I'm pretty sure if you check the Billboard 200 or whatever, the rap songs with misogynist lyrics are vastly outnumbered by those that aren't or those that have nothing to do with men discussing women.

Secondly, a quick internet search reveals that there is plenty of criticism of misogyny in rap (and in other genres, but frankly, hair metal doesn't have the same cache it once did).

Third girls who seem to like misogynist rap music are not the same ones who will criticize it. By "school" the OP could mean girls anywhere from 14 to 22 years old. Younger girls are much less easily offended but tend to get more outrage as they get older, more "educated" and further infected with feminism.

There is also an ethnic aspect. My high school was pretty ghetto but I was more new wave than rap. Still I listened to Sugarhill Gang, Schooly D and a few others. *Nasty As They Wanna Be* didn't come out until I was in college so it remains to be seen how popular it would have been with teenagers. It never got play at any public event in college and if someone even dared to play it on campus at my white bread west coast law school, all hell would have broken loose.

Next, it is basically a uninversal law that women date jerks. Musicians with talent to show off attract women, regardless of jerkdom. Rap artists, regardless of lyrical content if they otherwise have talent and some charisma, get a pass on a lot. I fronted a rock band in my last year of high school and that halo effect went to my head: I became a real jerk, and largely got a pass on it. Of course, I wasn't singing anything more misogynistic than *Flesh for Fantasy*.

Carry this over into TRP and most are not nerds, they are AFCs. There is a large segment of teenage incels who seem to think - unrealistically - that at 16 they should be boning the cheerleader squad. Or at 18 still complaining about not getting laid at all when that is really not so uncommon. There are the college boys, the 20-something working guys, the 30 and 40 something divorcees and otherwise a wide spectrum of ages that aren't getting laid as much as they would like to or have been raked over the coals by one or more women.

TRP gets called out for being misogynist and hateful (Southern Poverty Law Center likened it to neonazi groups at one point). Some of that is justified based on a limited number of posters and various isolated posts. However, a lot of what is called "misogyny" is simply observations, theories, techniques and examples that are inconvenient and uncomfortable for those on the outside, but effective for those members who learn them.