of people on this planet. Learn how to interact with people who different opinions than you do. Otherwise, stop whining.

[–]jotenko1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is the right answer.

[–]magx014 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I just can't stand anymore being in a conversation and listening everybody praise feminism and hate on men.

Is this really the case irl?

[–]violetmonstermunch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes it is unfortunately.

[–]Standgrounding2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

If you truly don't care about politics you can just listen and switch topic as if it was irrelevant.

[–]renaultcliodriver 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]violetmonstermunch[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yes that's what I do usually but even then they always project some feminist shit in every conversation. That's what happens with everybody : their beliefs and convictions shows all the time.

[–]JustDoMeee2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Get out of your fucking ass, see people as people instead of blue or red pill, don't filter yourself and like minded people will stick around, give it time.

[–]Bing_Bang_Bam2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

"per se" - grammar Nazi bot (hint: it's Latin)

I agree with everything else you said though.

[–]ghjklzxcv1232 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Cut that MGTOW incel bullshit from trp. You have a weak frame. If you cant cope with the reality and manipulate it for your benefit, you dont deserve anything.

[–]thechaosz2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Dive bars are a very no nonsense crowd.

My fave place to drink.

[–]Startlivingfornow2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The Redpill does not put you on a pedestal. It is simply information that when used correctly will better your quality of life.

[–]UnbreakableFrame6 points7 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

I have two big suggestions.

  1. Don't hide your beliefs. Share your opinions freely and challenge the opinions of others equally freely. Just don't do either of those things on social media.

  2. Don't give so many fucks about things that don't matter. This will circumvent a lot of what you are going through. The older I get, the less fucks I give about politics and what other people think.

[–]its4thecatlol15 points16 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Don't hide your beliefs. Share your opinions freely and challenge the opinions of others equally freely. Just don't do either of those things on social media.

You clearly do not work in a corporate environment. Dumbest fucking comment in the entire thread. I love your sentiment, and agree in spirit, but this advice applies only in a social setting where the initial barriers have already been broken. Speak your opinions at work and never work again.

[–]UnbreakableFrame5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I work in management for a huge corporation. The second thing I said is significantly more important than the first thing. So many guys on this sub are so intense and full of rage. I have no rage. So for me, saying that I share my beliefs is really not that big a deal. For some of the guys here, yeah, it would be devastating. It's so important to give less fucks about things that don't matter.

Some autistic dipshit said something earlier about how he thinks women should have their rights taken away. Yeah, if you believe something that fucking dumb, maybe you should keep your mouth shut. To me, TRP is about self-improvement and having a better understanding of masculinity.

[–]its4thecatlol2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree. Where we differ is in how freely we share our opinions. I will never share my TRP opinions at work. My life will be destroyed. Will I offer my opinions on the current project? Of course.

Go ahead and tell your coworkers that you think women need strong men. See what happens.

[–]violetmonstermunch[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

fa

[–]UnbreakableFrame2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Um... what?

[–]Bing_Bang_Bam-1 points0 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Yeah. I personally have a big mouth. Try not to say the obvious truth at work though. I got fired a few times for not being politically correct.

[–]UnbreakableFrame5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

A few times?

[–]Bing_Bang_Bam0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Female bosses are the fucking worst.

(Unless they want to fuck you. Which happens less and less sad you get older.)

[–]UnbreakableFrame1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The reality is that if you are a good employee and at least mostly respectful, people will look for every excuse not to fire you. I'm not buying this story. I manage about 38 people at any given moment and I've never even been tempted to fire a good employee. But hell, if someone's an idiot that I want to get out of my team, I'll use anything I can to get rid of them.

[–]Jabbatheslut66661 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Congrats man you realized.you domt need anyone. Welcome.to the other side ;)

[–]dtyler861 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

You sound like me lol. Live in Florida? Let’s beer

[–]violetmonstermunch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm not in the US sadly !

[–]readytokno1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

to be honest..I just keep an image in my head of the men I've respected and liked most in my life - uncles and family friends from childhood, people I've met here and there. Men with a good balance of being strong, direct competent but warm and thoughtful. And for me..just that I remember them and keep them in my mind is enough...like even if I'm surrounded by idiots and zombies..the fact that I know that ideal exists and that men like that are still out there somewhere..and that I can carry on their example...helps

[–]Psyyko1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

>However, everywhere I go I meet only blue pill people. I just can't stand anymore being in a conversation and listening everybody praise feminism and hate on men. Of course I say nothing

You must live in a really shitty place if that's the only people you have access to. Because i can talk with 100 people without ever hearing about femism. Where are you from? San Francisco or some shit like that?

