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Based on advice given by the red pill, a man who is a doctor or successful lawyer should have such a large selection of women going after him, that he will only date and marry the cream of the crop: an 18-24 year old playboy bunny look alike who is underweight and has big breasts.

In fact, I was told that in order to find a man who makes more than $60k, I need to be a top model and I am a gold digger. These men are making WAY MORE than $60k.

However, in real life, the men I know who are doctors and lawyers are married to women who are like one point above them in looks. The 4/10 surgeon I know married a 5-6/10 teacher. The 3/10 lawyer I know married a 5-6/10 SAHM who was a teacher before. The 6/10 surgeon I know married a 7/10 woman in an arranged marriage.

Literally none of them are like dan bilzerian, hopping around from model to model, only to have some lucky 18 year old snag them. And these men are making like $200-500k.

The only ones dating around and sleeping with random women are either young men from Muslim backgrounds (my family is half Muslim so I am not being racist.) or are 8/10 in looks as well.


[–]Venicedreaming85 points86 points  (89 children) | Copy Link

Most people marry across and within their circles. The doctors I know married other doctors or equivalents because that’s who they meet in their circles. Only a few marry up/down

[–]poppy_blublack midget wine mom 🍷48 points49 points  (71 children) | Copy Link

you can say this a bilion times here but they refuse to accept it.

[–]SkookumTreeRomantic relationships aren't necessary for happiness!46 points47 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Like marries like. The idea that 40 year old doctors would even want to marry 20-year-old models is ludicrous bullshit. A roll in the hay, sure, but marriage is about a fuckload more than sex.

[–]poppy_blublack midget wine mom 🍷39 points40 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

In 75% of marriages in the US there is no more than a 5 year age difference between partners. Less than 5% have a 15+ year age difference. I mean these are the facts, but when you hole yourself up in your house and avoid the world you can pretend it looks like whatever you want, I guess.

[–]SkookumTreeRomantic relationships aren't necessary for happiness!4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Agreed.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

The 40 yo doctor will likely marry the 29-32 yo med school graduate though.

[–]nevomintoarcePurple Pill Woman2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Isn't that post wall by TRP standards?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Well you don't really have time to get married as a MD student.

First there's 6 years of undergrad, then there's 2 years of grad, and another 3 to start your doctorate (at least), plus another year to finish it.

Suppose you start college at 19, you become a graduate at 27, and hopefully get your MD by 32. But that's usually for really smart people.

The average medic will finish undergrad and start as an intern while doing graduate studies and then wait 5-6 years to finish his doctorate.

Most doctors don't have a lot of time to date. Heck I know a doctor whose wife divorced him for staying too much at work and not being available to be with her enough. He's 6'3, good looking rich and fit.

[–]mydikishomofobik28 points29 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Why would anyone refuse to accept this? It is pretty obvious. And, frankly, most men's standards aren't that high. Most guys just want someone who looks decent, is nice to them and has sex with them. They don't have to be flawless 19 year old supermodels.

[–]poppy_blublack midget wine mom 🍷7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah I think the view on what men want in relationships and certainly marriage looks a little different from a woman’s a POV but point taken.

[–]Barneysparky5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The red pill is pretty much all about not accepting this.

Truth is people marry within groups because family, healthy relationships, and building a life together is more important then daily blow jobs to adults. That's the blue pill I guess.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

They don't have to be flawless 19 year old supermodels.

Virgin Sasha Grey or bust bro :))

[–]mydikishomofobik1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Sasha Grey the (ex?)pronstar? I think she kind of proves my point. Sasha Grey wasn't even that good looking. She was okay, but nothing special. I'm guessing she started doing porn at 18 or 19 and continued into her early or mid-20s. Now try going to any big college campus and you'll see tons of girls in that age range that look as good as her or better. That's what I mean when I say she was average. Same goes for a lot of these other pornstars- they're average at best, but a lot of guys still jack off to their films. Men's standards for looks, in general, aren't even that high. Ugly and mediocre looking and overweight women have no problems finding boyfriends and husbands.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah I know, I see plenty of decent and sometimes even outright good looking men with fat, unattractive, sour-mooded GFs and wives.

EDIT: Given my society-appointed SMV match right now are women like them:
https://i.imgflip.com/tc357.jpg
http://www.snouts-in-the-trough.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/fat-ugly-woman.jpg
http://i2.asntown.net/ha/humour/ugly-women/ugly-women04.jpg

I'd much rather have an "average" (as you put it) girlfriend. Tho let's be honest, a 31 yo, low count Sasha Grey is not out of my league, she's out of my fucking galaxy. Haha!
Shit I'd go for even a somewhat chubby woman if her arms aren't fatter than my freaking legs.

[–]azngirl768928 points29 points  (51 children) | Copy Link

Of course because it’ll bust up their fantasy of being George Clooney in their 40s. That’s why they get so butthurt and deny it.

[–]poppy_blublack midget wine mom 🍷37 points38 points  (50 children) | Copy Link

I never knew before PPD there were so many men who never mentally left high school.

[–]GridReXXit be like that28 points29 points  (45 children) | Copy Link

I will say that was my biggest realization coming to Reddit. So many men never leave HS. It defines them in a way I don’t think it defines women.

A chick on twitter joked a man will be on his elderly death bed bringing up some chick from when he was 15.

[–]goatismycopilotJohnI'monlydancing9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I was nothing special in high school and I cannot super duper recall who I dated maybe vague blur memory.

[–]poppy_blublack midget wine mom 🍷4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Since 2008, there have been at least 50 people from my HS I've accepted friend requestes from who I cannot remember for the life of me. Even when I looked them up in the yearbook. I'm like, did you know me? Or are you just trying to pad your friend list with random people so you look popular? LOL

[–]poppy_blublack midget wine mom 🍷20 points21 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Talking about how the 90 yo Chads get all the hot nurses because the feminsts running the retirement home are hypergamous.

[–]cxj75% Redpill Core Ideas2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Or maybe that’s where they’ll finally get their submissive foreign wife after all? Nursing homes are chalk full of Filipinos, Vietnemese, Russians and at least a few would probably pick taking care of one old person with a few sexual favors thrown in for a large payout i. 5 years when he dies over a lifetime of backbreaking work for slave wages for 12 patients.

[–]poppy_blublack midget wine mom 🍷6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Wealthy men don't usually end up in those types of homes though. Their kids typically hire private caretakers to care for them in their homes. So if a woman wants to score a wealthy old dude on his deathbed, she should become a home health aide.

[–]cxj75% Redpill Core Ideas-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I mean, wealthy as in high class WASPs maybe not, but dudes with enough prole money to set up a third world immigrant to be middle class for life without working yes.

[–]cxj75% Redpill Core Ideas1 point2 points  (24 children) | Copy Link

You really think high school defines that many Reddit men ?

[–]GridReXXit be like that10 points11 points  (21 children) | Copy Link

Yep.

edit- not just Reddit men. Really most men (hence viral tweets about it!.) But Reddit tends to be an echo chamber of men.

[–]cxj75% Redpill Core Ideas6 points7 points  (20 children) | Copy Link

This needs it’s own post imo. New idea on ppd. It may not be that far fetched as adolescence is supposed to be the β€œidentity establishing” part of life and tribal belonging is important imo

[–]GridReXXit be like that7 points8 points  (14 children) | Copy Link

It could be. My dad even posits that that time period seems to really affect boys.

I have theories on why it doesn’t affect women as much.

Not to mention high school is full of β€œneotenous teenage girls” and it seems all men want that.

Who knows.

[–]cxj75% Redpill Core Ideas1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Yeah high school was tough in that regard tbh. I didn’t start getting the girls till the end of high school, a lot of the best ones dated older dudes out of high school. Like openly. This is why it’s so shocking to me that people think that’s β€œpedo” or whatever. Tbh come to think of it high school probably had a profound effect on me in that specific regard. Otherwise I feel like the period after that I spent touring in bands and my entire life revolving around music had way more affect on me, to the point where the rest of my life has sort of felt like a pointless epilogue and I’ve seriously considered suicide. Also that period of my life witnessed many underage girls dating older guys too lol.

[–]poppy_blublack midget wine mom 🍷0 points1 point  (9 children) | Copy Link

neotenous

??

[–]poppy_blublack midget wine mom 🍷5 points6 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

adolescence is supposed to be the β€œidentity establishing” part of life

I can tell you for a fact as someone in my 40s, those who established their idenitity in high school are typically not doing so well now.

Trust me, the peaked in high school crowd is looking pretty pathetic these days.

[–]cxj75% Redpill Core Ideas2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Did you ever take a developmental psych class in high school ? I was referring to Erick Erickson’s eight stages of psychological development which posits adolescence as the β€œidentity vs role confusion” stage.

[–]poppy_blublack midget wine mom 🍷3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Considering its like one big projection of how high school was onto the real adult world...yeah.

Come on. These guys believe that 80% of men are incels, FFS.

[–]SkookumTreeRomantic relationships aren't necessary for happiness!1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

These guys can’t even do a basic Google search.

[–]wingbark 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy Link

What do you mean by never mentally leaving high school?

[–]GridReXXit be like that1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]wingbark 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy Link

Oh thanks for clarifying. I just didn’t understand before

[–]GridReXXit be like that0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Np

[–]Reason-and-rhymebi male, anti-bullshit-1 points0 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

I don't want to dispute in any way the idea that lots of men don't mature. It's definitely true. But for women, not maturing seems to be the default. My circles are relatively low class fwiw but the idea that "it defines [men] in a way I don’t think it defines women." is laughable to me.

[–]GridReXXit be like that3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I’m not talking about maturity.

I’m talking about not letting HS go.

And IME men bring up HS way more.

It seems for a lot of men it was the best times of their life or the worst. Either way they bring it up a lot.

Not sure high school impacted women in the same way. Or we’re able to move on from it.

[–]Reason-and-rhymebi male, anti-bullshit0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

That's more plausible. I can't really recall anyone bringing up high school in conversation in the past several days though. Let alone have enough data points to notice a trend. Is it really that significant...?

[–]GridReXXit be like that0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I just know when it comes up, it’s dudes.

