MetaColumbia (feminist) professor arrested for assaulting boyfriend. Why? Allegedly, he cheated on her. (self.TheRedPill)

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"[Professor] Baney is a staunch defender of women's rights and an outspoken critic against domestic violence."

Of course she is, of course she is...The article goes on to say she is asserting her innocence, and when all the facts come out blah blah blah.

Now, maybe she is completely innocent. Maybe the police report has it totally wrong. But the reversal of gender is simply too perfect for the NY Daily News to let it go. The reporter almost savors--no, the reported does savor--the irony of a feminist Ivy League professor (albeit adjunct) being charged with domestic violence. Against a retired cop. For supposed sexual infidelity.

And to be fair, there is a lot to savor in that. A lot.

[–]2comment 124 points125 points  (4 children)

Are 88 students now going to take out a full page ad against her and the violence against men?

[–]1ubiety 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It would be sweet irony if Baney's fellow woman studies professors came out against her - but that requires a rush to judgment, an angry mob of clueless supporters, and a sensationalized media campaign to fuel the fire, they're professors! They wouldn't purposely spin a personal agenda or force the story to fit their narrative! /s

[–]pl231 36 points36 points [recovered]

white nights and rationality don't go together too well

[–]chill1995 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Don't listen to what they say, watch what they do.

[–]GASTON_TONNERRECOQ 138 points138 points [recovered]

Baney was accused of slugging Walter Frey, 46, while he slept inside her Upper West Side apartment about 10:45 p.m., court records show.


Top Comment:

I'll give her a pass on this one. Being cheated on is a terrible thing and her response, alhough over the top, was appropriate.

[–]cdnz0mbie 95 points96 points  (38 children)

The late Walter Frey, this is payback for the red wedding!

[–]GASTON_TONNERRECOQ 54 points54 points [recovered]

the real reason trp says never get married.

[–]Hitlers_Boss 35 points36 points  (36 children)

The red wedding happened because the stupid stark decided not to marry freys daughter. Soooo GoT teaches us that, if a noble warlord asks you to marry his daughter, you fuck his daughter and marry that wench for the kingdom.

[–]DAE_FAP 44 points45 points  (32 children)

Right? I mean, a king can always have some sluts on the side if he doesn't like his wife.

[–]dan_legend 3 points4 points  (29 children)

I believe Frey even said as much himself. Or at least referenced Ed Stark doing as much... even though thats alleged since Ed was too blue pill to do that.

[–]itsmehobnob 8 points9 points  (22 children)

If Ned stark was blue pill I want to be blue pill.

[–]dan_legend 13 points14 points  (3 children)

I mean the consensus is that "Ned Stark was doubtlessly a good and honorable man, but was too honorable (to the point of naivety) to play the game of thrones, and thus was defeated because of the lack of his political skills." But I suppose that is debatable.

[–]AcrossHallowedGround 9 points10 points  (0 children)

IMO That's the whole point of his character arc. You can be be a good person and you will be loved and remembered, but you won't make it to the top, or if you do you will be usurped by those that aren't as honorable as you.

[–]sweetgene05 1 points1 points [recovered]

well, Ned likely banged out a princess from Dorne

who is Jon Snow's mamma....???

[–]lalicat 5 points5 points [recovered]

He was blue pill as fuck because he was playing by women's rules of chivalry and whatnot. There's nothing wrong with being staunch and honorable as long as you're not being a white knight.

[–]cariboo_j 0 points1 point  (15 children)

Actually who's NOT blue pill in GoT?

[–]Corndog_Enthusiast 2 points3 points  (12 children)

I'd say Tywin Lannister and Yoren were pretty damn RP.

[–]Greenmonster71 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ned stark was not blue pill. You live or you die when you play the game of thrones.

[–]Corndog_Enthusiast 0 points1 point  (5 children)

He wasn't blue pill; he was RP as fuck. He was a man who took his wedding values seriously; he said what he meant, and he meant what he said. RP =/= banging a shit ton of chicks while you're married. That's just called cheating.

[–]FatStig -2 points-2 points [recovered]

WTF are you smoking? Kings kept harems.

[–]Corndog_Enthusiast 1 point2 points  (3 children)

If you're talking about in the book, not all royalty had an alpha personality. Look at Joff, he's the epitome of an omega.

[–]FatStig 1 points1 points [recovered]

Reality. Fantasy has no place in this discussion.

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[–]Pushnikov 41 points42 points  (8 children)

How can "over the top" be in the same sentence as "appropriate" and enforce each other?

