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Basically, lets go over the general stuff women say (on these forums among other places) about when it's ok to approach them or not. When you put it all together, it doesn't give a lot of options at all.

A) The Gym

Why the gym would be a good place to meet women: I am looking for women who are in shape. The ones who have nice butts because they know how to do squats and do them well. Ya'll say to "find women who are into the same shit you're into". Well...I'm into lifting. I like women who are into fitness as well. Wouldn't the gym be a good place to meet those types? HELLO!

Women's general logic: The gym is the worst place you could approach me. I am sweating, and my makeup looks like shit. I would hate to be approached at the gym. I'm also generally wearing headphones, so good luck getting my attention when Cardi B (the robbing whore) has my attention.

B) The Grocery Store

Women's Logic: I just want to get my shit and go. I don't want to be disturbed. I'm in a hurry to get back to my house and binge Game of Thrones and eat my tub of Ben and Jerry's ice cream. Save your breath.

C) The Bar/Club

Women's Logic: Women don't specifically go out to meet guys, so don't think they do. Maybe I'm just here to dance? Maybe I'm just here to drink? Maybe I'm just here with my girls for no reason? Maybe I'm a lesbian? So don't think you can talk to me just because it's a bar or club, hellloooooo!

D) At Work

My logic: My grandparents met at work, as have many couples. However, I still don't necessarily like dipping my pen in the company ink. Still though, the urge to do so does come, especially when EVERYBODY else at my job is already dating somebody at my job. My job is full of couples. I'm starting to think it's not that bad. I just don't do it because I don't want to have to see my girlfriend all the time at work.

Women's logic: I don't date co-workers, so don't even try. (Regardless of literally everybody else doing it.)

E) Concerts

Women's logic: See bars/clubs.

F) Literally every other example I can think of

Women's logic: We don't like to be disturbed. We are always in a hurry and don't want random men talking to us.

The point of this thread is, WHERE AM I ALLOWED TO APPROACH WOMEN IF EVERY DAMN PLACE I THINK MIGHT HAVE PROMISE OF MEETING SOMEONE COOl, LIKE THE GYM, IS OFF LIMITS?

If men are to listen to what women say about where to approach, they'd get NOWHERE.


[–]blackedoutfastRed Pill Man 23 points24 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

yes everyone knows that. it's not because women don't want to get approached , they just don't want to get approached by weak pussy men without any balls. they want to get approached by the men who do whatever they want to do without worrying about what women say.

telling men to not approach is a way to filter out the retarded men who actually listen to women.

[–]Eastuss༼ つ ▀̿_▀̿ ༽つ 15 points16 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

This is what I always say. Feminism is just female incentive to cull beta men out in a systemic way. When you put everything together it looks like they want 80% of men to just be good obedient tax payers who do not talk to women.

And the funniest shit is MGTOW who is aimed at doing exactly that.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol spot on

[–]AnAmericanTrollinWA[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I should have known this all along. But I try so much for red pill thinking to be wrong.

Damn.

[–]TheReformist94 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Nothing will ever happen for betas

[–]JezebeltheQueen5656 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy Link

women tell you when and where to approach them, your hamster comes up with rapey nonsense of the post and then we get a new wave of MeToo.

you have it coming.

[–]blackedoutfastRed Pill Man 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

is this a threat?

[–]IndigenousNeo 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

😂😂😂 wtf?

[–]douchebag_throwaway3 34 points35 points  (15 children) | Copy Link

The thing is... Fucking learn IOIs.

If you approach a woman and she reciprocates the conversation, great! Keep going!

If she is politely using one word answers while she slowly tries to make her escape, STOP!! It's not going to happen.

I witnessed this just the other day. Some autistic fucker was going on and on and on about DeBeers and diamonds and who the fuck knows what else while the woman was so obviously trying to get away. It was painful to watch.

[–]indaknffr 8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

If you approach a woman...

Someone already said this, but ya, you missed the point. Obviously, if she's not receptive, you should walk away, but some women are saying they don't want to be approached at all.

[–]Zippo-Cat 12 points13 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

If you approach a woman

Then you are already an entitled proto-rapist shitlord.

Congrats on entirely missing OP's point.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Please do go on believing you can't approach women, for all of their sakes.

[–]Eastuss༼ つ ▀̿_▀̿ ༽つ 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

IOIs are fake news.

If you approach a woman and she reciprocates the conversation, great! Keep going!

You make sense. But the logic is that depending on the context you shouldn't even be approaching her, how do you know? You missed the point.

[–]the_calibre_cat 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The thing is... Fucking learn IOIs.

Chad gets IOIs, sorry

[–]MrHerbSherman🤠 howdy 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Don’t wait for IOIs. Best approach is find the one you like and scare the shit out of her.

When she’s really into you it’s fun and funny and memorable and who cares about the ones who aren’t

[–]AnAmericanTrollinWA[S] 1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Iois, yes, those are quite quaint. I so love them...and I get them in the gym! I'll be doing deadlifts on a pedestal (not the barbells ones, the pull out machine deads). I'll notice strong eye contact/looking directly at me from the woman on the squat rack 100 feet down (awesome view, btw).

But she'll either have headphones in or just talk myself out of approaching in fear of misreading the IOIs and failing. And telling myself not to shit where I eat.

[–]drawinglizards 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

talk myself out of approaching

So the blaming-women-for-not-telling-you-how-to-hit-on-them is an excuse because you're too nervous to go up to one and say hi

[–]MxCmrnPurple Pill Man 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Dude, same. I’ve even had woman approach and compliment my form for DL. I just took the compliment SMH.

[–]AnAmericanTrollinWA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Missed oppertunities suck. I wonder what it is about DLs that draw IOIs. I guess women like seeing men pick up things, and imagine being picked up themselves. ¯_(ツ)_/¯

[–]KeyWeekBlue lean 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

If you believe you are getting IOIs try not to talk yourself out of it, just act.most important to remember, do as I say, not as I do (I psyche myself out too 🤷‍♂️)

[–]wildtimes3 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Even a smile can be enough. They smile back with some actual intent, IOI.