[–]poppy_blublack midget wine mom 🍷2 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Also for /u/GridReXX Lemme throw out a theory as to why men might hold onto high school longer. If it's true that men hit their sexual peak in their late teens but many spent those years as perpetually frustrated virgins, does that leave some kind of traumatic imprint on their brain? I'm not justifying their misogynisitic entitlement or their inability to get it together in their 20s, I'm just wondering if high school is harder on men for this reason.

[–]GridReXXit be like that0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

Yeah. I would say so.

My dad brought up the Jared from Subway guy.

His theory is that β€œJared was a fat ugly loser” in HS and so now he’s obsessed with attaining those chicks, hence his penchant for preying on 13/14 year old girls.

[–]poppy_blublack midget wine mom 🍷1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

But 13? That's sick.

[–]GridReXXit be like that1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

The Y chromosome has a lot of surprises when it comes to fixation.

[–]reluctantly_red7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

so many men who never mentally left high school

To be fair high school can scar people for life.

[–]poppy_blublack midget wine mom 🍷6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

So can a lot of things. You have to make the choice to heal and move on.

[–]goatismycopilotJohnI'monlydancing4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Oh such a generous assessment I was thinking grade eight or so.

[–]poppy_blublack midget wine mom 🍷0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

πŸ˜‚

[–]FarLeftAntiLiberal 1 points [recovered]  (4 children) | Copy Link

Red pillers are mentally deranged losers making up fantasy worlds to pretend they aren't failures.

[–]MostlyMutePurple Pill Woman13 points14 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I wouldn’t call them losers. I just think a lot of them were hurt and to reconcile what they’ve gone through, they need to lower women as a whole and raise themselves up. It’s more than a sexual strategy, it’s a confidence strategy. If it weren’t so toxic and hate-filled, I’d appreciate it more.

[–]TheSuperStink 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy Link

I think there is more tearing women down then raising themselves up.

[–]MostlyMutePurple Pill Woman5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I don’t know about that. They seem to be really intent on self-improvement and raising their SMV.

[–]cxj75% Redpill Core Ideas-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

They are losers because average is over and there’s not many winners spots available , they’re fought over fiercely

[–]douchebag_throwaway32 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Who denies it??

RP is founded on that belief that a woman will ride the CC in her 20s, then marry the nice beta doctor when she hits the wall.

Most likely the beta Dr is living is a sexless marriage because you can't negotiate desire.

Not sure how anything being said here goes against RP theory.

[–]diener_zweier_herrenall your pills are dumb reactionism2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Yeah so doesn't that defeat that whole idea that males select on looks and females on material status?

[–]Venicedreaming6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Men in the upper food chain may have stay at home wives but those wives come from families similar to the men’s own family he came from. Successful men don’t just pick up a random chick at the bar to marry. Not most of the time anyways. Look and all somewhat matter but similar values and environment definitely matter more

[–]lurflyDevil's Advocate0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Maybe like marries like but it’s more that women want to marry men with similar material status and men want to marry women with similar looks?

[–]diffdedbedGreen Eyed Devil3 points4 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

I met my wife at a college party, she was new on campus. We had no shared friends. It wasn't a circle outside of the 30k people at my school. Most doctors I know married non-doctors.

[–]Venicedreaming11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Still doesn’t make what I said untrue. If you go to Ivy League you’re mingling with other ivy. If you’re going to community college you’re mingling with other community college students. Many of our social settings have some class division. Normal people don’t hang out at country clubs for example

[–]reluctantly_red0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

I met my wife at a college party

I met my first wife at a college party too. It was amazing how similar our family backgrounds where.

[–]chaddad90000 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

I always found it interesting how you can meet someone completely out of the blue and your background turns out to be similar to theirs. Maybe people just have a nose for each other.

[–]reluctantly_red0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah -- it was weird -- her dad and my dad both went to Ivy League colleges and then both decided to move to Alberta Canada to buy farms in 1975 (people did strange shit in the 70's). We grew up in adjoining counties.

[–]chaddad90000 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow, that is so similar there must have been the "fate wills us to be together" factor. Like you should have met at a basketball game or something and just didn't

In my case it is more like we went to college in the same city, or both our dads are MDs. (thread relevant), or our parents had some connection to an obscure branch of Protestantism, pr something like that.

[–]blackedoutfastRed Pill Man9 points10 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

most doctors are dorky betas. ofc they're not doing anything special.

the idea that all a guy has to do is to become a doctor and he will be able to effortlessly get hot women is solidly BP, not RP

[–]Venicedreaming13 points14 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Or more simply they hang out with other doctors in residency and medical schools so they marry the people they hang out with

[–]blackedoutfastRed Pill Man2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

yes, it's common for betas and other low or medium quality people to mostly socialize and date with their schoolmates and coworkers. they have pretty mediocre value and social skills so they tend to rely on propinquity.

[–]Venicedreaming8 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Okay, whatever strokes your ego

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I don't understand why red pillers have this incessant need to look down on everyone else.

[–]Venicedreaming3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I think the answer is deep seated insecurity and toxic experience in romance

[–]sublimemongrelBecky, Esq.2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes

[–]reluctantly_red68 points69 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

People hook up within their socioeconomic group. I'm a lawyer and since I absolutely hated corporate law I've been a public defender for the last 11 years. I don't make a huge amount of money but I'm still significantly above the median. All my LTR's have been with women with similar middle class credentials. My first wife was a librarian (we met at university), then I dated an accountant, and then a journalist, and then an HR manager. My second wife was a social worker. My current GF has an MBA and works in finance (she makes a bit more than I do).

Successful guys aren't generally looking to waste their hard earned money on some brain dead 20 something. We're looking for actual life partners.

[–]jackandjill22Red Pill misanthropic, contrarian8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I work in fashion. Fashion models either marry wry wealthy industry leaders or people with connections that work in the same as them.

[–]figyg0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

How many life partners you looking for?

[–]reluctantly_red2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

One would have been fine. Unfortunately didn't work out that way -- the librarian developed a drug habit (I hear she's back in rehab again). She's still the one I loved the most.

[–]figyg0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Sounds like you're setting the new one up for failure. You should resolve whatever you have with your first wife, at least within yourself. Otherwise, these other relationships are doomed

[–]reluctantly_red0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Nothing to resolve. But its just a fact that its pretty much impossible to fall in love in middle age the way you fall in love at 18.

[–]blackedoutfastRed Pill Man38 points39 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

bullshit strawman garbage. RP absolutely does not suggest that men making $60k (lol) will have an abundance of hot 18 models begging for them. and one of the key aspects of RP is telling dudes that just getting a decent $60k is not enough

and it's because those men you know are unattractive betas. it's not just about money, women want mwn who are above average in looks, money, and status.

if you're below average in looks and act like a dorky beta, it's possible to cancel out those flaws and get hotties if you have an exceptional amount of money. but not like doctor or lawyer money. those are solidly UMC white collar professional jobs. nice, but nothing special.

[–]Esk1mOz4mb1kFormer Nice Chad10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah I'm beginning to think these bloops are severly retarded or only here to circlejerk on incel stuff.

AFAIK TRP is strongly against getting married in the first place and advocates spining plates. Fuck hot women and never commit. Yet we have these ridiculous posts.

[–]321PK 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy Link

It does tho pretty much. Go ask Uncle Vanya or whatever his name is. Also the one who says he takes his boat off North Street Beach and the srats swim out to him. I forget his name. πŸ˜‚

[–]blackedoutfastRed Pill Man2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

lots of guys on TRP like telling stories. $60k isn't hottie panty dropping money unless the guy is also very good looking or cool as hell.

seriously tho. $60k might be decent if you life in a rural poor people type area. but in a lot of the nicer places where high value people live $60k is borderline poverty level.

[–]Daniel07390 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I make $12k a year! How tf am I still alive? And I have a beast PC!

[–]diffdedbedGreen Eyed Devil13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

As one of those types, couple of things.

One, I met my wife prior to being rich. I was a poor student.

Two, have you talked to most hot 19 year olds?

If I were to divorce I can't imagine going younger than 30.

But also most of these guys, myself included weren't players in their 20's. I do know some, they are the ones usually multiple divorced by 45. I was a geeky student, I didn't really come into my own until my early 20's and didn't fully mature till my early 30's. It was books and books and not socializing. Its why I'm rich now, but at the time this didn't make me attractive to some hot 20 year old who wanted to party all the time.

So I'm going to flip on my loyal and still attractive to me wife and mother of my kids because I could get some teen pussy if I buy her things? Fuck that.

[–]PerpetualDilemma28 points29 points  (22 children) | Copy Link

Maybe because they have actual, functioning brain cells and realize that young supermodels are complete idiots 99% of the time. If you're intelligent enough to be a doctor or lawyer, you're intelligent enough to realize that, and you'd rather the person whom you spend the rest of your life with is capable to connect with you intellectually.

Not everything in life is about sex, you know.

[–]TheMarbleSlab[S] 15 points16 points  (19 children) | Copy Link

β€œYou can’t fuck a degree” -men here in the comments

[–]poppy_blublack midget wine mom 🍷28 points29 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

And in the next thread they'll be bitching about alimony. They're not too good at connecting the dots.

[–]TheSuperStink 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy Link

A huge amount of dudes here live in a fantasy revenge world.

[–]TheMarbleSlab[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Amen

[–]the_calibre_cat6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Emphasis on "fantasy"

[–]reluctantly_red13 points14 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

β€œYou can’t fuck a degree”

True -- but even the best of us can't fuck all day everyday. Its in those in between times (i.e. most of the time) that compatibility becomes important.

[–]Daniel0739-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Meh! Marriage is a raw deal, being Chad is the ultimate state for a man!

[–]NalkaNalkayou call it virtue, I call it cowardice11 points12 points  (10 children) | Copy Link

Degree =/= intelligence

[–]reluctantly_red6 points7 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

Not always but its a pretty decent proxy.

[–]NalkaNalkayou call it virtue, I call it cowardice-2 points-1 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

Not even close.

[–]nevomintoarce 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy Link

Let me guess, no college degree?

[–]NalkaNalkayou call it virtue, I call it cowardice1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Why so defensive?

[–]lucky_beast-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I have a bachelors in history and political science and another bachelors in engineering. Yeah, a degree doesn't say shit about intelligence, it just means you can carry out certain tasks assigned to you.

Sounds to me like you're just insecure that a piece of paper with your name on it is the only assurance you have to tell yourself you're not a retard.