Anyway, here's the thing: you need people to be successful at ANYTHING. If you wanna have a good job, a good social circle, fuck girls on a regular people, you need to get along with people. If most those people are "blue pilled", you need to get along with them. If you have an unusual lifestyle and are a loner, you don't need to. But if you wanna have a typical normal life, you do. Now, you're putting way to much emotion into this. Emotion is the enemy of strategy. I don't enjoy interacting with 99% of the women i meet. They're dumb and boring. But i do enjoy their pussy, so i gotta tolerate them. Keep focused on your objectives. You don't have to like everyone. Find things to do in life that really interest you so you can feel a bit better.

>The people I meet are also manginas, weak despicable "men". The women are useless nagging bitches. So not only do I not enjoy the social interactions per say, but I also feel deep hate for the people I see around me.

If you think you're above everyone you meet, it's probably better to go back to monk mode.

>I need to find people that are like me so I can be myself and relaxed. How do you go about finding people like that ? If you don't find any what do you do ?

I am myself and relaxed around people who are the opposite of me. If you don't give people the opportunity you will never know how they would react to you. When you take off your mask and force others to take off theirs you put them in uncomfortable positions and sometimes discover something new about them that you didn't expect before. If you're really interesting and unique you might even change mentalities. People might be attracted by how different and unpredictable you are.

[–]bestsparkyalive1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You sound like a bitch dude

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Consider this: the world you live in hasn't changed. Only your awareness of what;s going on in it has changed.

Other men have not become weaker. You have become stronger because of your RP awareness.

Use your newfound insight to gain advantage, and build the world the way you want, and to find the kinds of friends who will help you build it.

[–]comcain1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Tell 'em that giving women the vote was the start of the Fall of Western Society. That always goes over big. :-)

[–]Project_Zero_Betas0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Big or biggest mistake of the 20th century?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah man I feel you, nobody makes the effort to reach out, I reach out, waste my time.jpeg

I seem to attract fucking idiots it's definitely because of the way I look I think.

The thing is I can socialise perfectly fine with the right people, living in a small town probably doesn't help and unfortunately I can't help my circumstances rn I need to save some money and quit weed lol.

You kind of feel like you've surpassed your old peers but not in an arrogant way.

That is how I feel pretty much.

There is one guy I have been chilling with, we both do graff and he's way better than me so I tend to try and learn shit.

Other than that I don't fuck with anyone anymore.

[–]soukyfi0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I know how you feel. You even start to feel lonely. Just lead RP by example, and you'll start to receive attention from people you may not be fond of, but you will start to grow on them or they will praise you. But once you mention RP overtly, game over. You're a demon. Just lead by example and in most situations, you will find that you can be the solution to their nagging and bitching...if you want to be. Can't savem' all. A red piller would be pretentious in situations that involve politics, which usually leads to physical attraction by women, or respect from men. Don't lose hope, because you are the hope. Screw egalitarianism.

[–]drunkPKMNtrainer0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Did you do situps while in "monk" mode

[–]violetmonstermunch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I lift yes.

[–]Blerks0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm going to give you the same advice I give to my off-the-deep-end progressive left friends/acquaintances: "If the entire world looks problematic, the problem might not be with the world."

Go back and watch The Matrix, and pay attention to Morpheus's speech about why they don't just wake everybody up at once. It's not your job to preach the truth to everyone you see, and getting mad at people for not believing what you do won't help.

Society's attitudes are already changing slowly. If you demand everyone change to suit your own personal preferences immediately, you're not better than the SJWs. Have patience, and try to start noticing what you have in common with people you meet rather than what you don't.

[–]1XXXMersenne0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Fuck what they think and say what you want. You'll naturally grow apart from them as they will from you - no point in mentally castrating yourself in the interim.

[–]violetmonstermunch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I guess you live in the USA ? I live in Europe and we don't have such freedom of speech as in the USA.

[–]devansh_0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Maybe your didn't build your life enough, maybe your views aren't actually solidified or condensed yet and you are unsure of it yourself. Work harder, follow Cobra Tate on Instagram and YouTube.

[–]SoulRedemption0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

From what I took monk mode does not mean to snuff all social life and put yourself in a box to improve yourself. It might become counter productive.

World is what is due to all that is involved in it. You won't get the "good" without the "bad". Everything has an effect, that ultinately leads to what you need to experience.

I understand the frustrations, but no one is perfect, far from it. If you seek you will find that each and everyone person has some "good" in them. This does not mean you need to put them on a pedestal, nor that you need to associate with them. Sometimes you just need to accept who they are and stop your continuous judgement of them. Be wary, but do not need to snipe their lack of agreement in the life that you perceive that ought to be the "right" reality.