[–]Eastuss༼ つ ▀̿_▀̿ ༽つ 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The women I slept with never looked at me before I talked to them. How do you deal with never having even the grasp of an IOI, at some point you need to jump in without knowing.

[–]AnAmericanTrollinWA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Women who work out are more horny and sexually available than the average woman, I think.

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (23 children) | Copy Link

a. ive never seen a woman say that men shouldn't aproach women at bars or clubs

b. your post ignores that most people meet potential partners thru existing social networks or through online dating, not through cold approaching strangers

don't you have friends?

[–]87AudreyHorne 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

a. ive never seen a woman say that men shouldn't aproach women at bars or clubs

I think women are referring to being pestered at bars or clubs, so they are saying "we are not necessarily here to meet a guy" as in, don't take rejection personally and move on. I think maybe all of these are like that, you can try to approach but nothing guarantees your success and then just gracefully back out rather than assume it just has to work because you read online that this is a good strategy.

[–]Eastuss༼ つ ▀̿_▀̿ ༽つ 3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

a. ive never seen a woman say that men shouldn't aproach women at bars or clubs

People talk about bars and clubs on internet because they need a valid context so their argument has some legitimacy. But when you dig they'll tell you there are lot of conditions for it to be even valid, she must not be with other people, she must look available, she must smile and look at you, blahblah whatever. In the end, in their logic, you're not allowed to approach most women in bars and clubs as well.

If you put everything together you should be competing with 20 other men for the only one woman in a club making herself available.

thru existing social networks

Most men don't have social networks allowing them to meet a lot of new women. Rejections rate are high, you will spend decades alone if you hope to get a girlfriend through your friends.

I'm married so IDC, but in the last decade I've been introduced to 6 or 7 different girls, half are lesbians, the others are already in couple.

After highschool and college, all the social circles crystallized and stopped having lot of ins and outs or mixes.

through online dating,

Same as bars, 20 men competing for the one woman who makes herself available.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

youre allowed to do whatever you want outside of sexual harassment. women not being interested does not mean you can't approach them.

[–]Eastuss༼ つ ▀̿_▀̿ ༽つ 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

And the issue is people try to redefine sexual harassment as more than sexual harassment.

[–]AnAmericanTrollinWA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

You must love rejecting men lol. Ego boost and such

[–]poppy_blu 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

b. your post ignores that most people meet potential partners thru existing social networks or through online dating, not through cold approaching strangers

You’ve highlighted the fundamental problem here.

[–]AnAmericanTrollinWA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

.

[–]NockerJoePervert Palpatine 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Hang around Reddit and that's kind of the default for female users here. A lot of women go to clubs to get trashed and make poor life decisions that have nothing to do with dick.

[–]AnAmericanTrollinWA[S] 0 points1 point  (8 children) | Copy Link

I fucked someone from Tinder last week and a half ago. But that's all it was. Haven't seen her since. Also, theres a lot of competition on Tinder (even with an attractive face and picture). Easier to meet them in person when they may have not seen you on Tinder. Online Dating kind of sucks honestly.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

so doesn't this invalidate your assertion that you will never get anywhere when you were able to meet and fuck a girl off tinder, you know one of the main ways people meet new romantic and sexual partners in 2019

[–]AnAmericanTrollinWA[S] 0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy Link

Without relying on Tinder alone.

[–]flamingoinghomeIs three lizards in trench coat 2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Bumble, Hinge, OKC....

You may have to accept that most women want to meet their partners through friends-of-friends or OLD.

And what was wrong with this Tinder woman you didn't want to go out again? Or do you just feel weird because it was tinder?

[–]AnAmericanTrollinWA[S] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

She hasn't reached out to me. We were supposed to go see Captain Marvel together but she didn't follow through with it. Shes also 9 years older than me and works a lot. I do feel ghosted.

[–]flamingoinghomeIs three lizards in trench coat 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Aw man, i'm sorry, that's rough. You can always shoot her a text if you want to though.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I do feel ghosted.

Meh, it's Tinder, you should adjust your expectations accordingly.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Dude, you were Fuckboy'd. She just wanted some young fuck, and probably does that every so often to feel young again.

You shouldn't waste any energy on this old slut.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

so minus the obvious, popular alternative to doing the thing you say women tell you not to do....ok

[–]MGTOWKapow2Don't fuckin touch me -1 points0 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

a. ive never seen a woman say that men shouldn't aproach women at bars or clubs

No, they just put on fake wedding rings or hang around in packs like Wildebeeste so that they can keep the men away, or go drink in gay bars.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

"i don't want men to approach me in bars and clubs" is not the same as "i don't think men should approach women in bars and clubs"

i go out every weekend but i have zero interest in meeting guys. i still don't fault guys for approaching me and even encourage them on to talk to other girls if they're not douchebags

[–]Eastuss༼ つ ▀̿_▀̿ ༽つ 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

"i don't want men to approach me in bars and clubs" is not the same as "i don't think men should approach women in bars and clubs"

They also think there are rules for when you should approach women in a bar or not. Thus why they come in packs and make sure they look unavailable.

Maybe you're a reasonable person, but the sexual harassment is high in these places, therefore the social movements and medias are going to also emphasize on how men should behave in these places.

[–]AnAmericanTrollinWA[S] -1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Why do go out if you have no interest in men whatsoever? Are you on the hook?

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

cuz i like to drink and dance with my friends and my bfs a dj so i go to his gigs too. i used to work in nightlife so i just also have a lot of friendships centered around the clubs

[–]AnAmericanTrollinWA[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

So your bfs a Chad as well.

[–]CainPrice 9 points10 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Here's the surefire, no-fail way to see if a woman is into you that any dumbfuck can do:

  1. Walk over.

  2. Say "Hi. How's it going?"

  3. Watch her face to see if she smiles and makes eye contact, or if she looks concerned and positions her body as if to get away from you.