[–]adool7770 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

and another bachelors in engineering

[–]Hungry_AFYour friendly neighborhood misandrist1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

It's pretty close.

[–]NalkaNalkayou call it virtue, I call it cowardice2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

For the middle class and up essentially everyone gets a degree from the smart to the functionally retarded.

Degrees are far more correlated to class than intelligence.

[–]321PK 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy Link

They’re also highly correlated to lifetime earning potential.

[–]NalkaNalkayou call it virtue, I call it cowardice0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Most of the data comes from when getting a degree was almost a guarantee of a good job. These days that's no longer the case.

Hell, half of my employees have degrees and I doubt that selling fruit was their area of study. One of them even has a double degree (English & tourism) and drives a delivery van.

[–]EsauTheRed-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Women have said the exact same thing here

[–]LoseMoneyAllWeek0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

I have two bachelors a dual bachelors in economics and finance another in Informatiom Systems with a minor in CS. I’m finishing up my finance masters next year.

You can’t fuck a degree

[–]PerpetualDilemma2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

And your point is?

[–]the_calibre_cat9 points10 points  (11 children) | Copy Link

In fact, I was told that in order to find a man who makes more than $60k, I need to be a top model and I am a gold digger.

Well... whoever told you that was completely full of shit

[–]TheMarbleSlab[S] 11 points12 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

I agree but it was multiple men. They were insisting that it’s such a high income.

Bitch, in Los Angeles $60k is barely enough for one person to live in a studio.

[–]squiddy_s550gtwhy so butthurt?0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Dependson location. In most of the country that can be a decent life. Not rich, but comfortable

[–]EpikYummehLurker0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

What kind of women are those men with? I'm curious.

[–]the_calibre_cat0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy Link

lol

They clearly weren't PPD users. On the other hand, I've met dudes that, who were so thoroughly average to underwhelming, yet nonetheless would helicopter dick throughout their lives as if they were Dan Bilzerian mixed with Tony Stark - they could just be so, completely wrong about everything, yet kill it in the sex scene.

[–]lefactorybebe6 points7 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Oh nah they were totally PPD guys. I remember the thread, there were multiple guys saying that.

[–]the_calibre_cat3 points4 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

$60,000? Seriously?

[–]lefactorybebe4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Yeah. Apparently some guys here live in the middle of nowhere and have no idea how little that is elsewhere in the country.

I remember Lewis going on and on about how he had spent over a million dollars on taking care of his wife and now grown children. So like spending over a million on 4 people over the course of like 20 years? That's like not a crazy amount.....at all.

[–]the_calibre_cat-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

$60,000 is a damn good life where I live, but even here, doctors are making more than that. I'm also, obviously, a nerdy Libertarian who enjoys economics though, so I know that were I to move to a nearby major metropolitan area, the cost of living so increases that to maintain my lifestyle at $60,000, I would need to then make $85,000.

I get it. I love big cities, but I also like the tranquility of smaller cities.

[–]lefactorybebe0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, I agree! I live in a "large town" (like 30,000 people) and it's awesome. But it's insanely expensive here. It'd be a struggle to get by on $60,000. We're close to NYC and it's a very affluent place (the entire county is). And I get the guys who think 60k is a lot if they've spent their lives in a cheaper area, it took me a long time to realize where I live is not the norm. I still get surprised by how cheap stuff is in other areas.

[–]Mr_SmoogsThe 2nd most obnoxious poster here0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Poor Marble. She really needs to stop listening to these people. Idk why she is taking the rantings of incels to heart.

[–]daveofmarsFor Martian Independence33 points34 points  (37 children) | Copy Link

You explained it:

4/10 surgeon I know married a 5-6/10 teacher | 3/10 lawyer I know married a 5-6/10 SAHM

If these guys are 3's and 4's then the money and status enabled them to get someone out of their league. If they were 8's and 9's, and were also doctors and lawyers, then they'd have models.

[–]atlantic68Purple Shill16 points17 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

I work with millionairrs daily.

None of them have supermodel wives. Even the attractive ones.

Money mattering is rp cope. All that matters is face frame muscles height and a big thick cock

[–]MetaCognitio12 points13 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I think most realize that to marry, they have to choose someone stable who would be a good mother and be respectable. I would not be surprised if they had a few side women that were young and super hot.

[–]atlantic68Purple Shill1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Maybe when they were young but they all settle down. Theyre all married ill say that. Even if you dont look grear if youre loaded youll find someone

[–]daveofmarsFor Martian Independence4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

All that matters is face frame muscles height and a big thick cock

Assuming you do indeed work with millionaires on a daily bases, this is the internet after all, having the above and no money may get you a trust fund baby or street hoes.

Having that and millions of dollars will get you swimsuit models.

It's not an either/or. Money is a force multiplier.

[–]atlantic68Purple Shill-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I dont think it matters that much honestly. At least its extremely overrated.

Hot unemployed guys will be an ugly rich guy overall. The ugly guy will still get some but certainly less

[–]couldbemage0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Having gone from UMC to working class, I can tell you that money is awesome. Everything in life is better when you have money.

This supermodel obsession is idiotic. Most rich dudes have attractive wives. Which is enough. Fat and ugly is way more common in the working class.

[–]TheMarbleSlab[S] -1 points0 points  (30 children) | Copy Link

Out of their league?

She’s a 5-6/10 teacher, not a 5-6/10 doctor.

[–]sadomasochristnAWALT = Not red pilled3 points4 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

"I can't put my penis in your college degree, and I can't put my fist in your per son a lity."

[–]TheMarbleSlab[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

She’s not a 8-9 though.

[–]lefactorybebe0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Omg what is that from? I'm singing it but I can't remember the rest!

[–]sadomasochristnAWALT = Not red pilled1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]lefactorybebe0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Omg yes thank you. Brings me right back to 2010 lol

[–]azngirl7689-3 points-2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

That’s a really reductive view of the world.

[–]sadomasochristnAWALT = Not red pilled2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It's hyperbole.

[–]daveofmarsFor Martian Independence16 points17 points  (22 children) | Copy Link

Yup. Like I said. It sounds like she's out of his league.

Men don't care about status or money in their partners. In fact, it can be a red flag if a woman is career or status obsessed. Many men would prefer the teacher to the doctor because it means she's more agreeable and isn't stressed from her career.

[–]TrumpCardStrategy15 points16 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

This 5-6 teacher > 5-6 doctor 95% of the time.

[–]rfdshadow2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

99.9 %

[–]TheSuperStink 1 points [recovered]  (10 children) | Copy Link

The majority of career obsessed men I know have a spouse that is the same. Like kinda attract like minds.

[–]daveofmarsFor Martian Independence3 points4 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

Are they happy? How are their marriages?

Just because they get together doesn't necessarily mean they're satisfied.

[–]TheSuperStink 1 points [recovered]  (6 children) | Copy Link

It doesn't mean they aren't, either. It's a wash either way.

[–]daveofmarsFor Martian Independence0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

What about the people you know?

[–]321PK 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy Link

My Dad is a v successful entrepreneur and business owner. He likes to tell you that the only time he every worked for somebody else was summers during college. He married my Mom who has never worked btw except for him but she has all the social connections, club memberships and went to the β€œright” schools. She plays the piano, paints, and plays bridge. Men absolutely do care about stuff like that. My Dad would no more marry some receptionist than the man in the moon.

[–]daveofmarsFor Martian Independence0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

I'm seeing a pattern with a lot of these comments. I get a few replies like yours saying that my dad is a successful X and has a successful wife, another person says their dad is a workaholic and married a workaholic, another person says they brush elbows with millionaires and that those millionaires care about the status of their partners.

But then I get other comments from men themselves agreeing with me, saying that status doesn't matter. I see the number of upvotes my initial comment, and on my response.

On one hand, I'm hearing second-hand information, or anecdotes, that indicate that men care about status. Then I'm getting comments and upvotes from men themselves saying they don't.

In my own experience, I can say that men might care, but they don't care nearly as much as women do about their partner's status. Female status isn't as attractive to men as male status is to women. At best, female status is a bonus. It indicates that she is of the same social caste, approved by the same peer group, or might share the same life values. But then again it could be someone else's red flag. It is far from universal.

In my own experience, I have seen male doctors date female nurses, but I've never met a female doctor who has dated a male nurse. I know plenty of men who simply do not care what their wife or girlfriend does, so long as she pays her part of the bills. Yeah, if you're at the top 10% of income earners then your values may be different, but the values of top doctors, lawyers, entrepreneurs, etc. are not the values of the every man, and those values can always be dictated by social convention and class status.

[–]diffdedbedGreen Eyed Devil0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I know of one female doc, male nurse.

She's a hottie but a total bitch and she runs the show.

[–]Daniel0739-2 points-1 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Most men with a degree are beta buxx.

[–]iFunnyPrince1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

I agree with almost everything you said but c'mon now, being a teacher can be stressful as hell, not to mention such low pay. Plus they can't even agree on you getting up to go to the bathroom in class. The hell is that about?

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Incomparable to doctor's stress. Handling kids vs handling peoples' lives on 24hr shifts? Why does this even need saying?

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Depends on the doctor and depends on the teacher. I know two male pediatricians who are living the life: lucrative practice, they work whatever hours they want, minimal life-and-death decisions. They provide routine and rewarding care.

I'm married to a teacher and am related to several more. A lot of teachers live incredibly stressful lives. Quite a bit of this is by choice - there is literally always something that a teacher can be doing to incrementally improve outcomes - but a lot of it is also driven by administration, who encourages that frame of mind.

It's easy to say "Well, teachers should just learn to set boundaries, then," and this is actually true; Mr. Abrams has learned to work smarter instead of harder and has outstanding outcomes. But in a world where adult men need to go to TRP in order to learn the fact that setting a boundary doesn't make them Reinhard Heydrich, it is understandable that a lot of teachers spend a lot of time stressing about stuff that might not matter all that much in the end.

[–]nevomintoarcePurple Pill Woman2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, I bet my dermatologist is having sleepless nights over my acne. My ex is a doctor too, I don't know what the name is in English but he only worked in a lab.

[–]azngirl76895 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

It’s not just handling kids. It’s grading and writing tests and keeping up with the insane administration demands and and and and. Teaching isn’t a walk in the park.