That's rhetorical.

[–]Gierfarmer 11 points12 points  (6 children)

Do you mean contradictory? Or do I really not understand rhetorics.

[–]Pushnikov 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"and not contradict each other" would be the way I would've phrased it with that word.

[–]DAE_FAP 0 points1 point  (4 children)

It's Contradictory, but we know what he meant. Rhetoric is an appeal to emotions rather than reason.

Edit: I am wrong

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (3 children)

No. Rhetoric is point-making. When someone says something is rhetorical, they mean they're using it to make a point.

[–]DAE_FAP 0 points1 point  (2 children)

That's a rhetorical question. Rhetoric is pervasive speech, usually by appealing to one's emotions.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I think you're conflating rhetoric with the "appeal to emotion" fallacy.

[–]Stand_Your_Ground_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She needed to assault him, but just a little bit.

[–][deleted] 14 points15 points  (9 children)

Damn I can't imagine getting punched while asleep. I'd probably strangle the nearest person.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (7 children)

I had a girl do this to me once. I was very very angry.

[–]ilovemyself101 3 points4 points  (6 children)

Where did you bury the body?

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (5 children)

It was my girlfriend's sister and I was out of town with her family at her family reunion. I also thought it was someone else at the moment of it happening. I woke up on the couch to a slap to the face and when I opened my eyes her other sister was really close to me. I must have looked really pissed because my gf and her sister explained really quickly that it wasn't either of them.

So apparently the other sister thought it was cool to walk past me on the couch, slap me in the face, and keep walking as if nothing had happened for no discernable reason. It was one of those rare moments where I felt actual burning anger instead of a dull annoyance at something someone did. I didn't get the chance to see her or say anything until I was already composed, so I just let it go. We were on our way out anyway, so I'd really only have been stirring up shit.

[–]GASTON_TONNERRECOQ 8 points8 points [recovered]

Well played, sir. The wrong move would have been to ask, "how can she slap?"


[–]tk421awol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never seen that one before, and I wish I could say I'm surprised, but really I'm just saddened. It kills me how so many idiots bow and scrape to feminist ideas and claims of equality, and then attack this guy for reacting to an attack with commensurate force. Yes, he hit the female. Why? SHE HIT HIM! There's no rules against hitting females. The idea comes from "never hit a lady." Does that "person" who slapped him look like a lady to you?

[–]1beerthroway 2 points3 points  (2 children)

Seriously, wtf? Good restraint on your part, because honestly as much as I'm a patient and tolerant person, if my girlfriend's sister slapped me while I was sleeping, I would've slapped the bitch right back.

Did you ever find out why she hamstered a reason to slap you?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

We were leaving and I assume that was her way of getting me up. Apparently that's just how she is; it's not an unheard of thing for her to do that kind of thing.

[–]1beerthroway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that's the way she is then she will get hers eventually. Just wait for that wall.

[–]Red_SoloCup 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I'm asleep, I fear punch if I get woken up by something aggressive. Immediate flight or fight, and fight is always default. I tell that to every woman I share a bed with, just to cover my ass because I WILL punch you if you wake me up aggressively (once I gave my brother a bloody nose before I was even fully awake, another time I had a buddy pinned against the wall before I knew what I was doing). It's kinda fucked up, actually.

I've never actually been punched in my sleep though, I have no idea what I'd do.

[–]Endorsed Contributorredpillbanana 31 points32 points  (0 children)


If he had died of his injuries, she probably would have gone to the funeral service, said, "Here's one for the road, dude," and punched his lifeless body in the coffin.

[–]krakosia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Similar to the comments on the thing yesterday on the girl chopping of the dick of her husband/boyfriend twice.

[–][deleted] 203 points204 points  (43 children)

FYI this is also the school where the false rape mattress girl resides.

[–][deleted] 20 points21 points  (3 children)

As soon as I read "Columbia (feminist)" in the title I said to myself "not another mattress girl!"

[–]Endorsed Contributorgekkozorz 9 points10 points  (2 children)

Feminist shitbaggery travels in packs. If there's a nutball feminist in one social circle, you can be sure there's a whole pack of them there, too.

A hugbox is the only way their horrible logic can survive.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (1 child)

lol "hugbox" I love it. Thanks for the new term.

[–]Endorsed Contributorgekkozorz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Got it from the /r/KotakuInAction community. SJWs are notorious for creating and maintaining atmospheres where absolutely everything they say, no matter how insane or irrational, gets treated with the utmost respect, while everything their enemies say gets shittalked into oblivion.