  4. Listen to her response to see if it's delivered in an engaging and upbeat tone of voice and includes multiple words, or if it's just "fine" or "go away creep" delivered monotonically without eye contact or engagement.

Now you know whether to continue the conversation or not. And she has nothing to get huffy about because you never hit on her. All you did was say hi, like any polite normal person does.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Except sometimes she will engage you for validation but she isn't actually interested. Or she'll be cold and want you to try harder.

Also, I think you underestimate how autistic most of this sub is. You kinda have to be to even bother coming here lol

[–]ivorynotasians 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Except sometimes she will engage you for validation but she isn't actually interested. Or she'll be cold and want you to try harder.

How is that not autism? I can't read her mind

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Well theoretically you shouldn't care if she ends up not being interested because you aren't afraid of rejection. So if it is genuine, you win. If it's not, you move on.

[–]AnAmericanTrollinWA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You...absolute fucking genius. You madman, you. Brilliant. It's...so bland you can't even call it a pickup line.

[–]Eastuss༼ つ ▀̿_▀̿ ༽つ 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Caveat is in some context they might think you work here. Like in a gym, if a man walks up to you and say "hi how it's going?" I immediately think he works there. :p

And if she believes you work here then all the signals she sent are wrong and it's about as good as being friendzoned. It's always important to signal first why you're talking to her, in a way or another.

[–][deleted] 17 points18 points  (51 children) | Copy Link

I always say men should approach women in public, then I get downvoted for 'expecting men to approach'.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (13 children) | Copy Link

I think that if women see someone they're interested in, they should approach him instead of waiting or trying to make him approach them. It's retarded, and that might be a reason why you would get downvoted. Otherwise, if the guy is interested, he should approach cuz he's the one with the interest.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (10 children) | Copy Link

Women dont like men who dont approach them. Why would anyone approach someone they dont like? Stop trying to explain female behaviour in terms of male sexual attraction.

[–]TheSuperStink 1 points [recovered]  (4 children) | Copy Link

I've had women approach me. It's not THAT unusual.

[–]The3liGator 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

You must be exceptionally attractive and/or tall.

[–]TheSuperStink 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy Link

I think this sub overestimates what it takes.

I'm 5'10"

[–]The3liGator 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

There's no way to confirm how attractive you are without a face pic. Also, 5'10" is taller than half the male population, and you could fraud into 6 feet

[–]lookingfornpc 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Ya it is pretty unusual for a woman to approach a man.

[–]NockerJoePervert Palpatine 3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I've seen and heard of it a few times. A young woman has a man in class or at work she's into. But then he never makes the move. So she waits and tries to send signals he never gets. But then he goes after another girl and gets into a relationship and our heroine is left in the cold.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I usually see the opposite happening

[–]NockerJoePervert Palpatine 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm not gonna say that's not more common but the flip side does happen. Hell I've BEEN that guy and even over the course of a few conversations I'd rather go for a chick who's putting more effort into conversation compared to the one looking from the sidelines and HOPING I somehow take the hint from the staring and do something.

[–]87AudreyHorne 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Just the fact he went after another girl means he wasn't that interested in the heroine in the first place, so she didn't lose anything by not approaching him. It's a different story if both are equally interested but no one dares to approach (they'd both eventually build enough tension through their bad signals for something to happen), a different if only one person is interested in the first place. Even if the other agreed to go out, they won't be on equal grounds.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Women dont like men who dont approach them

Okay, and...? You just kinda jumped over everything I said to comment on something I didn't say.

Why would anyone approach someone they dont like?

Where did I say that someone should do that?

Stop trying to explain female behaviour in terms of male sexual attraction.

Ummmmm k. Sounds like you're saying that not being approached by men robs women of the validation they receive in men doing so and that's unattractive. Oh well ¯\_( ͡ᵔ ͜ʖ ͡ᵔ )_/¯

[–]Futureman999 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy Link

I think that if women see someone they're interested in, they should approach him

If you like older/fatter ladies, sure.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Hey I’m sure women don’t like every man that approaches them either, but that’s when you politely decline their advances.

[–]0kool74 8 points9 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

then I get downvoted for 'expecting men to approach

Before Feminism 3.0 and #metoo it might have been logical to "expect" men to approach. Now....not so much.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I don’t know if most women are feminist 3.0 or actually agree with #metoo or if its all just virtue signalling

[–]Zippo-Cat 8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Most women agree and support anything that benefits them personally. Feminism 3.0 and #metoo absolutely do benefit them personally(until they don't)

[–]goldmedalflower 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

You're still allowed but only at bars, wine/beer tasting, parties, etc. That's it. Everywhere else feminists will not approve

[–]Bntt89 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Probably because the issue isn’t how men have to approach( maybe some) but the issue is the fact that girls pick and choose when it comes to equality. Girls don’t want to be shamed for having a lot of sex, cool np. Hey maybe girls can approach guys, literally nothing but negative responses from girls.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Nobody thinks this. Although women who haven't been approached might not understand it, and depending on where you live it can be awkward. Either way, most men won't approach.

[–]Bntt89 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

But women do think they shouldn’t approach, that’s why they don’t. The same reason not all men approach. The thing is though the problem is that it is expected that guys approach EVEN when the girl is interested. The thing is their is no reason why it’s specifically a mans job to approach.

[–]indaknffr 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

weird, your views seemed quite absurd in the "Wall" thread, but you're quite sensible here.

[–]Eastuss༼ つ ▀̿_▀̿ ༽つ 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Realistic truth: men are expected to approach, therefore they should do it when they feel like it, and never how women want.

Ideal goal: everyone approaches everyone

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You get downvoted because women are too chickenshit to approach men but expect men to take all the risk of moving first, and the downvoters know this.

[–]poppy_blu 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

They want the government/feminists to force women to approach them. Preferably without them ever having to actually leave the house.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I don’t know if this is delusion, or the fact these men don’t understand any aspect of how female attraction works.