[–]openoids2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

If I hadn't cared as much, I couldn't have tolerated how much I hated it too.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Okay I don't claim it is, but I made it clear what my point is already and I'm now even more confused why it needs to be repeated.

[–]est-la-luneKinda cute kinda rock 'n' roll-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, but the average man isn't a doctor.

The men I know who went to medical school or are applying to medical school (young men who aren't married yet) don't want a stay at home wife, they want women who have the same demands of time and lifestyle.

As they get older and become established, I'm sure many of those relationships will break down (people and circumstances change).

At that point when he's already got kids and a great career, that doctor will date a younger woman with a less demanding schedule who is still probably in his socioeconomic bracket.

[–]DevilishRogueKnows more than you8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Why would a wealthy guy want to marry a young girl who is not ready to settle down, has radically different interests (clubbing is not cool beyond your mid 20s), still riding the carousel, and likely to divorce him taking him for half his accumulated capital and ongoing maintenance/alimony/child support, etc.? Sure, he'd like to sleep with her and it might be nice to have a trophy wife if he could guarantee fidelity and commitment but who possibly could when he's a beta bux and she is attracted to Chads?

[–]gasparddelanuit7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Men generally don't like gold diggers. They want someone who likes them beyond their money and resources. A woman who is physically not much more attractive than a given rich man, can give that man greater confidence that the woman would still be interested in him without his wealth. Also, men like women who are nice and genuine, so when it comes to relationships, how a woman looks is not enough, if she is not nice or genuine. Gold diggers are more on the self-serving and fake side, so men pick that up or will be suspicious that they are dealing with a gold digger, if the profile fits. They would much prefer a decent looking woman who is nice and genuine, than a conspiciously attractive woman, whose niceness and genuineness are questionable. Also, sometimes some 6s and 7s are more attractive to a lot of men than 9s and 10s. In any case, all of the men in your examples, still found women more physically attractive than themselves.

Another factor is that men in respectable positions typically don't want to undermine the respect that they get from being in those positions, by gallivanting around with 19 year-old supermodels. People would stop taking them seriously. If a man in a respectable position did want to do this, he is going to do it secretly or discretely, not brazenly like Dan Bilzerian. Reputation is important, particularly when it comes to politics. You'll find that rich men in more flamboyant occupations, such as music and entertainment, where traditional notions of respectability are less important, are more relaxed about being seen with young supermodels, not to mention they have more access to them, but even they might get some flak if there is a big age gap. That will depend on the reputation they have established and people's expectations of them. However, even if they are that way inclined, most men don't have the balls to be as brazen as Bilzerian types, when they are in the public eye.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Because supermodels are not high value women, their attractiveness makes them arrogant and insufferable more often than not, that sort of person is not fit to be a mother.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Doctors and lawyers are a lot more cerebral and future-time-oriented than the rest of the population. They aren't just thinking with their dicks, although i'm sure it factors in at least a little.

It's idiot drug dealers and ego-driven, strutting frat boy CEOs and the like that need to have a 9 on their arm in order to feel like more of a man. The logic of having a high SMV woman is the same as buying a sports car or some other flashy, overpriced, high maintenance shit you don't really need.

Male arch-professionals who put themselves through 12+ years of school are thinking more along the lines of "how do i best build up some intergenerational wealth" and acting accordingly. They are less flashy, more boring and plodding (but still smarter than most).

[–]HonestyOverCivility 1 points [recovered]  (56 children) | Copy Link

By the time most men understand their value they’ve already committed...not to mention that most men don’t ever really understand their value, thanks to the numerous conventions that keep them obvious to realities of SMV. Plus like most questions asked on this sub, the default presumption is that the man is alpha, despite roughly 80% of men being beta; doctors and lawyers are no exception here

Plus keep in mind, many professional men meet their wives when they’re still in law/med school earning no money and having a crap ton of debt. In this situation, the woman is playing a bet that the man will succeed, but not all do

[–]poppy_blublack midget wine mom 🍷15 points16 points  (12 children) | Copy Link

By the time most men understand their value they’ve already committed

Average age of first marriage in US for men: 29-30.

How long does it take to "understand your value" exactly?

thanks to the numerous conventions that keep them obvious to realities of SMV

Like what?

[–]CamoWoobie106 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You realise that people dont get married on the first date right? Usually they have been dating for years before they actually get married. By the time they finish their schooling, before they've even made a single penny, they're already mid 20s. A lot of guys will just end up marrying the first girl that will have them or that seems "good enough". Its different for women, most of them are bombarded with attention as soon as they grow tits, they are the ones being approached, they have a much better view of "what they can get".

[–]HonestyOverCivility 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy Link

Many men will tell you that they get much more attention from woman at 35 than they did at 25 despite losing their hair and gaining a few pounds. Most don’t really understand the concept of SMV, but they usually pick up on the practical aspects of it

Conventions surrounded men tend to obscure their rising SMV:

  • The myth of β€œthe lonely old man”
  • Shaming men into settling down by implying the myth mentioned above
  • That men are in are in their β€œsexual prime” in their twenties
  • That men are most desirable in their 20’s (most men believe this because they assume that men age like woman)

Conventions surrounding women tend to obscure their declining SMV:

  • Men are told that older woman are more mature, and in their sexual prime
  • A β€œreal man” goes for the 35 year old woman not the 25 year old one

[–]poppy_blublack midget wine mom 🍷5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Men usually do peak physically in their 30s, providing they take care of themselves, but it's not a radical change, it's merely that they look their best. They don't go from Screech at 20 to Leo Dicaprio at 35 without some serious work.

Why most men get more attention from women in their 30s is: they have established careers, they have gained confidence, they have outgrown the extended adolesence that most American men live in in their 20s, many (but not all) become more interesting people with subjects beyond sex, sports and video games to talk about*, and yes, because more women in their 30s are looking to settle down with a stable guy. The problem with the manosphere is they think that "stable guy" equals incel loser who all of a sudden at 30 gets hit up by single moms looking for a meal ticket. IE, they're once again projecting their own experience as "average" when it's not.

*FWIW, this applies to women too.

The myth of β€œthe lonely old man”

I think you have that backwards. There's no male equivalent of "spinster" or "old maid." Think about that for a second.

That men are in are in their β€œsexual prime” in their twenties

Men's sex drive tends to be highest in their teens. Their skill develops later and unfortuantely for quite a few, never.

Men are told that older woman are more mature

LOL. You've never heard the cougar stereotype? Are you American BTW?

in their sexual prime

Women's sex drive tends to be highest in their late 30s or early 40s.

A β€œreal man” goes for the 35 year old woman not the 25 year old one

What you're hearing is older women wary of the intentions of older men who fetishize and/or abuse younger women. We were all young women once and these men tried the same shit with us. Some of us saw women we knew throw their youth away on some creepy older dude who acted like her dad or treated her like a sex slave and then dumped her when she turned 30 and moved on to the next victim.

I don't write off any relationship just because it involves an older man and younger woman. But if the guy is one of the aforementioned creeps using young bodies to feel like he's still a man in the face of middle age decline, he can go fuck himself (and more and more as women have gained equality, he is).

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

IMO the average guy when he hits 30has no idea how things really work.

I didn't. I thought women wanted a guy that was dependable, sensitive, good sense of humor etc, good personality above all else. What a total misunderstanding. I had no idea what my value was, how or how to improve it, so I had no idea where I'd be in 5 years.

Imagine being told "you need to work on your personality" and acting as though personality is the most important thing.

(aside from specific traits that are universally bad, personality is a preference, so you cant "work on it" imo) One persons more agreeable is another persons passive, engaged/passionate becomes disagreeable etc

I was told that women were pure, noble, not shallow, where men were shallow pigs. Any attempt to provide context/nuance was literally Hitler. This is how nice guys get created, they are a reflection of their understanding of what women want. that makes it obvious most guys have no fucking clue.

What women want is an oversimplification that will just spawn a pissing contest.

pretending women dont value success significantly would be like men trying to act like they dont value a certain body type. Everyone sees right through it, you might get men that object too much, but its because shallow is bad.

Last study I read was done by FOUR WOMEN and came to the conclusion that women are 1000x more sensitive to money than men. When I was 30 I thought that sort of thinking was sexist nonsense?

The funny part? the sexist one was me! I had internalized the idea that caring about money = gold digger, so I was not receptive to the fact that women can care about money and not be a gold digger! data itself doesn't say why, why is just baggage that people add to suit their desired narritive. explanations can be interesting, but

I was feed a stream of things that it was acceptable for women to care about, as if women were not people too. if a woman didn't like me because I was fat, that woman was wrong/bad because thats shallow and being shallow is bad and women are not bad.

Yeah everyone is shallow, but people have trouble just fucking admitting a negative without saying "Yeah but my gender is less bad"

Am I making some sort of false equivalence "both sides" are bad argument? lolno. both sides are bad and unsurprisingly for different reasons. Id say how bad isn't about which gender but about what the circumstances permit. I have enough shade for everyone, and I'm not exempt.

People take advantage of others fullstop I dont need to attach a gender to that. need is the most corrupting element in any interaction.

So many unspeakable truths that makes it difficult for a younger guy to figure things out.

Until we can admit that caring about money is not synonymous wit being a gold digger, we are doomed to keep repeating this repeating argument, because each new generation of men is fed the same bullshit, mostly by men who never figured it out. Men who are bitter af after settling with a woman who needed a provider. These are men that see the worst kind of marriage, and that is a heavy influence.

I was not motivated to achieve success, having been told its not important, money isnt everything, cant buy you love, its not everything in life.

I wasn't raised by hippies! my folks are tea party trumpers!

Had I understood how important success really was I'd have made different decisions and been a much more successful man.

Telling people its on the inside that counts creates people who are bitter when they realize its utter nonsense. Turns out the inside counts far less than I was lead to believe.

People want it all, no one wants a stupid SO, an abusive SO, an ugly SO, a poor SO.

Some people just care less about some of those things, but thats not the same as wanting them. men care a bit less about intelligence (based on data not what men tell you), but thats not the same as saying men prefer stupid women. I'm sure some do, but thats about as interesting as discussing that some women that prefer a micropenis.

BTW anyone surprised that men who have realized the lies they have been fed, having wasted a lot of time/opportunity and feeling very foolish are angry and say things like bitches want money?

Then anyone saying anything similar get thrown under the bus.