[–]SolarGorillaTortoise 21 points22 points  (8 children)

more info on this?

Actually I found this with some Googling: http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2015/02/03/columbia-student-i-didn-t-rape-her.html

I hadn't really been paying attention to that story

[–]Senior Contributorcocaine_face 37 points38 points  (7 children)

Wow, looking at the full accounting of the posts, it's so obvious she wants to get him to commit.

She even tells him she loves him - and all of that after the supposed, "rape".

There's just no way to spin things her way.

[–][deleted] 14 points15 points  (2 children)

There's just no way to spin things her way.

The power to use logic is insignificant next to the power of the Hamster.

[–]1ubiety 5 points6 points  (1 child)

New people may think this is a tongue-in-cheek response, but seriously, sophism and self justification for your own insane thinking is a power talk strategy used by women to reframe the conversation away from any wrong doing on their part, onto some poor sap who's stupid enough to buy into that women's fairy tale.

Look at her actions, look at the evidence. Women say a lot of things, but this doesn't make them true. Normal people do not cry rape then get a media circus to justify their actions. Columbia girl's actions are deranged, the evidence is damming.

[–]paynehouse -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Normal people do not cry rape then get a media circus to justify their actions.

Exactly. She didn't report the "rape" for a few months because she was embarrassed or whatever and when she finally reports it she is so open about the thing that she literally carries a mattress around with her. She changed her attitude pretty quickly.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (1 child)

Tell that to the feminists, who have doubled down in support of her. They're even supporting the Duke lacrosse sccusations.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don't forget UVA! they still assert they're both true, women could NEVER lie! perfect beings!!!

[–]2johnnight 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Wow, looking at the full accounting of the posts, it's so obvious she wants to get him to commit.

so it was the "no commitment" rape.

[–]Senior Contributorcocaine_face 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I've said before and I'll say again - good bedside manner is critical when sleeping with women. If you make her feel like crap, she'll feel you wronged her.

He didn't necessarily need to commit to her, but he certainly should have dealt with the situation better than he did.

[–]admirals_go_nuts 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh man i remember that. Many laughs were made

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (25 children)

I want to punch that piece of shit so hard in the face it's not even funny.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (23 children)

If it's any consolation she got pumped and dumped in the ass.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (22 children)

Which is good, but she slandered his reputation to a likely irreparable state, all while also boosting herself and her worthless major of visual performance by carrying around that mattress. She likely cried rape as a means to bolster support for her projects and threw him under the bus because she's too fucking ugly to make him commit to her. Female logic is plain disgusting

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lol. She was able to draw on her daddys resources. Wouldn't press charges but got a publicist.

[–]PlebDestroyer 1 point2 points  (19 children)

Can you give me a short rundown of what happened?

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (18 children)

Ugly chick with a major in visual arts attending Colombia University in NewYork. Meets some German student and they hook up a few times. The dude apparently tries anal on her one day, and then they go back to regular sex. The girl claims she was beaten up and raped on that night despite her Facebook messages to him 2 days after the alleged rape showing absolutely zero hint that she was raped or fearful or angry about him or what she claims to have happened. Quite the contrary, actually, as her messages showed she wanted to see him again soon and she even told him she loved him a few times before. This worthless sack of dogshit girl is clearly upset that the guy does not want to commit to her fugly ass, and used the false rape allegations as a way to give herself attention and boost her projects (as she is a visual performance major lol) and so she carries around the mattress she was allegedly raped on as a way to demonstrate against the school for not kicking the German dude out of the school. It is painfully obvious that this worthless trash girl is doing this as a way to make money and profit (as she has gained a pathetic form of fame in the feminist community) with her retarded major while also getting back at the German guy who couldn't look at her without downing a few brewskis beforehand.

[–]PlebDestroyer 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you.

Lmao. But damn, all of that at the expense of a german guy who just wanted to get a nut.

[–][deleted] 86 points87 points  (2 children)

"He was asking for it."

-equal rights feminist

[–][deleted] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Don't victim blame!

-Same person

[–]beeeel 10 points11 points  (0 children)

"fucking cishet scum should die"

-normal third waver.

[–][deleted] 26 points27 points  (1 child)

Will he start carrying a mattress too?

[–]Endorsed ContributorMentORPHEUS 11 points12 points  (0 children)

More like full taekwando training gear. That would make an excellent visual!