[–]poppy_blu -2 points-1 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

(Most) Men around here sure as hell don’t.

[–]Antvante0401 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Of course they're on the internet too much. The internet is full of fools and guys that don't get out much listen to them.

[–]SirNemesisNo Pill 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

If other women agreed with you and it was actually a norm, you wouldn't get downvoted...

[–]AnAmericanTrollinWA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Trying is what matters

[–]lookingfornpc 0 points1 point  (17 children) | Copy Link

I really do doubt that.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (16 children) | Copy Link

Why ? It’s actually quite obvious as to why they would react that way. They want to think that women are the ones telling them that they can’t approach so they don’t have to face the fact they lack the balls to do so. So when I tell them most women would like it, they’re quick to get triggered.

[–]lookingfornpc 0 points1 point  (15 children) | Copy Link

They want to think that women are the ones telling them that they can’t approach

Because women are saying that.

So when I tell them most women would like it, they’re quick to get triggered.

Link me where you have said most women would like it if men approach them. As from your posts I really do doubt this.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (14 children) | Copy Link

men get triggered by my posts because i tell them women aren't to blame for their problems, much like im responding to this post. I always tell men who complain that they should talk to women irl too, and they still get offended

[–]lookingfornpc 0 points1 point  (13 children) | Copy Link

Your posts clearly how you blame men for everything and think women hold no blame. More so you clearly don't tell men what you are telling me. As if you did so you be able to link it. But as I said your posts clearly show otherwise. As you cle

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (12 children) | Copy Link

[–]lookingfornpc 0 points1 point  (11 children) | Copy Link

I'm only attracted to a very small minority of men

Meaning you don't want most men approaching you. To quote RPers you want Chad to approach you. You are proving RPers view point here.

[–]furcryingoutloudRed Pill Man 3 points4 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

You are proving RPers view point here

Yes she is, and what, pray tell, is the problem with that? From my point of view, the reason for blaming men for everything is probably the same reason for you arguing the reverse. I've never had to worry about why a woman has rejected my advances, and I most certainly never blame women for any rejections I've had to deal with. I just go on to the next. Regardless, overcoming one's fear of rejection has nothing to do with the other person and everything to do with what's in one's head.

women aren't to blame for their problems

And she would be correct. As a matter of fact, no one is to blame for your problems other than yourself. Blaming anyone else, be it women, other men, Chads, Staceys, is jut a cop out mechanism we should all be fighting. Fear is the undoing of mankind.

[–]lookingfornpc 0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy Link

Yes she is, and what, pray tell, is the problem with that?

Besides TRP is idiotic?

And she would be correct.

And yet you RPers blame women for well everything. But do you believe women have reason to be afraid of men approaching them and view all men as rapists? The view that feminists like wokien promote?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

my other comment in this thread hints that I don't like men who don't approach. I don't get attracted to men who don't approach, but think what you like

[–]lookingfornpc 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

As I said your posts speak for themselves.

[–]furcryingoutloudRed Pill Man 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

And I feel weird if/when approached. Don't get me wrong, it's cute and all sometimes, but generally, if I haven't approached, then it's all downhill from there.

[–]carrawayjames -2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah... Don't get me started on should you approach women with headphones conversation. Emotional ass people.

[–]0kool74 3 points4 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

A. If you're approaching women at the gym, you better fucking be Chad or his not so distant first cousin!

B. Regular game principles don't work with the grocery store. You DEFINITELY have to be Chad to pull that one off!

C. Chad is needed again here. Slores that frequent bars and clubs won't spread their legs for lower tier men

D. NEVER shit where you eat!

E. This is probably one of the ONLY venues where I can think of that you can get away without being a total Chad. Still have to have some game though, and you can't be a total Poindexter, but the bar is a tad bit lower here.

F. Airports.......buy a gal a drink when her flight just got delayed and you might be able to get less than interested conversation from her. Then again, why would you even waste your time with that???

[–]AnAmericanTrollinWA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Well, some days I feel more like Chad than others. I see your point though. I am a lean Chad though, not a big bulky 6'4 roid head. I am more of the...uh...Thomas Rhett look rather than the Brantley Gilbert look.

You make a great point.

[–]ThisIsJustATr1buteHas what plants crave 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

I haven’t heard the term slore in ages, oh man.

[–]0kool74 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Well I will be 45 next month. I hang on to all the good old shit lol

[–]douchebag_throwaway3 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Makes me think of Ghostbusters.

https://youtu.be/Skxhii6VFdo

[–]0kool74 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

the original or the bullshit feminist version???

[–]douchebag_throwaway3 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Original.

Vince says something about how the destroyer came in the form of a giant sloar and how many vuldrani knew what it was to be roasted in the stomach of a sloar that day!

https://youtu.be/Skxhii6VFdo

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Well duh welcome to the Red Pill. When women hear 'approached' they think of cat caller types and all the times they had some guy they didnt like hit on them. When this happens with a hot guy it isn't an 'approach' it's a 'it just happened'. 'We just happened to both be looking at asparagus'.

Never listen to women on women. They have no idea what they are talking about. Listen to men you know who can pull attractive women.

[–]AnAmericanTrollinWA[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

'We just happened to both be looking at asparagus'.

​Just lol

[–]OfSpock 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

You need to be able to read people to see if they're open to being approached. People asking this question, by definition, are people who can't do that.

Also, the one about the gym is true. If I really liked a guy, I would leave and come back later rather than let him see me all sweaty.

[–]AnAmericanTrollinWA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

So learn Indicators of interest (such as strong eye contact/staring). I get IOIs in the gym but tell myself not to mix pleasure with work.

[–]ItsOverBoyosLDARKeep calm and get cucked by Chad 2 points3 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

Men shouldn't listen to women at all when it comes to approaching. It doesn't matter when or where you approach if you are very attractive, a Chad or a high tier chadlite. They will always be receptive if a 6'2'' white, muscle bound warrior with great facial aesthetics and a perfect hairline approaches them.

