Went out with my female co-worker and 5 of her female friends... EYE OPENING.

mysteryfist · 2019-08-25T15:02:36+00:00

tbf this story is probably only so extreme cos the girls got very drunk.

honestly bro, I don't think the sluttiness is what disgusts you. I think it's the extremely unattractive way in which drunk girls act.

not many ways easier to knock a girl down a few points in attractiveness than her being drunk IMO.

it's the uncontrolled, unladylike, retardedness in their behavior that is stupid enough in dudes but is 10x as stupid when girls do it.

tbf if the girl can handle her alcohol then it's no biggie, it's just when they turn into good looking people with special needs that it becomes a turn off.

kfd_capital · 2019-08-25T17:51:11+00:00

I feel bad for dudes who pick a wife out of this bunch

wang_yenli · 2019-08-25T15:09:05+00:00

It's the decline. You can enjoy it or stick to people whose company doesn't revolt you.

WildCock30 · 2019-08-25T15:09:22+00:00

I feel as though alcohol brings out the basest in us all...primal actions. This may bring out that “inner child” in women, and coupled with just about unlimited attention, it can be a recipe for a bad showing lol

redhawkes · 2019-08-25T18:50:34+00:00

This is what betas and nice guys need to see/experience in order to put pussy off the pedestal.

Your story is nothing new, that's how shit is. You need more exposure. The disgust in slutty behavior is your natural instinct, just don't give a fuck and ltr hoes like this, otherwise, have fun.

I've been in situations when drunk hoes are pulling up my shirt and touching my abs aggressively, in the middle of the club, while Im slapping their asses as hard as I can and do whatever I want to them. Stop giving a fuck. Just get it and don't judge them sexually.

trunksshortsman · 2019-08-25T14:47:30+00:00

This is how they all are bro.You were just sober enough to notice it but it’s all attention seeking behaviour.But every girl is like this when they go to the club.But that’s why I won’t date a girl who goes to the club a lot.

Indeed_Me · 2019-08-25T15:08:34+00:00

Damn man, I am about to go clubbin' with 5 females, the only guy, because one of them is having Birthday and I want to go therefore but...your story creeped the shit out of me, tbh. She's HB 9, the rest are two of my coworkers (one of them hot, the other is not) and the other two girls I don't even know, never met them before. I hope it's not gonna be the same scenario as it was in your case the night.

agjrpsl · 2019-08-25T16:57:47+00:00

It's okay dude. I live in Florida and that shit happens all the time here in bars and clubs. Some clubs the chics run around in their bras and panties. Fucking is going on in the bathrooms and such. Florida chics are bat crazy.

trp369 · 2019-08-25T17:32:22+00:00

You haven’t experienced women until you have been invited to a girls night out/went without your boys.

If you got invited to a girls night out either you’re a beta fuck or they consider you attractive and social. You know which one you are.

Once you’re out with them you’ll truly see behaviour you didn’t even know was real. How casual they will not only talk but act on the guys around them, getting fingered by someone (me) just to go home to their boyfriend who they definitely love and post cute pictures with.

SoulRedemption · 2019-08-25T15:29:15+00:00

I have experienced similar situations. Most of all, some girls do not need to be even clubbing, keep that in mind

ControlBlue · 2019-08-25T22:19:13+00:00

Co-worker started asking why I thought she was ugly because I didn't want to make out with her.

Typical.

Wait a minute... those were your co-workers???

You are treading on dangerous grounds, my friend.

Thinkingard · 2019-08-25T20:24:21+00:00

I wonder if your disgust from their sluttiness was because of some hindbrain action. In the back of your mind you were probably thinking if they were so instantly slutty, swapping bodily fluids with each other so freely, how many dudes and women have they been with? I think guys have a limit on how much slut they will accept and those girls crossed that limit from their behavior.

Kudos to you for not engaging in sex with any of them because A) co-workers friends is, to me, still shitting where you eat, and B) if they are that uncontrollable with a few drinks, with no scruples, then how much more able are they to simply accuse you of something you aren't ready for?

I know I've never had fun hanging out with drunk girls I know. They get too emotional and I feel the same way as you, like I'm babysitting them.

LilLoserFreny · 2019-08-25T16:42:13+00:00

Yup they all are hoes dawg

INNASKILLZ2K18 · 2019-08-26T04:50:21+00:00

Yeah man. At some point you have to decide when shit is beneath you.

A lot of thirsty little betas will say 'oh, but just ignore it and fuck one'..

No thanks. If you're turning me off, you're turning me off. You held frame and had boundaries.