[–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil 26 points27 points  (1 child)

Lets take a step back for a minute and think about the kind of person who attacks someone in their sleep. This isn't a spur of the moment kind of thing. This isn't something perpetrated in a momentary lapse of judgment due to a heightened emotional state. To attack someone in their sleep is to plan, premeditate, brood and creep.

The same fucking cunt who makes a living planing domestic violence, sits around and plans it.

How do you explain this hypocrisy and why is such a common phenomenon?
Psychological Projection:

All of these moral crusaders, Anti Gay, Anti Porn, Anti Rape, Anti Domestic abuse have a side of their personality that they are deeply ashamed of.

There is a dark part of Joann Baney that takes delight in violence. Hitting her unsuspecting boyfriend in his sleep gave her a sick rush and she definitely enjoyed planing and doing it. While Joann enjoys perpetuating and thinking about violence, she is deeply ashamed of it. In order to protect her ego from her sick nature she takes her shame and projects it onto other people. She makes other people guilty of her sins so she can hate herself from a distance.

By crusading against domestic abuse Joann Baney gives herself an excuse to obsess over domestic violence with plausible deniability. Senator Larry Craig led a long hard crusade against homosexuals and ended up with a dick in his mouth. I guarantee alot of these SJW Blue Pill FemQueers who rail against TRP have a Tumblr full of bondage porn.

Remember this post because this behavior is very common and your going to be seeing a lot of it.

[–]1cover20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By committing attempted murder, Ms. Baney should be writing about domestic violence from a women's penitentiary.

[–]quieroser 27 points28 points  (0 children)

WHILE HE WAS ASLEEP. I can't get past this one

[–]putsch80 71 points72 points  (4 children)

"You fucking shitlord! She only hit him because the oppressive patriarchy has raped her mind and forcibly inseminated it with violence! She's the real victim in all of this, and how dare you try to shame and blame the victim. I hope her boyfriend ends up in jail for making her do this to him."

[–][deleted] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Delusion at its finest. IMO people who make comments like that are dealing with a serious mental illness.

[–]loveofnotes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did somebody in the original thread ACTUALLY say this? There's no way somebody actually said this... It's just so perfect. I want to meet the writer of this comment and fuck her to death

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

inseminate with violence. Lawl.

[–]1cover20 32 points33 points  (2 children)

Premeditated. Cuts on his neck (and ear).

Seems like a felony was committed.

The "hair trigger" from the University source seems like a psyop. She didn't react from hair trigger temper. She acted with premeditation, probably with a knife or other sharp object. She may have been trying to kill him.

A man would spend some years in jail. She should too.

[–]beeeel 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She should certainly lose her job, and reputation.

[–]Tarnsman4Life 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pulling out my magic 8 ball and I say she pleads down to something like simple assault, no jail time, 1 year probation. You or I? We'd be charged with attempted murder and be wearing the orange jumpsuits.

[–]Merwebb 48 points49 points  (5 children)

I understand that in the US a man is looked at suspiciously if standing alone near a children's playground. Arent female nurses stealing kids from hospitals and selling them?

Equality is needed. Yeah.

[–][deleted] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Im a Beach lifeguard on the weekends, Every now and then I get some nosy 40-something woman come up to me and go "lifeguard there is a MAN perving on CHILDREN!!!"

Every single time they have been full of shit, it is almost always simply and old guy standing on the beach or sitting in a beach chair reading his book, they want me to bust his ass simply for being there...

Grade A cunts.

[–]speed3_freak 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I get your point, and that's not why I'm saying this, but that has been a pretty big problem in the past (not necessarily the selling part). OB areas in hospitals are extremely locked down, each baby has a bracelet linked to the alarm system, you have to have special permission to be in there, and we do "code pink" drills to make sure if someone, somehow gets off the wing that we can shut the hospital down to keep someone from taking a baby. This is on top of all of the other security that a hospital has.

[–]nineteenseventy -1 points0 points  (2 children)

woah really? that's horrible. Is this a recent thing?

[–]Merwebb 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Woman being nurses and kids dissapearing from hospitals has always happened. There was some crazy shit in the 50's in spain iirc where babies were sold a lot. Im just trying to set a point, while being a tad sarcastic

[–]nineteenseventy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i heard it was done in India among the poor, they would steal and drug the kids so they wouldn't cry and then go beg for money using the kid. Sad world.

[–]basilwhite 14 points15 points  (0 children)

But why would Mr. Baney look outside that relationship for intimacy?