Women don't want to get approached by men they consider unattractive aka the vast majority of men. A 3/10 or below man shouldn't even bother with women and find fulfillment in pursuing things unrelated to romance and sex.

3 things are required to be considered sexually attractive by women:

  • facial aesthetics (at least 7/10)
  • Height (at least 75th percentile)
  • Race (white)

If you don't have at least 2/3 of those I'd say don't even bother chasing females.

[–]AnAmericanTrollinWA[S] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

I'm average height but have Zac Efron level facial aesthetics/body. I would hope average height is enough. I'm also white with nice hair.

[–]ItsOverBoyosLDARKeep calm and get cucked by Chad 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Average height isn't too bad. At least you aren't short and you have the other two bases covered. I have a very good body but I am an ugly, non-white manlet.

[–]AnAmericanTrollinWA[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

If that's true, just get money and hire porn actresses. Women willl do anything for money.

[–]ItsOverBoyosLDARKeep calm and get cucked by Chad 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I work minimum wage. Lel. But at least min wage is a living wage in my parts of Europe.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Then how do Asians and Blacks reproduce?

[–]ItsOverBoyosLDARKeep calm and get cucked by Chad 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I am talking about the west here. Non-whites have a much harder time getting pussy in western countries.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

3 things are required to be considered sexually attractive by women:

facial aesthetics (at least 7/10)Height (at least 75th percentile)Race (white)

I'm none of these things so I'm fucked.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You're overthinking it. For every woman's rationalization, just add "unless you're hot", at the end. If you're hot, you're gonna be fine approaching literally anywhere. If she's not into you, get fucked.

And I don't mean "if you're hot" in some incel blackpill sense, I mean if you appeal to her in the very first moment of interaction in some way, you're fine. If you're horrifyingly ugly, say something monumentally stupid, or look like a rapist, she won't be receptive.

[–]-OpportunityCostI don't care about your problems5 points6 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Don't listen to what women say on the internet, do what works......... We really need to get back to some actual discussion on this sub.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

It's too late, fam. This place is just an alternative to Facebook and Twitter. Moral superiority and shit-flinging/pointing the finger is the standard.

[–]0kool74 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Moral superiority and shit-flinging/pointing the finger is the standard.

Shit son that's a standard ALL OVER REDDIT!!!!! I just got roasted for truth speak in another sub lol.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Pretty much all over the internet, tbh. It's a reflection of our physical social environment in the digital world. "You suck cuz you don't love Jesus/fight for oppressed people's equal privileges/etc and I can do more push ups than you. Plus, you voted for Trump so this mess is all your fault. Come fite me, bro."

[–]lookingfornpc 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I really do love how lefties use nazi as an insult all because you aren't with them. Do they even realize what they are doing? I doubt it as they are on a holy crusade they will lose in the end.

[–]poppy_blu 7 points8 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Part of this is the millennial generation being uncomfortable with interpersonal interactions because they were raised by devices and soent all of their free time on social media and video games where as we acually were forced to go outside, play with other kids and develop social skills and learn to get along with other humans.

That said this is one area you dont want to ask a woman for her opinion. The truth is we never liked being approached except when we do. Theres no formula that's going to get you there with 100% accuracy.

I'm pretty sure PUA and RP tell you it's a numbers game. Meaning you're going to strike out much or most of the time. Even attractive men strike out a lot.

What increases your chances isnt the where, it's not even the how (I've had some lame ass come ons that made me laugh, broke the ice and I ended up dating the guy). It's what you project: confidence, abundance (if you don't take the bait there's more fish in the sea), no desparation, etc. Be the guy she's likely to be attracted to and/or find interesting.

[–]AnAmericanTrollinWA[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Hmm. So basically me having a confidence in my general attrictiveness is a start. And learning to take risks in places I might come back to (the gym, work, etc.)... I see. I like your answer.

[–]poppy_blu 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes. When you approach a woman with desperation and/or nervousness, you remind her of the skinny red faced acne ridden 13 year old dork with the slumped shoulders and eyes to ground asking her to dance. She didn’t want that guy then and she definitely doesn’t want him now.

I mean if you can’t sell yourself, why should anyone buy it? Why would anyone think highly of you if you don’t of yourself?

Using you as a figure of speech.

[–]douchebag_throwaway3 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

The other thing is that there doesn't seem to be any attempts at casual conversation anymore. Everything has to be game and pick up tactics and blah blah...

Just treat her like a person with hopes and dreams and talk to her. It's amazing how far that will get you.

[–]meomeowmeoww 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy Link

they are talking about themselves

[–]AnAmericanTrollinWA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Huh?

[–]87AudreyHorne 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I think the female replies from your post basically mean this "you can try to approach, but it doesn't mean it is likely someone will be interested, and if they are not then just back off rather than assume that because you're approaching in the right place it needs to click if you try hard enough. And don't take it personally, let's just pretend the place was the issue, because it's more polite."

[–]shadowkatBecky by day, Stacey by night 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

This is an issue of women not breaking down a process fully. What they're saying really is "if you approach me, you should be fairly certain I'm already open to talking to you." Try to make eye contact first. If she looks like she has no interest in interacting when you make eye contact, don't approach.

I think this interaction happens so naturally for most women they don't even think to break it down so, there you go.

[–]ifelsedowhilePurple Pill Man-boy the way Glenn Miller played 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Women are not so generous and democratic in their eye contact making.

[–]shadowkatBecky by day, Stacey by night 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Hm it's less about making the eye contact and more about reciprocating it I'd argue. If you very obviously try to catch someone's attention and they very obviously are avoiding your attempts then the next step isn't to approach them. I get that sometimes it's hard to tell, but active "please don't come up to me" body language is often ignored.

[–]ifelsedowhilePurple Pill Man-boy the way Glenn Miller played 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

when you get little reciprocation by eye contact you start to think you have to be a bit more proactive and go talk to women. you probably don't understand this because you naively think common men get attentions or flirting signals at the same rate as women.

