Cold approach is a necessary skill to have if you are going to be spinning plates. So here's how I do my cold approach. I've always done day game so this applies to day game.
You have to start with your body language. Men notice a girls waist first then it's up to the chest. Women notice your body language. To achieve good body language first off don't be fat. That shit will bring you down. Girls will notice if you are proud of your body. Stand up tall, shoulders back, head up, making eye contact with everyone. Walk with your abs tight and deep breaths. The pace of your breathing controls the pace of your mind. Stable breathing = stable mind.
Commanding presence is an amazing thing that everyone should learn. Here's a video:
This is how you treat everyone. Also there are classes you can take to learn this.
As you walk around make eye contact with everyone. If anyone holds your eye contact move to a statement about them. This elicits the best response. Scan them with your eyes, as you do to everyone to maintain your presence, and just say something. "Your purse would look better with a peace sign." "Your shoes are way too colorful." "You need to sew up that rip in your shirt."
These are just random examples that apply to most people. Don't focus just on what they are wearing, though. Sometimes use shit about where you are at. At university say "rough test. I'm sure you passed though" at the end of the semesters. At a salon"what are you going to do with your degree?" Girls think that hair styling school is the same as a BS.
The things you say should include assumptions or commands, ("You look like your brother." or "You should always wear a dress.") though. The level of thought to respond to these things is higher so when people respond they are immediately more invested into the conversation. When they don't respond you smile, continue to make eye contact, and be happy that you brightened someone's day. Give them a nod and on to the next person.
When I started I had a simple routine. This was a long time ago. I was at university and had no game. Nothing. One girl asked me out because I lifted and had a no fucks attitude and I was with her for two years in a horror of an LTR. She got fat. Ugh. I ended up seeing a red pill therapist for omega behavior and, by luck of the draw, this guy didn't talk to me about my feelings or ask me about how my mommy beat me with a stick. He asked me what I wanted in life. I told him girls. He said he was going to cease our "therapy" if I did not ask one girl out that week. At random. Period. Red pill as fuck and I miss that guy.
I did. I walked up to some girl and said, "those are colorful shoes." She said some shit back and I said, "come to lunch with me."
The end. She laughed in my face and said, "with you?" This girl was slightly chubby as well. I'd rate her a 4. I was devastated. I drove home all sad and got drunk that night. It was my first cold approach.
I met with my RP therapist. He told me how awesome it was that I did what I did and we talked for an hour about how this next week I was getting a date. I was going to do the exact same thing. Only this time to girl after girl after girl. Because honestly who gives a shit that the chubby dumpy girl laughed at you? She is at home right now texting every girl she knows and then dropping in that a guy, you, asked her to lunch. And she's fucking ecstatic. You just only see her laughing at you. Inside she is always excited. Every girl you cold approach is giddy as fuck on the inside no matter what she looks like outside.
So the next week I said something about some girls shoes and then said, "come get lunch with me." She looked down, all nervous, and said "uh no I'm busy." I probably said something like, "oh", and got all sad. But I was over it the next day. That day I did the same shit to another girl. She told me some crap about how she was raised in army camps and scowled at me. Ok. Have a nice day.
The next day I did this again. The cutest girl yet. Short, thin, punk blonde hair. "I'd love to get lunch with you." Met her at some vegan place. Was happy to see her order a salad. She told me about what a massive slut she was and shocked my blue ears. So be prepared for this because all girls are sluts, whether you like it or not. The goal is to make them your slut.
I was shocked and went full retard during lunch. You learn everything in steps though. Fail your way to success.
I went back to my RP therapist and the dude was high fiving me. It was awesome. Bam. Now I had a date a week with a hot girl. Just by saying, "come to lunch with me." over and over.
Ok back to tips. You're building your commanding presence. You are always aware of what is going on around you because you are standing tall and making eye contact with everyone. If you feel like it you take a look at their gear. Girl with bracelets? Say something about them. Big rings? She is begging you to say something about them. Why the fuck do you think she's wearing them?
Cold approach is a skill though. It's really the same as lifting. You have to devote time to it to get any good. You can't watch a video on how to properly deadlift over and over and then walk into a gym and deadlift 400 pounds. You have to train your body to lift. You have to train your ego to cold approach.
Here is how you maintain outcome independence when you are running day game and the cold approach.
Go somewhere where there are a good amount of girls. Maybe this is between class, maybe this is when you go shopping, maybe when you are buying coffee, or whatever. Then start making eye contact with everyone. Just do this all the time. Not just girls. Not just girls with hot bodies. In fact don't look at their bodies at first. Look everyone in the eyes.
Smile and nod. Open everyone. Everyone. Guys, girls, any age, any person, you can talk to everyone. It gets to be pretty fun actually. Once I started deliberately running day game I opened everyone. So approaching just becomes a fun thing to do to find out shit about people. Then if you do this to a girl, you evaluate her person, notice she's got a fuckable body, and bam, "come get lunch with me."
Hell you can say this to girls who are literally sitting and eating lunch in front of you. "come get lunch with me." And it will work at exactly the same rate as anywhere. She'll still go out with you.
Also you come to realize that you get exactly the same acceptance rate with the hottest girls as you do with the ugliest you bother to ask. Chubby ugly girls will say no. Sometimes they'll say yes. Hot thin girls will say no. Sometimes they'll say yes. The reasons they say no or yes are not going to be apparent and they honestly do not matter. Always remember how fucking excited this girl truly is, while you make eye contact, and see in her eyes that no matter what nonsense she says inside she's excited. Then nod and move on.
Cold approach is far superior to online dating as well. Online I was able to get girls between 25 and 39 who were 4-8's. In person I can get girls between 19 - 25 who are 5-9's. And in person girls have less entitlement. They really don't have 10 guys a day cold approaching them. More like one guy a month. It's much easier to stand out. They are thinking about the dude who cold approached them a hundred times more then anyone from the deluge of online dating.
And do remember that at the end of the day hot girls who get cold approached by fat douchy guys still go home and tell everyone about it, super excited. They love that you approached them. Even though they will hide it behind some bitchiness.
Doing cold approaches where you open everyone you can make friends, business contacts, wise people will give you advice, and you will just have a great time talking to all kinds of people. And you'll just start to do this all the time. And then you always end up the center of any party or gathering because you've got the presence and you are cold approaching every fucking person. So they all know you.
And after you get through rejection fifty you just don't fucking care anymore. You've had fatties reject you, hotties reject you, mousy girls, punk girls, but at the same time all kinds of random girls say yes. With a few hours a week you can get fifty dates a year. With fifty dates in a year you can easily pull in some FWB things. Get some plates spinning.
Go forth and spin some plates. Then be prepared to be sad because all girls really are sluts and they are mostly the same. AWALT is true.