[–]SQQQ 23 points24 points  (2 children)

someone should interview her on her views about domestic violence.

this is gold!

[–]grimreaperx2 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That would be the most amazing interview ever.

[–]1nzgs[🍰] 9 points10 points  (1 child)

This guy is lucky not to have woken up to penis detachment by scissors. Never put your dick in crazy.

[–]1cover20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The knife cuts weren't on his dick. They were on his NECK.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Step 1: Don't date feminists

[–]1User-31f64a4e 6 points7 points  (1 child)

Moral of this story:

If you are male and want protection from domestic violence, you need to be a cop, ex-cop, or somehow be buds with all the cops where you live.

[–]fortyfourmag 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I do not trust the police or a feminist ideologue. just grab some popcorn and watch.

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[–][deleted] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It was best he didn't. Even if she hit him first, him hitting her back, he would lose all advantages in the court room.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I phsyically cringe whenever a liberal article mentions "outspoken critic against domestic violence". That's literally the exact same thing as saying "Frey is against people being beaten up for no justifiable reason" which 99% of people on this continent are already by default against.

The way they phrase it however makes it sound like it has substance, when it's really just stating the obvious. When a vlogger records themself saying domestic violence is bad, are they suddenly brave social justice warriors battling toxic masculinity?

God damn progressive liberalism is a disease of the mind. It cannot stand up to objective TRUTH and everything about it is deception, lies and dishonesty.

[–]Moongoat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So just fucking break up with him. Jesus Christ.

[–]Isaiah4verse1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Strong independent wymyn who don't need no man® strike again. Quite literally.

[–]redpilldude 4 points5 points  (2 children)

I don't know what actually happened, but there are many women who believe that it is NOT assault when a woman punches or slaps a man because women aren't as physically strong as men. So, it wouldn't surprise me if she played the "women are weaker" card.

[–]Endorsed ContributorStories_of_Red[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

A gal in law school once told me precisely that. Hitting a man when you are really upset with him was okay for a woman, because it just would not hurt as much, and he must have done something to deserve it. She was not joking. When I started to mock it, and point out how outrageously stupid her statement was, she just did not see it. She thought I was the idiot. I think that gal went on to be a judge.

No joke.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

of course she did, half way competent woman? she will rise to the top.

[–]dicklord_airplane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she admitted to the cops that she hit him on the night of the incident, and the victim is a retired cop himself, so she's fucked. the state prosecutors are going to wring every bit of money out of her as they can. with all of her experience, you'd think that she'd know better than to talk to the cops.

[–]CapnDancyPants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Women are not accountable to their violent acts. It's not just to use violence against women. This is something feminists agree on. So equality is not feasible, and something has to give.

[–]1cover20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was asleep and she came at him somehow that cut him. Probably a knife.

She should be charged with attempted murder. Less is a pussypass.

Seriously it seems to me that folks here are missing the point. This isn't just an example of feminism. This woman should be in prison for 20 years. And if the emphasis isn't on that, feminism has warped our perception making us overlook the true nature of female criminality and violence.

[–]fortifiedoranges 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Why is this tagged meta and what does it have to do with sexual strategy?

[–]happyhorse_g 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your focus is admirable, but in a wider context, I think this is relevant and interesting to the red pill world. It's a reminder of how crazy people get in relationships and over sexual behavior, and how the female mind works overtime to contrive the situation. And a reminder that you shouldn't go to bed at 10:30pm.

[–]imadeapoopie -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

This. When did this sub become MRA?

Edit: and now we're discussing the merits of cheating? Give me a fucking break.

[–]therock6658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is indeed what a feminist looks like, people.

(Why doesn't this post have more likes on the /r/MensRights subreddit?)

[–]1chillaxbrohound 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can just see it now, a class full of landwhales clapping their flaps in unison and looking around the room to make sure nobody is dissenting... "You go girl!"

[–]GV19 -1 points0 points  (1 child)

Feminism is a real life example of what I like to call "Do as I say not as I do." I am encountering a similar attitude from anti-gun liberals (I am an NRA affiliate) as an anti-gun lawyer was caught in Cleveland and arrested for carrying a non declared handgun. http://www.examiner.com/article/anti-gun-attorney-arrested-for-gun-at-airport

[–]GV19 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He was also Tamir Rice's (The 12 year old in Cleveland who was shot for carrying a bb gun) lawyer.

[–]Tarnsman4Life -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hope he files for an order of protection, give her a taste of what men go through in these situations.