[–]oftheinfinite 1 points [recovered]  (4 children) | Copy Link

If you are an physically and sexually attractive man to the majority of women, they will allow your approach in A, B, C, D (women definitely sleep with coworkers), E and F.

[–]AnAmericanTrollinWA[S] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

How do I know if a coworker specifically would fuck me or if she just has a bubbly persona with everyone?

[–]KeyWeekBlue lean 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Compare how she is with you as compared to everyone else.

[–]AnAmericanTrollinWA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Noted.

[–]0kool74 -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Compare how she is with you as compared to everyone else

A thousand times this!!!!!

[–]sittaluna 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy Link

“When I walk up to someone and they clearly are not into it, they don’t instantly fuck me! What a bitch!”

[–]MxCmrnPurple Pill Man 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Although that’s funny, it’s a bit extreme.

[–]TheSuperStink 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy Link

I never date or meet women at work, no matter the circumstance.

Nothing good comes from dipping your pen in company ink.

[–]poppy_blu 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Dont shit where you eat

[–]AnAmericanTrollinWA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I have slept with coworkers before as well in a past job. It's just not for me. And yeah, but it's harder when you aren't a huge talker (unless you know the person well.)

[–]Bananurin 1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Gym: They just probably feel self conscious about being approached when they're sweaty, stinky, red-faced, and out of breath. Get by that barrier and I don't see how it will be an issue, especially if you see her there a lot.

Grocery store: Really not an optimal place unless you meet them there all the time and decide to strike a conversation several times. Grocery store visits usually aren't long and most people probably have somewhere to be afterwards. Also: perishables and long drives home.

Bar/club: Can't give my opinion too well, never been to those. All I can say is that women will most likely think an approach is looking more for a one night stand given the environment. I personally don't know anyone in a LTR that met their S/O at a bar/club.

Work: Considering most people meet their SOs at work (or at school) I don't see why this one is included.

Concerts: Haven't been to these either. People from all over the country go to concerts so there's people from all places at them, making it a little harder to find someone you can reliably meet with afterwards. Concerts are also expensive. I'd say people are more focused on their favorite band than trying to find a soulmate. If there's downtime, sure, I can see some sparks flying if you find someone. Could be wrong. Like I said, never been to a concert :(

There's some unnecessarily negative additions to these. The assumption they're listening to whore Cardi B, that they're in such a rush to destroy a tub of ice cream and watch a show (that many find very binge-worthy [i wouldn't know I dont watch it]), and some random blurb about lesbians and dancing and having fun. These additions make it seem like this post came from a personal and angry place.

Where did you get the information that women don't want to be approached anywhere ever?

Edit: grammar

[–]AnAmericanTrollinWA[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Where you got the information that women don't want to be approached anywhere ever?

Women

[–]Bananurin 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Well, yes, but I mean specifically. From extreme feminists who have grudges against men? Certain subreddits? Your single female friends? If I were asked where I'd want to meet a SO I wouldn't say any of these places except work or school or through a mutual hobby. I feel like most women would say this.

But that doesn't mean I (or other women) would deny people from the other places you listed above. It's just that places like grocery stores, sometimes the gym, concerts, bars, and clubs tend not to strike others with long term relationship material. It does happen though. I just doubt that women would tell you they don't ever want to be approached anywhere ever.

[–]lookingfornpc 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

People from all over the country go to concerts so there's people from all places at them, making it a little harder to find someone you can reliably meet with afterwards.

Let me guess your European?

[–]Bananurin 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm from America, why

[–]lookingfornpc 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Its been my experience with concerts outside of the huge ones like Coachella people don't travel to concerts and more those who are local go.

[–]Atlas_B_Shruggin✡️🐈✡️ the purring jew 1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

WHERE AM I ALLOWED TO APPROACH WOMEN IF EVERY DAMN PLACE I THINK MIGHT HAVE PROMISE OF MEETING SOMEONE COOl, LIKE THE GYM, IS OFF LIMITS?

why

are

you

asking

women

[–]AnAmericanTrollinWA[S] 3 points4 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

I'm giving women a chance here to woman up and own up.

[–]0kool74 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I'm giving women a chance here to woman up and own up

You do realize that's more futile than the American military thinking they could defeat an Asian enemy in their own country right???

[–]haleykohrPurple Pill Man 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Roosevelt wants to know your location

[–]0kool74 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

ROFLMAO. Yea I realized shortly after I posted that that I was only thinking about Korea and Vietnam. However, I think it might be Truman that wants to know my location 🤣😁

[–]sadomasochristNo pull out game -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Hypoagency says 😂

[–]CoolHandLukeSkywalka 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Work is a great place to meet a wife but a shitty place to meet a hookup, fling or STR

[–]carrawayjames 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I wouldn't say it's a great place to meet a wife either

[–]AnAmericanTrollinWA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Maybe. I met a hookup at my last job.

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[–]WestsideMoonWalkerGrizzly Bear Conflict Manager 5 points6 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

It's almost as if this is all said by different groups of people.

[–]BiggerDthanYouBluetopia 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Read the sidebar. It quite clearly states that AWALT.

If one woman says she doesn't want to be approached it's obviously true for all women, because AWALT. If another woman says that she wants to get approached she's just a filthy lying hypocrite.

Female hypocrisy knows no limits.

[–]AnAmericanTrollinWA[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Possible. But perhaps not entirely plausible.

[–]WestsideMoonWalkerGrizzly Bear Conflict Manager 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Nah that's definitely it.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

This is why I did online dating.

[–]AnAmericanTrollinWA[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Guys have a lot of competition to face online, more than at a bar or a club. I'm guessing that you used Tinder.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Guys have a lot of competition to face. I'm guessing that you used Tinder.

Guys face a lot of competition all the time. and no, I used Jdate and okcupid.

[–]AnAmericanTrollinWA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I didn't know you were Jewish. Okcupid has a lot of landwhales and hogbeasts, as well as bots trying to spam you. But it could be of use if you use it wisely. As a guy, it's harder.