May I suggest to explore stoicism? You may find some peace, or usefulness in that path for what you are internally dealing with right now.

PS: I too am far from good, let alone perfect, I too pass judgement, I do have pitfalls that I fall in, it will be a constant learning, experimenting and experiencing once you swallow the pill.

Edit: Spellings

[–]Distractingyou0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Honestly if you are so mad about go live in a more conservative place i am happy there are not a lot of faggot feminist out here

[–]1XXXMersenne0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I live in UK

[–]NorsemanLewis0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is a mindset you need to abolish. It is beta, it expresses neediness. You dont have to pretend and to hold back your views. Instead you should put a distance between people who, you believe, corrupt you. I do it to PC mindset people, blue pill men and feminist women. There was a phase when I hid my views because they were different, but to my surprise, when I allowed myself to freely express my non PC humor and attitude, when I showed the red pill behavior in the open, and openly disagreed with blue pill mentality, it instead pulled the right people to me. I noticed some blue pill friends learning from me, I noticed I attracted more red pill mindset people to hang out with me, etc. There does not exist a scenario where Everyone is blue pilled. The red pill stick to their own.

[–]lbrownlbandit0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Sounds like you need to meet more open minded people you can talk to or even just people in the same sphere of influence as you. My go to with blue pill people is to just talk to them normally, go quite when they say something stupid and excited when they say something I agree with. This way i can see who makes me go quite more and just not hang out with them. Also gives them the signal of the same thing.

That and to work on your social life, just like game you will have to take risks. Sometimes putting yourself in weird positions socially. With people you dont typically hangout with. Try a new hobby and meet all the weird and cool people that come with it.

But most importantly look for friends that you do shit with. These are usually the guys with whom you could sit for hours and it wont feel awkward. Then slowly start speaking with them about obscure topics and build relationships that way. Takes time but is worth it.

Good luck

[–]CamoWoobie100000 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Unfortunately part of social skills is not saying anything that can offend someone. Theres tons of people with "wrongthink" ideas that they dont say in public, you speak to them every day. Theyre concealing it. Part of game is concealment.

Find people you can talk to about things on your mind in private while having a safe public persona. Very slowly ease into revealing yourself so you can pullback if theyre not into it.

[–]zero0x0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, sometimes frightened. But no price and is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself."

        — Rudyard Kipling

If everything is coming easy, you are heading to the wrong direction.

As you progress, people will come and talk to you. Till then carry on my wayward son.

[–]violetmonstermunch[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

I like that, do you know which book it comes from ?

[–]zero0x0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Edited the source.

It comes from an interview piece by Arthur Gordon, "Interview with an Immortal", Reader’s Digest, 1935. The 1967 Kipling Society journal reprints it as "Six Hours with Rudyard Kipling". It quotes Kipling as saying:

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself."

https://books.google.com/books?id=MCpNSBcsKaUC&pg=PA50&lpg=PA50&dq=privilege+of+owning+yourself&source=bl&ots=Gis3b8h4cT&sig=pA_hirnATZ3y8H-6f0fnOOfVgQU&hl=en&sa=X&ei=ZkdiULn1Koy09gSX9oCoCg

[–]Aarxnw0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Work in a restaurant on weekends, your view of the blue pill world will change real quick and you’ll find that they only exist in certain places.

That or you’re taking this red pill thing way too seriously

[–]Ivabighairy10 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I call shenanigans. Quit making excuses and get out there.

[–]Drive_Thru_Sushi0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Rule zero, but proceed if you like. sounds like you're in the anger phase. have you read No More Mr. Nice Guy? Have you read up on Frame? act like others think as you wish. white knuckle that fucking frame. and for the love of god never do anything to please someone else unless you benefit from it.

[–]TooManyThots0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm open about my views. I tell women that I want a wife who cooks, cleans and wears an apron. I tell them I don't like tattoos and piercings on a women. I say this to women covered in tattoos and piercings. They say "I'm interesting" because I hold different views.

I openly talk about my support for Trump in my mega leftist circles and none of the soyboys have anything to say about it. I'm still respectful of their views as I'd expect them to be respectful of mine.

Feminism is a giant shit test and girls like it when you pass it but not buying into it.

[–]LethalShade0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Work on your conversational and social skills. Its easily possible to have a conversation with someone who has views 100% opposite to yours and leave with both of you having had a positive experience.

[–]virusofthemind-1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Lead by example and the example is by having hot babes on your arm on a regular basis. Even the most bluepilled cuck is going to want to know how you do it.

[–]jzekyll42 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah but how do you get those babes if you’re an isolated loner without social skills

[–]virusofthemind1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You learn the skills and then practice them till you're good at them like anything else.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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