Want another example of a group that feels lied to because no one will admit that truth or allow any nuance? Unattractive women. having grown up hearing that women have it so much better and that being shallow is bad, when no one will admit that women do have it better when it comes to dating... if they are at least a 5/6. everyone refuses to admit that, by the time the know that a 3 doesn't end up with a Disney prince, they are angry as hell. that women care about money in general enrages these women because even if they do care, they dont have that luxury more or less. years of telling women not to settle because they need to find a man that treats them like a queen.

Unattractive men and women both have ways to improve their situation, but that cant be admitted because its all sorts of stuff that people dont want to admit, so things only get worse. better to deny that I have any control, than excepting some measure of responsibility for how the world works. It comforting to "know" that its not you thats the problem, its the rest of the world.

[–]cxj75% Redpill Core Ideas0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

Average age of marriage for high earning lawyer men is 29-30? Or average overall ?

[–]poppy_blublack midget wine mom 🍷1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Overall

[–]cxj75% Redpill Core Ideas-1 points0 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Ok so that’s much less relevant to this particular class then since they marry later

[–]poppy_blublack midget wine mom 🍷0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Do they?

[–]cxj75% Redpill Core Ideas1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I thought that was the studies and general consensus , UMC professionals marry at 38 or whatever

[–]poppy_blublack midget wine mom 🍷0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

OK

[–]reluctantly_red-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

How long does it take to "understand your value" exactly?

Doctors are often still interns or residents at 30. At least at my law school most of the guys were pushing 30 by graduation (most had obtained a graduate degree or had some career experience before law school). I was 31 when I started law school.

[–]poppy_blublack midget wine mom 🍷0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Is there a rule that you can’t date while attending medical or law school or something?

[–]Atlas_B_Shruggin✑️🐈✑️ the purring jew6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

yes, i was just coming to say all this. that most men, even the highest value men are "blue pilled" with regard to their potential sexual value and options is RP 101

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree with you. I still never understood why men's value is so ambiguous though.

[–]concacanca3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

This but also let's not forget opportunity here. College, med school, residency etc. Most docs are going to end up with other docs because they are the only ones they ever get to see lol.

It's curious she picks just the two professions where this model occurs as well. I know loads of tech CEOs and bankers who are with pretty, much younger women (supermodel is a bit of a stupid one seeing as there aren't many of them and they aren't even the ideal for most men).

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Why are supermodels not ideal?

[–]TheMarbleSlab[S] 5 points6 points  (38 children) | Copy Link

So they secretly resent their wives and long for an upgrade.

[–][deleted] 15 points16 points  (21 children) | Copy Link

You really do have an obsession with forcing this belief that men "secretly resent" the women in their lives don't you?

[–]TheMarbleSlab[S] 9 points10 points  (16 children) | Copy Link

Isn’t it true? It’s plastered over all of married red pill.

[–]sadomasochristnAWALT = Not red pilled6 points7 points  (15 children) | Copy Link

Yes, when women stop giving the men in their lives good sex and they have to seek an outside resource to learn why they're having trouble, they do resent their wives. This isn't a "secret."

Men typically love "for love's sake" and most of them do not appreciate learning the true nature of women.

If this is a complex level issue with you, please share in detail why this is a problem for you and what you need to know. I know a lot about this phenomenon.

[–]TheMarbleSlab[S] 3 points4 points  (12 children) | Copy Link

true nature of women

There you go. More resentment.

[–]sadomasochristnAWALT = Not red pilled6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

This is not a "secret." This is the flipside of "blue pill men."

Blue pill men love women in the way that men understand love. As RP men, we describe this as being naive.

Your complaint is ultimately that the attitude you want men to have is for them to be naive. And the men that you associate with men, are not naive. (We regularly observe this behavior where women are "blind" to men who behave in unattractive ways or have unattractive mindsets)

Men that have been unplugged harbor "resentment" as you would say, because some of the primary male value systems are loyalty and honor.

Women are not biologically capable of these things because they have much more narrow arousal windows than men. So when men begin to understand women they say things like

"these hoes ain't loyal" -Tupac

"we don't love these hoes" -Tupac

There is an enormous abundance of men who will love you as male romantics who don't have any resentment towards women. Because they believe that you will love for love's sake.

Problem is, you don't want to fuck those guys, so ehh?

[–]boomcheese440 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Actually, Chris Brown and Snoop Dogg.

[–]sadomasochristnAWALT = Not red pilled2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Let me reframe this.

Why do you believe men would admire or appreciate the true nature of women?

[–]TheMarbleSlab[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Appreciate. Women are more loyal, loving, and family oriented than men.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Women are more loyal, loving, and family oriented than men.

in what fairytale?

[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I dont think such a thing as "true nature" exists. you can just point to generalizations. I dont like the phrase, I have trouble thinking that unpacking it does anything but go down in flames.

[–]sadomasochristnAWALT = Not red pilled1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

True nature = evolutionarily influenced to pair with strong mates, as in there is a "duty of performance" that means arousal can't be negotiated.

That is to say, that love for a woman is only convenient so far as her partner is her best option.

The same thing would be true for men, but they have much wider arousal windows, allowing them to moralize this truth.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Bi difference between resenting something, and resenting the fact that you've been lied to for decades and no one will admit it. do I resent that? absolutely.

The question is do you blame me?

Of note, the answer to that question should not be based the assumption that you disagree with me that Ive been lied to.

[–]TheMarbleSlab[S] 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

That guy is literally training his wife to want threesomes by having her mastrubate to other women. If that doesn’t freak you out, then you’re a sociopath.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

This leaves me feeling like I missed a comment or two. just reacting what you posed out of context, I'm against trying to train or coerce anyone into any action. Manipulation + leverage = evil. No one should tolerate it.

[–]chaddad90000 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Sounds like she's into it, so I don't see the problem. Doesn't mean they'll necessarily even do it.

It is weird to post that shit to a sub that's one stop away from deadbedrooms tho.

[–]321PK 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy Link

Jesus dude. Spare me the β€œtrue nature” of women crap. Esp in relation to mrp. The β€œtrue nature” of most of the men there isn’t very compelling either.

[–]sadomasochristnAWALT = Not red pilled1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

80% of men are easy satiated and satisfied. It's those tricky top 20%.

[–]TheMarbleSlab[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

So your "proof" for your view of all men is based on the crap posted to MRP? Lmao.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

The person she's replying to just recently wrote in another thread about how he/men grow to resent their wives as they realise they should have waited and gotten younger/prettier women.

[–]Atlas_B_Shruggin✑️🐈✑️ the purring jew7 points8 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

you understand the trope of the professional's "starter wife", yes?

what you should go look for is what Drs and attorneys SECOND wives are like

[–]goatismycopilotJohnI'monlydancing8 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Generally a looks upgrade. The first wife is earnest and kind and gets a job right out of undergrad and works while baby doc goes through med school and residency. The next wife is more attractive and kind of bitchy.

[–]Atlas_B_Shruggin✑️🐈✑️ the purring jew2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

yup

[–]boomcheese441 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The second wife is usually the one he actually wants too.

[–]TheMarbleSlab[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

What is your husband going to do when he leaves you?

[–]Atlas_B_Shruggin✑️🐈✑️ the purring jew2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

dunno, guess well find out if it ever happens. i dont live in a mentally ill la la land where i have to beleive theres no possiobility of that in order to function

[–]NalkaNalkayou call it virtue, I call it cowardice4 points5 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

TIL that MRP is a stand in for men as a whole.

[–]goatismycopilotJohnI'monlydancing3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Feminists are generally a stand in for all women here it is not crazy for laydee people to assume men are amoral sexual strategists with only varying interest in monogamy or to assume TRP without the M.

[–]NalkaNalkayou call it virtue, I call it cowardice-1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

People here are not using feminists as a stand in for women. Woman do have a higher level of own group bies.

[–]goatismycopilotJohnI'monlydancing0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Group bees? Are they flash mobbing or something?

[–]NalkaNalkayou call it virtue, I call it cowardice0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Such a missed opportunity.

[–]TheMarbleSlab[S] 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

It generally is a good overview.

[–]NalkaNalkayou call it virtue, I call it cowardice4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Go on then, tell me how men wind up on MRP and what that selects for.

[–]SkookumTreeRomantic relationships aren't necessary for happiness!0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Horseshit.

[–]passepar2t11 points12 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

Doctors and lawyers are not that high-status, unless they work as orthopedic surgeons at top-10 luxury hospitals or as partners at Skadden Arps, respectively. You should look at investment bankers and hotshot fund managers, there you'll find your 19-year old Scandinavian supermodels.

[–]SkookumTreeRomantic relationships aren't necessary for happiness!4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

No, the investment bankers and hedge fund managers have casual flings with the supermodels. Marriage is a goddamned partnership, and few 19-year-old supermodels are connected and influential enough to be playing ball at that level.

Besides. For doctors, academic medicine is the highest-prestige track. Professor of Radiation Oncology at Harvard: higher-prestige than orthopedic surgeon at some luxury hospital in Vail, Colorado.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

hotshot fund managers, there you'll find your 19-year old Scandinavian supermodels.

u/SmurfESmurferson has a lot to say about this perception.

[–]passepar2t0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

You're going to make me wait for her to respond?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

I can't "make" you do anything. And I'm not going to speak for her, since she is much more intimately familiar with this world than I am.

[–]passepar2t0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

Take it easy, I was just asking what the main argument was, if you were making one. I'll see what smurf has to say if she says it.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Her main argument is that marrying a bimbo can cost you big in that world, since you will be perceived as someone who chases short-term gratification over long-term value. Which is not a good look for someone who handles those amounts of money.

[–]passepar2t1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I can definitely see that, yes. But I think there are youngish women with supermodel looks, who aren't dumb in the slightest and possibly have some form of distinction like being a high-level violinist for example.

Edit: also, there are mistresses. Lots and lots of young hot mistresses, if the wife is chosen for presentation.