[–]geyges🐇 3 points4 points  (19 children) | Copy Link

One of the few perks of being an attractive woman is not having have to make the first step.

One of the most significant drawbacks of being an attractive woman is that guys are constantly trying to get into your pants when you're going about your business.

Take the good with the bad ladies, and don't shit on guys who try their luck.

[–]ThisIsJustATr1buteHas what plants crave 1 point2 points  (18 children) | Copy Link

They can react however they want to guys who try their luck lol, hot women aren’t public commodities who owe something to humanity.

[–]geyges🐇 1 point2 points  (17 children) | Copy Link

We owe each other basic humanity at the very least.

Once we start deciding that nobody owes nothing to nobody, therein lies a chaos, and hot women will be first casualties of that dust up.

[–]ThisIsJustATr1buteHas what plants crave 2 points3 points  (16 children) | Copy Link

Lol ok weird fantasy but moving on, people should be good to each other yeah, which is why they shouldn’t assume hot women are decorations there to test out their luck, and that the woman should be told to just accept it and not disagree. Since that is dehumanizing and placing claims on the women’s free wills, which would definitely not be giving them basic humanity.

[–]geyges🐇 0 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy Link

I think you're confusing expressing romantic interest and sexual harassment. Those 2 things are not the same.

just accept it and not disagree. Since that is dehumanizing

Someone trying to approach you in a romantic way is not something you can possibly disagree with, and its not dehumanizing.

There's nothing wrong with the attempt itself. But when combined with disrespect, refusal to accept rejection, pressure tactics, put downs, then it becomes harassment.

[–]ThisIsJustATr1buteHas what plants crave 0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy Link

Wtf do people actually read comments? I do not mean men can’t approach, I’m referring to

Take the good with the bad ladies, and don’t shit on guys who try their luck

I’m not confused I’m saying you have no right to tell women not to shit on guys who try their luck. You’re saying that as hot women they have to be sensitive to the feelings of guys who approach them as though their hotness is some personal attack on the man. You’re saying they owe random men some kind of special consideration. If you think that you think the women are public property that you’re allowed to say “no you don’t have the right to react in an honest way to a guy you may not like.”

People always think attractive women owe the world some special treatment, and you think that because the attractive woman inspires certain feelings and you think it’s only fair she has to manage your feelings. She does NOT. That idea is dehumanizing.

A guy can try his luck and if she likes it cool but if she doesn’t, it’s not your place to say she can’t “shit on” him. It’s not some random hot woman’s obligation to protect him from the consequences of approaching, that is incel thinking. Ps I can disagree with whatever I want.

[–]geyges🐇 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

You are indeed very confused.

you have no right to tell women

I have a right to tell anything to anyone. Whether they listen is a different question.

You’re saying they owe random men some kind of special consideration.

Not anymore than the consideration they would expect to get from someone else. You do realize you literally arguing against me saying "Please be nice". How is it a controversial idea to be civil to each other regardless of what the context is.

Or do you think that I'm only applying this standard to hot women? I don't. I would advise the same thing to anyone.

it’s not your place to say she can’t “shit on” him

It is my place if I make it my place. I can say what I think, and you can say what you think. This is how we have a discussion.

[–]ThisIsJustATr1buteHas what plants crave 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

Nah you’re confused, I’m right, you’re wrong, reported for being condescending and inaccurate.

You’re not saying “please be nice” you’re saying men have the right to approach women without the natural consequence of rejection. That the women owe them that. So go away. Trying to deny someone’s free will is disgusting. (Inb4 NO U I’m saying do what you want but you don’t get to act like a toddler and say others have manage your fee fees about the risks and consequences.)

[–]geyges🐇 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

reported

You seem nice.

[–]CamoWoobie100 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

So what is the alternative?

In my opinion the answer is men should try with any woman they find attractive, but of course women can reject whoever they want for any reason. If she is rude in her rejection, then I see no problem with the man being rude back. No one has the right to not be talked to in public.

[–]ThisIsJustATr1buteHas what plants crave 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

Alternative to what, did you read my comment?

Copying this comment I made: Wtf do people actually read comments? I do not mean men can’t approach, I’m referring to

Take the good with the bad ladies, and don’t shit on guys who try their luck

I’m not confused I’m saying you have no right to tell women not to shit on guys who try their luck. You’re saying that as hot women they have to be sensitive to the feelings of guys who approach them as though their hotness is some personal attack on the man. You’re saying they owe random men some kind of special consideration. If you think that you think the women are public property that you’re allowed to say “no you don’t have the right to react in an honest way to a guy you may not like.”

People always think attractive women owe the world some special treatment, and you think that because the attractive woman inspires certain feelings and you think it’s only fair she has manage your feelings. She does NOT. That idea is dehumanizing.

A guy can try his luck and if she likes it cool but if she doesn’t, it’s not your place to say she can’t “shit on” him. It’s not some random hot woman’s obligation to protect him from the consequences of approaching, that is incel thinking.

Adding this for you: it’s not MANNERS that requires a woman to be super coddling of the feelings of a man she doesn’t know from Adam.

[–]CamoWoobie100 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

Do you think it is fair for a guy to be rude back then?

[–]ThisIsJustATr1buteHas what plants crave 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Yes people can do whatever they want.

I believe that he’d be more morally in the wrong and of worse character than the woman who rejected him, as its socially necessary to say no sometimes but not socially necessary to retaliate. Also men who retaliate are often scary to women physically.

I’d say the same if a woman applied to a job, they said no, and she cursed them out.

But people have FREE WILL to do what they want, ACCEPTING the consequences. He can be rude back, and if it goes too far she can call the cops.

[–]CamoWoobie100 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I dont have a problem with women saying no, I have a problem with them being unnecissarily rude.

Scenario:

Man: Hey, would you like to go on a date sometime?

Woman: Haha, yeah right, I'm out of your league, fat fuck.

