I really think you're suffering from confirmation bias with this whole woman thing. Also, to direct it back to your original comment I replied to

That is what I think of everyone who think I suffer from confirmation bias. It is difficult to tell who is right and who is wrong.

You think I consider every women to be like crazy feminists, I think everyone spread the point of view of their own gender, except men who often do spread female POV. This is why I see the society as mainly female oriented.

In the end this is about understanding the nuances. You think I consider that all women spread words such as "all men should die" or other obvious things. But it's not obvious. It is an accumulation, like cold approach, they aren't a problem if it's an isolate case, it becomes one when you're constantly being cold approached. Well, how I see thing is basically an accumulation of messages such as "this should change for women's sake" and "men should adapt if they're struggling".

I don't think people are shitty or batshit if they think differently than me.

I hope this isn't the impression I gave you. If it's the case, then I'm sorry. But generally that is the treatment I am given. People do not apply logic, people apply feelings, my logic doesn't check with their feelings, they brush my point of view off and label it deviant and irrelevant.

Everything in your comments we've exchanged seems to suggest that the WORLD needs to change to accommodate YOUR views in order for you to be happy.

Let's define me as monoromantic polysexual. At 20 I was fairly convinced I was a deviant and I had to hide myself. But as I grew old, I asked several men, and even the least sexual all eventually showed me they work just like that. Lot of men are not polysexual by choice or by constraint, but by human nature they are completely polysexual. You can still claim this is a confirmation bias, but you can't deny that, if NAMALT, then Enough Men Are Like That anyway, you have proof everywhere.

Man, there's SO MANY ways of looking at the world's problems, why are you choosing to focus on the ones that make you feel shitty?

You're thinking my life is my comments on reddit. That's not the case.

What gives you the authoritative right to decide ALL WOMEN EVERYWHERE are just shitty people and they should be required to change their ways? Most folks of every variety are just tryin' to get by.

My comments were about toxic masculinity, which is spread by everyone. So I don't know why you say that.

You seem to assume all women think all men are rapists or that all women are rabid feminists or all women are on some hell-bent crusade to believe men should suffer.

I have a more varied view on how women think. The best I've seen are women on PPD who understand how men work and what they have to go through. But even though they're very open minded and have seen lot of different points of views, they still hardly understand from where most incels/socially inapt men come from. Most women here still do think men live in the "rapist/pushy" extrema of sexual behaviour, and see TRP as potentially making it worst.

The two extrema of men's sexual behaviour is "extremely open" to "extremely closed", the goal is to be in the middle. The extremely closed feels like totally unknown, and people who never lived it do not understand what are the causes of such behaviour. These extremely closed men need TRP.

Apex fallacy on men is still very common in here. So, just imagine what it looks like outside where people are less open minded, more psycho rigid.

I know everything looks like my word vs their word. I can't help myself to be confident about what I see, everything showed myself in other domains that I have better perception than others, and that I spend more time watching and thinking than others. I don't think I'm lacking empathy that much because I can understand most feelings of the other gender, while every woman I talk to seems unable to relate to any of mines. I've been raised by women, I've seen them, I've been told to act like them, to think like them. I've been a friendless, a friendzoned, an orbiter, an incel, a try hard, a seductor, a boyfriend, an husband, a complete jerk, a submissive nice person. I've learned to get into women's skin to understand what was wrong with me. I've been in most men's skin and can relate to most men's feelings. How can I believe I have a bias, when other women do not show any hint of understanding for men and do not have any incentive to understand them, to change, or anything? Most of what women serve me is always "women are perfect, men have to adapt" kind of agenda. I'm not talking about women who are mean, who are feminazi, I'm talking about normal women who act like men owe them.

But how would you know yourself? You don't notice these things, they seem normal to you.

Now, sure, I don't know you, maybe you're a very reasonable person. And if you are then I would appreciate to talk more with you. Maybe you'll challenge my view (yes it happens), but sometimes there needs to be more details for that.