[–]SmurfESmurferson1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Way late to this conversation, but yes. In every office M has worked in (which are all investment banks and hedge funds), there are three types of wives:

  • The super driven Type A (always half of a "power couple," where he's also super driven)
  • The young, mid-20s girls (always married to equally young guys, and they crank out kids quickly/become SAHMs)
  • The FSM-approved group (ranging in ages from late 20s through age appropriate for the oldest guys in the office)

Without question, all of them are college educated, many with their own businesses or philanthropic pursuits, and all are polished. They are all comfortable working the room and being an asset to their husband's office facade

Are some of these gals more attractive than their husbands? Sure. But that's not what made them wife material for these guys; they know how to play the office game, have a good head on their shoulders, and command respect in their own right

That 19 year old stripper may get to snort coke of a guy's penis, but he's not stupid enough to bring her out in public

[–]Bestprofilename6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Because you bang the hot girls and marry the reasonable women.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Because 19 year old women aren't mature enough for a middle aged man? Isn't this sooo obvious?

[–]meaninglessINTERUPTPurple Pill Man0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Apparently not.

[–]goatismycopilotJohnI'monlydancing3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Listen Slabby stop listening to the men here and stop being too accomadating and you will find internal calm. Figure out what the Slab life is and serve that imperative.

[–]Uyrr4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is because Red Pill are full of delusional, depressed men that think that life works out like a bunch of spreadsheets and graphs. These men have trouble reconciling how the world works and how biology works. In my mind they have become just like what they profess to be against (Feminists). The bottom line is that this idea of marrying or dating supermodels when you are a rich man is something that is overblown. Yes, it happens, but not on a regular basis. Most people realize that you are best compatible with someone near your own age. Plus, Doctors and Lawyers are no longer considered upper class. They are pretty much middle class with the rest of us.

[–]Fabianstrategy1Asshole with asshole opinions8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

All my friends who are doctors met their wives in undergrad. These women picked out captains before the became admirals. Simple

[–]mydikishomofobik4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Doctors and lawyers tend to fall into the upper middle class bracket (and lawyers' incomes can vary a lot- some don't make a lot of money). In general, these people are well-off, but not super-rich. That means, based on hypergamy, top supermodels are out of their league. A doctor or lawyer may make $200,000 a year, but top supermodels may make $30 million a year.

Also, most people date partners they have access to, i.e. the people they're around. A family doctor in Kansas or Idaho doesn't hang out with supermodels, celebrities and millionaires in Hollywood.

That's why doctors and lawyers tend to marry people like other doctors or lawyers, fellow students they meet in undergrad, medical or law school, nurses or secretaries, and so on. Supermodels, on the other hand, date and marry rich athletes, actors, entertainers, or rich businesspeople. If supermodels marry doctors and lawyers, they'll likely be "celebrity" doctors and lawyers who move in Hollywood circles, like those doctors who do TV shows, or high-powered lawyers that represent celebrities.

That's why Gisele Bundsen married star NFL QB Tom Brady and not a doctor or lawyer in Buttfuck, Iowa.

[–]TheMarbleSlab[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

These are Instagram models. Not too supermodels.

[–]mydikishomofobik3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

IG "models" are definitely more accessible, if you have $300 or whatever they're charging. But are those really the kinds of women that Dr. Rothstein wants to marry? For one thing, I'm not sure if an IG model will really love her trick. She'll probably only truly love her real boyfriend GangsterPimp, not the rich guys who buy her stuff.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Who even like supermodels in this day in age? It's not a real skill set.

[–]crackrocksteady7buying gf10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Because being a doctor or lawyer is extreme RMV and has nothing to do with SMV and none of the noobs making that mistake and fucking up the basics so badly will change that. 19 year old supermodels are fucking attractive extreme status men like athletes

[–]TheMarbleSlab[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Well yeah. A supermodel isn’t at the same level as an Instagram model with 30k followers.

[–]bonusfruit5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

[Anecdote]... checkmate, redpillers

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

exaggeration. supermodels are quite successful by definition, career, fame, money. They have all of that so they value it less. a doctors income isn't usually all that great.

Its not about how much success do you need to be attractive to a model, its "how much success do you need for it to matter.

Is someone making $15/hr more attractive than someone making $10/hr? lol right? if you are a supermodel do you think a supermodel that made 20 million dollars care about about the fact that a guy makes $300k a year by working brutal hours?

Oversimplifying down to a salary doesn't help because ignores other components of sucess, in addition to shit like how had/many hours does it take to make that.

They dont run in social circles where they interact with supermodels or even models remotely close to "super"

Plenty of millionaires out there, relatively few supermodels.

The difference between a 4 and a 5 is nowhere near the difference between a 9 and a 10. using supermodel distorts the conversation because of this.

guys sleeping around indicates short term relationship and does anyone think a woman wants a slightly over the hill pudgy doctor for a fling?

That a 3/10 man would marry a 6/10 woman has to make it pretty obvious.

Before I had some medical problems I was closing in on $60k, its decent enough, but not particularly notable.

I knew plenty of women making $40k, $60k wasn't that big a difference.

You even say "like one point above them in looks"

thats an issue. If you are external and think a woman is a 5 and a man is a 5, the woman has a legion of thirsty 5s constantly hitting on her and feels like an 8.

It seems like you have chosen a very poor framing to argue women dont care about money, because you've equated caring about money with automatically a gold digger.

You might say "I dont think that", but then who cares. Arguing about what other people think is a bit silly. Mostly because you can say "people think" and end that with anything.

Then you run into arguing abour "more/most/many/all/none" etc, its a shitshow.

Poverty is not attractive, sucess is. I dont think finding success attractive is the same as being a gold digger. If neither of us do, then what the fuck are we talking about?

Super model wants to date Elon Musk? whatever, wouldn't call her a gold digger. Women chasing after hugh hefner? yeah, gold diggers. Unless there is some fetish for 90 year old guys with a Viagra habit, we know whats going on. (forget how old he was but point stands)

[–]TheMarbleSlab[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

These are Instagram models. Not supermodels.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

These what? the ones making 10 million, the ones that threw themselves at heff? the models you are talking about? I'm confused.

[–]SkookumTreeRomantic relationships aren't necessary for happiness!0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

A 30-year-old supermodel and 35-year-old tenured Harvard professor: an interesting pairing.

[–]ifeelfuckingterrible2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't know what's going through these men's minds since I can't imagine being dumb enough to marry a woman who earns significantly less than me.

Maybe they just fell for the first woman that paid attention to them, maybe they don't know their value, maybe they DO know their value but want to be in control of the relationship and be appreciated. Plus, getting with a model would still require having some game (which they probably don't have any), and it would be more obvious that she's with him for the money, which would also probably cost him more.

And then they get married because they were pressured to, or figured that's just what they're "supposed to" do without really thinking too much about the risk involved.

[–]EmpoweredGirlMisanthrope2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Smart men don't want to marry stupid women!
Supermodels are rated in the range of 7-10 but because of exposure they might as well all be 9+ as they are probably rated in the top 0.001% of women because their so visible. Doctors and Lawyers are not the top 0.001% of men, at best they are between 0.10.01% which is till a whole magnitude short (huge difference). Now if you are talking about the top dog doctor or the boss lawyer, then this is something else, however note my reasons below for why still not always viable.

Diagnosis made, Case closed!

On a more serious note I know that I myself who aims to be a high flyer would never marry a supermodel (with the exception she was strangely smart). 200K to 500K is a lot of money, but not enough to be "I don't give a fuck about money". You still have to spend that kind of money wisely and have the free time to flaunt it to hook up with women with great looks. Doctors and Lawyers don't have much free time, so these people are going to be more practical about the people they find. If you took someone who earned in this range but worked one day a week, or part time etc in a low pressure job (Amazon FBA for example) then I think you would not be so surprised to see the women they are with increase in the looks department.

It's not enough to just make money, you still have to sell your high status high wealth.

Something that people with more time and energy will be more able to do so. You can look much richer with 100K than with 250K if you play your cards right. Minimalist lifestyle with a few big ticket items (like a Lambo) can really sell that.

It's weird how life is multivariate isn't it!

[–]subgamer90My own way is the best way2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Well personally I'm not a fan of marriage in general, but if a man is going to get married there are a lot more important considerations than looks, like whether she's actually going to be a good housewife and mother.

If not, then there's no point in getting married. So why are doctors and lawyers not married to the hottest girls? Because they're intelligent, and only an idiot would marry a girl based solely on looks.

[–]Bigsmell19832 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is a big strawman argument so it's pointless to argue.

[–]Texas_Ex5 points6 points  (10 children) | Copy Link

Their side piece usually makes up for what their wife lacks

[–]TheMarbleSlab[S] 4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

So men cheat.

[–]NalkaNalkayou call it virtue, I call it cowardice5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

huh you just learned that men are also part of human kind?

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

my gender cheats it was justified, the other gender cheats they are monsters. The bias is so strong conversations on cheating rarely seem to go beyond that.

You might get a pissing contest where my cracked article can beat up your jezebel article.

[–]Thatbiengsaid2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Shhhh don't say this op thinks they know how men really are based off a small sample size of people she knows.

[–]azngirl76896 points7 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Men are trash.

[–]Atlas_B_Shruggin✑️🐈✑️ the purring jew7 points8 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

and another woman is redpilled lol

[–]azngirl76892 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

My STBX red pilled me.

[–]Atlas_B_Shruggin✑️🐈✑️ the purring jew7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

i got redpilled at 15 when my 20 year old BF came over and had sex with me one last time and THEN broke up with me to go back to his ex lol

[–]goatismycopilotJohnI'monlydancing2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

For some reason it super offends the PPD guys when this happens no idea why well I have a few ideas.

[–]goatismycopilotJohnI'monlydancing6 points7 points  (11 children) | Copy Link

Where I work the male doctors break down into two groups: married to other doctors or depending on their age into marriage two or three with a much younger hot wife who has babies and a cute hobby.

[–]TheMarbleSlab[S] 1 point2 points  (10 children) | Copy Link

Not where I work/ live.

[–]goatismycopilotJohnI'monlydancing4 points5 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

I mean there is going to be nuance for sure. Doctors even though they do not necessarily have the income others think they do will always be able to attract women for casual sex or baby making when they want to they are on my list of people never to have dated and I would tell somebody to do so under advisement. They make bad spouses. But if they are doing something high dollar they offer a great lifestyle to the hot chick who can be strategic. As actual people they are generally shit.

[–]poppy_blublack midget wine mom 🍷4 points5 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

Because they're nerdy and work insane hours?

