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I’ve been practicing TRP for about 6 years now.

Husband just posted this to his Instagram story.

Never in it for the perks but they are such a nice surprise bonus!!

Hope this encourages someone - it’s not always easy to live the TRP lifestyle but the intimacy IS always worth it!!

Love you all!!! Xoxo


[–]teaandtalk5 Stars50 points51 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

I'm glad it's making you happy! Personally, I feel that the RP lifestyle is 'worth it' even when I don't get given expensive shopping trips ;) PS: put your phone down, Bambi, you're out with your husband! :)

[–]bambiliftsweights[S] 9 points10 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

HAHAHAHHAHA that’s his biggest complaint - I’m soooo addicted to my phone and I’m trying to work on it! Maybe I’ll start leaving it at home when I go out wit him!!!

[–]scallopkidEndorsed Contributor9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yes leave it at home! I have this same problem. I've moved the charger from my night stand to the kitchen so that I don't use my phone before bed or first thing in the morning anymore and I've deleted apps that I spend too much time on or don't add value to my life. If you have an iPhone, check out the app Feedless if you use Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram a lot (I haven't used it because they don't have it for Android sadly). I also put my phone in another room for dinner and when my boyfriend and I are watching a movie together, and often don't take it with me when we're out together.

[–]bambiliftsweights[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I love the idea of keeping my phone in the other room, it’d prompt me to read so much more!! Great tips, thank you so much!!!

[–]organicsunshine0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

AttaGirl!

[–]cocovioletta11 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Ooh girl, I peep that Lululemon. 😎

Just a small anecdote: the only kind of shopping my SO genuinely delights in being dragged to are yoga pants, swimsuits, and lingerie. Go figure!

[–]bambiliftsweights[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Hahahahaha yeah and I’m sure he has an opinion on all of them, am I right?? 😘😄🤗😉

[–]LawyerInTheMaking18 points19 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Damn, can your husband spoil me too? Lol jk, good for you. Keep doing what you’ve been doing and I’m sure you’ll get more days like that.

[–]bambiliftsweights[S] 7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I’m sure he would, lol, he’s a great guy! And honestly, it’s not about the material things for me, I love the intimacy and feeling like he thinks I’m worthy of having nice things, if that makes sense?

[–]LawyerInTheMaking1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol it does. I think I remember gift giving be a love language thing (I’m not 100% sure on this) so as long as it’s not a simple “I want this, you have money, buy me it because I want it” type thing then it’s fine

[–][deleted] 18 points19 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

Hmm. Lotta people making nasty assumptions. 😕

I don't think there's anything wrong with a man being proud to show off / give things to his woman. It's not automatically "beta" to buy things for, or provide for, a woman. My fiance loves giving me birthday presents, Christmas presents, or having a chance to tell me go spend on myself. It gives him pride to see me happy and cared for. And there's nothing beta about him.

Being a good woman can inspire a man to be a good provider. Basic rule of The Surrendered Wife! Be proud. <3

[–]ragnarockette4 Stars14 points15 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I also think it is a love language thing. Some people love to give and receive gifts. Others have different ways of showing their love.

[–]bambiliftsweights[S] 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

My love language is receiving gifts!!

[–]ragnarockette4 Stars9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Me too! My husband is physical touch. He’s like “let’s cuddle!” and I’m like “where are my diamonds?!”

[–]bambiliftsweights[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Hahahhaha!

[–]bambiliftsweights[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I think I missed all the mean stuff, the moderators are doing a great job!!!

I don’t think it’s beta actually, I didn’t ask for it and it was completely his idea.

I think he actually feels quite masculine being able to buy me nice things - we haven’t always had that kind of money so it was a milestone for both of us!!

Thank you for your kind comment, Pixie!!! I totally agree, it’s about alpha guys loving to give. Thanks for commenting!! 💋

[–]MarcBago 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy Link

RP men do not make validation-seeking Instagram posts. Focus.

[–]pearlsandstilettosModerator | Pearl[M] 8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

RP women do not necessarily seek out RP men. Additionally, this is a sub for women's discussions. Let this go.

[–]Rivkariver2 Star3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Don’t forget to thank him for going with you while you picked things out! Guys show patience of Saints during that 😂

PS what are the brown and red bags?

[–]bambiliftsweights[S] 4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Such good advice!! He was sooo patient - I always feel so bad!!

And the red bag is Kate Spade, the brown bag is Billabong, I think.

Such a lucky girl!! 🙈

[–]Rivkariver2 Star1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Noice!!

Last week he went with me to buy stilettos, at home I realized they were too small, took me back again to return...I feel blessed 😇 nothing wrong with letting him spoil you if he wants!

PS don’t feel bad I usually make a lighthearted joke if he’s shopping with me about his patience and try not to be too long.

[–]canyousmellechidna12 points13 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Awesome!! I hope I one day have a man that’ll take me shopping!!

I have a bunch of jewelry, given to me by my mom, that my dad bought for her. I gotta wait for a guy like this lol.

Btw you’re so small and cute! I don’t feel so bad for having a thigh gap now.

[–]bambiliftsweights[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I am super tiny, hahah! Don’t feel bad for having a thigh gap, I’m sure you’re gorgeous!

And yeah, thicc girls are totally in now but I think all women are beautiful. Truly.

[–]wertyqq 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy Link

Good job on locking down some beta bux, your phone is more important even after he has "spoiled" you, funny how little women respect beta bucks even after they throw money at you

[–]pearlsandstilettosModerator | Pearl[M] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Be polite or be quiet.

[–]fairydust911 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Is that you?? Damn girl!!

[–]bambiliftsweights[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, thank you!

[–]bloobird08 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy Link

That’s great, but the date is from weeks ago 🤔

[–]bambiliftsweights[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes! I have had this post typed out and just got a chance to post it last night! Not sure how it affects the main point of the post, though?

[–]LuckyLittleStarModerator | Lil'Star[M] 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

Irrelevant.

[–]bloobird081 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Ok but she put “just posted”, as if it was very recent, so you have to see why it raises an eyebrow to some? It’s an Instagram story post, they expire within 24 hours, so it does seem a bit odd.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Maybe she screenshot it

[–]bambiliftsweights[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I did screenshot it, lol. I was on my honeymoon when it happened and didn’t get a chance to actually post it until I got home.

[–]likeaprometheancurse1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Why does it matter?

[–]bloobird080 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

It comes off like a lie which makes catfishing more likely. I guess it doesn’t matter, it’s just.. disingenuous if it’s not her and she’s just posting some random’s insta story.

[–]lol_throwaway3030 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

That’s so sweet!

[–]PumpkinSubEndorsed Contributor0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thats awesome! Its such an amazing feeling when your man goes out of his way to make you feel special.

[–]msslav 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy Link

Amazing, that's so great to see!

Also, off-topic but I LOVE your hair, you seem to have a fairly similar type to mine, I'd love to know more about your routine.

[–]MarcBago 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy Link

Her hair looks dirty and damaged to be frank.

[–]pearlsandstilettosModerator | Pearl[M] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Do not insult the community and it's members.

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