Man: Okay, fuck you bitch, only reason I asked is because you look like a slut

I dont feel like either person is more wrong than the other. The woman wrong for unnecessarily insulting and the man wrong for doing the same back. But yeah, I guess I agree that people are free to do whatever they want if they accept the consequences. The woman is putting herself at a higher risk of being insulted back if she is rude first.

[–]NockerJoePervert Palpatine 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

I think what you're not getting is that unlike hot women 95% of guys can't really wait until some woman cold approaches them. If they want to get anywhere they have to make the attempt and given how often it's a numbers game they have to make the attempt often.

I don't want to be here, you don't want to be here, but there isn't really a viable alternative so here we fuckin' are.

[–]ThisIsJustATr1buteHas what plants crave 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Do people read the comments or do they just spew out their talking points?

[–]Atlas_B_Shruggin✡️🐈✡️ the purring jew 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

yes dont listen to women

[–]philomexaMAY FAILURE BE YOUR NOOSE 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

If men were to listen to women on when and where they would like to be approached, men would never get anywhere

Good.

[–]AnAmericanTrollinWA[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

How is this good for men who want to meet women without Tinder

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

"Anything that's good for men is bad for women." - most women

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

No, it's not.

[–]0kool74 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

If men are to listen to what women say about where to approach, they'd get NOWHERE.

You could probably post that in r/unpopularopinion as well. Unfortunately, what you say is fact so you'd probably get roasted over there.

[–]jackandjill22Red Pill misanthropic, contrarian 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

True.

[–]furcryingoutloudRed Pill Man 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Want to know how to fish? Spend a week in the ocean and ask the fish. That has always worked out well. WCGW?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't see women saying don't hit on them at parties, bars, clubs, or concerts. Those are social events.

But yes as a general rule no one wants to be bothered if they're just out shopping or something. You can try if you want, but you will have a low success rate. Even PUA's say cold approach has low success rate.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

The type of women who tell not to approach them in the public space anywhere are the one with no basic social skills and just as bad dating lives. No well adjusted person will look at people approaching people as absolutely not allowed. It's a case by case situation based both parties involved. Some are receptive and others not. It's up to you to respect when the other is not receptive. That's it. If no one is allowed to talk to anyone anywhere then human interaction will never exist.

[–]gothpunkboy89 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Depends how you approach them. Pretty obvious when people walk up specifically to flirt with them. Cringey to watch as well. Particularly when they don't take the hint to go away.

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Personally, I think social situations such as bars, clubs, concerts, hobbies etc. are good places to approach women, as long as you are respectful and leave as soon as you notice that she is not interested. This means, don't react all pissy when you find out she is not interested. Don't say "well why would you go to a bar and wear make-up if you're not looking for a guy?". Believe her when she tells you she has a boyfriend/girlfriend. Don't pretend that you were approaching her "just to be friends" in an attempt to get her number anyway, only to then ask her out over text. The reason why women don't like to be approached is that the men who approach them often can't take no for an answer and then display some of the behaviours listed above.

For all the other situations, the thing is not "woman logic" or "feminism wants to weed out weak men", it is simply that we are busy and don't want to be bothered by some guy when doing things that we have to do. If I don't feel like talking to strangers, I can just decide not to go to a bar tonight. However, I still have to eat, so I do have to go to the supermarket and buy food. So, obviously, I don't want to encourage men on the internet to approach women in the supermarket, because then, I will have to worry about talking to strangers in the supermarket. Same thing goes for work and exercise. To an extent, it also goes for school.

By the way, about the gym: for you, working out at the gym might be a hobby, so you consider it a place where you want to meet women who have a similar interest. However, for me, and I am sure that there are other people who think like this, working out is not a hobby, it is a necessity to stay healthy. I don't like most types of exercise, but I do them because I don't want to be a weak, chubby person who hates their body and couldn't catch a train if they tried. So, while I do think that meeting people through hobbies is a good idea, you should keep in mind that some people don't consider going to the gym a hobby.

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It's a shit test. The meek and unsure men are supposed to be discouraged by the anti male don't be a creep or approach women ever vibe that is constantly blaring from everywhere at all times. That weeds them out, leaving only the bold, low inhibition men that they actually want to fuck making moves. At least that's how it would work in theory. There are still 'creeps' aka ugly men who try to flirt and devastate womens lives

[–]JezebeltheQueen5656Crushing males' ego since 1993 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

women tell you when and where to approach them, your hamster comes up with rapey nonsense of the post and then we get a new wave of MeToo.

you have it coming.

[–]I-am-the-lul 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks to #metoo, the work place will become the least likely place to find someone, you should never shit where you eat.

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You can talk to women everywhere, dude. Chill out.

Also tinder.

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Tinder is for STDs.

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I meet my unicorn girlfriend on Tinder.

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Of course you might find your goldnugget there, but it's undeniably a hook-up app and most women there are just looking for a quick fuck, hence all the swiping to find their fuckboys.

And there are studies that confirm STDs have risen because of Tinder being such a sex app.

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Yeah, but that is kinda the deal when looking for a partner.

You only need to find one really special.

[–]AnAmericanTrollinWA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Tinder works when it wants to. But also it's a lot of competition, even when you have an attractive face and pictures. Got some action from there a week and a half ago.

[–]MGTOWKapow2Don't fuckin touch me 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

But that's the point. By eliminating every possibility, women can finally live in an existence where men don't approach them.

[–]AnAmericanTrollinWA[S] -2 points-1 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Maybe. Wait what? You mean men don't approach women

[–]0kool74 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

In the era of #metoo if they're smart they don't......unless they're Chad!

[–]MGTOWKapow2Don't fuckin touch me -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Fucking Grammarly.

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Add "unless you are hot and attractive, not just average", to the end of all those responses.

[–]AnAmericanTrollinWA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

What do you mean

[–]_Anarchon_ -1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Women are the worst people to ask what women want.

[–]AnAmericanTrollinWA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Except the ones getting paid.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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