[–]goatismycopilotJohnI'monlydancing1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

It takes a certain personality to make it through residency and fellowship. I have raised a few through working with them for years not to be giant dick but I keep my expectations low.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Are you a nurse?

I'm a Canadian MD. Just wondering how you can possibly BS so much with such authority as to assume all doctors form a certain personality and make horrible spouses.

[–]goatismycopilotJohnI'monlydancing4 points5 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Yes I am a nurse. Actually a lot of them told me that but I rely on my observational experience if that triggers you then that is your issue to unpack not mine.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Perhaps you'll benefit from knowing nurses have far higher divorce rates than doctors. However you seemed to have already experienced that. Maybe hold back from making sweeping generalizations about millions of people around the world based on your N of 50.

https://hms.harvard.edu/news/doctors-divorce

Those who live in glass houses should not throw stones.

[–]goatismycopilotJohnI'monlydancing1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

K bro.

[–]Mr_SmoogsThe 2nd most obnoxious poster here2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Lol he took that personally

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

men get whoever they can afford. /tomleykis

[–]daniellederek2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Most were locked down before the money kicked in. I have no idea why anyone would go into being a doctor. It's a long costly smelly process. Close to 15 years past high school before you are an autonomous professional. Likely mid 40s before you srart to gather the FU bankroll. And then you really only have 15 or so years left of steady hands to be a top surgeon with.

Compare that to mining engineering. 4 year degree. START at close to 150k And your job is blowing shit up. Things go a little sideways .... oops. Maybe we should have used a wee bit less ANFO. Carry on.

Doc has a bad day it's a career ender.

So why would someone in that situation buy a depreciating asset when they can sign a new lease when the current one gets a bit mouthy?

[–]TheSuperStink 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm a hospital pharmacist, so I work with these doctors all day every day.

They RARELY get into medicine because of the money; it's usually because they are very empathetic and want to help other people directly. The majority of them are just science nerds/bookworms without much of a social life.

[–]flamingoinghomeIs three lizards in trench coat3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

They RARELY get into medicine because of the money; it's usually because they are very empathetic and want to help other people directly. The majority of them are just science nerds/bookworms without much of a social life.

THANK YOU. I mostly hang out with people with a fuckload of postsecondary education (I'm a grad student) and pretty much *none* of us are in it to get rich. We all know if we were after getting rich, the thing to do is investment banking or whatever. The scientists, doctors, economists, historians, even lawyers? Mostly in it for the work itself.

[–]jax006Wants to bang ~20% of PPD chicks4 points5 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

There is nothing special about doctors or lawyers lmfao this is PPD rubbish. Doctors and lawyers are probably like only 25% less likely to be beta chumps than your typical engineer.

Why do people on PPD conflate this high value ultra-attractive personality with some person going to school for 8 years for a job that will barely put you into UMC lol

I know 1 doctor from my graduating class who he is a classic attractive super-great-catch. I also know another doctor who is slightly overweight and is practically aspergers.

[–]shithappenslolblack stacey | PREMED WAS A MISTAKE | African-American Pilled0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

200k-550k a year is barely UMC? πŸ€”πŸ€”

[–]TheSuperStink 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy Link

In somewhere like NYC, perhaps. Not everyone lives (or wants to live) in a dense urban area.

[–]shithappenslolblack stacey | PREMED WAS A MISTAKE | African-American Pilled-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Even public school teachers make 150k in NYC, so it’s safe to assume it’ll be even higher than the 200k-500k for doctors in NYC

[–]jax006Wants to bang ~20% of PPD chicks2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

The only doctors making 500k average salary are like top tier Ortho surgeons lol. Average salary of an Internal Medicine doc is barely 200k. Sure that's an awesome salary, but after you finish school at age 28 with 180k in debt, yes it barely puts you into an UMC lifestyle. Docs don't get to live it up until late 30s or 40s IME.

I know a 34 year old Ophthalmologist who is reluctant to buy a house right now because his student loan payments are so high.

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[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (15 children) | Copy Link

Because doctors are hard people to be in a relationship with.

[–]azngirl76891 point2 points  (14 children) | Copy Link

No kidding. They don’t work for years. They have loads of student debt and their hours are unsuitable for family life. Eventually they reap the rewards but it’s a slog!

[–]Atlas_B_Shruggin✑️🐈✑️ the purring jew1 point2 points  (13 children) | Copy Link

Eventually they reap the rewards but it’s a slog!

and thats when they divorce the wife (or break up with the gf) who stood by them for all that and get the younger better one

[–]azngirl7689 1 points [recovered]  (12 children) | Copy Link

Men are trash.

[–]goatismycopilotJohnI'monlydancing2 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Men are not trash. How old are you? Mid 20's? Nah girl men are not trash just do not make the mistake of getting all exclusive too early date more than one at once, compare and contrast and worry way less about what they think or why, keep expectations low and one of the pack will pleasantly surprise you. If not keep moving. You are your happiness source even good men will hella flake. That mindset you are voicing will make you too sad.

[–]azngirl76890 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

That’s what I working on. I shifted focus from fixing my relationship with STBX to fixing my relationship with me. I’m never giving my all to any man like that again. I may be dim and too optimistic sometimes but I learn eventually.

[–]goatismycopilotJohnI'monlydancing0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

We all have stuff to learn. You can give your all to a man it just has to be one who appreciates it, values it, reflects it back in his behavior, and never gets into the expectation mode. If you do it with the right person for you it does not feel like giving your all. When you have that sense it is your intuition saying nope, nope, nope.

[–]azngirl76890 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Maybe after I’ve recovered from this relationship. Right now dating/sex is about as appealing as getting my eyebrows waxed by a blind person.

[–]goatismycopilotJohnI'monlydancing0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Nah I was not suggesting you get back out there now simply that can be different if you are different. You will be fine.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

then why do you like getting dicked by them?

[–]orcscorper 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy Link

The men you can get are trash. Maybe it's time to switch teams, get yourself some cats, or both. You won't be any prettier or thinner next year, or the year after that.

[–]LittleknownfactsAutomod is my husband[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Be civil.

[–]-TheGreasyPole-Pissed Off that Reddit Admins killed my old account[M] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Stop trolling your own thread.

We’re trying to mod the replies heavily in order to allow it to stay up.

We don’t need you trolling on here too, making it worse.

Debate as required on a CMV... openly and with a view to having your mind changed... or we’ll remove it. Only Warning.

[–]azngirl76890 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

My bad, will respond in good faith.

Edit: this was 4 days ago? I'll take the warning.

[–]-TheGreasyPole-Pissed Off that Reddit Admins killed my old account0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Sorry I thought it wasn’t on your thread today.

We wouldn’t bother deleting a 4 day old post.

Seems like you rustled some jimmies today and someone is going back through your comment history. I’ll double check how old the comments of yours Reported are for a while.

[–]kandyapplezincel larping as a thot4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

i'm guessing most redpillers have little experience with actual 19 year old models and the minimally employed 22 year old "djs" / "aspiring youtubers" / "producers" / "nightlife professionals" they actually date

[–]chaddad90000 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Triggered! When I was 20 the model I was fucking ditched me to go do cocaine with a "producer".

[–]chaddad90001 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Counterpoint: Every entrepreneur / business owner type guy I can think of has a hot wife.

[–]azngirl76893 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

ITT men denying reality. Also how bad does it make men look when TRP says all men care about is looks? I mean that’s just not very good optics. Jeez. Be more than a horny chimp please. Thanks.

[–]capablanca2018Sertraline1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

We're great apes half a chromosome away from chimpanzees. It's helpful to keep that in mind. Ignoring the pull of millions of years of evolutionary nature because a few thousand years of civilisation is telling us to doesn't always come naturally. Actually, the opposite is true. Not excusing shallow behaviour, but there is a reason for it - and it's not always just choice.

[–]azngirl76893 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Well try harder! The β€œbut biology” argument is crap and a cop out for shitty men.

[–]capablanca2018Sertraline2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It is used that way, but when talking of 'denying reality', don't forget that we ARE apes. Defying nature can be very hard work. Most of the time we do a pretty good job.

[–]ObeyTheCowGod1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Did you not know this already?

[–]ChemAnon20181 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

doctors and lawyers are smart

[–]_Neon_Shadow_1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

One: RP isn't about getting married. So your question already has a faulty premise. RP is about fucking as many women as possible and living like a King.

Two: Why isn't every college student a neurosurgeon or software engineer? It's the optimal thing to do if you want a lot of money, so what gives? People are different and not everyone wants those jobs. A lot of guys are blue pill and have no desire to live a red pill lifestyle no matter how much pussy it guarantees. That's perfectly fine and says nothing about red pill.

Three: Having a good job does not make someone Alpha Fucks. If anything it makes them Beta Bux. You've admitted these men are not attractive, 3 & 4 out of 10, that puts them perfectly in the Beta Bux category. They are filling a provider role because they can't hack it as Alpha Fucks or Alpha Bux. There are plenty of old, rich, disgusting men, that women don't want to touch. Look at Harvey Weinstein. He's a rapist beta that uses his money and status to force women to sleep with him. Does he have a good paying job? Yes. Does that make him Chad? No. You need much more than the salary of a doctor to be top 20%.

[–]boomcheese440 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

In your opinion, what percentage of men are Alpha Bux?

[–]_Neon_Shadow_1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

According to the most recent obesity rate data, 75% of men in America are overweight or obese. that leaves 25% of men who could be in shape. I won't set the bar too high with salary, let's say about $60k/yr. I'd estimate maybe 5-10% of men in America qualify as Alpha Bux. They are physically attractive / fit, financially stable, and charismatic enough to bed women easily.

[–]MagicGainbowKeepin' it real, havin' a feel1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Because most doctors and lawyers are nerdy/inept guys that thought those things would make up for them lacking in other areas.

[–]shipiaoziGynocentrism patriarchy is great1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

  1. Paternity uncertainty is too high. They don't understand the reason but naturally feel high PU woman are not good LTR partner.

  2. There are some men with low PU requirement, mostly polygamy man, good-looking man and narcissist.

[–]-TheGreasyPole-Pissed Off that Reddit Admins killed my old account1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Answering your title....Because they were happy to settle for a nice girl they liked rather than try to max out what they could possibly have attained if they’d pushed for the maximum attainable with a focus solely on looks ?

Almost everyone does that.

Also, I think you’ll find there are a lot more doctors and lawyers than supermodels.