Abundance mentality and outcome independence. You decide what you do and DON'T want to go after

bruiser18 · 2019-08-25T23:46:34+00:00

Went out with just 1 of my friends for a drink on my 18th birthday. Ended up going to a club, meeting a girl I know and her friends. The girl told all her friends it was my birthday so they used that as an excuse to dance with me, twerk on me, make out with me etc. I was dancing with 3 girls, all grinding on me, kissing each other and kissing me, while a group of 5 or 6 guys stood there just fucking staring. One of the guys approached my friend and asked if he could get me to set him up with one of the girls (Lmao) and for the entire night guys just lurked watching me with these girls.

Really opened my eyes to female nature but more so to blue pilled male nature. Creepy weirdos silently watching the girls, getting drunk enough to dance somewhat near them and rub up against them hoping the girls will jump on them. Creepy, beta and gay.

AuberyBitoni · 2019-08-25T15:07:59+00:00

When you see this type of thing in person for the first time, it can definitely fuck with you.

I'm in my mid-30s now, and I used to have a FWB in my early-mid 20s who outwardly identified as a lesbian but was clearly bisexual, and I would go with her and a bunch of her chick friends to a gay club on a fairly regular basis. I'm bisexual (heteroflexible more accurately) myself, but I can't stand the flamboyant ridiculous bullshit that comes along with places like that, so I stuck with the girls and told any guy who asked that I was straight.

I got a lot of pussy and three-ways from so many so-called lesbians that it was ridiculous. Of this friend group, about half identified as lesbians and the other half identified as bisexual, but I fucked every one of them in the group at least a handful of times. As soon as they felt like they could be comfortable being themselves around me without feeling judged, their behavior around me was like night and day. I didn't really understand shit then like I do now, so it was completely mind-blowing.

Aside from my FWB, there was a core group of 5-6 of those girls that I would spend time with a most during that period, and they all fucked each other pretty regularly and would share dudes occasionally. Despite us frequently being at a gay club together, they got approached by guys like all the fucking time. If we were there for three or four hours, I'd see at least 20-25 guys approach even in that setting.

What they complained about the most is that they would get approached by guys all the time but that those dudes were almost universally creepy/weird/whatever other thing to mean unattractive.

Whycantwealltwerk · 2019-08-25T18:12:16+00:00

Yea just about the same thing happens to me when I go out with all girls. The stares from guys is the weirdest thing. But the attention from other girls can be cool but you’ll probably be too busy focusing on dancing with the girls you have. Nothing I didn’t expect. And I feel the same when I see girls drunk as that, I definitely don’t “like” club girls but they can be fun for a night and that’s just how I take it.

Sove131 · 2019-08-25T20:34:43+00:00

Your experience sounds quite similar to mine. Done that, made out, at some point felt like a babysitting, as the shit-test escalated to near fights with other guys and I was dumbly drunk enough to get punched in the face by some random creep. Left them and enjoyed the rest of the night with others. Learned there to mind my own business.

FW-190 · 2019-08-26T02:25:57+00:00

Absolutely degenerate

ValorElite · 2019-08-25T17:12:27+00:00

This is why you don't go with broken women to the club. Easy to fuck and lead around, but these are not high caliber women.

Better yet, don't go clubbing with your co-workers and branch out.

slaterhuckle · 2019-08-25T16:48:29+00:00

idk what you're so surprised about, thats how most girls are. I don't think its a bad thing to platonically make out with your friends. Sounds like you stayed true to yourself and your convictions though. You are cool/fun enough for a bunch of girls to invite you out with them, thats badass! IMO just accept them as friends and don't judge them. Keep hanging out with them, maybe you can fuck their more conservative outside-of-work friends. It's nice having fun girls to hang out with/bring to parties and social functions.

I've been in similar situations and got all caught up in my feelings after seeing behavior like this. Hard pill to swallow is that all girls are like this in some way. You have to just love/accept love unconditionally from girls without expecting them to behave like you want. They're like pets, you don't stop loving your dog when it shits on the floor... If they don't live up to your standards then... NEXT! You should be on your mission anyway and care more about personal goals than being with any girl. Otherwise you're just in for heartbreak later down the road.

sea_light_house · 2019-08-25T17:21:11+00:00

First of all, you don't sound like you really fucked that HB8 girl. Most girls go to club more or less.

The club girls I say broken girls, now broken girls don't have to be club girls. Promiscuous women don't even know why they fuck at all, it is a way to seek validation of their broken like, most of them can be found with Cluster-B Personality Disorder (BPD, NPD,...)[Source: Loose Girl: A memoir of Promiscuity ]

They will fuck you today, they will fuck someone else tomorrow, it doesn't make sense to them. They lack stability. Another truth is, most women have some sort of psychotic personality, so who is normal?

