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DISCUSSION"I know" (self.RedPillWomen)

submitted by PumpkinSubEndorsed Contributor

My boyfriend recently pointed out to me that I tend to respond with, "I know" in our general conversations. This got me thinking about a better way to communicate. It starts with recognizing when I am about to say, "I know" in response and replace it with, "You're right". It's kinder, less dismissive, and still true! The biggest challenge will be to actually stop myself fast enough from responding so quickly to change my language but half the battle is recognizing the bad behavior. It's small peanuts but it was a fun realization to come to. Maybe this is helpful to someone else.


[–]throwaway_holla27 points28 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I know.

[–]teenMom8614 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

"I agree."

"I'm with you there"

"I've always thought that was fascinating."

[–]Xtinamina3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is one of my biggest problems!!

[–]tempintheeastbayEndorsed Contributor3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Super easy but amazing tip!! Going to start implementing this ASAP. Also a good tip for the workplace.

[–]mrsdazed2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank you for pointing this out

[–]RainbowKitty770 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I just realized I do this often. I also often say I didn't know that tho.

[–]HB32342 Stars0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Without background as to what kind of things you are replying to in this way, I'm so curious about your conversations! Is "I know" your personal filler for "mhm" type affirmations? Is he saying things which you really do already know and don't need to be told? Is he being condescending? Is he a boring conversationalist? Does he retell the same stories? Do you have an encyclopedic knowledge of the world? So many questions.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Great point! I think this is a good idea to use with all people, not just one's SO.

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