I’d expect the radio between those groups to be something like 1000:1 given that only a small percentage of models are supermodels.

Those facts just by themselves easily explain what you’re seeing.

[–]cxj75% Redpill Core Ideas1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Because lawyer/doctors are a bunch of nerds and exist in a socioeconomic bubble where they only acknowledge their own group as actual people in order to hoard and consolidate wealth down the line.

These dudes are not necessarily or even usually β€œalpha” and even their average wives probably feel like they’re settling on attraction .

Alpha dudes can bone/attract/marry younger women but simply being a doctor isn’t alpha

[–]Barely-moralMostly red though1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Looks as a threshold. Once a man finds a woman hot enough to fuck, he starts looking for other criteria to decide if the woman is worth marrying. If he is exposed to a woman for a long period of time, that woman will have more time to show her good qualities other than looks. In that way the 5-6/10 that has time to show how good of a wife can be can win over the 10/10 that does not have that advantage.

[–]YetAnotherCommenterPurple Pill Man, Sexual Economics Theory1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Based on advice given by the red pill, a man who is a doctor or successful lawyer should have such a large selection of women going after him, that he will only date and marry the cream of the crop: an 18-24 year old playboy bunny look alike who is underweight and has big breasts.

Either you're misunderstanding TRP or you're greatly underestimating the reality of lookism.

Doctors and lawyers aren't necessarily "alpha." "Alpha" means sexually attractive to the average opposite-sex-attracted woman on a primal lustful hunger level. You can be very smart and even rich without being hot; Bill Gates isn't a sex symbol.

Not to mention, a lot of doctors and lawyers are "good husband material" (i.e. "beta bucks") but not sexually exciting. Why? Because sexual excitement is mostly a function of looks and superficial mannerisms for the vast majority of women.

The reality is that merely being socially functional... or even a pillar of respectable social institutions... doesn't make you hot. There's a big reason for the "girls want bad boys" trope... they're totally willing to fuck someone who's socially unproductive or even downright antisocial so long as that someone is hot. Hell, its arguable that there are evolutionary reasons for this; "hotness" is characteristics that were functional in tribal society, not in modern society.

Modern, advanced, technological and intellectual civilization is built on beta-ness in many ways, and tends to favor beta-ish traits. So doctors and lawyers are likely to be successful betas, not alphas.

[–]SilentLurker6661 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Sure they don't but there are such thing as "trophy wife"

[–]nevomintoarcePurple Pill Woman0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Isn't a trophy wife supposed to be at least 8/10 in looks?

[–]LillizsomdNo Pill1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I mean, it's still a little racist to act like young white, black, Hispanic, and Asian men aren't out fucking as many girls as possible too. That's kinda like saying you can't be racist because you have a black boyfriend or a black niece or something.

[–]Stevefr0mYellowstone1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

First and foremost, there are only so many "playboy bunnies" and "supermodels" around. Most doctors and lawyers don't have a chance with such women, they are pursuing professional athletes, actors, powerful CEOs, billionaires, and the like. The typical doctor/lawyer maybe in a higher status than 95% of the male population, but said women are seeking the top 1%.

Second, a doctor or lawyer probably could get a 8+ in the 18-24 age range, if he is fairly close to that in terms of looks himself. A man who is a 4 in looks isn't simply getting an 8 because he is a doctor or lawyer, unless she is using him as beta bucks or a sugar daddy. The concept that a doctor/lawyer could accomplish that by profession alone is rather delusional. And frankly a real red piller wouldn't be saying that. That is more of a blue pill concept. The true red piller would say that such a man should not simply be seeking to become a doctor/lawyer, but also working as hard as he can on his physical appearance to further increase his SMV.

A doctor/lawyer could pretty easily get 1-2 points above himself in the looks department, which you have mentioned several examples of.

[–]Willow-girlProud 2 B an American farmer2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Second, a doctor or lawyer probably could get a 8+ in the 18-24 age range,

So a dude with a Ph.D. is gonna be interested in an 18-year-old who just graduated from high school, for anything beyond a hookup? Color me skeptical.

[–]HawanjaAncient Deadly Ninja Baby1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

60K? Lol. Today I learned top models and gold diggers should be going after me.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Most doctors don't want to marry a 19 year old. She might be a fun fling but that's about it.

Marriage is both out of love AND ALSO a business contract. Would you sign over 50% of your valuation over to another human being on the SINGLE BASIS of them being hot and good at sex?

[–]MGTOWtoday2 points3 points  (14 children) | Copy Link

Women are hypergamous. Men are not. Women always fuck up. Men will fuck sideways or down.

[–]boundarychimpsALL THE COLORS1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Women always fuck up.

Um.

[–]poppy_blublack midget wine mom 🍷4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I thought the "sideways" reference was even funnier.

[–]TheSuperStink 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy Link

My fiancΓ©e makes more than me. One of my coworkers (a pharmacist and a woman) is married to a coal miner.

[–]MGTOWtoday2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It’s rare, but that occasionally happens. Typically, women will only take a man that makes less than her if her SMV is particularly low and his is appreciably higher than hers.

[–]GradualDecomp1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Pretty much all women marry within their general income bracket and education level

[–]MGTOWtoday2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Bullshit. No one who’s familiar with the science on this could say such a thing. I just looked this up a couple weeks ago. 80% of married women in the UK married a man who makes considerably more money than she does.

[–]TheMarbleSlab[S] 0 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy Link

Who is the inferior one?

[–]ObeyTheCowGod1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Define inferior.

[–]TheMarbleSlab[S] -1 points0 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Lower SMV

[–]ObeyTheCowGod1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

What was the question again?

[–]TheMarbleSlab[S] -1 points0 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

You can’t be bothered to scroll up. You’re obviously dodging the question.

[–]ObeyTheCowGod0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

I'm just trying to express to you my ambivalence to the question. That isn't a dodge. I am trying to express to you that I don't care and you shouldn't either. This doesn't effect you. If you are a man who needs a model hot woman in your life then you make sure you have a model hot woman in your life. Some male doctors need a high SMV woman and some male doctors need a high RMV woman. In other news a dog chased a cat today.

[–]TheMarbleSlab[S] -1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

So stop replying if you don’t care.

[–]ObeyTheCowGod2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Whoooooosh.

[–]boundarychimpsALL THE COLORS1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

only date and marry the cream of the crop: an 18-24 year old playboy bunny look alike who is underweight and has big breasts.

Some of us aren't into kids or the whole "underweight" look.

In fact, I was told that in order to find a man who makes more than $60k, I need to be a top model and I am a gold digger. These men are making WAY MORE than $60k.

That sounds like a hint that your other qualities are a bit lacking.

[–]OmarsDamnSpoon0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

It's because they can. Higher sociao-economic status opens higher socio-economic access. If you could have better, wouldn't you take it?

[–]The3liGator0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

1- Looks play a role

2-$60k isn't that much. The super model probably makes more

3-Men are romantics, women are not. The doctor loves the women and marries them. The woman cannot branch swing further up, so she settles.

[–]despisedlove2Reality Pill Tradcon RP0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Most nerds don't move in the same circles as supermodels. Further, they are too busy to put up with the high maintenance way of a model.

[–]Pope_LuciousSeparating the wheat from the hoes0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Because marriage and sexual selection are two different things

[–]KazROFL0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Rates of marriage are down, way down, the people that actually get married tend to make a good decision, but as a % of the population this is falling.

The 6/10 surgeon I know married a 7/10 woman in an arranged marriage.

You're making far reaching claims based on your awful anecdotes from isolated unusual cases?

[–]gopher_glitz0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Probably because they're just fucking them on the side.

-half Muslim....?

[–]SpyMonkey3DHumans are just smart techno-monkeys.0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

(my family is half Muslim so I am not being racist.)

Lol, nice

[–]TheBookOfSeilAn ounce of Snu Snu is worth a pound of cure0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Why are the doctors and lawyers I know not married to 19 year old supermodels

Ummmm.... do they have to be?...

Also, keywords: β€œ....doctors and lawyers I know...” Unless you know a significant portion of doctors and lawyers in both fields, citing your small social circle isn’t relevant information.

[–]DaphneDK42King of LBFMs0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

They meet their coming wife while they're studying. Thus she is of the same age, average looking, etc. If they divorce, he'll typically marry a considerable younger and prettier second wife. Meaning that if you're a woman and want a good husband, you should either 1) find him early and bank on him succeeding, 2) be super pretty, and get him after he's succesful and on the second marriage path.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

cause some people care about a personality more than a trophy or married before the success.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

R selection and k selection are different.

Rappers and drug dealers are r selected and certainly date up in looks.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Just because a man is lawyer or doctor doesn't mean he is red pilled and has options. A mere status is not enough. Just like looks is not enough. You are barking at wrong tree.

[–]HostileErectile0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

In the red pill mindset marriage it itself is a beta move. So your whole premise is wrong. A high standing male would never marry because the game it rigged.

A high standing male will have sex and fuck around with 20 year olds. But he won't be serious about them.

[–]abaxeron✴️Indian Programmer0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

why are the doctors And lawyers I know not married to 19 year old supermodels, and instead are married to normal women?

"If there's no god, why do I hear the voices?! Checkmate, atheists!"

[–]maljo240 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Normal women are wonderful.

[–]ScootsScoots-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The point is they could have the playboy bunny type if they wanted to. Nobody ever said all successful men WILL lock down one of these types.

This post comes across bitter as hell btw.

[–]equanimous_samsarasyrup of ipecac-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Based on advice given by the red pill, a man who is a doctor or successful lawyer should have such a large selection of women going after him, that he will only date and marry the cream of the crop: an 18-24 year old playboy bunny look alike who is underweight and has big breasts.

ok TRP, I want to feel right about something today, so here is an outlandish claim that you never made but I'll accuse you of it anyway.

I know 3, count'em THREE people who prove this completely fabricated claim wrong. Everybody knows that the people I personally know determines the ultimate truth about the world.

Now, I will concede to some exceptions, but I will use these exceptions to also support my case.

The proof is in the pudding TRP good luck trying to get yourself out of this one!

Posts like this are such a joke, it's like 4th grade level debate I'm amazed at how not only tolerated but taken seriously in a debate sub, and awarded 68 upvotes.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Bravo. Slow clap.

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