As to why other males were looking at you like hyenas, you probably acted more than what you really are.

adviceseeker2018 · 2019-08-26T04:07:07+00:00

"let their girls go clubbin"? I'm sorry, do you OWN your girlfriend? Are you the boss of what she does and who she does it with? Better wording would be to merely say you'd prefer or refuse to go out with a gal who wish to go clubbin' solo -- ie: you can "control" your OWN behavior - but you really can't (or shouldn't) tell a girl you are merely dating what she can or cannot do in her free time that you are not with her. Yes, you can express displeasure - but that is not what OP said.

strpnzo · 2019-08-25T18:40:19+00:00

If you are younger than 35 don't be exclusive with any girl. If you are not exclusive with women and they behave in the ways you don't like who cares? Just use the ones you can and move on to the next one.

riggedved · 2019-08-26T02:43:02+00:00

Alcohol is a major element in modern female behaviour. Sometimes I feel alcohol doesn’t get the attention it deserves on TRP.

Alcohol and birth control, the prime reasons for uncontrolled female hypergamy.

Pushnikov · 2019-08-25T16:59:17+00:00

3000 years ago, orgies were common. Roman orgy, Greek orgy, etc, etc. people just partied and fucked in big groups. The only difference now is that Christianity still has its morality grips in place in public settings. So, clubbing is what you experienced.

I know people on college campus’ that talk about their students having orgies like it’s nbd.

Women will always want this hardwired behavior. It’s actually in their favor. Imagine, you can pick and exclude the guys you want and not the guys that aren’t X enough. And it’s totally without social repercussion. Best semen, no penalty. Find a beta-bucks and he’ll raise your first child.

Startlivingfornow · 2019-08-25T22:25:52+00:00

Funny, I always shake my head when I read stories like this. I was fortunate enough to have lots of female friends through high school and became acquainted to just how slutty they can be and how they can then rationalise it after the fact. They are children that only become logical because the adult world requires it.

If this behaviour still effects you, I’d take a look at that belief system and check whether your perception really aligns with how women truly are.

And all women can be like this, it doesn’t matter whether it’s your little sister, mother, some chick who has all the dignity in the world.

animal-mother · 2019-08-25T21:52:19+00:00

Some study on barsexual behavior said something like 1/3 of the college girls surveyed had participated at least once.

zxcvb7809 · 2019-08-26T03:07:25+00:00

Reality is stranger than fiction, that is for sure.

DexiAntoniu · 2019-08-26T04:31:49+00:00

Men are no different when they get drunk, we're not at our best behavior when we drink. Some can hold their liquor better, but the issue and the real lesson of your story is about excess, and not about women. Women have the right to do whatever they want. Excess is the issue for all of us.

imtheoneimmortal · 2019-08-25T23:07:47+00:00

That’s what club is about

adviceseeker2018 · 2019-08-26T03:55:53+00:00

I know this will sound like a dumb question to those of you "more knowing" about this slang, but what exactly does, "losing frame" mean? Never heard that expression before. Thanks for educating me.

lifeisweirdasfuck · 2019-08-26T06:25:58+00:00

Everytime you get surprised by women's sluttiness, open "My Secret Garden" and give it a read.

I'm surprised they did not start a lesbian orgy right in front of you.

Lambdal7 · 2019-08-26T08:11:24+00:00

Men are so much worse when they are drunk, they want to fuck every single girl in the club. Double standards.

Giant-__-Otter · 2019-09-03T07:05:45+00:00

What stopped you from leaving that particular group when it became not fun? Just mingle with another crowd in the club.

HeadingRed · 2019-09-21T13:27:28+00:00

Alcohol is a bit of a truth serum. It can reveal who someone is or who they want to be. It's also the permission slip to behave badly with less guilt.

"oh did I do that? It must have been the booze - I'm really not like that believe me I would never do that i'm so embarrassed i've never done that before. trust me".

And co-ed drinking with coworkers often = sex. Nothing like the day after in the office and making eye contact with her and with everyone else.

MartinVDK91 · 2019-10-20T12:20:55+00:00

Standard female behaviour.

screamifyouredriving · 2019-11-03T11:36:33+00:00

Based. I went out with a solo girl last night and had a wholesome time cuddling and having oral and talking. We didn't do any drugs at all. Sorry you had to experience that.

rockyp32 · 2019-08-25T21:50:29+00:00

Yeah that made me break frame with this chick I was digging my buddies told she was being a sleut and hooking up with someone else the same night we were vining which is freely her choice to make but the possibility of that kinda ruined all future interactions next time we hung out at the club I just had no desire to give her attention or go after her for some reason.. just upset me

Neu-Sociology · 2019-08-25T17:12:55+00:00

Teach me. Give me pointers. How did u do this?